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mrsincredible: true but u just described an older woman

sueto471: Most younger ladies are arrogant especially Igbo ladies, no apology. Younger ladie do not have enough experience when it come to sex, trust me I knw what I'm talking about coz I've tried d two. Older ladies reasons along with u and independent etc I can give 1million and one reasons. As for me, I've stop dating any lady that's less than 28 years.

marvis5077: This is why relationship issues pisses me off these days. Almost all guys and girls are selfish and self centered in relationships. The babes are looking for money while the guys are looking for sex. A guy will give his gf ordinary 10k and he would annouce it to all his friends and record it in his dictionary for future reference if the girl later refused his SEX offer. Some guys will even go to the extent of promising the girl marriage after few days of meeting her, just to make her open her legs quick-quick. For me, its simple and straightforward: don't give me money, I don't need it. Don't expect me to open my legs like a fool for you. Gone are the days when relationships used to be interesting, its now a game of 50/50. The guys are on the winning side because if a guy date a girl for 2yrs and they breakes up, he would still say " after all I spent on her" but he would never complain about the no of COUNTLESS TIMES HE SLEPT WItH HER which truly has no monetary value becos a woman's body is priceless. The more a man sleeps with a woman "in the name of relationship" the more the her punny losses track and size and elasticity.

ikennaya100: it cool to spend for ladies especially if have working. I do it without any attachment. for more......reach me on bbm 7C650926

protegesol: Dave writes about Jim Iyke's "Platonic" relationship with Nadia Buari and the the rumored cost of their trip across Europe which was about $5,000.

So how much would you spend on a girl you love so much and still wouldn't bother about sex.


Dave asks more questions here: http://gidilink..com/2013/11/opinion-guys-please-id-like-to-have.html

What's your take on this?

protegesol: Dave writes about Jim Iyke's "Platonic" relationship with Nadia Buari and the the rumored cost of their trip across Europe which was about $5,000.

So how much would you spend on a girl you love so much and still wouldn't bother about sex.


Dave asks more questions here: http://gidilink..com/2013/11/opinion-guys-please-id-like-to-have.html

What's your take on this?

chess guru: My best friend has been dating his girl since predegree. We all graduated 2 years ago (5 years courses engineering/nursing) and they are still dating.
He doesn't spend kobo on her (and she. Doesn't ask), and he doesn't demand sex from her either.
I know this, cos as @ our 4th year (after 5 years of dating), he confided in me when they where having problems that he hadn't done anything with her, and that might be a source of the problem.
So I guess its. Extremely rare, but its possible for both parties not to want sex or money.
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P.s, I once asked him Why I'd never seen him take his girl to one of the popular eateries or spots in school....he said its not that kinda thing that trips her
The only draw back I noticed with her Is that she can get quite possessive sometimes.
Its very rare, but there are girls like that.

therealMcCain: Wow, i'm intrigued by your thinking pattern, I'll like to know you, just on an intellectual level

redsquare: Sister, nobody is 'doing holy holy' here according to you. Afterall I stated I invited her the first time, I wonder what I'll gain from making up silly lies just for the fun of it. Not that I'm a saint though.

veave: both of you are @ fault here. but wait o... na so ur d**k sweet reach? wey she go spend TP from calabar come ur angle? oga, tell us d truth... wetin make u send her back?

redsquare: Exactly my thought. My kind of job takes me out of town occasionally, what if her visit was on such occasions?

@all, thanks for your contributions.

Matthew briggs: Quite true but, nairaland is not a dating website. So most people forget to pretend.

Matthew briggs: Quite true but, nairaland is not a dating website. So most people forget to pretend.

idrezee: ..........and I tot I v seen dem all #shocked# someone u luv propose wit a ring and u'll keep it under ur bed incase it'll drive oda suitors away, goodness! It means u'll b accommodating oda suitors even after u v said YES 2 his proposal den, dats bad and u know it. Why'll u even collect a ring from somebody u doubt will marry u? "The ring'll chase away other suitors" a grown woman just wrote dat. M not better dan u but pls change, dats 2 bad. God pls help me and my fwendz not 2 fall into wrong hands.

POPE II: however people should learn t make the difference between Jew the ethnic Group and jew the religion/religious group, I know two Catholic jew . so yes Jesus was jew his ethnic group but he was a Catholic a staunch one to say the least his religion

mavister: thanks for attempting the questions. Let me clarify you
The Bible is absolutely clear that we are to worship God alone. The only instances of anyone other than God receiving worship in the Bible are false gods, which are Satan and his demons. All followers of the Lord God refuse worship. Peter and the apostles refused to be worshipped ( Acts 10:25-26; 14:13-14). The holy angels refuse to be worshipped ( Revelation 19:10; 22:9). The response is always the same, "Worship God!"
Roman Catholics attempt to "bypass" these clear Scriptural principles by claiming they do not “worship” Mary or saints, but rather that they only "venerate" Mary and the saints. Using a different word does not change the essence of what is being done. A definition of "venerate" is "to regard with respect or reverence." Nowhere in the Bible are we told to revere anyone but God alone. There is nothing wrong with respecting those faithful Christians who have gone before us (see Hebrews chapter 11). There is nothing wrong with honoring Mary as the earthly mother of Jesus. The Bible describes Mary as "highly favored" by God ( Luke 1:28). At the same time, there is no instruction in the Bible to revere those whom have gone to Heaven. We are to follow their example, yes, but worship, revere, or venerate, no!
When forced to admit that they do, in fact, worship Mary, Catholics will claim that they worship God through her, by praising the wonderful creation that God has made. Mary, in their minds, is the most beautiful and wonderful creation of God, and by praising her, they are praising her Creator. For Catholics, this is analogous to directing praise to an artist by praising his sculpture or painting. The problem with this is that God explicitly commands against worshipping Him through created things. We are not to bow down and worship anything in the form of heaven above or earth below ( Exodus 20:4-5). Romans 1:25could not be more clear, "They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator — who is forever praised. Amen." Yes, God has created wonderful and amazing things. Yes, Mary was a godly woman who is worthy of our respect. No, we absolutely are not to worship God "vicariously" by praising things (or people) He has created. Doing so is blatant idolatry.
The major way Catholics "venerate" Mary and the saints is by praying to them. As the following article demonstrates, prayer to anyone other than God alone is anti-Biblical – praying to saints and Mary. Whether Mary and/or the saints are prayed to, or whether they are petitioned for their prayers – neither practice is Biblical. Prayer is an act of worship. When we pray to God, we are admitting that we need His help. Directing our prayers to anyone other than God is robbing God of the glory that is His alone.
Another way Catholics "venerate" Mary and the saints is by creating statues and images of them. Many Catholics use images of Mary and/or the saints as "good luck charms." Any cursory reading of the Bible will reveal this practice as blatant idolatry ( Exodus 20:4-6; 1 Corinthians 12:1-2; 1 John 5:21). Rubbing rosary beads is idolatry. Lighting candles before a statue or portrayal of a saint is idolatry. Burying a Joseph statue in hopes of selling your home (and countless other Catholic practices) is idolatry.
The terminology is not the issue. Whether the practice is described as "worship" or "veneration," or any other term, the problem is the same. Any time we ascribe something that belongs to God, to someone else, it is idolatry. The Bible nowhere instructs us to revere, pray to, rely on, or "idolize" anyone other than God. We are to worship God alone. Glory, praise, and honor belong to God alone. Only God is worthy to "...receive glory and honor and power..." ( Revelation 4:11). God alone is worthy to receive our worship, adoration, and praise ( Nehemiah 9:6; Revelation 15:4).

Mrlouis: stop wasting time. Answer my questions. Besides was jesus a catholic? Why all this 'my church is the biggest'? Ok if it wil please u. My church is the smallest. You ok now?

unongu: It is not stated anywhere in the Bible that only adults should be baptized. Non-Catholics state that the act of baptism is a waste because the infant is not capable of knowing what is happening and has not yet received the Lord as their Savior. Let us take a look at the Jewish infants that were being circumcised. Did these infants know that at the moment they were being circumcised, they were making a covenant with God? There is no validity to the non-Catholic claim that only adults should be baptized. Apostle Paul shows us a parallel between circumcision and baptism in the book of Colossians 2:11-12, when he stated thus: “In whom also you are circumcised with circumcision not made by hand, in despoiling of the body of the flesh, but in the circumcision of Christ: Buried with him in baptism, in whom also you are risen again by the faith of the operation of God, who hath raised him up from the dead.”
There is baptism of adults in the New Testament because the converts then were grown adults. However, let us take some verses in the Bible that say otherwise:
Peter answered: "Each of you must repent and be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ, so that your sins may be forgiven. Then you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. For the promise of God was made to you and your children, and to all those from afar whom our God may call." (Acts 2:38-39)

“Well, I have also baptized the Stephanas family…” (1Cor 1:16)

“After she had been baptized together with her household, she invited us to her house…” (Acts 16:15)

The above Bible passages point to the fact that, it is not just adults that require baptism; children, family and household were baptized by the Apostles in the beginning of the mission so, why should we do otherwise?

nbright: That awkward moment when you are inside a molue inbetween two packaged ladies and something started to rise..

ayettymama: oooooo gawd

inno i sed im a geek but this is too mush!!!

pls pls somebody summarise this essay

in three simple sentences!!

leavestory: Well its good to trust a girl you love but the hurting part is when that same girl that one trust and love does not trust u at all,that is big rubbish,talking from experience

leavestory: Well its good to trust a girl you love but the hurting part is when that same girl that one trust and love does not trust u at all,that is big rubbish,talking from experience

Ukonuandrew: Trust is burden which i dont want anybody to bear mine, and am not ready to bear anybody's own. Is very heavy to cary especially when 'love' is involve.