Jeon:
ASWEAR THEY ARE WICKED.


IMAGINE WHAT A MAN TOLD HIS WIFE YESTERDAY.


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THOSE KIND MEN ARE DANGEROUS TO ATMOSPHERE. THEY ARE WORST THAN ENVIRONMENTAL HAZARDOUS MATERIALS.

pls don't generalize... Not all men are wicked...

When a woman is highly sexually active like this, its a red flag...don't go and cheat on him oo... If its too much finger yourself worthwhile waiting for him to be on... Get busy, don't be idle... This bad economy contributed to this... Please be patient with him... He's stressed, try calming his nerves down... Give him good food too, it helps... Without enough gas in the tank, there won't be any action..

falcon01:
so you can't jerk off??

i wonder...

Chibaby87:



Cos you a member that why was you took me as a fan of your so called club. another man food is another man poison. Just free me

I'm not understanding your grammar madame... Please make me understand..

Karnice600:
You're normal but its not ideal.
For me it used to be, 'have sex once and completely lose interest after.' Funny enough, that's the time she'll come with truck loads of love, becoming clingy and irritating me the more.
Look, to attract a person, build charisma to enhance your strengths.
To keep a partner , work on your character to limit your weaknesses.
For me, I found a way out. I asked myself why I always felt that way. I discovered sex wasn't all my innermost part wanted. It was a naughty playmate that can hold witty conversations, talk nonsense and act stupid around me without packaging anything. Someone who has the power to turn me into a talkative even when I don't want to.
I think you take them way too serious when you hear them say those three words to you. Play over it and have fun. Kill that aura of 'big boy' kinda attitude you put up whenever they want to come close. It's a complex on it's own.

you have experience, nice advice, i have learnt something new today... Thanks...

Messi1:
You are not normal..infact you will never be normal.Just drink sniper to end the shit.

wicked soul... You drink the sniper and die...

Chelsea fans and unnecessary noises... I love what is really happening to Chelsea, una nyash don dey open. All the robbery the do other clubs is coming back to haunt them... Haha...very good...

Chibaby87:



Cos you a member that why was you took me as a fan of your so called club. another man food is another man poison. Just free me

news flash! I'm not a fan..

Chibaby87:
They love themselves. I pray he marry her

you must be a die hard fan of this satanic show..

meobizy:
Mscheew. The relationship don end. Highest they’ll date for four months at most then call it quits. Situationships are when the right conditions are present to bring you and another person together. Once those conditions change your mindset will follow suit. Being in the BBNaija competition different from the real world.

Volume increased...

Jennyclay:
Why did God create him without a jaw?? Nawa oo!

God forbid, I can't marry this person oo!

Nigerian ladies that discriminates alot...but if he's very rich you will be the first on the line to accept him..Typical Nigerian lady...

LadyD22:


Lol
Show me someone who didn't have trouble growing up , and I'll show you a tree that can dance , everybody had something to worry about , even the rich kids
Therapy and counseling is not unnecessary , you misunderstood me, if you can afford it please go for it , but some can't afford it and others don't see the value until things get out of hand

But if you could add the support of someone who genuinely cares for you plus therapy, the better for you

Both are very important
And we can talk about things without always bringing religion into it , unless it is a religious topic
I personally have several bones to pick with most religions

I'm not being religious...what do you mean by having several bones to pick with most religions? Please share, lemme understand...

LadyD22:



Yes that would be nice but many people can't afford it and those who can often don't think it's necessary until it has gotten worse
Opening up has helped me and the thing is if whatever it is I opened up about gets out , I won't feel the stigma because whatever it is I've done , I'm not the first nor will I be the last, the only person that should be my concern is myself

If someone tells me about someone else's personal problems , I keep my distance from them because I know one day , it will be me , but there are some people who will take your secrets to their grave if they have to , loyal people exist and everybody deserves a genuine listener that they don't need to pay for

Noted, you are talking from experience, you must have had bad experiences growing up, and i totally agree why you really needed to confide in someone you could trust... Saves time and unnecessary spending and you heal emotionally, psychologically and so on...God must be @ the center of it all for 1 to heal completely,forgiveness by God,forgiveness by self, love your self more,confide in someone trusted, you will be fine...

Uglybwoi:
Okay before the holier than thou and self declared patriots invade this thread, lemme quickly drop this. If you don't watch BBN or you're appaled and disgusted by the show, or if u think lazy, unpatriotic youths are the ones watching the show, why don't you keep on scrolling to more interesting threads that suit you. What's the point in entering and being a nuisance on a thread that irritates you? It makes no fuvking sense. If u think BBN is immoral, fuvking go to another thread instead of judging and insulting people that enjoy the show. Thanks.

NOTE
I have never watched a single episode of the show in my entire life, not because I'm a Saint or I'm 'obedient' or patriotic, so this post is from a neutral point of view. The hypocrisy just irritates me, that's all.

all these BBNaija lovers, na kunu aya water full una brains... Rubbish..

jeromestarks:

Word of encouragement?
Oh! You want me to tell her Well done?
Or I should lie to her that she did a good thing and it doesn't matter?
I simply told her the truth. It is wrong to "encourage" evil deeds.

this matter strong �...

Brendababy:

YOU'RE A PATHETIC IDIOT TO ARGUE WITH STRANGERS! FØØØØL. EWU GAMBIA

haha, you must be an ibo gurl...

LadyD22:


I am not in her shoes but i have succeeded in cutting off my ties with toxic relatives and friends , I was also a teen so I know things like that could happen but as an adult you become 100% responsible

The thing I would do is to open up to someone I trust preferably my age group , they will understand better , there are some things you know but you need to hear someone else say it to understand what it really sounds like

Self love is the key and it is a luxury, when you love you , noone can bullshit you , not even YOU ,
I am a living witness and I respect me , more than anyone can respect me , and noone can make me do what I don't want to or feel what I don't want to feel

So I cannot imagine myself in her shoes

Your point is very clear and understood.... For me, going for rehab and counseling would be a good step. I don't trust opening up to anyone about such sensitive issues.. People's mouth leak...that's my opinion.

How old are you now?

jeromestarks:

You don cast!
That guilt you feel is a sign that you documents are with the gate keeper of hell; nothing for you on heaven.

For the record, he will bleep you again and again. You will get pregnant and you foolish boyfriend will be held responsible. This is how he will train children who aren't his just like most Nigeria husbands are doing today.

these things happen in real life but please just have some sympathy for the poor lady... A word of advice and encouragement isn't too difficult..

deekseen:


This information is not for your boyfriend. You didn't sin against him but against God.

Asking God for forgiveness is the best start to healing from this. Things like this are abominations and they trigger generational curses. You have already set a faulty foundation (Psalms 11:3).

You can attend any Dominion City Church and go for Encounter Retreat. There's a deliverance session that deals with situations like this.

very good advice...

LadyD22:


Funny thing is two of my cousins have made advances towards me when we we were younger, it's very common and I had elder cousins who experimented with themselves and would tell me about it but I never got a chance to sleep over at their houses so I could only hear about it , but I can't say that I would've not made the same mistake that they made if I was given the chance , children are very curious

But if you're still doing it as an adult , then that is you , you're responsible for yourself now and I'm sure you don't want to get pregnant for a married man , a married cousin , it isn't worth it

It would be easier if you loved yourself but you don't , if you did I'm sure you would have cut ties a long time ago , he's a toxic person and it's dangerous continuing to have anything to do with him
It's not about incest , or sin or married man , it's just boundaries , when you know that something is bad for you and you continue to do it , it slowly kills your self respect and you'll just be carrying on so much emotional baggage and have to live with it
If you have a trusted friend , speak to them about it , I have a few friends that can hear I killed someone and still not react " she probably did it out of self defense"
Me: "No I really wanted to just kill him"
Friend :"Well he was going to die sooner or later "
My most valuable friend opened up about something similar but she was a child and it could've been anyone and now she has phobia for sex because of the experience and she still sees that cousin , acts like it never happened

Don't be leaving your children with just anyone , some people need to have their reproductive organs confiscated because if we start to talk about family members , especially uncles , lemme not talk

it's okay,it is what it is..your advice is good but... Saying too many things @ a time... You're a lady,if you're in her shoes.how can you cope with this?

frankyfranky:
Oga, if u love ur wife, just find away to travel with her... No union is perfect either but she might be feeling lonely n ur so called friend took advantage of that ..
Avoid ur Frd, he is not a Frd.
Even if they have not done something, they do it soon.

you have a point.. Women are very vulnerable.. That's why I have issues trusting women... Honestly...

Osama2478:
Nairalanders,

Please I need you to help me have a third eye into a personal matter. Although, I have taken a position, I just wanted to be sure I never overreacted.

I am a guy based in Europe and my wife is in Nigeria. I have only been away for a year.

There was a day I was calling my wife on phone and her other phone was ringing which I asked her to pick up but she never did only to say that it was my friend calling her. I was surprised and asked her immediately how did my friend get know her other number. She gave some not-so-convincing explanation but I let it slide.

Curiously, when I returned to Nigeria, I discovered that this friend sent money to her and she never told me about it. The so called friend also didn't tell me anything. In fact, he has always acted as if he wasn't having any contact with my wife.

When I saw the transaction, my wife wanted to manipulate the situation to make it look like I was invading her privacy. I stood my ground to know what purpose the money was meant for but no reasonable explanation.

I called the friend too to know what the money was meant for but only retorted if he couldn't give my wife money as a friend. He couldn't offer any reasonable explanation. With high sense of modesty, this is a guy that would wish to be in my position economic wise and I have always been very generous to my wife when it comes to money. Therefore, financial lack could not be an excuse.

After this experience, I severe my friendship with the guy and rein in on my wife too. I felt that was not the kind of friendship any reasonable person should keep because I felt betrayed by his actions and inactions in relating with my wife behind me. I also see both of them (friend and wife) to be dangerous to my well-being.

Please I will like to know if I overreacted.

Thank you.

MOD please take it to front page for wider views and opinions

You're indeed a good man. You didn't overreact... That your friend is a beast... Cut all ties with him asap.. He's a snitch... No friend will try to be closer to another man's wife behind his back, he's a betrayal and can murder you just to be with your wife... End that friendship now ... Sit your wife down, make her completely delete all contacts with your snake friend.. Give her options, its either she chooses you or she's free to move on... If she agrees to stay, she must cut all ties with him, probably change her contact number... Then watch her..if she crosses that boundaries, let her go...

KingKO22:
Zombidients and Obituarists running from pillars to post like a desperadooo

Jumping from one political party to others


A man of zero integrity

Beside OBI is IBO agenda which will fail before arrival of elextio

i disagree

Let's see pictures, seeing is believing..

Don't force sex on a man, if the man is worrying you for it too much, you ladies will still complain...it's not every time, man is sexually aroused, he needs time to balance, rest, being in a happy mood helps too... Stop pressuring him...

When you don't have direction in life... Serves her right... I won't make this waste of space popular, my mind is fixed on Obi/Datti 2023...

Hands shaking tinubu supporters again... When Obi-dient speaks, agbadorian followers should shut up...