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RomancePsychology Issues Of Children Who Are Victims Of Paternity Fraud by ebubeson(op): 7:17pm On Nov 30, 2023
As you keep "cruising on bed" with your EX few days or weeks to your wedding night, and as you keep committing adultery secretly while appearing as a faithful husband or faithful wife, kindly consider these side effects on your children with different father(s) or your children fathered by another father.

Possible Psychology Effects of Children that are victims of Paternity Fraud..

(1) Possible trauma from rejection: When DNA finally reveals that a child who loves his Dad so much is now shown another father, this may cause internal feeling of rejection and shock. Again, an angry Dad who may be so disappointed because of DNA issue, may emotional abuse the child in question..

(2) Possible loss of Emotional Security. A child who has been enjoying love, protection, care, provisions, good education etc.. May lose all that when DNA reveals that their loving father is not theirs. This may cause loss of the feeling of love, care, protection etc...It may be worse if their true father is an irresponsible and poor man.
Romance"Let Ladies Marry The Exes They Still Love" by ebubeson(op): 10:51pm On Nov 28, 2023
Instead of saying goodbye to your EX with sex before wedding, why not marry your EX instead of probably bringing different kids into your marriage...

DNA issues..
RomanceWhy Do People Probably Say These Words When Caught Cheating? by ebubeson(op): 3:50pm On Nov 28, 2023
Why do people probably say these words when caught cheating.

(1) I don't know what came over me.
(2) It is not want you think
Jobs/VacanciesRe: URGENT, 70k Monthly Salary Or Marketing Executive At Mutual Benefit Assurance. by ebubeson: 9:49am On Nov 28, 2023
Avoid marketing for now.....
CelebritiesRe: Video Of Israel DMW Begging Davido For Money To Buy Perfumes by ebubeson: 5:18pm On Nov 26, 2023
If he was doing like a slave to her, can't she politely give him some ideas on how to start a business as side hustle?
If your husband is close to Elon Musk and his "slavery" has bought private jet, won't you encourage him to increase the "slavery"?
PoliticsNiger-Delta Fight For Your Seaports So That People Can Ship Through It. by ebubeson(op): 3:58pm On Nov 26, 2023
All the seaports in the Niger Delta should come alive again. This should be the new fight of the Niger Deltans. Please spread this to your elders. If your seaports are good, your people and most Igbo men may come through your seaport channel, and this may lead to intensive development in your area..

If Jonathan had strengthened the seaports of Niger-Delta, it may have been the most developed in Nigeria..

Please make the seaports good so that probably, Igbo business men may use it as their main channel.

Please fight so hard to strengthen seaport in your region.
CelebritiesRe: Pictures of Some Mbaise People: Which of these Ladies or Men Would You Marry?. by ebubeson: 2:38pm On Nov 20, 2023
Mbaise nwere mmadu
RomanceRe: Faithful Woman With Bad Character Or Serial Cheat With Loving Character by ebubeson(op): 10:04pm On Nov 19, 2023
ebubeson:
Whom will you prefer?
RomanceRe: "She Had Sex With Her Friend A Night To Her Wedding With A Pastor" by ebubeson(op): 10:03pm On Nov 19, 2023
ebubeson:
She was a devoted lady in church and always prayed out loud. She was an example to young ladies and always talked about by parents. She always posted religious things on social media, but a bad guy was secretly sleeping with her. This guy was an Indian hemp smoker that loved taking sex enhancing drugs. She walks decently to his room like someone coming to preach, while he disrespectfully pull her cloths and twists her for voracious sex.

So Pastor Bidemi had an eye on her. He had found a "virtuous" women. He had told his mum of her, and his mum was excited, saying "such a lovely lady". Pastor Bidemi summoned courage and met her, they became friends, and later he proposed marriage to her following the church way..

Her open slogan was "no sex before marriage". She had told pastor Bidemi that, and that was not an issue to him because he was a very good Christian. Even the day she told him that, she had sex with the hemp smoker the next day....
Pastor Bidemi was so happy and everything was going well. When pastor Bidemi asked her about her virginity, she lied to him that a neighbor took advantage of her when she was young, and she has been living in trauma. She said she hates men alot and has not had sex for over 20 years after the incident. Pastor Bidemi encouraged her and told her to forgive anyone who did her wrong...

The going went well and everything was in place, with their church assisting and supporting the marriage process. While the marriage processes were going on, this same hemp smoker was busy sleeping with her roughly and abandoning her on the bed after ejaculating. Sometimes she feels weak and depressed after the sex, but gets deep consolation from the comfort of Pastor Bidemi who knows nothing about it.

All processes were done, and it was now just a day to the wedding. She screamed, "oh I forgot to give someone my wedding card". Actually she had not given the hemp smoker her wedding card, though he was fully aware of the wedding process. So she left to give him the wedding card, and they had sex romp to the point that some secretions touched the wedding card. It was without protection and it was the dirtiest, as she didn't want to come back after the wedding...

The next day, the wedding was done, and she cried tears of joy as Pastor Bidemi said "yes I do" with tears flowing from his eyes too. To him, he had gotten a "virtuous" woman.

The marriage was sealed and the journey began. Indeed the Marriage was a beautiful one, filled with fun, laughter, games, picnic, love, happiness. So some days later, she was confirmed to be pregnant. They joy and ecstasy was so much to the point that Pastor Bidemi got a special doctor to check her till she gave birth.

On the Nineth month, she gave birth to a bouncing baby boy, and the boy was later named Bidemi too; that is Bidemi jnr.

Things were going so well and doors were opening until they got visa to live abroad. It was indeed a big one as the testimony made the church shout for joy..

On the visa process, there was need to do DNA test for the child. That never bothered pastor Bidemi nor her, as they felt all was alright.

When the DNA test came out, it was negative, showing that Pastor Bidemi was not the child. He fought the doctors around and talked of baby swapping issue, but it dawned on him that his wife gave birth in his presence, and he followed the process diligently. So they went to four different hospitals to do DNA testing, all proved negative and that it wasn't his child. He thought it was witchcraft manipulation. But he finally asked his wife if anything was wrong "she said nothing". Then it dawned on her that a night to their wedding, she had raw sex.

Things unfolded and she confessed. She was thrown out by Pastor Bidemi and his family, and became a single mother. The hemp guy had gone out of the country and was no where to be found...

The traps of evil pleasure.

#fiction
RomanceHow Will You Answer This Question Without Lying? by ebubeson(op): 3:35pm On Nov 19, 2023
If someone is being chased to be harmed by a mob, and such a person runs into your apartment, what will you answer if the chasers ask you to confirm if the person is in your place, and your intention is not to reveal it? How can you answer without telling a lie?
Christianity EtcIs It Right For Pastors To Confirm The Right Marriage Partner For A Person? by ebubeson(op): 1:57am On Nov 19, 2023
You may have seen ladies that will vehemently follow their Pastors instructions and opinion concerning marriage. Some may not choose a partner until confirmed by their Pastor.

To what degree is a pastors involvement in choosing a spouse for someone? A pastor can advise someone on the kind of person he or she should marry, a pastor can caution when he notices dangers and red flags, but a pastor should be very careful in saying whom the exact marriage partner is? A potential marriage about to happen can be destroyed by the false visions or wrong revelations of a pastor. Be careful!

Please kindly contribute.

RomanceIs There Any Of Your Exes You Would Like To Date Again? by ebubeson(op): 4:43pm On Nov 14, 2023
Looking at your past and the breakups, do you consider any of your exes for a relationship again?
RomanceRe: She Got Pregnant For Her EX While Her Husband Was Abroad by ebubeson(op): 4:47pm On Nov 11, 2023
ebubeson:
The counsel one of my former female friend gave to a lady was bad...This lady got pregnant for her EX while her husband was overseas probably doing masters... She tried to abort it but it didn't work, then this my former friend was encouraging her to put it on her husband...It would have still been difficult if they have not met sexually for some time, and if she isn't able to meet him physically... This happened years back.
RomanceRe: How People Waste Marriage Love In Their Youthful Days by ebubeson(op): 4:45pm On Nov 11, 2023
ebubeson:
I want to tell you one truth...One of the reasons why many marriages are not having enough love is because many couples wasted their love while dating in their youthful days..

How can you date five people and have 3 breakups and betrayal, then you expect to be so okay in Marriage? By then your eyes would have probably been clear, and then when your spouse come, you may start applying sense because of your past experience..

Imagine if all couples married their first love, and imagine if all first love married their first love....
RomanceRe: When DNA Test Messes Up Beautiful Homes by ebubeson(op): 4:40pm On Nov 11, 2023
ebubeson:
When the sweetest marriage of a faithful wife is messed up by DNA issue! Do you know that some of these women whose marriages were destroyed by DNA issues may be 100% faithful in marriage? But what messed their marriages up may be the last sex they had with their EX or someone few days to wedding their day, leading to pregnancy....Mind you, when the devil perceives your beautiful Marital future, he may remind your EX to come and assist you in destroying it.

So before you think you are smart, weight the options and the likely future damages you may bring...

Just imagine your beautiful home with lovely kids, loving husband, good prosperity, you all living in a mansion with sufficient things and cars, then all of a sudden something happens and a child is tested for DNA, then the child is not your husband's own but your EX.

Think through!!
RomanceRe: "She Had Sex With Her Friend A Night To Her Wedding With A Pastor" by ebubeson(op): 4:39pm On Nov 11, 2023
nokspos:
The beautiful ones are not yet born
We have good ladies
RomanceRe: Zainab Abidoye & Mother Lived Off Man's Wealth But Refused To Marry Him (Photos) by ebubeson: 12:54pm On Nov 10, 2023
As a lady, you have the right to reject a man you don't want. You cannot be at the mercy of a man, and the fact you refused marrying a man does not mean you will suffer in life. Again, you can still reject a man and meet him very poor later in life.

But my advice:
(1) When rejecting a man, do not dehumanize him.
(2) Do not eat the sweat of a hustling man that intends to marry you, if you are truly not interested in him.
(3) It is a nice thing to marry a rich man, but go after him, enjoy the money, but do not go after the money.
CultureHow Do They Urinate In Overseas When Someone Is Pressed? by ebubeson(op): 12:37pm On Nov 10, 2023
Please those in oversees, kindly give insight on how you guys urinate when so pressed in overseas.
RomanceRe: A Guy Slept With Former Girlfriend When She Came To Drop Wedding Invitation Card by ebubeson(op): 8:48pm On Nov 09, 2023
ebubeson:
A former friend of mine told me long time ago, how a guy slept with his former babe when she came to drop wedding invitation card.

If you like, keep enjoying yourselves and keep enjoying your cheating. It is a free world...
RomanceRe: "She Had Sex With Her Friend A Night To Her Wedding With A Pastor" by ebubeson(op): 8:46pm On Nov 09, 2023
pradoyeep:
Bidemi Junior
RomanceRe: I Typed "Krest" On Google And They Brought This Picture. Why? by ebubeson: 10:17pm On Nov 08, 2023
Are you researching on krest?
PoliticsSolution To Igbo Land: Strong Agitation For Great Development by ebubeson(op): 9:59pm On Nov 07, 2023
Let the rich men in Igbo Land do strong agitation with wealth and resources to make Igbo Land like Johannesburg, even if Dubai may not be achieveable, then you may see different people from all over the world coming down to enjoy the place ..
Let the Igbos be educated on how to be very wealthy, how to love non-indigenes, how to treat everyone with humanity, how to be humble, how to develop the land, how not to destroy the land...
Let our struggle be in making the east si beautiful like Europe
RomanceWhy Your Good Character Is Not Attracting Partners? by ebubeson(op): 2:53pm On Oct 31, 2023
Do you know you can be nice, respectful, obedient, hardworking, trustworthy, sincere, loving, faithful, and yet, you may not be attracting suitors or partners as a male or female. You may even notice that those guys and girls who tell lies, deceive etc, may have more suitors or partners than you. You may even be more attractive than them, yet may still have low attraction.
I will give you likely reasons why this may be so.

(1) Bad Hygiene: No matter do good or best character you possess, if you are dirty or unhygienic, you may lose potential partners. Spend time to know your hygiene level and deal with it. Deal with body odour, mouth odour, irritating behaviour that can make people throw up etc.

(2) Unattractive Dress Style: A virtuous lady that dress like a local village girl may not attract suitors. Imagine being responsible, faithful, good etc., yet you dress or appear like an "old woman"..Guys may leave you for a well-dressed runs girl.

(3) Lack of Self-esteem: If you have good character, do your best to build a very good self-esteem. A good guy or lady without self-esteem may be trampled upon and "mis-used".. You should know when to say NO, YES, WALK-OUT etc. Do not be beggarly. When you are wrong, apologize sincerely but do not beg hopelessly...Do not be the one always fighting for relationships to stay. Know that your good character is not cheap, then prove it by showing your worth.
RomanceRe: "She Had Sex With Her Friend A Night To Her Wedding With A Pastor" by ebubeson(op): 2:07pm On Oct 31, 2023
pradoyeep:
If God give person better woman, make the person thank God.
SportsMessi Vs Orororo by ebubeson(op): 10:42pm On Oct 30, 2023
8 Ballon door
RomanceRe: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by ebubeson: 6:09pm On Oct 30, 2023
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Christianity EtcWhy Christianity Is More About Character Than Shouting Fire by ebubeson(op): 9:24am On Oct 29, 2023
If you bring 10 christians randomly in Nigeria and tell them that there is a contract worth 40 million Naira, but a bribe of 100k is needed. I tell you, the whole of them may pay that bribe. But the same 10 of them may shout "I carry fire", "Holyghost fire", "touch not" etc during prayers.

Can't you see that the world is not really impressed by all these "Fire shouting ", "gingering", etc. If Christians in Nigeria can be separated in lifestyle, kind, loving, truthful, honest, pure, accommodating, not singing worldly music, prayerful, not bribing, not inflating contract prices, dressing like harlots etc, then the world may see the full light.
Christianity EtcRe: Isaac Oyedepo: We Are Not Photocopies Of Our Parents’ Calling by ebubeson: 5:58pm On Oct 27, 2023
CloudTrees:
The branch that breaks off the tree find it hard to survive
Abeg ignore this for now. Can't God lead someone? What of if he wasn't a pastor? Maybe an engineer
RomanceRe: What Have You Achieved This Year? by ebubeson(op): 7:27pm On Oct 23, 2023
JAMO4REAL1:
Thank God am alive
RomanceRe: The Current "Mugu" You are Deceiving May Be Your Future Spouse by ebubeson(op): 7:26pm On Oct 23, 2023
Do not waste opportunity
RomanceRe: "She Had Sex With Her Friend A Night To Her Wedding With A Pastor" by ebubeson(op): 7:25pm On Oct 23, 2023
cutecommend:
The consequences of evil aint good
RomanceRe: Nigerian Lady Welcomes Nonuplets (9 Babies) After 25 Years Of Waiting (Video) by ebubeson: 7:24pm On Oct 23, 2023
That's much

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