₦airaland Forum

For your acceptance of this, may God forgive you, show you mercy and help you lead this country according to His will.

As a lady or a guy, one thing that may be chasing people away from you despite your good character, may be your hygiene level. Imagine a decent, polite, loving, respectful and good lady with very dirty and smelly cloth, also having smelly hair. Some guys and ladies may be comfortable with certain ugly smells. Some may not clean certain parts of the body properly, some may have particules of faeces in the anus. These same people may be jovial and friendly, and still have dirtiness..

Today, spend time to be clean and hygienic. If you are comfortable with dirtiness, work on it.

Happy Sunday to you.

Thank God for his mercies and thank God for providing church for us to attend. I encourage you to keep going to good churches and do not stop.

We have good churches, but what made me reduce going to one of my church branches close to my house is that if the pastor anoints me, it leads to problems, which I will have to pray or engage on one or more spiritual exercise to destroy such. I remember when another pastor came to same branch and anointed me, same thing.

My church generally is a good church, but they should look critically on pastors laying hands or anointing people. Some of these pastors may be unclean or diabolic, and they may be hiding under a good church. It is better members anoint themselves and only trusted pastors with good testimonies should lay hands or anoint people.

Was it after the sex you thought those things?

You may have noticed that sometimes after rain has fallen, the place gets choked with traffic...
Who knows why?

Hope they are not trying to console themselves using UK and Japan...
Nigeria has failed..
If you put an opening for those who want to be servants in UK and Japan, the job portal may crash because of crowd..

All tribes in Nigeria are loved by God, and we are special people. But I want to tell you some weaknesses of these tribes that may be real.

Igbo: Urge to make money.
Hausa: Urge for Political Position.
Yoruba: Urge for Position of Oga in Office etc.

This is not a general conclusion.

The economy is suffering currently.

"One of the judgement days of tribalism is here"...

Pay them their salaries..

banjicom:
Do you mean man united or man city? Because the cup was won by chelsea in 2020/2021

The one under Cristiano Ronaldo. Chelsea lost.

I have watched several tough matches that caused tension, but the one I can bring out is Chelsea VS Man united (Champions League Final) 2008

Renewed?

(A) shege.
(B) Hardship.
(C) Dollar
(D) Hope

When you were growing up, you may have noticed three kinds of friends or neighbours when it comes to food in your house. (1) The ones who always says no when called to eat (2) The ones who eat sometimes and say no sometimes (3) The friend or Neighbours who never says no or thank you when called upon to eat. They must always join you to eat your food.

Looking at your current self, can you stay faithful to one partner in marriage throughout your life?

If the President can handover economic development to Bishop David Oyedepo for four years. I tell you, if it's God's will, Nigeria will be progress well.

Marriage is an achievement if you marry God's choice for you.
If you marry the wrong partner, you are in soup..
If you didnt die despite all the battles you faced as a single, do not let wrong marriage kill you.
Beg God to give you the right spouse.

If an instrumentalist or drummer or singer is a full-time staff of the church; and employee of the church; such a person must be paid. It is just like working in a bank. The church is his or her office, so such a person must be paid.

It is wrong to ask for payment when you are a member of a church and still get your source of livelihood elsewhere. You cannot be working in the bank, a company etc, and still tell your pastor to pay you because you are a drummer, instrumentalist, etc. Does it mean you cannot help God's house without being paid?

As a married person, share you escape routes to overcoming cheating and how you cope with the temptation to commit adultery.

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Integrity is good

In a bible-believing church, they did an altar call of those who masturbate. I tell you, a "squad" of people came out. And some who didn't come out may still be victims of it..

As to fornication, the rate has increased even in the churches. It is possible that many "christian" ladies fornicate and probably sleep with guys or Ex few days/weeks to their wedding.. Some guys in the christian community sleep with prostitutes and even fornicate with other people.. The bondage of immorality is on the increase..

For adultery, how many married men and married women can come out to say they have not slept with another person for the past 10 years since they married? They are faithful ones anyway.

With the easy access to pornography, this has enhanced immorality. Other immoral act which includes lesbianism, homosexuality, beastality are also there. Years ago, a man said that 60% or about 60% of ladies in a particular place(not to mention) in Nigeria are lesbians.

The way out is Jesus Christ. When you genuinely open up to Jesus, tell him to forgive you and come into you life, He forgives you, cleanses you and transforms your life. Pray now!

Mbaise are doing well in education generally.

Some men from Mbaise including Chioma Ajunwa the olympic gold medalist.

Mbaise are doing well in education generally.

See below some women from Mbaise.

For years you may have heard a person or group of people being tagged with "good in politics". You may have heard of a tribe known for "being good in politics". You may have heard of a person or persons known for "being good in politics". But what I want to say is that succeeding politically and taking a state or nation backwards is wastage. It is better to be low in politics and good in national and state development.

Lets stop these "good in politics" that has not helped Nigeria and focus on people with potentials to develop the nation.

Merry Christmas

As a woman, you are not a fool. But submission here means to respect him as the head and obey him. It is not everything he says that you may take, but you can disagree respectfully. You are not to disagree or drag with him on simple matters that needs no debate.

It means to cook for him always and make sure cooked food is available. And the husband must be tolerant in his demand for kinds of food... You can't just keep saying to your wife " I want fresh food, I cannot eat food in the freezer, I cannot eat food cooked yesterday".. You need to be tolerant.

It means not submitting your destiny and life to a foolish husband. You cannot submit your life to a lazy gambler or an irresponsible man, all in the name of submission. You can respect, but do not submit foolishly.

You cannot submit to a violent man that wants to take your life all in the name of submission. You can submit to such persons from afar without coming closer.

Every bad character you tame is an improvement in your life. Your current bad character may be hot anger, pride, not apologizing, sleeping around, lying, cheating, greed, deception, dirtiness, stinginess etc. You may have battled to stop it to no avail, but let me encourage with mine.

I have shortcomings, but I can tell you some that I have won. My anger issue has dropped. I have reduced in responding badly when offended.

Please tell someone yours to encourage the person.

Some men need maturity.

It is good to be generous. It is good to give. But currently you may have heard situations were a guy trained his babe in school and she later left him for someone else. Does that mean you should not train the lady you love in school?
If you want to train any lady in school, do it this way.

(1) Let the lady love you so much more than you love her. If you are training a lady that loves you so much than you love her, you may not feel it if she leaves. Imagine dating a lady that you do not love so much; even if you are training her in school, when she leaves, you may not feel it much. You may even wish her well. You may even wish to marry someone else.

(2) Another way to train a lady in school is to train a lady you have no emotional feelings for. You can find a lady that is not from a well-to-do family and help her without strings attached.

(3) If you find a lady you loves so much, so desperate of, and that you cannot do without; please do not train her in school. You can assist her at some points, but do not take full responsibilities on her. If you are so desperately in love with her, and then you decide to train her, she may abandon you later, and this may cause you serious heartbreak.