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Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by xcitedjay(m): 9:53am On Nov 23, 2013 |
Baybe: What is the wrong thing he did? Keep deceiving yourself |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Pretyangel25(f): 9:54am On Nov 23, 2013 |
Girls like her go make people begin to talk nonsense about calabar girls. Nonsense. @ op u did well 1 Like |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Eberex(m): 10:04am On Nov 23, 2013 |
n.oxide: i agree jare. The gal na ugly type, if not he for run come house. Besides he didnt tell us what happened during her first visit. |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Eberex(m): 10:05am On Nov 23, 2013 |
redsquare: but u didnt tell us what happened during her first visit |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by veave(f): 10:23am On Nov 23, 2013 |
both of you are @ fault here. but wait o... na so ur d**k sweet reach? wey she go spend TP from calabar come ur angle? oga, tell us d truth... wetin make u send her back? |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Eberex(m): 10:47am On Nov 23, 2013 |
veave: both of you are @ fault here. but wait o... na so ur d**k sweet reach? wey she go spend TP from calabar come ur angle? oga, tell us d truth... wetin make u send her back? thank you jare, e never give us the complete story |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by redsquare(m): 10:57am On Nov 23, 2013 |
Eberex: The babe no ugly oo, na sharp babe. You wan know wetin happen for her first visit abi? You know nah |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by vizboy(m): 11:21am On Nov 23, 2013 |
op you no try simple. If you know you didnt want anything to do with her in the first case why invite her to your crib. Now she comes unannounce and you are trying to play the saint game. i too hate Unannounce visit but what you did is not right, you should have at the very least see the girl before sending her back. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by vizboy(m): 11:22am On Nov 23, 2013 |
redsquare:so after collecting on the first visit you decided to dump her 1 Like |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Nobody: 11:27am On Nov 23, 2013 |
xcitedjay: |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by veave(f): 11:35am On Nov 23, 2013 |
since the geh nor worwor and she was 'good' on her first visit... then i'm sorry to say this... you are inconsiderate and selfish. soo wen u needed her, u invited and enjoyed. but wen she needed you, you turned her away rudely abi? SMH!!! |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by redsquare(m): 11:36am On Nov 23, 2013 |
veave: both of you are @ fault here. but wait o... na so ur d**k sweet reach? wey she go spend TP from calabar come ur angle? oga, tell us d truth... wetin make u send her back? I'm endowed with a 12" tool, little wonder she turned to Oliver Twist. But seriously I sent her back cos I wasn't so comfortable with that surprised visit. Who knows what she must have done or the kain jazz wey she carry come. |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by ifoundmyperfect: 11:45am On Nov 23, 2013 |
redsquare: Met this girl a couple of months ago in a Calabar bound bus from Benin. We exchanged numbers and started talking. On my invitation, she visited me in Benin once. At that time my girlfriend was still doing her NYSC in Kano. I made it clear to her that I'm into a serious relationship. 2 weeks later after her first visit, she started calling that she wants to visit again which I declined. She has been complaining that I don't want her to visit me again. I told her I'll invite her when it is convenient for me. Just last saturday, I went to see a friend in my neighbourhood when she called that she was in my house. Initially, I thought she was joking, not until my neighbour called to confirm that a girl was waiting outside my door. I got mad! How could she have travelled all the way from Calabar without at least calling me? I called her back and asked her to go back from wherever she's coming from, she started pleading that she just wanted to surprise me. To cut the long story short, I asked my neighbour to give her some money for her transport which he did, and she left. I'm kinda feeling guilty at what I did. Did I do the right thing? What if she had met my girl at home?What kind of surprise (according to her) is that? Pls I need your contributions/advice/criticisms. What you did was wrong and right Wrong of you to indulge n invite her over to 'ur place' wen u r in a serious relationship Right of you to have countered her surprise by surprisingly sending her back to where she was coming from. She'd 'never' try it again. Even when invited. Be careful next time! 1 Like |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Nobody: 12:03pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
lynpetra:how did he get your number then?? @op, you're in a serious relationship and you guys exchanged contact and she has even visited you in the past upon your invitation...you have d larger share of the blame cos u shldn't have given a damn abt any other girl 2 Likes |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Abbey2sam(m): 12:10pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
Pacify: Although u should've seen her in person and probably rented a hotel for the night for her if u had cash cos she had undergone a stressful journey to see u. However, it doesn't justify any reason she may have to come see u unannounced. I so much detest it. That's inhuman |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Nobody: 1:04pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
veave: since the geh nor worwor and she was 'good' on her first visit... then i'm sorry to say this... you are inconsiderate and selfish. soo wen u needed her, u invited and enjoyed. but wen she needed you, you turned her away rudely abi? SMH!!! There is nothing selfish about what d op did.The gurl knows the op has a serious girl.ANY GIRL WEY ONE BE SIDE MEAT MUST BEAR THE CONSEQUENCES OF BEING A SIDE MEAT.IF THERE IS NO SECOND WIFE,POLYGAMY WON'T EXIST. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Nobody: 1:06pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
vivichocs: how did he get your number then??I gave my number out on a platonic basis....dude also needed accommodation and I was la connection..so u know.... |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Andyblaze: 2:30pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by baralatie(m): 3:46pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
lynpetra: I gave my number out on a platonic basis....dude also needed accommodation and I was la connection..so u know....(holding a police baton wit a serious face) young lady u get case! |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Nobody: 3:48pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
baralatie:Oga police,na true I talk I no find trouble |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by baralatie(m): 3:56pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
) lynpetra: Oga police,na true I talk I no find trouble (police study evidenc,enter d van to go) rem to report any suspicious activity! |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Nobody: 4:05pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
baralatie: )Ion sirsss!!! |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Rummenigge(m): 4:54pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
This OP is a cheat jor!. |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Nobody: 5:31pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
chiboy1928: @op wat u did was wrong no mata wat that not hw to treat a lady even if u dnt want her to sleep in ur House but u should have atleast see her face to face do u knw wat she might have gone through taking dat trip dat why I don't pity some guys wen dey are heart broken by ladies cos we caused some of dis tings ourself.abegii stop justifying d girls action.what she did is very rude.courtesy demands that u should first call beforegoing to another persons house.for a man to treat a woman loke a LADY she has to treat herself like a lady.respect begets respect.it is not possible for someone to intrude on my privacy even after telling the person I HAVE A PARTNER ok can i ask what the purpose of her "suprise" visit.or will a girl who has a plan for her own life just wake up,hit the road and say i am comming for a suprise visit.why will she spend hours on the road,transport money and effort to go to another state without a purpose.does that make sense. meanwhile i dont want to believe its because of preek she went to another state.if thats the purpose of her visit,then she got what she asked for.smh some girls dont know how to respect themselves pr comport themselves sha.i can imagine if op's girlfroend was in the house with him and she just shows up unannounced that she came for a suprise visit.kata kata for don burst.them for don beat thmselves tire because i doubt whether ops girlfriend will allow another girl stay under d same roof with her guy 2 Likes |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Nobody: 5:35pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
Rummenigge: This OP is a cheat jor!.while the suprise visitor is very loose.doesnt she have a job,shop or whatever to keep her busy.no ambition,no plan.smh if i were op i will say sorry am not at home,u dint tell me ure visitin so i wasnt expecting u and swotch off d phone till she finds her way wirhout giving her 5naira 1 Like |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by sakaguchi(m): 6:43pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
kulyie: abegii stop justifying d girls action..it is not possible for someone to intrude on my privacy even after telling the person I HAVE A PARTNER I won't justify the girls action but I detest the guys action, shoooo! Wetin na, is she your enemy? Where you not the one who toasted her? Collected her number? Invited her. Abeg OP bleeped up wella kulyie: i can imagine if op's girlfroend was in the house with him and she just shows up unannounced that she came for a suprise visit.kata kata for don burst.them for don beat thmselves tire because i doubt whether ops girlfriend will allow another girl stay under d same roof with her guyI can imagine it, this OP need flogging. If a girl do shakara, you go say she do shakara, OK, she didn't do shakara, she liked you and you liked her, obviously she doent have a boyfriend, buy you! You had a girlfriend and I'm sure as hell that you cheated on her. Why can't I imagine the OP with his girl and this girl? Why? Did the OP not know he had a girlfriend before he invited her earlier? The story from this OP is very incomplete , I'm sure the token he gave her back is what gave birth to this useless thread. When girls do unnecessary forming, we'll frown at it, now you have another girl who is as real as could be, and the OP is the one doing stupid forming, even opening a thread about it. Puxxxxy niggaaaaar! 2 Likes |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by nana433(f): 6:53pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
God punish am again!! lynpetra: The op cheating is not d case here.It's an unannounced visit of a call girl!Do you know In America she can be shot for thatChiboy,one thing you should understand is this,some people na barrier.Just recently I visited my bobo only to get a message by 11pm from a guy I met,and barely know.The message read"Baby am just thinking about you,missing you here".Ha!I nearly faint cos my phone was close to where he was sitting.And this is d same person I informed about traveling to see my man.I don't have and never had anything to do with this guy.Oh boy,when i enter my base,I mend am face to face,I shouted at him like a mad woman because I believed he 1 Like |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Nobody: 8:02pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
Ok so i read other parts of ops post and i can infer that he nyashed the babe the 1st time?she enjoyed it and wanted more which means the babe wanted more unfortunatly for the girl,the guy never wanted something serious with her,just a 1 night thingy but maybe the girl was thinking she will impress mr op with her bedmatic skills and decide to leave his steady girlfriend @ op if my assumptions are true then she deserved what she got because u have told her from d onset meanwhile hope u have gone for hiv test sakaguchi: |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by addictiv(m): 9:16pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
If she came without an invite or calling to let you know she that she ll be visiting...simply send her back n tell her you dont accept unannounced visits. |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Nobody: 9:18pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
sakaguchi:Hahahaha, u must be a funny guy in real life. |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by Subom1(f): 9:48pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
This is soo typical. You did not see anything wrong with exchanging numbers with a strange girl you just met and invited her over to your place(very obvious what went down), now that she is bothering you, you are crying foul. Next time think with the right head! There are a lot of crazy ppl out there, every action has a consequence. I have a feeling you only told her about your girlfriend after her first "visit" if not then its really crazy how someone can still pursue and run after an unavailabe man. Men do it a lot too so I guess some foolish women are stupid enough to go for such too. I hope she continues to bother you and give you a hard time so that next time you will remember that you have a girlfriend!! 1 Like |
Re: Guys How Do You Treat Unannounced Visit By A Girl. by CreativityJoe: 10:12pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
Bro, if you had energy to exchange number why you run when she come show interest? besides does being in a serious relationship mean that you wont have female visitors? if you had no naughty intention you could have met her since you kukumah gave her your address. what you did was spineless bro. just reverse the roles and see how you would have felt 1 Like |
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