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Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by ebonflexy(m): 3:11pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
lilmax: How do you mean? |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by 2buffagain(m): 3:32pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Jaqenhghar: At least if they choose to finance this urge to showoff with their own money, including financing the transportation of all extended people. It would be their prerogative. But when they insist on financing their excessives with the groom's resources, that's just sad. |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by 2buffagain(m): 3:38pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Processor01: I no get time for too much talk. Luckily someone has already said what I planned to tell you: ebonflexy: 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by Jaqenhghar: 5:38pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
2buffagain:Yeah I get you. Its really sad |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by 2buffagain(m): 6:01pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Jaqenhghar: Just doing the math alone annoys me.. I mean last time I went to naija, my ticket alone was like $1900 USD. Now imagine transporting everyone involved to murtalla mohammed in lagos, and THEN transporting them to the east again...plus hotel accomodations etc not to now talk of the actual almost-unending wedding expenses again... because all the village people will want to know is how much dollar is entering their hand seeing as people have come from America to do wedding in their village I rather bundle up that money and do betta thing for me and my future childrens' lives right here where I am bo. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by Jaqenhghar: 6:13pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
2buffagain:Yes O. No time to inconveninece yourself over a one day event. The security issues in the country is enough to keep you away. There is one like that taking place in February even for one person the costs are just ridiculous. I told my madam we aint going we can make a cash donation to the couple..... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by pointblank247(m): 6:07pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
Jaqenhghar:i suggest relax a bit and stop being angry after all you voted for the lifeless president |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by Jaqenhghar: 6:37pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
pointblank247:Mr. Man you speak like you know me from somwhere. 1. I didnt vote 2. Im not angry 3. What I speak of goes beyond just voting. Im tallking about a culture, a way of life with Niggerians. Of course I dont know it all and will happily welcome criticisms or an alternative idea If you dont understand what I wrote ask for clarification and stop making baseless assumptions 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by 2buffagain(m): 12:17am On Sep 07, 2018 |
Onuokwu: Not when the Brazilians parents are already where I am. IDGAF about marrying women whose families aren't in the same country as I am. |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by Sagamite(m): 1:36pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
2buffagain: I don't do marriage but I do do Igbo girls if they are keen! |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by filleSouriante(f): 5:15pm On Oct 09, 2018 |
Sagamite: Am not Igbo |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by Mariangeles(f): 5:31pm On Oct 09, 2018 |
[s] 2buffagain:[/s] Respect the culture ! 1 Share
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Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by ebonflexy(m): 6:35pm On Oct 10, 2018 |
Mariangeles: We won't respect any shitty aspect of any culture just because it is a culture. It is not your culture that will move us forward as a country....with your backward azz. |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by Mariangeles(f): 6:58pm On Oct 10, 2018 |
[s] ebonflexy:[/s] Be quiet boy ! 1 Share
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Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by Sagamite(m): 4:51am On Oct 11, 2018 |
filleSouriante: What are you? |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by filleSouriante(f): 12:52pm On Oct 11, 2018 |
Sagamite: Proudly Afonja |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by Sagamite(m): 9:41am On Nov 04, 2018 |
filleSouriante: Chineke! And I was thinking you be nwanna so I can give you ogede nla from Sagamu! |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by mapist(m): 10:23am On Nov 04, 2018 |
ebonflexy: You have written it all; i am in Nigeria and i avoid them like a plague. I once dated a so-called ada who was being bleeped mercilessly by 2 yahoo boys behind my back especially yahoo boy 1. If i hadnt found out, i would have paid heavily for her hand in marriage as she had already started to tell me about that traditional crap and i'd get to dance like a fortunate dude not knowing the girl whom i paid heavily on was being bleeped with sex enhancing drugs by nitwits. This is not to mention all the expenses i would have incurred. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by mapist(m): 10:33am On Nov 04, 2018 |
2buffagain: Bro, i dont know why you have decided to waste energy typing this. You and i know what it truly is to marry; leave those who have refused to grow past these irrelevant trash called tradition. We love to deceive ourselves hence the consistent regression. In my sincerest advice, leave that girl and marry from another tribe; save the differential and invest in your future. A word is enough for the wise. 2 Likes |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by mapist(m): 10:43am On Nov 04, 2018 |
IamLEGEND1: Lol. Grammar. Well, in statistics, if 51% from a sample population bring forth a certain result, then it is assumed that population is what that 51% bring forth as there would always be exceptions to certain principles/laws etc. |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by princfred(m): 11:38am On Nov 04, 2018 |
Mariangeles:You mean remain slaves to the ways of the fore-fathers? Culture is dynamic. The wrong ones get droped. |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by Naija4lifeYank: 7:46pm On May 14, 2019 |
This is the story of most people dating Nigerian women. Most are scammers just using men for money. The guys themselves are no better. You are better off marrying the one that won't cost you that much as they will mess up anyways! mapist: |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by mapist(m): 9:41am On May 15, 2019 |
Naija4lifeYank: LMAO......I sincerely cannot fault your premise; i just cannot. A modest girl is so difficult to find; very difficult. Qualities that ordinarily should not be a big deal have gone extinct. The few that still have it are obviously arrogant because they know how difficult it is to get a loyal female. |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by Nobody: 12:56pm On May 15, 2019 |
pointblank247: First and foremost in which culture is marriage not a sacred entity. Culture they say is dynamic , of recent and ethnic group in Nigeria, lay a fix amount which should be spent on traditional marriages, why because they feel the pain of the young legal working men ,. My brother their is no solid yardstick to their high hardness, the truth is they see marriage of their daughter as a money making Avenue. A common factor in the East I must say, why because money moves them. A frnd once ditched an anambra babe whom he have seem her parents for an enugu, why becos expenses was much and the lady wasn't even helping matters, was saying he have to borrow to settle everything. Am sure she's happily married to her Father. 3 Likes |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by 2buffagain(m): 3:18am On May 16, 2019 |
stinflame: She sounds like a compound idiot |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by Adonko(m): 4:44am On May 16, 2019 |
mapist:let them be deceiving themselves with our culture this, our culture that, you want me to go borrowing just to meet marriage expenses and thereafter remain in debt, after marriage, cos you want to marry mother Mary nonsense. Tradition, culture and religion is what has brought this country to were it is today ,taking two steps forward and ten steps backward, one that call herself mirinda is saying respect the culture, respect nonsense that is killing this generation. Am not hating on any tribe sincerely, but go to every ashawo joints around it is the ladies from this tribe that dominates opening thier pussy for every dick and Harry ( opening a thread on this soon), yet the elders are expecting you to rob a bank to marry these hoes whose pussy are as wide as dual carriageway, and deep as a borehole. Guyz dont give yourself unnecessary stress all in the name of marriage, wasting your life savings for someone that when you are financially down in marriage she uses the exit door using the term "I nu come marriage come suffer". @2buffagain I like your thinking jare, guyz are becoming wiser daily nonsense. |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by mapist(m): 8:37am On May 16, 2019 |
Adonko: EXACTLY @ exit door. Many wouldn't consider you without money in the first place. I have said it and will continue to; let them continue to marry themselves. As for me, i am not ready to spend silly sums just to satisfy the greed of irrelevant people. As it is, i avoid their girls like a plague. There is nothing about them that excites me. All i see are greedy mofos who would sell it all to the highest bidder. |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by mapist(m): 8:38am On May 16, 2019 |
[quote author=stinflame post=78410484] First and foremost in which culture is marriage not a sacred entity. Culture they say is dynamic , of recent and ethnic group in Nigeria, lay a fix amount which should be spent on traditional marriages, why because they feel the pain of the young legal working men ,. My brother their is no solid yardstick to their high hardness, the truth is they see marriage of their daughter as a money making Avenue. A common factor in the East I must say, why because money moves them. A frnd once ditched an anambra babe whom he have seem her parents for an enugu, why becos expenses was much and the lady wasn't even helping matters, was saying he have to borrow to settle everything. Am sure she's happily married to her Father. |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by mapist(m): 8:39am On May 16, 2019 |
stinflame: |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by PromiseUche(m): 10:14am On May 16, 2019 |
The importance of visiting home at least once in 4 years. Don't be sold out to another tribe all in the name of marriage. Join social media local groups of your community/people, if you are in the diaspora, don't comment but observe/watch. Long term peace in marriages is gotten from the couples and their families at large. Choose wisely. Act rightly! |
Re: Igbo Girls And Families In Diaspora Should Just Marry Where They Are by logan2(m): 12:53pm On May 16, 2019 |
pointblank247:exactly |
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