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The question is Why do Men love women? Period.
It's the same reason women love men.

If Nigerian men left Nigeria, they would be just as infatuated with women of other nationalities.

A lot of Nigerian women find they usually have to "step up" when having to compete amongst other women for Nigerian men out here.

LOL not neccessarily.
Money answereth all things.

The female is just trying to jab men.

Without money sef, having 16inch dick still won't help you

Toxxic:
Marriage is a mirage that continues to mar destinies in this desperate age. You are a wise one if you've joined the club of NO COMMITMENT. To hell with all these primitive attachments. Just go out there and fuçk the fuçk out of every fuçk until there's no longer a thing to fuçk or you no longer have any fuçk to give.

The purpose of marriage is to create a platform in which to raise healthy children to further (both of) your genes.

Come to think of it though, once you put it that way it does sound narsistical. Why do you even think the world needs more of your genes?

bleeching toh bahdt.

This girl would have been fine if she didn't try to "manufacture" her skin color.
Looks unsettling and fake.

I want the people who say they stand with Buhari to actually drop logical assertions as to WHY.

Failing to do this is evident of that account belonging to either a fool, a cabal, or someone paid by either....unless ofcourse you have a logical thing to add beyond "I support Buhari".

First of all let's state the obvious...Buhari can't win next year.
End of that argument.

Given Atiku (PDP) and Sowore (AAC), who is your president for 2019?

Mariangeles:
Respect the culture !

We won't respect any shitty aspect of any culture just because it is a culture.

It is not your culture that will move us forward as a country....with your backward azz.

collum:
it is a trap oh by his new employer. he should reject the invitation.
my company does that when will employ a new staff into a very sensitive position.

LOL nigerian companies are funny.
This "trap" is stupid because the only reason an employee works with you is because you can pay them, not because of some false sense of loyalty.

The employer himself is not loyal to the employee, as in naija, every one is expendable.

So that's just a bitch move by said employee.

But honestly, Nigerians really should be about using the internet to make money.

This is a very simple something.

Continue with the job he is about to start in a week, but still go interview for the multinational one.

Who in their right mind would abort a for sure job over a bloody interview?

His voice at the beginning...so croaked...classic sign of strep throat.
That's how you know he eats untold amount of ass

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q1lSiXZpoGM

lilmax:
you can imagine where Nigeria is looking at this thread

omo our far ness too far

next 50 years self we never start

How do you mean?

IamLEGEND1:
When 10 or 20..... or even a hundred people tell me they prefer this way of doing things, I'll believe them..... but it still doesn't negate the existence of a side that would prefer not to do things this way. and a lot more others who exist in the gray area between these polar opposites.
your refusal to acknowledge this fact is what makes whatever argument you make extremely lopsided, and from this point forward, not worth my time.

You just sound prideful and silly the more and more you talk.

If the OP has not met this greyish area you speak of nko? You forget he is not in Nigeria.
His experience and knowledge of Igbo people could be based on the many igbo people he has engaged with AND what he reads about their culture.
If both those things align, then THAT IS THE VERY DEFINITION OF A PEOPLE to an outsider...and also the scientific equivalent of "Due Process".

You insulting the OP over his pretty much scientific observation makes you seem more stupid than you think. You just want to feel like you are insulting someone so you can feel accomplished, even if said insult has no point.

Notice how NOOO Igbo girl has come on to any of these multiple threads on the subject to say "Hey I don't want to do my own in a village".
Fawk your textbook/confirmation bias. It is a wide-spread igbotic thing, whether you admit it or not. The very PRECEPTS of igbos state that if you don't wed her in her village, something must be wrong.

If there are any "grey area" people as you have said, then they clearly hide and do not voice their grey area.
That is THEIR fault, not the OP's...as they've missed out on SEVERAL opportunities to advertize their group as anything else BUT backward minded traditionists...or cowards.
The reason they do not comment is because THEY KNOW it is true, and are too scared or not confident enough to publicly make a statement against the backwardness.

As far as I see on this and any other discussion on this subject, online or offline, the only igbotic people who voice anything on the subject are those that:

1)- Confirm the observation

2)- Confirm the observation by insults

3)- are male, Confirm the observation, and want to marry from elsewhere because of it. (This doesn't mean they won't still insist on it in the future when marrying off their own daughter...totally abolishing what it means to "Do onto others..."

Again drop the fawking ego and stop being fawking illogical just because you want to sound like some middle-ground person.

selemempe:
u are the same sick bastard as the op. U have opened a thread like this b4.

Ur igbo hate is laughable because the great igbo tribe dont gv a shit about ur opinion

I don't hate igbos.

Not sure what kind of logic that is that we must be the same person? I already said how the OP and I have the same experience.
This thread questions is a popular and sadly well-defended reputation of your people that any sensible mind WILL rightly question.
Soooo what's your point?

Igbos never dissapoint me though.
When I created my thread earlier, I was met with the same display of backwardness and regurgitated chants affirming the very attitude I questioned.

IamLEGEND1:
According to this thread...

do you even hear yourself? when has the comments of no more than 5 random strangers become an acceptable sample size on which to base your judgement of an entire tribe made up of millions of people living in all corners of the globe?
and maybe you should take the time to revisit my first & second comments on this thread; read them slowly this time and maybe the part where I questioned the rationale behind adhering to obsolete customs will become clear to you because I just assumed you missed it the first time OR maybe you just have selective amnesia.

+ I am a Fulani guy. call me idealistic but I believe humans should be able to see things objectively irrespective of racial, tribal or religious affiliations.

I acknowledged your comment, but you should have simply ended it there.
You started becoming illogical when going further to harange the OP besides all the copious evidence right before your eyes of people telling you pretty much that that is how they roll, hence you were reaching... for ego purposes or maybe just persistent ignorance?

IamLEGEND1:

I would wager a testicle the OP hasn't interacted with 0.5% of all Igbos alive today. So, unless proven that 100% of the Igbo population accept this practice as the only acceptable process, his decision to heap everyone, with no exception, into the same basket remains inaccurate and my conclusion valid.

Your conclusion is based on your ego. Nothing more.
Allow me to simplify...

People are judged by how they advertize themselves.
According to this thread alone, have the igbos who posted advertized thier beliefs to be anything BUT what the OP has expressed?

You will hardly meet any igbo person that does not represent what the OP just talked about, whether they make that agreement with an insult or not.

I take it you are igbo. If you people want to be progressive, you should openly question the excesses of your own people as the OP, and you, have done.

That said, I think OP likes igbo girls as he keeps running into them, but the traditionist/excessist mindset of her and her family is offputting and not something he can see himself merging with for the rest of his life as it extends past just the wedding all the way to burial. I feel the same way! It's too much unneeded stress.

IamLEGEND1:
First, anyone marrying outside his tribe or race should do so with the willingness to embrace his partner's culture and all the realities, pleasant or otherwise that come with the package.

with that said, any partner not willing to abandon trivial, stupid, sometimes
even harmful cultural practices simply because "it is our custom"..... well, that person's thought process is too similar to a sheep's and shouldn't be allowed to breed with humans.

for the O.P of this thread:
while a generalization like the one you just made about Igbo girls is symptomatic of a narrow-minded view on your part, the underlying points remain a valid argument, which in a more enlightened climate would be taken more seriously.

You really have no point in calling the OP narrow-minded.
He is going by what the self-same igbos advertise their culture to be, as can even be seen from the commenters on this thread.
Apparently He also has multiple negative experience to buttress the point he is making, laong with igbotic confirmers here, so I really don't understand how this your "narrow-minded" insult makes sense.

You can only accuse someone of generalizing if the people he is talking about aren't actively confirming his point with every post.
You are just reaching. Apply logic.

@OP
You are an amateur if you don't also eat ass...clean ass though.

When a girl puts on so much make up and body magic that she effectively forgets she is a fat cow herself

I fix this problem by just generally not pursuing marriage with igbo girls.
I'm based in yankee too and the thought of me and mine making tenious trips back to nigeria just to marry is not attractive nor is it economical (~$2000 per person!!!).

Its not like you will get any benefit from marrying her that you won't get from marrying any other woman here that has sense.
So bro please if she and her people don't want to have sense, let them marry their own.

Find you a good naija girl in yankee who's parents are there with her and can handle all these things without village involvement.
The only thing that should matters is that the bride is given away from her father's house, which can be any where in the world!
That's why I like yoruba culture. They are generally more progressive about these things. Igbo will use their culture thing to kill you.

MissRaine69:
Be a good boy and join the queue!

I'd gladly suck your piss down. You sound like my kinda woman.
The world will never know what we do in our bedroom....

Saff:
Woaahhhhh

What?

Myzteriouz:

Well done mah. I see you're about that life too

See the image below.
Obviously the reason she got slapped is because she decided to act like a spoilt brat in his home, throwing away his eggs after he asked her to use less. Obviously this female lacks home training and, above all, respect.

Let's be real, things are real in naija.
When you are a guest in someone's house, when you are asked to use less of something, THE APPROPRIATE RESPONSE is not to kukuma throw the whole thing away like a stupid fool. What if he wanted to use some? Did she buy it? Why throw his resources away to act stupid? Actions like that speak lowly of your upbringing and your ability to think before acting.

Make no mistake, the bitch had that slap coming.
Not because she wanted to eat 4 eggs,
Not because somebody is "broke",
Not because of poverty,
But because she clearly disrespected this man in his own home AND willfully destroyed/wasted his property over a simple cautionary request.

Why is it that the only solid naija babes one finds in the diaspora are usually igbo?
Now assuming a bros wants to pocket one as wife, they always talking about going back to Nigeria/their village for traditional.
Whats the point of this?
Why must their village always be a thing they need to go back to to marry, when their immediate family is here abroad?
Can't they just marry where their immediate family is?

MissRaine69:
They are happy as a couple how is it an issue? That said I am looking for one will let me put a dog collar on him and allow me to lead him around....:feed him like one ..and piss all over him when I want...

Wow...#1 (clink ) and #3 (gulp ) sounds pretty hot. Not sure of #2 tho. We might have to work to that one. Can you be patient?

Dude thinks like me.

I love it when a sexy black woman rides my face and nuts in my mouth....all the while telling me how she likes it ate.
My wife go too enjoy.
She can make me eat her toto and yansh as she she sips on a cold glass of wine, while she watches TV like the boss chick she is.
I will be her macho man in public and her sexy slut at night. confarm!

QueenDeborah:
Its not about giving him sex, these are tips on how to treat him better

1.Buy gifts for him. You can give him gifts of T-shirts, shoes, undies, singlets or even a phone if you have the money.

2. Take him out for lunch and pay his bills at least once in 2 months. It is not bad at all.

3. Send him some love text messages occasionally.

4. Give him phone calls daily at least once daily, ask him how he is doing and tell him that you love him.

5. Occasionally you can cook a delicious meal for him, maybe once in a week or once in two weeks, but not everyday like a housewife.

6. You can also help him financially when he is broke.

7. Take him out for shopping at least once in a year, you will not die.

8. Pray for him

9. Advise him

10. Help him to build a bright future.

I know some ladies will crucify me because of this post, but this is the ideal thing to do for your guy, not just sex, sex sex.

You are a boss chick. 10/10. Would eat yur pucci anyday.

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