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Bitter truth: time is going!. Those in their twenties are entering 30s. Some that are ripe for marriage are still there with no suitor or fiance or fiancee.. Time is running out! What have you achieved this year?
Your mates are making it, some are married, some may be in oversees doing great, some are in good companies. What have you achieved this year??
Are you still busy pressing your handset, browsing all day and roaming about without adding value to your life? What have you achieved this year??

I want to encourage you that if you have not achieved anything this year, something so big is coming your way that will clean your tears and place you where you need to be. You will marry, you will have great jobs, you will have good businesses, you will have your cars and good life. Do not give up!

Give God thanks and remember that some have died, but God kept you alive.

She was a devoted lady in church and always prayed out loud. She was an example to young ladies and always talked about by parents. She always posted religious things on social media, but a bad guy was secretly sleeping with her. This guy was an Indian hemp smoker that loved taking sex enhancing drugs. She walks decently to his room like someone coming to preach, while he disrespectfully pull her cloths and twists her for voracious sex.

So Pastor Bidemi had an eye on her. He had found a "virtuous" women. He had told his mum of her, and his mum was excited, saying "such a lovely lady". Pastor Bidemi summoned courage and met her, they became friends, and later he proposed marriage to her following the church way..

Her open slogan was "no sex before marriage". She had told pastor Bidemi that, and that was not an issue to him because he was a very good Christian. Even the day she told him that, she had sex with the hemp smoker the next day....
Pastor Bidemi was so happy and everything was going well. When pastor Bidemi asked her about her virginity, she lied to him that a neighbor took advantage of her when she was young, and she has been living in trauma. She said she hates men alot and has not had sex for over 20 years after the incident. Pastor Bidemi encouraged her and told her to forgive anyone who did her wrong...

The going went well and everything was in place, with their church assisting and supporting the marriage process. While the marriage processes were going on, this same hemp smoker was busy sleeping with her roughly and abandoning her on the bed after ejaculating. Sometimes she feels weak and depressed after the sex, but gets deep consolation from the comfort of Pastor Bidemi who knows nothing about it.

All processes were done, and it was now just a day to the wedding. She screamed, "oh I forgot to give someone my wedding card". Actually she had not given the hemp smoker her wedding card, though he was fully aware of the wedding process. So she left to give him the wedding card, and they had sex romp to the point that some secretions touched the wedding card. It was without protection and it was the dirtiest, as she didn't want to come back after the wedding...

The next day, the wedding was done, and she cried tears of joy as Pastor Bidemi said "yes I do" with tears flowing from his eyes too. To him, he had gotten a "virtuous" woman.

The marriage was sealed and the journey began. Indeed the Marriage was a beautiful one, filled with fun, laughter, games, picnic, love, happiness. So some days later, she was confirmed to be pregnant. They joy and ecstasy was so much to the point that Pastor Bidemi got a special doctor to check her till she gave birth.

On the Nineth month, she gave birth to a bouncing baby boy, and the boy was later named Bidemi too; that is Bidemi jnr.

Things were going so well and doors were opening until they got visa to live abroad. It was indeed a big one as the testimony made the church shout for joy..

On the visa process, there was need to do DNA test for the child. That never bothered pastor Bidemi nor her, as they felt all was alright.

When the DNA test came out, it was negative, showing that Pastor Bidemi was not the child. He fought the doctors around and talked of baby swapping issue, but it dawned on him that his wife gave birth in his presence, and he followed the process diligently. So they went to four different hospitals to do DNA testing, all proved negative and that it wasn't his child. He thought it was witchcraft manipulation. But he finally asked his wife if anything was wrong "she said nothing". Then it dawned on her that a night to their wedding, she had raw sex.

Things unfolded and she confessed. She was thrown out by Pastor Bidemi and his family, and became a single mother. The hemp guy had gone out of the country and was no where to be found...

The traps of evil pleasure.

#fiction

You may think a woman playing hard-to-get is trying to prove your love, but she may not just like you.

Some Christians may be vehement in defending their pastors, but many do not spend time in testing the spirit of their pastors. Some do not even pray to enquire if their pastor is serving God or a diety. When their pastor is vibrating on the pulpit and preaching hot message, they may assume he is a true man of God because he talked against sin. But even a fake pastor may talk against sin.

Reasons why you need to confirm if your pastor is serving the true God.

(1) You will save yourself destiny wastage. As a genuine Christian, if you seat under an occultic pastor for five years, you have wasted five years spiritually.

(2) You will prevent unconscious initiation. As a genuine Christian, staying under an occultic pastor may lead you to unconscious initiation or covenants with the kingdom of darkness, marine kingdom etc. Even if you say " I am Christian", as long as you have stayed long under an occultic pastor, there may be a legal ground to initiate you unconsciously.

(3) You might miss the rapture. Imagine you shouting " the god of your pastor will fight for you ", and the god of your pastor is a marine spirit; will you make heaven? you might miss the rapture.

It is your obligation to spend time knowing if truly your pastor is genuine.

Happy Sunday..

If you calculate the hours spent pressing your phone, you may notice that your life is not adding tangible value.

Fear the past ooh!!

In the past, when some people say " it was my past", that may be true. But in this present age, when some people say "it was my past", please "do not go to sleep". The past still lives in some people.

The lady online should look for another guy to marry if possible.

When can you give someone benefit of doubt about their past.

(1) When they have avoided such past life for over a year.
(2) When they have avoided such past life even when opportunities have presented itself.
(3) When they have cut off every link with the past.
(4) When they are plain enough with their moves and dealings with you.
(5) When they have truly changed in character and lifestyle. An EX olosho still dressing like as Olosho is still a red flag sign. An EX yahoo boy still wearing chains and tattoo is still a red flag sign.

If you are broke-shamed by ladies for not having money, when you become rich, they should not blame you for looking for virgins.

There is a lot of waste of life and waste of opportunities in some or many youths. They tend to live anyhow, not considering the future consequences...
Some innocent ladies that have come your way, may be destiny bringing the best options of wives that can change your life, but your deceptive nature might make you mess around with these ladies and dump them. Then in future, you may be praying so hard for a good wife.
Same goes to ladies, the responsible guys you are busy eating their money and manipulating, may just be destiny bringing different good options of a nice husbands for you, then when time has gone and you are now so serious, you may start meeting irresponsible men.
Be wise..

May God bless and keep their marriage in Jesus name. Amen.

Happy Sunday

If God attaches you to a spiritual father or spiritual mentor, these are the ways to follow them.

(1) You must honour and respect God far above them. It is wrong to make an idol of your spiritual father or mentor.

(2) You must follow them in all ways that leads to heaven. You are to follow your spiritual father or mentor, if their ways are leading you to heaven. If it is not, you replace them through prayers and hearing from God.

(3) Do not rebuke your spiritual father or mentor if they go wrong. You are to admonish, preach, warn and inform them wisely of their sins or wrong doings; and if they are persistent in it, you can depart from them upon God's instruction. Allow God to do the rest.

(4) Give to them. If your spiritual father is a genuine man of God, give to him as being led by God. Do not allow them force you or manipulate you to give. Things like them telling you to "clear your bank account" and give, is not acceptable, except God places it in your heart.

(5) Humbly follow them and learn deeply how they succeeded.

(6) Pray for them. They are humans like you and go through challenges of life.

Illegal1:
omoh.........its a SIMPLE Matter

People are different. Some may accept

misreal:
Is your spouse having any of our?

I am not married.

Name teachers that flogged alot when you were in secondary school.

Mine: Mr Lawal, Mr Adedeji(Late)

Before you get married, handle these odours if you notice they are persistent in you.

(1) Mouth odour.
(2) Body odour.
(3) Armpit odour.
(4) Vagina odour.

Some crisis in marriage may be coming from these odours being there for long, and your partner may not be bold enough to tell you. Your complains of lack of respect, attention, care etc, may be coming from these odours being perceived by your partner.

Please if you notice these, go and intentionally deal with them before you marry.

If you marry a wife and DNA proves that a child is not yours, will you keep and train the child?

a

Be patient to know the truth, do not crucify another artist. Let the truth come out before you judge.

sure?

Which Country Will You Like to Come From if Given Another Chance to Be Born?

Say yours with reasons.

Some people may resist court marriage when it is presented to them. Some may prefer having a baby mama to having a court marriage.

When is it probably safer or fair to do court marriage as a guy?.

(1) When the lady you want to marry has loved you so much for long number of years; maybe from secondary school till your adulthood.
(2) When the lady is a virgin. In this case, she is giving you a costly gift in marriage.
(3) When the lady is richer than you, spends well and loves you a lot. When a lady is richer than you and has invested a lot in your life, you may not bother much giving her your wealth to enjoy when things clicks.
(4) When you are the one insisting on it. A lady not interested in court marriage may be kind of safe.
(5) When a lady is not money-conscious. If you have been with a lady for a long time, and you notice she is not having the love of money as a weak point, you may be safe.

Good bed-handlers should not beat their wives.

A man should not beat his wife.

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"Men" are probably more condemned for cheating on their wives, but if you bring DNA suggestion to a lady complaining about her cheating husband, she may panic.

Are "so-called faithful" ladies committing secret sins?

Is this cheating or adultery? If a Divorcee Re-marries and Then Goes to Sleep with His or Her First Partner in marriage.

It is not adultery, but it is cheating.

Blake755:
You feel dey wait for karma to revenge for you you too go die ontop cause you sef no be better person 💯

You be better person?

The way people get away with evil, does karma still exist? It still exists

dkidd:
But it's bad before marriage? Can't u see ur head is not correct

Enjoy your night.

Harddiskng:
@OP is all well with you, cuz this your write-up is suggesting otherwise.

What is beautiful about a cheating wife?!

Many are mad, few are roaming indeed.

Faithfulness is good in marriage.

Olokobintin:
That is why I don't bother myself looking for a young girl but an old cargos that have been praying in churches or mountains, spending most of her life fasting, working for the Lord and reading Bible because once I asked her out, I will turn out to be an answer to her prayers.

Now tell me how she is going to get a time for an ex or exes. I don't mind if they are thousands or millions anyways.

old cargo?