₦airaland Forum

It’s rare to see a man leave his marriage because of a side chick. It’s possible she caught him cheating and left him. If he left because of the side chick, he would have married her.

Life goes on. You are a hot mom of two, he’s a hot dad of two. Nobody will regret anything, relationships end everyday. Life is not a Nollywood movie and God is not from your village.

Not necessarily. Women are attracted to certain qualities in a man. Once you have those qualities, you don’t have to lie to get women.

You won’t get every woman you want, whether you lie or not. It’s honourable to be truthful. The truth always come out eventually and then you are left feeling like a fool.

What’s the worst that would happen if I say the truth? She won’t sleep with me? Then what? Will I die?

Nawa o. The emirship tussle is a state government affair. I’m beginning to believe Tinubu’s supporters who say his detractors will blame him if they can’t impregnate their wives.

She’s not willing to escape. The man booking a room for both of them has a level of confidence and certainty that she’s down for same. If she’s on her period, is her mouth bleeding too? She gon Lon.

Have an amount you won’t go over and then work with that amount. The amount to spend would ultimately depend on you.

Your question should be how many people can I invite for a 3m naira budget wedding. What location should I find a hall or an open field for a 3 million naira wedding etc.

Going by your original question, someone could say 100m another would say 600k. Different people, different abilities. What’s your ability?

Annie didn’t do anything wrong, Tubaba didn’t do anything wrong either. Relationships end all the time. Tubaba can’t stop cheating, Annie don’t want to be cheated on, that’s already a clash of interest.

Maybe Natasha understands him, maybe she’s the one who arrange women for him, maybe she lets him be him. Annie knew he was a cheat yet she fought tooth and nail to get him. She out-fought the other women to get the trophy, then tried to stop the trophy from being the trophy.

Annie should marry a regular man. A banker or a civil servant who has a bungalow at Ikotun and drives a Corolla if she doesn’t want to be cheated on. Her one time rival is married to a middle class pastor and we’ve not heard complaints from her.

Lesson to women, you can’t nag a man to do your bidding. He will do it the first time you ask if he wanted to. If he doesn’t do it after the third ask, you have to decide if you want to live without your ask or leave. If you continue nagging, he will make the decision for you.

Sex is a physical activity like jogging, gaming or bowling. All animals mate, are theirs also spiritual?

Good for you Zic.

Someone who only works to fuel his car should not be driving. Sell the car. No pride in being a car owner with no money.

Racoon:
And have Cardoso with all the subsidizing the naira thereby depleting the foreign reserves repeatedly have stabilized the naira back to the $1 = #216 the APC said is not ok in 2015? Not everyone is a zombie.

How much was naira to a dollar when your beloved PDP took over the reigns in 1999? Let me help you. It was #26 naira. By the time they got kicked out it was #216. That’s a percentage change of 731%. Meaning it X 7 in the PDP era, despite subsidy.

APC has done 640% despite floating. It’s equally bad but not comparable. Leave politicking asides, by that simple maths the # will be about the same amount it is now if the PDP remained in power despite subsidizing.

The primary consideration for most women when it comes to dating is money and looks. Most men with money will have the looks. So most women want a sweet man, who’s calm, respectful, loyal etc only when he has money.

Unfortunately, it’s very tough to see a man with money who has the characteristics listed by the woman. Money gives one choices and people with choices are naturally picky, and will use the choices.

A smart guy who can get a job anywhere will not be in the employ of one company for long, a rich lady who can afford any car will not drive one for long etc. A man who’s wanted by many women will not tolerate the excesses of one for long.

Who’s the ‘we’ that want to abolish it? You mean the government should sign an executive order to put an end to marriage? It’s up to people to decide if they want to marry or not.

I think divorce should be abolished. If people know they can’t come out of a marriage, they will think thrice before getting into one.

All are good courses. Most of them fall under the ‘Business’ umbrella. With a degree in business administration, you can further as an accountant, an economist, HR, Finance etc. you can pivot to IT, Nursing etc.

We all saw Obaseki’s certificate today, the guy studied classical studies, go and check his resume. Opportunity is what defines prospect, not course of study.

Only people with money to waste will contest against Tinubu in 2027. If that man could bulldoze himself to power in 2023 despite all hurdles against him, it will take an act of God to lose now that he’s in power and those hurdles won’t be there in 2027.

Someone shares a narrative of how he got duped, you say he’s greedy for wanting cheap things, he tells you those are standard prices and there are cheaper out there, you then call him stupid for not buying cheaper.

He’s greedy for buying cheap and stupid for not buying cheaper, you can’t make this up!. Victim shaming is criminal praising and we wonder why our society is the way it is.

I’m not under any sort of financial pressure or obligation to meet anyone’s needs. There can’t be external pressure if there is no internal pressure, you think you should meet everyone’s needs and think you are failing when you can’t. That is the source of your pressure.

At the beginning of every year I come up with a budget, I know my income, my expenses and how much I plan to save & invest. At the end of every month I’m left with about $400 spare money, if my car breaks down and the cost of repair is above what I have in spare money, I’m taking the bus until I have enough to fix it.

If I’m that wicked to even myself, imagine someone telling me they want a $1500 phone or they want to buy a car and they are short $3000. I know the minimum amount I will save this year. I will not alter it unless it’s a life or death situation.

Nobody who knows Tuface has anything bad to say about him. Tuface does not beef anybody, he’s not a clout chaser who would run to the internet over minor things.

The divorce post wasn’t exactly tactful, and very unusual of him. However, I am compelled to give him the benefit of the doubt. He announced it on social media for a reason. Annie looks like the kinda of person to kpai herself to implicate Tuface.

The same Toke that wrote a full book about her divorce is offended someone put out a post. Yeye.

Pikin wey say him mama no go sleep. The US under trump will make too many enemies and will need to fight many battles at once. The US will lose allies and the downfall of America has begun with trump. Other countries will learn how to thrive without the US and would not need them anymore eventually.

Kemi’s words should not rattle Nigerians this much. It’s only a strategy to show the Brit’s where her loyalty lies. She would face challenges of not being a born Brit so she’s preparing the ground for that challenge in advance.

Those of you who reply her with hate and scorn are pushing her agenda. You are giving her the proof she needs to show there’s a mutual hate between her and her birth country. Once she wins the attack on Naija will stop.

Before the age of 30. By the time most people graduate, usually between 22 to 25, the ugly guy who got a job at NNPC begins to look better than the unemployed cute guy.

The stress of being unemployed would even reduce the ginger to focus on looking good. Unless of course you have wealthy folks who continue to give you money.

There’s nothing wrong with jealousy. Even the bible says for our God is a jealous God. Sometimes people’s success’ reminds us of our failures and can leave us unhappy.

It’s up to you to make her feel included in your success. Let her know your success is the families success. Let her feel she contributed to it and is entitled to part of the rewards that comes with it. Make effort to help her succeed in her own endeavours too.

When you should be worried is when it leads to envy. When she wants what you have and thinks she deserves it more. When she’s willingly to spoil your chances so you don’t succeed if she isn’t succeeding.

No report when it was rising o.

Jayz has 3 kids but we get the point

These Nairaland northerners that were foaming in the mouth shouting the bill won’t see the light of day a couple of days ago have now eaten the humble pie.

From the very beginning, the president had said he was open to discussions and concessions on the bill. What he said he would not do as requested by some northerners was withdraw the bill for wilder consultations or suspend it because they thought it was rushed.

If Tinubu watched you kill yourselves and set your properties on fire during the protest against subsidy without bulging, what makes you think he cares about the threat by Bala or the noise from Ndume?

This is the basic requirement of a normal relationship. No one deserves everything just because they act the way they should. A woman who acts like this will get the same in return respect, loyalty and no billing.

A woman who donates an organ, finances her husbands dream, takes a bullet for him, loves him through the worst time of his life, takes sides with him over her family. Those are sacrifices worth discussing.

Number one.

1. A few years ago, when I was doing my NYSC, the company they posted us to rejected everyone, we immediately started searching for ppa’s ourselves. One day in the course of my search I saw a banner with the Man’s face.

He was coming to a crusade at the stadium to kickoff the celebration of the state governors birthday. Of course I went, before the end of service he asked us to write three things we wanted God to do for us, my number one request was a PPA.

Long story short. It was a Wednesday, I was serving at the CBN by the next Monday. The other two things also happened within 3 months.

2. A couple of years later, I was in Canada. He was coming for a convention outside the city I was studying. All my friends were going and Tye Tibet was coming, so I decided to tag along.

A lady who had being looking for the fruit of the womb gave a testimony that in the previous convention she sat down on the chair the Man sat on after service and she has a triplet now. A lot of people after the service started struggling to sit on the chair. A classmate of mine succeeded in sitting before the chair was removed to avoid a stampede.

Long story short he got an internship with Canada’s biggest bank. He wasn’t the smartest, his result wasn’t the greatest, but he got a job before we even graduated.

Maybe it’s a coincidence, maybe the Man’s prayers works. Either ways I will choose him. I can’t act, I can’t sing, Elon musk knows nothing about crypto plus that’s a fake page (unverified) and even Obi Cubana needs help.

This is quite smart sha. Build trust by giving out money then ask for big money and disappear. Chai.

Generally, humans always strive for improvement. The need to be better and do better is the highest need of man. Humans have the need to upgrade jobs, houses, cars and other possessions as the means to achieve this becomes available to them.

It is therefore delusional to think that a person would naturally stick to one partner when they have the ability to upgrade. Your wife who agreed to marry you because you were the best person asking her out 7 years ago is now studying abroad and other men are asking her out, if she finds one better than you she will sleep with him and lie about it to you.

People hardly say no to benefits. Knowing someone could change is part of the risk you sign up for when you choose to date/marry.

If a woman suggests you should sleep with someone else, there are two things involved;

1. She doesn’t think you are capable of getting another woman. You are either ugly or broke.
2. She’s cheating on you.

Whatever the case may be, your relationship isn’t in a good place.

Prank or no prank the lady was very disrespectful. No wonder she disrespects him with Timini all the time. The dude has no hold on the relationship.

It was the lady on the tan suit that supposedly slapped someone. Not the commissioner.

The average youngster today thinks the camera phone makes them invisible. Once you start recording, you are at liberty to do whatever you want. She told you she didn’t want to be recorded, she told you to leave the building and you objected. They should have arrested them for loitering.

The security guys who couldn’t effect a removal of unarmed people or atleast stop them from recording were useless anyway. There was no need having them around. They should go guard a fast food.

Dem use money swear for Nigerian men! Engagement you spray, wedding you spray, birthday you spray, burial you spray. Tacky, low class, gutter behaviour.