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RomanceDo You Have The Discipline To Stay Faithful In Marriage? by ebubeson(op): 2:42pm On Feb 06, 2024
Looking at your current self, can you stay faithful to one partner in marriage throughout your life?
PoliticsGive Bishop David Oyedepo Just Four Years To Repair Nigeria by ebubeson(op): 2:54pm On Feb 05, 2024
If the President can handover economic development to Bishop David Oyedepo for four years. I tell you, if it's God's will, Nigeria will be progress well.
CelebritiesRe: Marriage Is Not An Achievement – Mary Remmy Njoku by ebubeson: 8:48am On Feb 05, 2024
Marriage is an achievement if you marry God's choice for you.
If you marry the wrong partner, you are in soup..
If you didnt die despite all the battles you faced as a single, do not let wrong marriage kill you.
Beg God to give you the right spouse.
Christianity EtcShould Church Instrumentalists And Singers Be Paid? by ebubeson(op): 8:24am On Feb 04, 2024
If an instrumentalist or drummer or singer is a full-time staff of the church; and employee of the church; such a person must be paid. It is just like working in a bank. The church is his or her office, so such a person must be paid.

It is wrong to ask for payment when you are a member of a church and still get your source of livelihood elsewhere. You cannot be working in the bank, a company etc, and still tell your pastor to pay you because you are a drummer, instrumentalist, etc. Does it mean you cannot help God's house without being paid?

FamilyMarried Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by ebubeson(op): 12:53pm On Feb 01, 2024
As a married person, share you escape routes to overcoming cheating and how you cope with the temptation to commit adultery.

BusinessRe: Customers Stranded As Bdcs In Abuja, Kano, Lagos Shutdown Over Dollar Spike by ebubeson: 12:49pm On Feb 01, 2024
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PoliticsRe: Betta Edu: Forget About Her Reappointment - Tinubu Tells Party Leaders by ebubeson: 11:58am On Jan 29, 2024
Integrity is good
Christianity EtcChristians And The Chains Of Masturbation, Fornication, Adultery And Immorality. by ebubeson(op):
In a bible-believing church, they did an altar call of those who masturbate. I tell you, a "squad" of people came out. And some who didn't come out may still be victims of it..

As to fornication, the rate has increased even in the churches. It is possible that many "christian" ladies fornicate and probably sleep with guys or Ex few days/weeks to their wedding.. Some guys in the christian community sleep with prostitutes and even fornicate with other people.. The bondage of immorality is on the increase..

For adultery, how many married men and married women can come out to say they have not slept with another person for the past 10 years since they married? They are faithful ones anyway.

With the easy access to pornography, this has enhanced immorality. Other immoral act which includes lesbianism, homosexuality, beastality are also there. Years ago, a man said that 60% or about 60% of ladies in a particular place(not to mention) in Nigeria are lesbians.

The way out is Jesus Christ. When you genuinely open up to Jesus, tell him to forgive you and come into you life, He forgives you, cleanses you and transforms your life. Pray now!
EducationRe: Imo State Has Highest Literacy Rate In Nigeria by ebubeson:
Mbaise are doing well in education generally.

Some men from Mbaise including Chioma Ajunwa the olympic gold medalist.

EducationRe: Imo State Has Highest Literacy Rate In Nigeria by ebubeson:
Mbaise are doing well in education generally.

See below some women from Mbaise.

PoliticsWhy Being Good In Politics Alone Is Not Good Enough by ebubeson(op): 9:37am On Dec 27, 2023
For years you may have heard a person or group of people being tagged with "good in politics". You may have heard of a tribe known for "being good in politics". You may have heard of a person or persons known for "being good in politics". But what I want to say is that succeeding politically and taking a state or nation backwards is wastage. It is better to be low in politics and good in national and state development.

Lets stop these "good in politics" that has not helped Nigeria and focus on people with potentials to develop the nation.
Christianity EtcRe: Does Your Church Still Preach About Rapture, Restitution, Great Tribulation? by ebubeson(op): 9:37pm On Dec 26, 2023
ebubeson:
Does your church still preach hard truth such as rapture, restitution, great tribulation etc? Or are they still on motivational speaking?
RomanceRe: "She Had Sex With Her Friend A Night To Her Wedding With A Pastor" by ebubeson(op): 9:34pm On Dec 26, 2023
Merry Christmas
RomanceRe: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by ebubeson:
As a woman, you are not a fool. But submission here means to respect him as the head and obey him. It is not everything he says that you may take, but you can disagree respectfully. You are not to disagree or drag with him on simple matters that needs no debate.

It means to cook for him always and make sure cooked food is available. And the husband must be tolerant in his demand for kinds of food... You can't just keep saying to your wife " I want fresh food, I cannot eat food in the freezer, I cannot eat food cooked yesterday".. You need to be tolerant.

It means not submitting your destiny and life to a foolish husband. You cannot submit your life to a lazy gambler or an irresponsible man, all in the name of submission. You can respect, but do not submit foolishly.

You cannot submit to a violent man that wants to take your life all in the name of submission. You can submit to such persons from afar without coming closer.
RomanceWhat Bad Character Have You Seen To Have Stopped Or Reduced In Your Life? by ebubeson(op): 9:36am On Dec 14, 2023
Every bad character you tame is an improvement in your life. Your current bad character may be hot anger, pride, not apologizing, sleeping around, lying, cheating, greed, deception, dirtiness, stinginess etc. You may have battled to stop it to no avail, but let me encourage with mine.

I have shortcomings, but I can tell you some that I have won. My anger issue has dropped. I have reduced in responding badly when offended.

Please tell someone yours to encourage the person.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man Caught His Cheating Wife With Another Man In Europe (Video) by ebubeson: 7:36pm On Dec 13, 2023
Some men need maturity.
RomanceWhy You Should Not Train The Lady You Love In School by ebubeson(op): 7:36pm On Dec 13, 2023
It is good to be generous. It is good to give. But currently you may have heard situations were a guy trained his babe in school and she later left him for someone else. Does that mean you should not train the lady you love in school?
If you want to train any lady in school, do it this way.

(1) Let the lady love you so much more than you love her. If you are training a lady that loves you so much than you love her, you may not feel it if she leaves. Imagine dating a lady that you do not love so much; even if you are training her in school, when she leaves, you may not feel it much. You may even wish her well. You may even wish to marry someone else.

(2) Another way to train a lady in school is to train a lady you have no emotional feelings for. You can find a lady that is not from a well-to-do family and help her without strings attached.

(3) If you find a lady you loves so much, so desperate of, and that you cannot do without; please do not train her in school. You can assist her at some points, but do not take full responsibilities on her. If you are so desperately in love with her, and then you decide to train her, she may abandon you later, and this may cause you serious heartbreak.
RomanceRe: Got Married Last Weekend, A New Chapter Started by ebubeson: 3:28pm On Dec 01, 2023
cutecommend:
"Virgins are new Bentley cars"..
RomancePsychology Issues Of Children Who Are Victims Of Paternity Fraud by ebubeson(op): 7:17pm On Nov 30, 2023
As you keep "cruising on bed" with your EX few days or weeks to your wedding night, and as you keep committing adultery secretly while appearing as a faithful husband or faithful wife, kindly consider these side effects on your children with different father(s) or your children fathered by another father.

Possible Psychology Effects of Children that are victims of Paternity Fraud..

(1) Possible trauma from rejection: When DNA finally reveals that a child who loves his Dad so much is now shown another father, this may cause internal feeling of rejection and shock. Again, an angry Dad who may be so disappointed because of DNA issue, may emotional abuse the child in question..

(2) Possible loss of Emotional Security. A child who has been enjoying love, protection, care, provisions, good education etc.. May lose all that when DNA reveals that their loving father is not theirs. This may cause loss of the feeling of love, care, protection etc...It may be worse if their true father is an irresponsible and poor man.
Romance"Let Ladies Marry The Exes They Still Love" by ebubeson(op): 10:51pm On Nov 28, 2023
Instead of saying goodbye to your EX with sex before wedding, why not marry your EX instead of probably bringing different kids into your marriage...

DNA issues..
RomanceWhy Do People Probably Say These Words When Caught Cheating? by ebubeson(op): 3:50pm On Nov 28, 2023
Why do people probably say these words when caught cheating.

(1) I don't know what came over me.
(2) It is not want you think
Jobs/VacanciesRe: URGENT, 70k Monthly Salary Or Marketing Executive At Mutual Benefit Assurance. by ebubeson: 9:49am On Nov 28, 2023
Avoid marketing for now.....
CelebritiesRe: Video Of Israel DMW Begging Davido For Money To Buy Perfumes by ebubeson: 5:18pm On Nov 26, 2023
If he was doing like a slave to her, can't she politely give him some ideas on how to start a business as side hustle?
If your husband is close to Elon Musk and his "slavery" has bought private jet, won't you encourage him to increase the "slavery"?
PoliticsNiger-Delta Fight For Your Seaports So That People Can Ship Through It. by ebubeson(op): 3:58pm On Nov 26, 2023
All the seaports in the Niger Delta should come alive again. This should be the new fight of the Niger Deltans. Please spread this to your elders. If your seaports are good, your people and most Igbo men may come through your seaport channel, and this may lead to intensive development in your area..

If Jonathan had strengthened the seaports of Niger-Delta, it may have been the most developed in Nigeria..

Please make the seaports good so that probably, Igbo business men may use it as their main channel.

Please fight so hard to strengthen seaport in your region.
CelebritiesRe: Pictures of Some Mbaise People: Which of these Ladies or Men Would You Marry?. by ebubeson: 2:38pm On Nov 20, 2023
Mbaise nwere mmadu
RomanceRe: Faithful Woman With Bad Character Or Serial Cheat With Loving Character by ebubeson(op): 10:04pm On Nov 19, 2023
ebubeson:
Whom will you prefer?
RomanceRe: "She Had Sex With Her Friend A Night To Her Wedding With A Pastor" by ebubeson(op): 10:03pm On Nov 19, 2023
ebubeson:
She was a devoted lady in church and always prayed out loud. She was an example to young ladies and always talked about by parents. She always posted religious things on social media, but a bad guy was secretly sleeping with her. This guy was an Indian hemp smoker that loved taking sex enhancing drugs. She walks decently to his room like someone coming to preach, while he disrespectfully pull her cloths and twists her for voracious sex.

So Pastor Bidemi had an eye on her. He had found a "virtuous" women. He had told his mum of her, and his mum was excited, saying "such a lovely lady". Pastor Bidemi summoned courage and met her, they became friends, and later he proposed marriage to her following the church way..

Her open slogan was "no sex before marriage". She had told pastor Bidemi that, and that was not an issue to him because he was a very good Christian. Even the day she told him that, she had sex with the hemp smoker the next day....
Pastor Bidemi was so happy and everything was going well. When pastor Bidemi asked her about her virginity, she lied to him that a neighbor took advantage of her when she was young, and she has been living in trauma. She said she hates men alot and has not had sex for over 20 years after the incident. Pastor Bidemi encouraged her and told her to forgive anyone who did her wrong...

The going went well and everything was in place, with their church assisting and supporting the marriage process. While the marriage processes were going on, this same hemp smoker was busy sleeping with her roughly and abandoning her on the bed after ejaculating. Sometimes she feels weak and depressed after the sex, but gets deep consolation from the comfort of Pastor Bidemi who knows nothing about it.

All processes were done, and it was now just a day to the wedding. She screamed, "oh I forgot to give someone my wedding card". Actually she had not given the hemp smoker her wedding card, though he was fully aware of the wedding process. So she left to give him the wedding card, and they had sex romp to the point that some secretions touched the wedding card. It was without protection and it was the dirtiest, as she didn't want to come back after the wedding...

The next day, the wedding was done, and she cried tears of joy as Pastor Bidemi said "yes I do" with tears flowing from his eyes too. To him, he had gotten a "virtuous" woman.

The marriage was sealed and the journey began. Indeed the Marriage was a beautiful one, filled with fun, laughter, games, picnic, love, happiness. So some days later, she was confirmed to be pregnant. They joy and ecstasy was so much to the point that Pastor Bidemi got a special doctor to check her till she gave birth.

On the Nineth month, she gave birth to a bouncing baby boy, and the boy was later named Bidemi too; that is Bidemi jnr.

Things were going so well and doors were opening until they got visa to live abroad. It was indeed a big one as the testimony made the church shout for joy..

On the visa process, there was need to do DNA test for the child. That never bothered pastor Bidemi nor her, as they felt all was alright.

When the DNA test came out, it was negative, showing that Pastor Bidemi was not the child. He fought the doctors around and talked of baby swapping issue, but it dawned on him that his wife gave birth in his presence, and he followed the process diligently. So they went to four different hospitals to do DNA testing, all proved negative and that it wasn't his child. He thought it was witchcraft manipulation. But he finally asked his wife if anything was wrong "she said nothing". Then it dawned on her that a night to their wedding, she had raw sex.

Things unfolded and she confessed. She was thrown out by Pastor Bidemi and his family, and became a single mother. The hemp guy had gone out of the country and was no where to be found...

The traps of evil pleasure.

#fiction
RomanceHow Will You Answer This Question Without Lying? by ebubeson(op): 3:35pm On Nov 19, 2023
If someone is being chased to be harmed by a mob, and such a person runs into your apartment, what will you answer if the chasers ask you to confirm if the person is in your place, and your intention is not to reveal it? How can you answer without telling a lie?
Christianity EtcIs It Right For Pastors To Confirm The Right Marriage Partner For A Person? by ebubeson(op): 1:57am On Nov 19, 2023
You may have seen ladies that will vehemently follow their Pastors instructions and opinion concerning marriage. Some may not choose a partner until confirmed by their Pastor.

To what degree is a pastors involvement in choosing a spouse for someone? A pastor can advise someone on the kind of person he or she should marry, a pastor can caution when he notices dangers and red flags, but a pastor should be very careful in saying whom the exact marriage partner is? A potential marriage about to happen can be destroyed by the false visions or wrong revelations of a pastor. Be careful!

Please kindly contribute.

RomanceIs There Any Of Your Exes You Would Like To Date Again? by ebubeson(op): 4:43pm On Nov 14, 2023
Looking at your past and the breakups, do you consider any of your exes for a relationship again?
RomanceRe: She Got Pregnant For Her EX While Her Husband Was Abroad by ebubeson(op): 4:47pm On Nov 11, 2023
ebubeson:
The counsel one of my former female friend gave to a lady was bad...This lady got pregnant for her EX while her husband was overseas probably doing masters... She tried to abort it but it didn't work, then this my former friend was encouraging her to put it on her husband...It would have still been difficult if they have not met sexually for some time, and if she isn't able to meet him physically... This happened years back.
RomanceRe: How People Waste Marriage Love In Their Youthful Days by ebubeson(op): 4:45pm On Nov 11, 2023
ebubeson:
I want to tell you one truth...One of the reasons why many marriages are not having enough love is because many couples wasted their love while dating in their youthful days..

How can you date five people and have 3 breakups and betrayal, then you expect to be so okay in Marriage? By then your eyes would have probably been clear, and then when your spouse come, you may start applying sense because of your past experience..

Imagine if all couples married their first love, and imagine if all first love married their first love....

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