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This is another wake up call to women on the issue of Paternity fraud that comes coming from infidelity. While you may beat your chest as to cheating, consider the consequences of Paternity Fraud on innocent children. As a woman, cheating is one thing, bringing another man's child is another thing. Now what are the dangers of Paternity Fraud on Innocent kids. (1) Rejection: For a child being so loved, pampered and cared for by the father, to be suddenly abandoned by the father because of Paternity, this may affect the child psychologically. (2) Problem of Wrong "Fatherhood". Imagine a happy child that travels round the world to be told that his or her original is a nonchalant in the street, while the assumed Dad is a rich and caring philanthropist. Now if DNA shows the original Dad is a street thug, how will the child cope with joining the original Dad. The child now knows the father, but may never enjoy "Fatherhood". (3) Confusion: Just imagine an innocent child trying to hug the Dad, and the Dad harshly says "go and meet your father". (4) Denial of Inheritance: Imagine a child who has been given inheritance, gifts etc by the Dad, then all of a sudden, such gifts and inheritance are withdrawn because the child is for another man. (5) Issue of Father's Blessings: When a Dad has planned to bless a child and then DNA testing shows he is not the father of the child. He may lose interest in blessing such child. Please ladies, you can do better. Please consider if DNA becomes cheap and men start hustling to do it... Please always make sure your husband's children are his. And even if you have cheated and he confirms all the children are his, there may still be connection. |
Please do vigil everyday if you can. After all, did they keep job for you if you stop doing vigil. And those saying Christianity is scam, why are several developed countries having many Christians. Shebi dey do Christmas in December, to celebrate who? Jesus Christ Birth. Why America never drop Christianity if na scam? You wey probably feel say you get sense pass others, wetin you and your gods don produce? You wey probably no believe in religion at all, what value have you added to your community? Please do your Christianity to your satisfaction, pleasing God. Nigeria's problem is bad government, not Christianity. Abi na Christianity increase fuel? If you want churches to build industries, let government give the churches money to build. You should not expect people to steal the nation's money, while the church does what the government should do. The church can do their part, but they are not the government. |
Everything has consequences, whether good or bad. Now, if men were cheating much in the past, and the consequences of that is several women cheating today, then what will be the future consequences of several women cheating today? So the women cheating today should bear in mind of the future consequences that may arise on any male gender frustrated today. Remember we have the GENZ guys, and some of them have bad perceptions of the female gender. They may feel pained now, but consciously or subconsciously, something may be growing in them that may be a time bomb in the future. In the nearest future, if care is not taking, we may have several baby mamas with verified DNA testing on their kids, who may be allowed to do whatever they wish as long as the guys involved wont commit to them or do marriage, but just have kids they will care for. So many ladies may be allowed to sleep around and do whatever they wish as long as they do not see marriage but only single motherhood. Mind you, guys marry ladies mostly, not ladies marrying guys. So do not beg any women to stop cheating as they may feel arrogant about it. Allow them do whatever they wish to do. So if you want to stop cheating, you are free, if you want to continue, you may still be free. But it is good to change and repent for you own sake. We have good women also. |
Righthussle:What have you achieved? |
Congratulations |
While you are given various sermons and messages in church, do you still receive messages on the coming of Christ?
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Women should do their best in restoring their dignity so that the glory of wife-hood does not depart or diminish, and that women are given value and respect. If as a Woman you think the scandal will prove a point that women are woke, kindly consider these implications. (1) Possible Lust For Married Pregnant Women: What the Equatorial Guinea man did, might make some guys desire married pregnant women. What this may cause is that instead of a young man to help, show compassion and support a married pregnant woman, he may desire sex with her. (2) Disrespect for Married Women: Imagine you as a responsible married woman and guys in your street are disturbing you because they believe they can do the same thing Equatorial Guinea man did. If such confidence is there to get a married woman, then it may be a sign of disrespect for married women. (3) Objectification of Married Women: Married Women are to be valued and not to be treated as sex objects. But the way things are now, it may reach a point were married women may be seen as people for sexual gratification, who do not deserve love and respect. (4) Rating Prostitutes with Married Women: It will be a terrible thing for several young men to use same mindset for prostitutes on married women. It will be bad for several guys to see married women as "pay-as-you-go"..Married women are to join married men in keeping the dignity of marriage. (5) Devaluation of Relationships: Several people may have lost the desire to build relations because of the Equatorial Guinea scandal. If so, this may affect ladies who are responsible and faithful. (6) Distrust and More Quest for DNA Testing: Women being seen as cheats is not a good testimony. This scandal may increase the quest for DNA testing in some homes. Married Men and Married Women, you are more than this. |
Put married women in prayers because of the rise in infidelity. Also pray for married men too. |
With the trending issue on ground, while do so with pregnancy. It is even wrong generally. |
Anyone using the Equatorial Guinea scandal to advice married people on improving their sexual performance, may be on the wrong path. What you should be looking at is a likely impending or existing danger in the marriage system of this era. And when married women and men should be an example to their children and the society, some now resort to living the adulterous life. Who told you that sexually satisfying an adulterous partner will change them? It may not be fully true. You may satisfy an adulterous partner with the best of proper sex, yet they may still want a different person or persons to sleep. And if you have the life of a sexually reckless person, marry a sexually reckless person. Do not look for God-fearing, faithful, homely, loyal, giver, good etc kind of person, when you will display the life of sexually reckless life in marriage. For 400 women to sleep with a man as said, the dignity and respect for women may be tampered if this continues. Men have been called cheats for years, and they need be faithful in marriage and also good. |
There are many lessons, opinions, assumptions you may have had from the Equatorial Guinea scandal... You can give yours.. But with what happened, on a sample space, many married women may be living in adultery. So in a place like Nigeria, some of the married women you see around, in your neighbourhood, in your office or maybe religious centres etc, may be living in adultery... Now assuming, camera was taken for married women in Nigeria, will the case be worse or less? We have good women in Nigeria.
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JESUS LOVES YOU ALL, REPENT FROM SINS. |
JESUS LOVES YOU ALL, REPENT FROM SINS........................... |
JESUS LOVES YOU ALL, REPENT FROM SINS............. |
JESUS LOVES YOU ALL, REPENT FROM SINS...... |
JESUS LOVES YOU ALL, REPENT FROM SINS... |
JESUS LOVES YOU ALL, REPENT FROM SINS. |
HOPE THIS IS NOT A LIE FROM THE PIT OF HELL. MBAISE IS ONE OF THE BEST PLACES IN NIGERIA AND JESUS CHRIST OWNS THERE. |
Let people in the East leave vulture issue and repent from sins, following only Jesus Christ. |
If she didnt go out, it may not have happened. Lesson: (1) If your spirit is restless and uncomfortable with something, never apply faith on it or force yourself to feel alright. Wait until your find peace and do not take any step if you have no peace. This idea I got from someone. (2) Pray always and every day. Nobody is an expert in staying alive. It is God that keeps. (3) Prepare for eternity. After death, the story has not finished, it just truly started. (4) Evey human must go to heaven or hell. It is compulsory. (5) Jesus is the only way. Repent, accept and follow Jesus today. |
ebubeson: |
ebubeson:YES |
Jane was a pretty girl that schooled in one of the most prestigious universities. She was an intelligent student and came out with a Second Class Upper in industrial chemistry. While she was in school, she dated Felix, a handsome, nice, quiet, neat, religious and gentle guy. Felix was in Chemical Engineering department, and he graduated with a first class. Jane was a virgin and Felix too was a virgin. Their love was the strongest in the university as they were too close to each other, seen often together. It was a no-sex before marriage affair and this was so even when they were deployed to their various states for NYSC. Jane served in a private company while she served, and Felix taught in a school. After the one year of service, Felix got a job immediately, while Jane was making cash through social media marketing. She had not gotten an official job yet. Again, during the stay at NYSC, Jane never cheated and Felix never cheated on her too. It was a relationship of love, trust, companionship, hope etc. Life went well and it didn't take Felix more than 2 years to propose marriage. Jane hurriedly accepted the proposal and was super excited as her dream had come through. The wedding process began, and the wedding date was fixed. Jane was prepared to show her friends the best marriage ceremony ever. She then decided to register in a gym so that she will appear her best on the wedding day. She did gym for a month until she decided to take the gym privately so that she can manage her time properly. She met one of the gym instructors named Pascal. Pascal was a tall, cute and well-built guy. He also had good manners. Pascal agreed for the private gym. The private gym process was going smoothly and fine, and Jane enjoyed the moments as she saw results of the gym showing on her. She was happy and ready for the wedding. But one thing Jane did not take not of was that she was falling for Pascals good manners, physique, height and cuteness. Mind you, Felix was of average height and he was not muscular, unlike Pascal who was muscular and attractive. Jane kept on enjoying the gym process until it was six days to her wedding. Pascal came around knowing that Jane's wedding was close by. But this time, he had the motive of sleeping with Jane since she was about to get married soon. Jane also had sexual thoughts about Pascal, but supressed it so that it does not cause any problem. The gym went on and Pascal helped Jane in the most tender, calm, soft way, while Jane responded gently in appreciation. As the moments went on, they held themselves together, lost control, stripped and had sex. The place was partly littered with blood, but the sex continued. It was an unprotected sex. In about 15 minutes, the sex was over and Jane collapsed in tears. She could not believe what happened. It was like a dream. Pascal who was a bad guy, felt bad too, but the did has been done. Jane cried for two days and became slim. This became a concern to several people including Felix. Jane was so depressed that he fell often in her house. Finally she opened up to Felix that she had sex with gym instructor and had lost her virginity. Felix cried his eyes out and the pain was much for him. He forgave her but shifted the wedding date. The wedding date was shifted to a month's time. But because the sex was unprotected, Jane got pregnant because of that sex. She knew two weeks later after she went to the hospital for check up. She told Felix about, Felix finally cancelled the wedding. Jane tried to reach Pascal, but Pascal had travelled to Canada and was unreachable. Jane ended up being a baby mama. Lesson: Endure temptations, it may ruin beautiful things. #Fiction.
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Thinking of the future consequences and avoiding issues is fine. |
She was a devoted lady in church and always prayed out loud. She was an example to young ladies and always talked about by parents. She always posted religious things on social media, but a bad guy was secretly sleeping with her. This guy was an Indian hemp smoker that loved taking sex enhancing drugs. She walks decently to his room like someone coming to preach, while he disrespectfully pull her cloths and twists her for voracious sex. So Pastor Bidemi had an eye on her. He had found a "virtuous" women. He had told his mum of her, and his mum was excited, saying "such a lovely lady". Pastor Bidemi summoned courage and met her, they became friends, and later he proposed marriage to her following the church way.. Her open slogan was "no sex before marriage". She had told pastor Bidemi that, and that was not an issue to him because he was a very good Christian. Even the day she told him that, she had sex with the hemp smoker the next day.... Pastor Bidemi was so happy and everything was going well. When pastor Bidemi asked her about her virginity, she lied to him that a neighbor took advantage of her when she was young, and she has been living in trauma. She said she hates men alot and has not had sex for over 20 years after the incident. Pastor Bidemi encouraged her and told her to forgive anyone who did her wrong... The going went well and everything was in place, with their church assisting and supporting the marriage process. While the marriage processes were going on, this same hemp smoker was busy sleeping with her roughly and abandoning her on the bed after ejaculating. Sometimes she feels weak and depressed after the sex, but gets deep consolation from the comfort of Pastor Bidemi who knows nothing about it. All processes were done, and it was now just a day to the wedding. She screamed, "oh I forgot to give someone my wedding card". Actually she had not given the hemp smoker her wedding card, though he was fully aware of the wedding process. So she left to give him the wedding card, and they had sex romp to the point that some secretions touched the wedding card. It was without protection and it was the dirtiest, as she didn't want to come back after the wedding... The next day, the wedding was done, and she cried tears of joy as Pastor Bidemi said "yes I do" with tears flowing from his eyes too. To him, he had gotten a "virtuous" woman. The marriage was sealed and the journey began. Indeed the Marriage was a beautiful one, filled with fun, laughter, games, picnic, love, happiness. So some days later, she was confirmed to be pregnant. They joy and ecstasy was so much to the point that Pastor Bidemi got a special doctor to check her till she gave birth. On the Nineth month, she gave birth to a bouncing baby boy, and the boy was later named Bidemi too; that is Bidemi jnr. Things were going so well and doors were opening until they got visa to live abroad. It was indeed a big one as the testimony made the church shout for joy.. On the visa process, there was need to do DNA test for the child. That never bothered pastor Bidemi nor her, as they felt all was alright. When the DNA test came out, it was negative, showing that Pastor Bidemi was not the child. He fought the doctors around and talked of baby swapping issue, but it dawned on him that his wife gave birth in his presence, and he followed the process diligently. So they went to four different hospitals to do DNA testing, all proved negative and that it wasn't his child. He thought it was witchcraft manipulation. But he finally asked his wife if anything was wrong "she said nothing". Then it dawned on her that a night to their wedding, she had raw sex. Things unfolded and she confessed. She was thrown out by Pastor Bidemi and his family, and became a single mother. The hemp guy had gone out of the country and was no where to be found... The traps of evil pleasure. #fiction #fiction |
Some people may think humility is walking gently, talking gently, bowing down to greet elders etc. But I will tell you what true humility means with these points below. Signs of True Humility (1) Not For Show: True humility is not done to impress people. E.g. If you are doing a humble act so that people will see and call you humble, then such is not true humility. If a billionaire is intentionally cleaning church toilet so that people will say "a humble billionaire is working for God", then such is not true humility, but for show. (2) Not For Wickedness: Humility and criminality should not go together. If you see a humble thief, a humble kidnapper, a humble prostitute, a humble adulterer, a humble liar etc, such humility is not true but contaminated. (3) With Sincerity: True humility seeks to give God all the glory, avoids self praise, does not care if it is applauded, does not see itself as being too special than others. (4) Fights for its Right: True humility does not mean foolishness. It can fight for its right, speak up, correct what is wrong, watch carefully and still do all with humbleness in the heart. (5) Has Heart Touch: True humility is felt in the heart. The person feels even humble inside his or heart, while still doing so in action. |
May God intervene in Jesus name. Amen. |
God have mercy. |
Mbaise the place with several educated people |
You may have heard stuffs like when you marry as a man, doors will begin to open for you. But is this actually true? Have you seen great prosperity amongst couples? How many people do you know that started making it after marriage? There are some women or ladies who became miserable or more miserable after they got married; and there are men who went down in marriage. Getting married brings open doors of prosperity, but it is conditional and may happen on these conditions below. (1) Marrying the right partner. (2) Marry a partner whose destiny has not been used by past boyfriend, girlfriend, yahoo boy etc. (3) Marrying a partner that is not covetous or greedy. (4) Marrying a partner with a bright or good future. (5) Marrying a partner that is not having strong curses. etc. etc. |