Baybe: What is the wrong thing he did?

OP you did the best thing. She must've gotten the message that you're not interested. Some girls are just foolish. She knows you're into a serious relationship and she still came for surprise visit. What if you're girlfriend had also come for her own surprise visit? You know what would've happened. That girl is a relationship breaker, you're very lucky you overcame.

Some girls sha, I never even go for announced visit na unannounced one I wan go.

n.oxide:
That must be one ugly chick

redsquare:

Exactly my thought. My kind of job takes me out of town occasionally, what if her visit was on such occasions?

@all, thanks for your contributions.

veave: both of you are @ fault here. but wait o... na so ur d**k sweet reach? wey she go spend TP from calabar come ur angle? oga, tell us d truth... wetin make u send her back?

Eberex:

i agree jare. The gal na ugly type, if not he for run come house. Besides he didnt tell us what happened during her first visit.

redsquare:

The babe no ugly oo, na sharp babe. You wan know wetin happen for her first visit abi? You know nah

xcitedjay:

Keep deceiving yourself

veave: both of you are @ fault here. but wait o... na so ur d**k sweet reach? wey she go spend TP from calabar come ur angle? oga, tell us d truth... wetin make u send her back?

redsquare: Met this girl a couple of months ago in a Calabar bound bus from Benin. We exchanged numbers and started talking. On my invitation, she visited me in Benin once. At that time my girlfriend was still doing her NYSC in Kano. I made it clear to her that I'm into a serious relationship. 2 weeks later after her first visit, she started calling that she wants to visit again which I declined. She has been complaining that I don't want her to visit me again. I told her I'll invite her when it is convenient for me. Just last saturday, I went to see a friend in my neighbourhood when she called that she was in my house. Initially, I thought she was joking, not until my neighbour called to confirm that a girl was waiting outside my door. I got mad! How could she have travelled all the way from Calabar without at least calling me? I called her back and asked her to go back from wherever she's coming from, she started pleading that she just wanted to surprise me. To cut the long story short, I asked my neighbour to give her some money for her transport which he did, and she left. I'm kinda feeling guilty at what I did. Did I do the right thing? What if she had met my girl at home?What kind of surprise (according to her) is that? Pls I need your contributions/advice/criticisms.

lynpetra:
The op cheating is not d case here.It's an unannounced visit of a call girl!Do you know In America she can be shot for thatChiboy,one thing you should understand is this,some people na barrier.Just recently I visited my bobo only to get a message by 11pm from a guy I met,and barely know.The message read"Baby am just thinking about you,missing you here".Ha!I nearly faint cos my phone was close to where he was sitting.And this is d same person I informed about traveling to see my man.I don't have and never had anything to do with this guy.Oh boy,when i enter my base,I mend am face to face,I shouted at him like a mad woman because I believed he
knew exactly what he did.God punish am.

Pacify: Although u should've seen her in person and probably rented a hotel for the night for her if u had cash cos she had undergone a stressful journey to see u. However, it doesn't justify any reason she may have to come see u unannounced. I so much detest it.

veave: since the geh nor worwor and she was 'good' on her first visit... then i'm sorry to say this... you are inconsiderate and selfish. soo wen u needed her, u invited and enjoyed. but wen she needed you, you turned her away rudely abi? SMH!!!

vivichocs: how did he get your number then??

@op, you're in a serious relationship and you guys exchanged contact and she has even visited you in the past upon your invitation...you have d larger share of the blame cos u shldn't have given a damn abt any other girl

lynpetra: I gave my number out on a platonic basis....dude also needed accommodation and I was la connection..so u know....

baralatie:
(holding a police baton wit a serious face)
young lady u get case!

lynpetra: Oga police,na true I talk I no find trouble

baralatie: )

(police study evidenc,enter d van to go)
rem to report any suspicious activity!

chiboy1928: @op wat u did was wrong no mata wat that not hw to treat a lady even if u dnt want her to sleep in ur House but u should have atleast see her face to face do u knw wat she might have gone through taking dat trip dat why I don't pity some guys wen dey are heart broken by ladies cos we caused some of dis tings ourself.

Rummenigge: This OP is a cheat jor!.

kulyie: abegii stop justifying d girls action..it is not possible for someone to intrude on my privacy even after telling the person I HAVE A PARTNER

kulyie: i can imagine if op's girlfroend was in the house with him and she just shows up unannounced that she came for a suprise visit.kata kata for don burst.them for don beat thmselves tire because i doubt whether ops girlfriend will allow another girl stay under d same roof with her guy

lynpetra: The op cheating is not d case here.It's an unannounced visit of a call girl!Do you know In America she can be shot for thatChiboy,one thing you should understand is this,some people na barrier.Just recently I visited my bobo only to get a message by 11pm from a guy I met,and barely know.The message read"Baby am just thinking about you,missing you here".Ha!I nearly faint cos my phone was close to where he was sitting.And this is d same person I informed about traveling to see my man.I don't have and never had anything to do with this guy.Oh boy,when i enter my base,I mend am face to face,I shouted at him like a mad woman because I believed he
knew exactly what he did.God punish am.

sakaguchi:

I won't justify the girls action but I detest the guys action, shoooo! Wetin na, is she your enemy? Where you not the one who toasted her? Collected her number? Invited her. Abeg OP bleeped up wella



I can imagine it, this OP need flogging. If a girl do shakara, you go say she do shakara, OK, she didn't do shakara, she liked you and you liked her, obviously she doent have a boyfriend, buy you! You had a girlfriend and I'm sure as hell that you cheated on her. Why can't I imagine the OP with his girl and this girl? Why? Did the OP not know he had a girlfriend before he invited her earlier?
The story from this OP is very incomplete , I'm sure the token he gave her back is what gave birth to this useless thread.
When girls do unnecessary forming, we'll frown at it, now you have another girl who is as real as could be, and the OP is the one doing stupid forming, even opening a thread about it. Puxxxxy niggaaaaar!

sakaguchi:
Don't mind all of them here joor!
Yvonne Nelson come my house unannounced from Sokoto, I go come straff my thing, na today, Mammy water no dey possess man, na women dem dey possess.
OP, weldone, you tried well but let me tell you what happened.
You have a very fine girlfriend.
You met this not so fine babe in a bus.
You invited her to your crib to have a jingle.
When she came, you were not impressed- maybe you discovered mouth odor, body odor, Gbagaun babe, or some other unforeseen ab initio f..uckup.
So you yansh her (or you didn't yansh her the first tym).
I believed you yanshed her sha.
She loved it- you hate it (love-hate things by wale)
You can no longer sponsor her transport from wherever again just to go into dat lame punannnny!
She tells you she is coming, you don't give a damn.
And because she liked it, she paid you an unannounced visit to spite you that she didn't need your transport fair, all she wanted was dick
But you sef don't even want to come close her punnnaaany, so you paid her off.
Once again, well done!
See as everybody is praising you as if you are a saint.