Okija_juju:

chess guru:
My best friend has been dating his girl since predegree. We all graduated 2 years ago (5 years courses engineering/nursing) and they are still dating.
He doesn't spend kobo on her (and she. Doesn't ask), and he doesn't demand sex from her either.
I know this, cos as @ our 4th year (after 5 years of dating), he confided in me when they where having problems that he hadn't done anything with her, and that might be a source of the problem.
So I guess its. Extremely rare, but its possible for both parties not to want sex or money.
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P.s, I once asked him Why I'd never seen him take his girl to one of the popular eateries or spots in school....he said its not that kinda thing that trips her
The only draw back I noticed with her Is that she can get quite possessive sometimes.
Its very rare, but there are girls like that.

lorretta u: You can't spend 5k dollars on your woman?
Don't tell me it's that bad
What happened to 'flying high. Living big' ?

protegesol: Dave writes about Jim Iyke's "Platonic" relationship with Nadia Buari and the the rumored cost of their trip across Europe which was about $5,000.

So how much would you spend on a girl you love so much and still wouldn't bother about sex.


Dave asks more questions here: http://gidilink..com/2013/11/opinion-guys-please-id-like-to-have.html

What's your take on this?

protegesol: Dave writes about Jim Iyke's "Platonic" relationship with Nadia Buari and the the rumored cost of their trip across Europe which was about $5,000.

So how much would you spend on a girl you love so much and still wouldn't bother about sex.


Dave asks more questions here: http://gidilink..com/2013/11/opinion-guys-please-id-like-to-have.html

What's your take on this?

Okija_juju:

Its not even up to 1 million Naira and you dey shout... And no be say ehn give the babe 5'k USD o, na the 2 of them chop am..

ikennaya100: it cool to spend for ladies especially if have working. I do it without any attachment. for more......reach me on bbm 7C650926

kajole:

please no offence

does d SB on your signature signify
small brain?

50calibre:

Looooool Read my post again, I never said I can't spend $5000 on my woman, I said I can't spend $5000 just because I want to sleep with a woman, aint going to happen, no woman's pu*sy is that expensive. if I'm spending, it's because i want to do that pro bono, not expecting anything in return & definitely not under any obligation to do that.

I spend on my guy friends, & they spend on me too, so why not a woman?

martronilla: Something that I have been interested in learning
more about has been if people can maintain healthy
relationships without involving sex. I remember my
best friend and I talking about it one time in a
sleepover, but even though we had similar opinions
we were still unsure on whether we had an answer.
Lately, the issue has caught my eye again. I know
that many people feel that sex is a must in a
relationship. From what I’ve heard not many people
believe it’s possible. For example, I heard that if you
“give it up” right away you're considered smutty,
but if you wait a while it’s fine. Now that’s just what
I’ve heard, it may not be true.
One thing that I know for sure about maintaining a
healthy relationship is that trust and respect are
extremely important. Now, I’ve studied my share of
relationships and believe it to be uncertain
personally, It’s funny to me how relationships last
longer when nobody/few know(s) your business.
Maintaining a healthy relationship without sex has
always been a questionable statement. Our
generations change, and become more developed
than the last. Now we have children as young as 12
indulging themselves in sexual activity simply,
because they think it’s the thing to do when in a
“relationship.” Truth be told, we all know that the
term “sex” is meant for adults and married couples,
us teens are taught sexual education to maintain us
cautious about our social environment. Many times
we are misled into peer pressure, we just give in
because of the moment, or we feel we’re in love.
Majority of the times, it’s not love we feel, it’s
infatuation. Naija guys will never understand this.

kofsy: oh i'd pass on that orientation... I prefer the way I'm not orientated and my man is still willing to go to the end of the world for me; without me being a sex object.

chamboy: Relationship is 50/50 if I drop 2k she sef go drop 2k..,.any woman dat expects 100% na ashi

gothrones: It depends. If it is not a parasitic relationship, then I will spend as much as I can. But lots of people, not just women, will try to take advantage of you without contributing anything to the relationship. As long as I am not the only one doing all the work in the relationship, I'll gladly spend.

samilo88:
Spare us those crap about your man. You ladies are always quick to tell us how your so called man worships the ground you step on. We all know 90% of these so called men are phantoms that only exist in your mind. Keep your Romeo nd juliet story to yourself no one cares.

marvis5077: This is why relationship issues pisses me off these days. Almost all guys and girls are selfish and self centered in relationships. The babes are looking for money while the guys are looking for sex. A guy will give his gf ordinary 10k and he would annouce it to all his friends and record it in his dictionary for future reference if the girl later refused his SEX offer. Some guys will even go to the extent of promising the girl marriage after few days of meeting her, just to make her open her legs quick-quick. For me, its simple and straightforward: don't give me money, I don't need it. Don't expect me to open my legs like a fool for you. Gone are the days when relationships used to be interesting, its now a game of 50/50. The guys are on the winning side because if a guy date a girl for 2yrs and they breakes up, he would still say " after all I spent on her" but he would never complain about the no of COUNTLESS TIMES HE SLEPT WItH HER which truly has no monetary value becos a woman's body is priceless. The more a man sleeps with a woman "in the name of relationship" the more the her punny losses track and size and elasticity.

ChiSun27:




U just spoilt ur beautiful ryt up with the above stu*pid line.

Do u think that most of us hia r as daft as ur male frnds?

martronilla: Something that I have been interested in learning
more about has been if people can maintain healthy
relationships without involving sex. I remember my
best friend and I talking about it one time in a
sleepover, but even though we had similar opinions
we were still unsure on whether we had an answer.
Lately, the issue has caught my eye again. I know
that many people feel that sex is a must in a
relationship. From what I’ve heard not many people
believe it’s possible.