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Those condemning the South East security issue(s) should know human lives in Benue are also important

Take a pause and think of eternity. Some or many people that died possible saw death as something odd that cannot come to them. But you will not die, you will live to fulfill your days in Jesus name. Amen.

It won't take you up to 5 minutes to say this: "Lord Jesus, forgive all my sins and come into my heart now in Jesus name. Amen"

Many people want to know God's will in marriage, but it is not easy for some. Some married people may have discovered that the signs that led them in choosing their partner was not correct, as their partners are an issue or a torn in their flesh.
Now, how can someone truly know that a person is God's will for him or her. Look for these

(1) Spiritual alignment: As a Christian, you cannot marry an unbeliever. So if a so-called Christian is having the urge to marry a yahoo boy or an unbeliever, then the person is either not a Christian or something is wrong with such a person.

(2) Verification and Time: Whatever or whoever your suitor is, you should carefully check and verify who they are, and have some patience to see things clearly. You should also pray for God's grace in discerning and seeing who they truly are. If all works well by God's help, you can proceed.

(3) Peace: After everything is done, please never take any further step until you have very deep and true peace. Do not comply with any hasty "peace", but wait until the peace is sure and real. If you have true peace and approval from God on it, you can proceed with marrying such persons.

This is a combination of my insight and other person(s)

Right decision. But it is better to do it from the scratch before emotions probably get so strong.

While they have been various complaints on cheating, one reason woman cheat more now may be "SECRET WATCHING OF PORNOGRAPHY"..

While crime is bad, judgement should not be one-sided. We have issues in the North too.

The South-East should get healed of from all its issues and crimes.

You can give your opinion

While it is good to protect ones territory and Nigeria at large, it is wise to do it without damages.
Now what should "Biafra" be? Whatever the will of God is for a place, it is good it happens. But "Biafra" should be massive development in the East, Igbo men contributing their wealth to build estates, houses, good city trees, fine landscapes, good pipe borne water, more markets and businesses, good refuse deposal systems, good roads, organized and good security system, hotels and reservations, recreational centers, better educational system, uniformed task force system, good power supply etc. If this had started intentionally about 10 years ago in the East, you can call it "Biafra".
Imagine a large crowd agitating and implementing development in the East, even people in Europe etc. may want to return to the East.

God bless Igbo people.
God bless Nigeria.

Pls let her just pass WAEC and NECO. She should learn the one to pass Tests and Exams, especially if what she wants to study does not need mathematics.

Shebi you have married before. Go back to your wife.

matthew080:
They are supposed to kill them.
I aswear

Kill who? Did you create them? So what will dey do to fornicators, lesbians, masturbators, adulterers, prostitutes, cheats etc.

The boys can go for rehab by repenting and accepting Jesus Christ, then a good follow-up by one or more strong Christians until they are strong in Christ.

Homosexuality is a sin.

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Marry right. You can marry wrong in the right church.

If a man cheats on his wife, he may not bring a child into the family. If a lady cheats, she may bring a child into the family.
As a lady, if you bring a child into the family, agree to train the child or inform the man who probably enjoyed the sex with you to get the child.
So if one or more ladies like the balthazar stuff, they should also like to train any child that comes after having their fantasies fulfilled from cheating. They can also tell the person they cheated with to do so.

It is not easy. But he should forgive.

Forgive the woman.

This is another wake up call to women on the issue of Paternity fraud that comes coming from infidelity. While you may beat your chest as to cheating, consider the consequences of Paternity Fraud on innocent children.
As a woman, cheating is one thing, bringing another man's child is another thing.
Now what are the dangers of Paternity Fraud on Innocent kids.

(1) Rejection: For a child being so loved, pampered and cared for by the father, to be suddenly abandoned by the father because of Paternity, this may affect the child psychologically.

(2) Problem of Wrong "Fatherhood". Imagine a happy child that travels round the world to be told that his or her original is a nonchalant in the street, while the assumed Dad is a rich and caring philanthropist. Now if DNA shows the original Dad is a street thug, how will the child cope with joining the original Dad. The child now knows the father, but may never enjoy "Fatherhood".

(3) Confusion: Just imagine an innocent child trying to hug the Dad, and the Dad harshly says "go and meet your father".

(4) Denial of Inheritance: Imagine a child who has been given inheritance, gifts etc by the Dad, then all of a sudden, such gifts and inheritance are withdrawn because the child is for another man.

(5) Issue of Father's Blessings: When a Dad has planned to bless a child and then DNA testing shows he is not the father of the child. He may lose interest in blessing such child.

Please ladies, you can do better. Please consider if DNA becomes cheap and men start hustling to do it...

Please always make sure your husband's children are his. And even if you have cheated and he confirms all the children are his, there may still be connection.

Please do vigil everyday if you can. After all, did they keep job for you if you stop doing vigil.

And those saying Christianity is scam, why are several developed countries having many Christians. Shebi dey do Christmas in December, to celebrate who? Jesus Christ Birth.

Why America never drop Christianity if na scam? You wey probably feel say you get sense pass others, wetin you and your gods don produce? You wey probably no believe in religion at all, what value have you added to your community?

Please do your Christianity to your satisfaction, pleasing God. Nigeria's problem is bad government, not Christianity. Abi na Christianity increase fuel?

If you want churches to build industries, let government give the churches money to build. You should not expect people to steal the nation's money, while the church does what the government should do. The church can do their part, but they are not the government.

Everything has consequences, whether good or bad. Now, if men were cheating much in the past, and the consequences of that is several women cheating today, then what will be the future consequences of several women cheating today? So the women cheating today should bear in mind of the future consequences that may arise on any male gender frustrated today. Remember we have the GENZ guys, and some of them have bad perceptions of the female gender. They may feel pained now, but consciously or subconsciously, something may be growing in them that may be a time bomb in the future.

In the nearest future, if care is not taking, we may have several baby mamas with verified DNA testing on their kids, who may be allowed to do whatever they wish as long as the guys involved wont commit to them or do marriage, but just have kids they will care for. So many ladies may be allowed to sleep around and do whatever they wish as long as they do not see marriage but only single motherhood. Mind you, guys marry ladies mostly, not ladies marrying guys.

So do not beg any women to stop cheating as they may feel arrogant about it. Allow them do whatever they wish to do.

So if you want to stop cheating, you are free, if you want to continue, you may still be free. But it is good to change and repent for you own sake.

We have good women also.

Righthussle:
Happy 28 years of defrauding the gullible.

What have you achieved?

Congratulations

While you are given various sermons and messages in church, do you still receive messages on the coming of Christ?

Women should do their best in restoring their dignity so that the glory of wife-hood does not depart or diminish, and that women are given value and respect.
If as a Woman you think the scandal will prove a point that women are woke, kindly consider these implications.

(1) Possible Lust For Married Pregnant Women: What the Equatorial Guinea man did, might make some guys desire married pregnant women. What this may cause is that instead of a young man to help, show compassion and support a married pregnant woman, he may desire sex with her.

(2) Disrespect for Married Women: Imagine you as a responsible married woman and guys in your street are disturbing you because they believe they can do the same thing Equatorial Guinea man did. If such confidence is there to get a married woman, then it may be a sign of disrespect for married women.

(3) Objectification of Married Women: Married Women are to be valued and not to be treated as sex objects. But the way things are now, it may reach a point were married women may be seen as people for sexual gratification, who do not deserve love and respect.

(4) Rating Prostitutes with Married Women: It will be a terrible thing for several young men to use same mindset for prostitutes on married women. It will be bad for several guys to see married women as "pay-as-you-go"..Married women are to join married men in keeping the dignity of marriage.

(5) Devaluation of Relationships: Several people may have lost the desire to build relations because of the Equatorial Guinea scandal. If so, this may affect ladies who are responsible and faithful.

(6) Distrust and More Quest for DNA Testing: Women being seen as cheats is not a good testimony. This scandal may increase the quest for DNA testing in some homes.

Married Men and Married Women, you are more than this.

Put married women in prayers because of the rise in infidelity. Also pray for married men too.

With the trending issue on ground, while do so with pregnancy. It is even wrong generally.

Anyone using the Equatorial Guinea scandal to advice married people on improving their sexual performance, may be on the wrong path. What you should be looking at is a likely impending or existing danger in the marriage system of this era. And when married women and men should be an example to their children and the society, some now resort to living the adulterous life.
Who told you that sexually satisfying an adulterous partner will change them? It may not be fully true. You may satisfy an adulterous partner with the best of proper sex, yet they may still want a different person or persons to sleep. And if you have the life of a sexually reckless person, marry a sexually reckless person. Do not look for God-fearing, faithful, homely, loyal, giver, good etc kind of person, when you will display the life of sexually reckless life in marriage.
For 400 women to sleep with a man as said, the dignity and respect for women may be tampered if this continues. Men have been called cheats for years, and they need be faithful in marriage and also good.

There are many lessons, opinions, assumptions you may have had from the Equatorial Guinea scandal... You can give yours..

But with what happened, on a sample space, many married women may be living in adultery. So in a place like Nigeria, some of the married women you see around, in your neighbourhood, in your office or maybe religious centres etc, may be living in adultery...

Now assuming, camera was taken for married women in Nigeria, will the case be worse or less?

We have good women in Nigeria.

JESUS LOVES YOU ALL, REPENT FROM SINS.