₦airaland Forum

sinkhole:
There will be a meeting between Adamu Adamu and ASUU today, by Thursday there will be press briefing by Adamu Adamu and he will also meet with the SSANU, NASU and NAAT on Friday. That is the schedule for now!

Sammy07:
Agreed.

Buh economy and security na Zero

Biodun556:
In terms of infrastructure from 1999 till date, Buhari government is number one

HolyMan12:
he is really stupid for doing that.

Sincerely, I agree with you.

He should have fvcked you when you were giving him green light

If na me, I for fvck you woto woto

Xahhsy6:
Yoo!
If you don't close clients & make $ within a week, I'll send you 6k...

Elidrisy20:
Not only politicians, what about ASUU members whose children are studying abroad

desiredhome:
Are the selfish ASUU children not in schools abroad and private schools in Nigeria?......

Kingpin1000:
ASUU should getat, are their children note studying abroad ?

Besuccessful:
So fast?

advanceDNA:
Its like you just joined social media platforms..

Someone posted an old screen shot of nairaland back in 2011 or 12 recently....its these same story of women cheating ...men cheating.....

Na today u start to dey hear of women bringing bastards home??

advanceDNA:
It has always been this bad....the truth is just becoming more exposed because of mobile phone tech...

If not for phones...u will never catch some women in the act because they pretend and are careful alot..

Enough men have been caught cheating cos na man dey carrry babe come house, which makes the real girlfriend catch him

...women will always go and play away match in the house of the side nigga..where you go see am let alone catch am...unless through phone converstaion..

nedekid:
All sectors are not working except corruption. Just mention 1 thing you can claim apc and the hearder has been sucessful with. Ahh don't mention train oh, cos that one is a death trap.

bigpicture001:
Women always HV a plan B... Nomatter howuch dey claim to love u

davillian:
Lmao,
I can forgive a cheating girlfriend but a cheating wife that's the end ...
Yours is an unrepentant cheater....

amykwuba:
I know what you going through but you need to be patient and matured in handling the situation because of your children. Do you guys live together or she's still in Kaduna

zahrach:
Baba
Am into a relationship currently with a lady
2years relationship. and we are about to get married next year
Before we met she told me she don't have a boyfriend.
In which I found it difficult to believe.
But after some MONTHS I started noticing some character in her like hiding phone and changing her password and all of that.

She make secrets calls and delete numbers
She even cram the guy number for head

Woman cheat so well even under ur nose
Am planing of cutting the marriage now
Becouse I don't trust her
She will chart from 11pm to 2am
Whn u confront her she will tell u that she came online to read and make some research.

NEUDUDE:
Just imagine if DNA was 2K.

Single Moms for plenty outside

Beautyblogger:
Lol.
Some men do that, too. It's so disrepectful.

The moment I notice that you still talk to your ex or keep your exes as friends, I'm so ex-ing you.

You'd see people come up with all sorts of things to defend themselves such as "I'm not enemies with my ex. We're still friends. I'm mature blah blah"

Okay, Oga, go back to your ex and I'm done. Shikena!

CSTRR:
Modern women of this era must be having the best luck of their lives.

The men have been completely emasculated.

How will it be heard in the olden days that an ex -boyfriend is spreading the legs of a pregnant woman still in her husband house.?

Abomination.
Even the gods will get angry upon the land.

Romanoff:
A man who knows and fears God is also the best to go into marriage with. I am not talking about the type that are workers in church, claim to speak in tongues but are steady fornicating.

Romanoff:
That wife of his probably doesn't even know what feminism is.

A woman that will cheat will cheat. It all depends on the values that she was taught and the values that shaped her.

It's why you have to look we before you marry, man or woman. What kind of values do you have?

For me, infidelity is a deal breaker, domestic abuse is a deal breaker and my husband and I share similar values.

We both know that there's no coming back if any of these two happens in our marriage.

It's not enough for someone to be fine, have money or good job or business, what type of values do they have?

How can you expect total fidelity from someone you were fornicating with and who had several body counts? How can you guarantee that when the opportunity presents itself, that person's flesh will let fail them?

God's way is still the best, stay away from premarital sex.

Go into marriage with God and the way God intended marriage to be to avoid all these unnecessary ex boyfriend ex girlfriend wahala.

Sexual purity cannot be overemphasized.

It's sexual immorality that's leading to most marital issues after money. M wife/ husband has a low sex drive (because they have a mileage of over a million on their sexual experience), my wife/husband cannot satisfy me (when they've spent their youths sampling all kinds and have basis for comparison), my wife/husband always denies me sex (when sex is the solid thing that works well on the marriage).

It all boils down to Immorality my brother and it is getting worse.

Beautyblogger:
She is evil. My ex whom I broke up with since last year hasn't allowed me breathe. You know what I did? I got a restraining order against him even though I've been single. So, imagine what I'd do if I'm married.

A woman who loves her man would never entertain any ex. She had to sleep with him while pregnant. So barbaric. You need to end this marriage before things get worse.

How are you sure the baby is even yours??

SIXTEENTH:
Truth be told bro, immediately you mentioned Kaduna South I know you are in a deep mess. I dated almost 4 of them from the southern part (madakia and rikawan) precisely that was way back in 2003 believe me almost all of them are into all those behavior you earlier mentioned about your wife, even the lady I intended to marry eventually did same in 2016 though my father usually warn me to stay clear from any lady in that particular region because they are always promiscuous in their matrimonial home not until I began to figure out things happening in my own way right now I'm married and she's married too but early August she tried calling me again but... Let me stop here because there's more to reveal I pray you stay strong and emerged victoriously

peedeeasobie:
I think we should look away from your wife and her Ex and focus attention on you.

What exactly is wrong with you?
What is the problem with you?

A woman started cheating on you from the first time you met her till now you are married and you didn't leave?

You may think it's love, it is not.

You are condoning evil and tolerating it. What she is doing is evil and you are accepting and endorsing it by remaining in the relationship/marriage.

I think you have a deep sense of inferiority complex.

Utanisco:
That's is why I can never marry


Stupid set of nonsense creature

I just don't understand why God shud take out our ribs to create these monkeys called women

Those people can and will never have conscience

God forbid them

Mind u I detest homosexuality
If in case yur stupid mind drives u there


Unam ikot

IgOga:
Sorry to hear your story.

You did not marry for the kids you married for yourself. You cannot live the rest of your life unhappy because of the children...it will negatively affect them....you will not be a good role model as you will become a grumpy dad.

Waiting for your wife to commit the next adultery is also not a good strategy.

You are upset and that is understandable. I would advise you to both speak to a wise couple who can help you in this difficult time if you are still interested in saving your marriage. They will need to explore a few things with both you and your wife

1. Do you still want to be married to him/her? Both of you must answer this question honestly

2. They will need to explore the root cause of this drama...e.g. long distance relationship, bad/lack of communication, bad sex, attraction, money issues ( which you mentioned), values and believes

3. Work with both of you to come up with practical solutions to issues from point 2

4. You both would need to become accountable to this wise couple until things get back to normal between you and your wife.

NOTE: The healing process will take some time.....there are no quick fix to a damaged relationship but it can be fixed.

I wish you well

pocohantas:
Ah. E reach to do DNA and even go shrine. Pregnant and still fcking her ex? This one is very strong!!