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3coins:
Opinion on what exactly?

HELP ME ASK THAT GUY OOOO

IF SHE NOR GREE FOR AM, HE GO COME HERE THEY ASK FOR MUMU ADVISE

lavylilly:
What's the most common thing men say to ladies to get them laid?

I DON'T WANT SEX

AkandeJoseph99:
There is this girl that I love and we've been talking and texting, I've been telling her I love her and she tells me I am special too, most times she doesn't sleep at night and even when my phone is off her call comes in almost immediate even by midnight, until recently I noticed she's losing interest and doesn't get excited talking to me again like she uses to be before. I asked her but she always said it's because she is busy, so I continued texting her because she seldom picks my call I begged her a lot and kept on calling and texting until recently I asked her what's up or she should tell me if she has another boyfriend she now said that a boy asked her to be his girlfriend and she told him yes November last year, I went ahead to ask her that what about me she said she didn't know I love her, that she thought we're just friends that I should have told her, so I got heart broken and kept on texting her but it seems the texts don't even make sense to her and when she manages to pick my call or call me she avoids many talks. Please what should I do, I've been drinking and started drugs but still. I've been having sleepless nights and can't concentrate with my life. Admin please push to front page I need help.

I'm truly sorry I am replying late. There's still a chance that you can get her back but you have to act quickly.

She lost interest in you because you are no longer fun. Every conversation with you is predictable and boring, i.e you are either apologising or professing love. These things are killing her interest in you.

Do these instead:
1. Reduce the calls to the barest minimum like once a week.
2. Please stop the text and chats
3. Stop talking about relationship with her
4. Stop all your stalk-ish attitude
5. Don't ever take advice from a girl about a girl

and for the final tip that's going to get her back to you, chat me up privately

I can help you get her back but you have to stop taking alcohol and drugs cause I can't talk to someone that is not sober.

Jones47:
I thought love was simple, turns out it's more complicated than just falling in love!!!

Since last year January, when my babe travel out to start school, we never see but I dey do the normal, I dey call, dey text the send her card and money. Well things no come dey go smooth so I come cut the rate at which I the do the above.
First week of December, last year, I lost my phone since Na only my iPad remain. I no fit call her that often. Though I been dey happy because even as d phone loss, it offer me more economic benefit than if it been dey. Although I dey Abuja and she dey cross River, we plan say we go spend time during this holz but I no come get enough money to travel so I lock up
Normally, the way our relationship be, we exclude jealousy and encourages sincerity. So on a regular, me no dey jealous or feel bad when we discuss some kind things.

Yesterday, I come try call her, after much talking, she get mind dey tell me how, she and her ex been sit-out abi na make-out during xmas period and how dey guy dey even tell her say 'prophet say na she be his wife' and that 'he still love her' and all those kind shit.
It no even stop there. she still tell me say, though she never talk to am today but the last time them talk, the guy said that he will come around for the new year period and even tease to get her with him behind closed doors... That she don tell am say he dey waste him time because she want just dey cool with am make him no feel say 'anything go happen between them again'..
My fear now na say, na only this babe me don invest much for and besides the guy in question dey on more bread than me..
I dey strongly feel say my babe dey keep me on attachment level so that she fit still dey obtain from me..
Abeg I need advice on what to do..
Make I no start foolishly this year.. Thanks

I'm truly sorry that this is coming late but it is not totally bad yet.

Your babe opened up to you because nothing has happened yet which is a good thing. But for her to be giving attention to another guy simply means that you are no longer doing things right. This is her way of telling you that there's someone else in the picture, if you love me as much as you say you do, please step up.

If you do not step up on time, you will lose her to the other guy.

NB: If the guy knows his game, he will have her before January runs out....but you have a upper hand because you are the one she wants, so step up and get your girl.

If you want to know how, lets talk privately