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GoooodHardDick:
They were either forced or begged to put on those t shirts.

Nigerians wake up! We may never see a candidate like Obi again. This is the best Chance we have now to remove these ancestors and get Nigeria working again!!!

Together we can get it right this time around. Let's not miss this opportunity. Let's Vote massively for Vote labour party, vote for peter Obi.

As usual tehifnubu urchins let the wailing begin in 3.........2.........1...............go!!!!

hahaha

Righteousness2:
Oga Ned and Regina are not husband and wife. They both are deceiving themselves and are only engaged in fornication and Adultery.

Righteousness has spoken...

What if the married woman seduces the man, as in mount pressure on the man to run into her?

H0didon:
Seems you don't even know women . They can hide, pretend do anything as long as it makes them do what they wanna do without notice.
Once you find a Nigerian woman that is transparent, gives you peace of mind, respect and gives you her time, she supports and make you her priority and she come get fear of God. Nobody needs to tell you to keep her.

Sex, Cooking skills and other minor things can be easily learnt but you see those virtues i mentioned up, that's the key gee.


As our Ancestors would say "A virtues woman is transparent in nature".

totally agree �...

Staphylococcus:
Reality will dawn on them in 2023!

I don’t know how lots would believe in 2022, that a little Peter Obi will defeat His Excellence, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu.

Something are impossible in life and that’s just one of those things! Even if elections were conducted 1000 times, Peter won’t win one!

Obi’s supporters are using emotions instead of their brains. They are scared to face the glaring reality staring at them.


Believing Obi would win is like hoping that Manchester United will win the EPL.

Even Don Jazzy has better chances of becoming Nigerias President, than Peter Obi

i disagree, Peter Obi is the man.... The chosen 1....

I no believe this story... Na lie... Well composed story...

The sight of that thing ugly but 1s you are in, your sense will disappear.. God really created something... Over to you Righteousness....

Uptheante:
Na lie bro, unless if the sex lasted for 5 seconds with each of the girls

i strongly agree with you, bro... Na job he dey job himself...

tomtomastom4:
I created this thread in response to the post on front page about ladies that date men who earn less than 100k. Below is the link.

https://www.nairaland.com/7292274/ladies-relationship-men-earns-100k

Of a truth, its not easy to manage such amount, but when one is already in such situation, you just have to manage and improvise.
Now like the OP of the above thread requested, here is the break down of how we make our expenses.

To start with, I was earning about 130k previously before we got married by March this year, but I changed job and the pay of the new job is 95k. STarted the new job around Feb this year, even though there was a loan I was paying off.. Need I add that my wife was working in a firm where shes paid 45K, but two months after our married, she quit the job due to pregnancy stress. Am sure ladies will understand.

This is our break down.
Monthly salary 95k
I remove 40k first from the salary and transfer it to 3 different acct.
The first acct receives 20k. This acct is not touchable except on extreme emergency. Its our main savings acct.
The second acct gets 10k and its for our rent, also non touchable. Rent is 150k per year. Before u say my rent is high compared to my salary, I like my privacy very well. and the cost of rent isnt friendly in my state.
The third acct also gets 10k. This one is for semi savings. This acct is touchable when cash at hand have been exhausted before the next month salary.

From the remaining 50k,
I send 10k to my family acct. I and my brothers do contribute 10k+ every month and its been used to run expenses WRT our parents and last born.
I gv my wife 10k for her monthly up keep. Its small. But its the sacrifice we all have to make for the good of the family.
I hold 10k myself for logistics and transport. I must confess, is not enough. But One have to strive. My wrk place isnt far. SO transport is N100 to and fro, thats approximately 3k per month. The remaining money i use it for other logistics. 4k out of this money goes for gas wch last for abt 2 weeks. And when we want to refill and there is no other money left, we fall back to the 3rd acct.
The remaining 20k is strictly for food ( On this food issue is where I "duff my hart" cos shes really managing things well and trying.
Sometimes, I really feel for her, cos this her pregnancy makes her to crave for things that is not on our food menu, but then when the money is not there, she just surpress the cravings. At times I feel bad.

The remaining 5k, for now is used to pay back a tailor who sewed multiple pregnancy gowns for my wife.

Its good to add that any small money I make like 1k or 2k on side hustle, I directly buy mudu of rice, beans or flour for swallow.

Its not easy at all. But there are families with kids leaving below that.

My wife is abt 5mnths pregnant, we plan to divert the 20k savings to buying baby things in preparation for child birth.


The truth is that the economic situation in this country is bad and so cost of leaving is very high. But then one have to survive.
But then in Nigeria now, how many percentage of the population earn above 100k. In fact how many jobs out there pays such as amount.

The only advice I have for ladies is that if you are not working and you parent family is the type need financial help from your husband after marriage, or you are the type of lady that is high class and wont settle for less or manage with your man. Plz kindly wait and take your time to look for a man that is RICH or financially capable of taken care of you and maybe your family. Please dont hide under the cover of you want to marry quick and then accept a struggling man only to start putting pressure on his head. Plz wait and marry a rich man.

Most responsible men wont really appreciate it if you are always demanding for things you knw fully well that he can not afford.


It is also good to note that no condition is permanent, things will definitely get better. A better job might come or my wife might get a job after her maternity which will increase our income.

The bottom line is, as a couple, but of you will have to work things out to improve your finances.

thanks for the advice, this will help us that are yet to settle down, the economy is really brutal honestly, this is the reason why many correct men are unmarried,Thank God.. Men are not under pressure to get married.. If we have a good job that pays handsomely, the kind of lady who knows how to manage the finances, the home and she's financially supportive to her husband without holding back, that will really make sense... I wish things turn around better for us all...

Kpekus matters arising... Conji na bastard... No gain in prostitution and patronizing prostitutes, prostitutes carries evil spirits and bad luck, men be careful... Use and spend your money wisely... It's better to help someone in need than waste your hard earned money on prostitutes....

Zonefree:
Foolish fans!

I swear.. Foolish fans indeed!!!

This is madness, haba... This world has dabaruu..Lord have mercy..

manutdrichie:


Just like Raila Odinga, Atiku is not meant to be a president

The only opportunity to even come second, he is making silly and avoidable mistakes upandan.

Anyway, as an Obidient we are happy

when they jam head like rams fighting, Obi will cruise to victory...

DSC7:
Nawaooo...

Mehnnnnn some guys dey try oooo

How him preeek go stand for this grandma Abegggggg?

i just wonder, Buharist government don see man finish... Hustle is ruggedly rugged..

Sellfish:
She looks starved and haggard..

Even with all the makeup and Photo Edit


Make una try give her food chop.. Life no suppose hard like this

hahaha

Jeon:
ASWEAR THEY ARE WICKED.


IMAGINE WHAT A MAN TOLD HIS WIFE YESTERDAY.


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THOSE KIND MEN ARE DANGEROUS TO ATMOSPHERE. THEY ARE WORST THAN ENVIRONMENTAL HAZARDOUS MATERIALS.

pls don't generalize... Not all men are wicked...

When a woman is highly sexually active like this, its a red flag...don't go and cheat on him oo... If its too much finger yourself worthwhile waiting for him to be on... Get busy, don't be idle... This bad economy contributed to this... Please be patient with him... He's stressed, try calming his nerves down... Give him good food too, it helps... Without enough gas in the tank, there won't be any action..

falcon01:
so you can't jerk off??

i wonder...

Chibaby87:
Cos you a member that why was you took me as a fan of your so called club. another man food is another man poison. Just free me

I'm not understanding your grammar madame... Please make me understand..

Karnice600:
You're normal but its not ideal.
For me it used to be, 'have sex once and completely lose interest after.' Funny enough, that's the time she'll come with truck loads of love, becoming clingy and irritating me the more.
Look, to attract a person, build charisma to enhance your strengths.
To keep a partner , work on your character to limit your weaknesses.
For me, I found a way out. I asked myself why I always felt that way. I discovered sex wasn't all my innermost part wanted. It was a naughty playmate that can hold witty conversations, talk nonsense and act stupid around me without packaging anything. Someone who has the power to turn me into a talkative even when I don't want to.
I think you take them way too serious when you hear them say those three words to you. Play over it and have fun. Kill that aura of 'big boy' kinda attitude you put up whenever they want to come close. It's a complex on it's own.

you have experience, nice advice, i have learnt something new today... Thanks...

Messi1:
You are not normal..infact you will never be normal.Just drink sniper to end the shit.

wicked soul... You drink the sniper and die...

Chelsea fans and unnecessary noises... I love what is really happening to Chelsea, una nyash don dey open. All the robbery the do other clubs is coming back to haunt them... Haha...very good...

Chibaby87:
Cos you a member that why was you took me as a fan of your so called club. another man food is another man poison. Just free me

news flash! I'm not a fan..

Chibaby87:
They love themselves. I pray he marry her

you must be a die hard fan of this satanic show..

meobizy:
Mscheew. The relationship don end. Highest they’ll date for four months at most then call it quits. Situationships are when the right conditions are present to bring you and another person together. Once those conditions change your mindset will follow suit. Being in the BBNaija competition different from the real world.

Volume increased...

Jennyclay:
Why did God create him without a jaw?? Nawa oo!

God forbid, I can't marry this person oo!

Nigerian ladies that discriminates alot...but if he's very rich you will be the first on the line to accept him..Typical Nigerian lady...

LadyD22:
Lol
Show me someone who didn't have trouble growing up , and I'll show you a tree that can dance , everybody had something to worry about , even the rich kids
Therapy and counseling is not unnecessary , you misunderstood me, if you can afford it please go for it , but some can't afford it and others don't see the value until things get out of hand

But if you could add the support of someone who genuinely cares for you plus therapy, the better for you

Both are very important
And we can talk about things without always bringing religion into it , unless it is a religious topic
I personally have several bones to pick with most religions

I'm not being religious...what do you mean by having several bones to pick with most religions? Please share, lemme understand...

LadyD22:
Yes that would be nice but many people can't afford it and those who can often don't think it's necessary until it has gotten worse
Opening up has helped me and the thing is if whatever it is I opened up about gets out , I won't feel the stigma because whatever it is I've done , I'm not the first nor will I be the last, the only person that should be my concern is myself

If someone tells me about someone else's personal problems , I keep my distance from them because I know one day , it will be me , but there are some people who will take your secrets to their grave if they have to , loyal people exist and everybody deserves a genuine listener that they don't need to pay for

Noted, you are talking from experience, you must have had bad experiences growing up, and i totally agree why you really needed to confide in someone you could trust... Saves time and unnecessary spending and you heal emotionally, psychologically and so on...God must be @ the center of it all for 1 to heal completely,forgiveness by God,forgiveness by self, love your self more,confide in someone trusted, you will be fine...

Uglybwoi:
Okay before the holier than thou and self declared patriots invade this thread, lemme quickly drop this. If you don't watch BBN or you're appaled and disgusted by the show, or if u think lazy, unpatriotic youths are the ones watching the show, why don't you keep on scrolling to more interesting threads that suit you. What's the point in entering and being a nuisance on a thread that irritates you? It makes no fuvking sense. If u think BBN is immoral, fuvking go to another thread instead of judging and insulting people that enjoy the show. Thanks.

NOTE
I have never watched a single episode of the show in my entire life, not because I'm a Saint or I'm 'obedient' or patriotic, so this post is from a neutral point of view. The hypocrisy just irritates me, that's all.

all these BBNaija lovers, na kunu aya water full una brains... Rubbish..