Sterope:
Yeah because you are a rapist

THIS IS WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT.... HE ONLY COMMENTED ON A THREAD IN NAIRALAND AND NOW HE IS A RAPIST

Kissingerright:
Death penalty to all rapists.






Click my profile for business.

JUST PRAY A PYSCHO DOESNT ACCUSE YOUR INNOCENT BROTHER/HUSBAND OF RAPE

Chidexter:
From today I don increase my proximity with women to 100meters.

Be careful o..... while running away so u don't step on their foot or else RAPE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AprokoDentist:


I get ur point but u should also understand that "One size doesnt fit all"

That it didnt work for you doesn't mean it wont work for him.

YOU CAN'T FORCE LOVE
YOU CAN'T BUY LOVE

ANYWAYS, LET HIM GO AND FIND OUT

NOBODY SHOULD COME BACK AND CALL ANY GIRL A GOLDIGGER.

#JUSTICE4UWA

MRosario:


I'm glad you saw some sense in there. Rape and molestation of young boys is very bad and equal to female rape and should be treated the same.

But to bring it up now, you will be misinterpreted. Even though you mean well for our gender, they will just assume you're trying to justify rape.
Then we start arguing, while the real rapists (men and women alike) will be looking at us, while they go scot free, because we're arguing which kind of rape is more important.

My post isn't about which is more important/worse. It's clear we misunderstood each other.

I am saying all men should not be termed RAPIST sighting examples to my past experiences, not calling every man and woman Paedophiles. And You feel I'm comparing "bads"

#RAPE IS WRONG AND INHUMANE
#RAPE IS NOT RESTRICTED TO ANY SPECIFIC GENDER
#

MRosario:


Dear OP, you have no idea what Genevieve meant.

Everyone knows rape is not gender specific. I don't want to say much, but answer this question honestly;

when walking home alone at night, do you get scared when you see a lone woman either in front or behind you? Or do you get scared when you're about to enter a public bus at night, with only the driver and two women sitting at the back seat?

You might answer yes or No, both answers are valid

Ask this same questions to 100 men, and you will get some that say "No" they're not scared.

Ask this same question to your sister, daughter, mother or female relatives and hear their response. Ask this Same question to 100 Nigerian women, and compare their response to yours.

Then and only then will you understand why Genevieve and other women say what they say.

All men are not rapists, everyone knows women rape young boys everyday.
But I can walk down my street by 2am and only be scared of police or thieves.
But a woman walking along by 2am, will be scared of the man beside her
At that point, it doesn't matter if the man is a rapist or not. It doesn't matter if he can't hurt a fly. He doesn't need to have preek sef, by virtue of being a man, the woman should be scared.

This does not happen in Nigeria alone, it happens worldwide, ask foreign women the same question and they will give you the same answer. But it is worse in Nigeria for some reason, and we need to tackle it, not raise counter arguments like you're doing.

Your points are valid. Maybe what you are saying is what Genevieve meant but that's not the understanding most of our girls got from it.

As true as @bold is, let's not forget that in that same situation they run to men for cover. If you've not experienced it, I have. Are they really scared of all men?

Again, if what you're saying is what she meant, let her re-educate her followers and clarify this misconception

MRosario:


Haba! Make we dey talk true na, guy. Rape na serious issue.

She said women live in constant fear of men, which is very true

If I say I live in constant fear of SARS, does that mean all SARS members will shoot me on sight? No! It simply means a SARS member is more likely to shoot me than a traffic warden. No be the same police them dey?

The women around you are in constant fear of you!

Be objective please... Chimamanda is also a feminist, one I respect a lot. Go here her speak

futurerex:
Rape is not gender specific. Most male child at some point in their life had been victimized. Lack of self esteem is the core reason why most men couldn't speak out after such encounter. This is the reason why am avoiding some female friends like COVID19. If you can fight it out of their hands, they'll tag you "small boy" while your fellow male will join in calling you such name(s). Playing hard to ridicule and body shame you.
May God deliver us all from the hands of rapists, irrespective of our gender

This is exactly what I've been saying

Kyom20:

You are deviating to something else now. Stay on track, false accusations are not limited to rape cases.

As an adult male how many women can rape you? A woman is at risk for rape from the day shes born till the day she dies. Men are often stronger than women, nature has made it so. What does that tell you? That you should help protect those who are at greater risk.

No one is trivialising anything, what am saying is you should man up and stop seeking attention at a time like this.

I have one question for you, dear sir... Genevieve and her followers are calling every man a potential rapist, are you a potential rapist?

meobizy:
Writing epistles never solved anything in life. If such worked then Nairaland would become the yardstick when setting standards for governance. Lawmakers need to create rules to counter these evil vices in the environment without that we shall continue writing letters back and forth for decades to come.

I completely agree but what I don't agree with is when they call every man a potential rapist.

Or are u a potential rapist?

Kyom20:

These your "cases" are one in how many? [/b]Under normal circumstances how many women can rape a man? And in turn how many men cant rape a woman if they want to? Naturally women are not as strong to defend themselves against these attacks. Thats what makes theirs more sensitive.

[b]Dyu know the generation upon generation of torture and abuse women have seen at the hands of men that makes them angry with men? Men dont see half of it, so why try to drag popularity with people who have been through so much.

But like I said earlier now isn't the time to be hustling for attention but instead stand up for the cause at hand. Then when it blows over you can make ur own cause trend.

When people like you keep trivialising Male victims, you will never know the true number or the way they've been affected.

I AM NOT ON A POPULARITY CONTEST WITH ANYONE. ALL I'M SAYING IS... THEY SHOULD TREAT THE ACT, "RAPE" AS A CRIME AND NOT THE GENDER.

I believe you were here on Nairaland earlier this year when someone committed suicide because he was accused of rape, "a crime he didnt commit". You read about it, didnt you? Not every man would be as lucky as Joseph from the Bible.

Do you see what I am saying?

Kyom20:
I don't even know how at a time like this some called "men" are still trying to make this about themselves. Pls who trained you?

Rape is different from molestation. If they were the same thing there wouldn't be two different words for them. Women are molested on a regular, majority of girls are molested at one point in their lives or another but that is not even the issue on ground.

The issue right now is RAPE, how many victims of molestation are killed? Rape is carried out with so much anger and force that the perpetrator can often harm the victim, does this happen to victims of molestation? How many of you "men" that were molested where killed or injured during the incident.

Men need to do better, instead of whining and being attention seekers, be the stronger vessels that God created you to be and protect women. What goes around comes around, if you dont stand up for others in their time of need dont be surprised when no one stands up for you.

What most of them dont know or wont acknowledge is the fact that a man/guy/Male child cant even speak up because of the way the society will ridicule him.

When a boy was raped to death in Warri, nobody heard the news. Did you hear about it?

When a young man was blackmailed into having sex with an elderly woman (church woman o), nobody heard the story. Why? Maybe because nobody will take him serious

#RAPE IS AN ACT AND IT IS NOT RESTRICTED TO ANY GENDER

futurerex:
Rape is not gender specific. Most male child at some point in their life had been victimized. Lack of self esteem is the core reason why most men couldn't speak out after such encounter. This is the reason why am avoiding some female friends like COVID19. If you can fight it out of their hands, they'll tag you "small boy" while your fellow male will join in calling you such name(s). Playing hard to ridicule and body shame you.
May God deliver us all from the hands of rapists, irrespective of our gender.

What most of them dont know or wont acknowledge is the fact that a man/guy/Male child cant even speak up because of the way the society will ridicule him.

When a boy was raped to death in Warri, nobody heard the news. When a young man was blackmailed into having sex with an elderly woman (church woman o), nobody heard the story. Why? Maybe because nobody will take them serious or better still.

#RAPE IS AN ACT AND IT IS NOT RESTRICTED TO ANY GENDER

Cellenero:
Every sane person knows that rape is very bad and inhumane.
When a woman is raped,everywhere is on fire,even some men selling out there senses and accusing all male as rapist.
But when a guy is raped, the narrative change !
You're even mocked and ridiculed for saying you're raped !
So pathetic and disgusting !
Rape on both genders should be treated with equal emotions and attention .

EXACTLY

.

Dear Genevieve,

My name is.... doesn't matter. A question was asked by a guy if there is any guy that has been molested or raped. Immediately I saw the question I knew it was triggered by your post on twitter. Yes, I know you were raped by a "man" and that figure (men) hunts you till date. Well, sorry!

RAPE IS BAD REGARDLESS OF THE GENDER OF THE RAPIST.

To answer that guy's question, Yes, I've been molested and even at a tender age. I was 7 years old when it first happened. She was a friend of the family and I had no understanding of what was going on. The act repeated itself again but with another lady, multiple times with this one until I finally had the courage to threaten her that I was going to tell my elder sister. That was how it ended but my episodes didnt end there as I was molested again less than a year later by a very close friend of the family who happened to be a guy. I had so much hate for him, but I'm better now. All of these happened when I was between 7 - 10 years.

Am I to hate all men and women because of what happened? Should I call every man and woman out there, "Paedophiles"? Well, I dont let that experience define the way I see women/men neither do I blame everyone of them like Genevieve is doing right now. The world is not a bed of Roses, there are "wolves in sheep clothing amongst SHEEP." Yes, there are bad people (men and women) in every facet of life pretending to be good. Though we have pretenders, we also have people that are actually good.

Dear Genevieves, rapist has no specific gender. The act "Rape" is bad and inhumane not the gender.

I truly hope this gets to you, Genevieve, someday, soonest if possible so you can truly educate your followers.

Ok, bye!
Amb. Genie

Alitair:
Hello everyone, Rape is a detestable act that should bear the most horrific punishment. The matter now is the females have declared themselves victims and the males culprits. This is not very correct as I was a victim of sexual assault and the act was done by my Aunt who was in her late 20s while I was 5 or 6.
I know that I am not the only one with such experience so to all Guys....

Have you ever been a victim of Rape,sexual assault or molestation...?

Share your experiences so we can learn and tell you sorry...

This thread is similar to one other thread that was created over two years ago.

I know you're doing as a response to people like Genevieve who say all men are rapist. There shouldn't be any need for that;

RAPE IS BAD REGARDLESS OF THE GENDER.

Anyway, Just ignore people like Genevieve. Let them talk.
As for you and other guys, focus on things that will make you a better version of you, it could improve getting to know God more, finding your path in your field or becoming an expert etc. Do whatever you want except RUNNING AFTER A WOMAN.
If you as a man is tired of this insult, "men cant do without us", show them that u can.

Guymant:
I hear my friends talking about how they have sex with girls and the girls cum multiple times before they cum.
I've never made my girl cum as I don't last 2 minutes. Sometimes I cum even under a minute. I can't tell my friends so I won't be seen as a weakling. I've heard of bajinotu which I mixed with bullet but I still came very early. I've been hearing baby oku is for sex but I wanna ask you guys if you know anything I can use that will make me last very long in bed as sometimes I feel bad when I cum early and I see it on my girls face but she doesn't complain because she loves me. Pls help a brother

Value not sex will cause a woman to choose you

PrinceJoeWan:
Good Morning Fam,
My Friend is currently in a Dilemma, He dated his wife for four years and they agreed on "no sex before marriage".
But after the marriage and Wedding, he found out she's not a Virgin, though he loves her but he is heart broken and he's threatening to take some irrational actions.
So pls how best do we address the issue!!!

Is ya friend angry that she isn't a Virgin or that she lied?

BadRadio:
As far as I am concerned I have no business cooking or doing the dishes... if we are dating, then expect me to expect you to understand what your obligations are. I need not spell them out to you.


There is nothing romantic about waking up in the morning and making breakfast while she's lying in bed expecting me to wake her up to come eat even without brushing her teeth... You go chop slap !!!

Your beliefs, your doctrine, your life

Nor go beat anybody pikin say she nor cook for u.

Learn to know a woman, her beliefs and doctrines before getting married to her. If she nor b d cooking type, No try to change am o...only God can change people.

skimena:
There's this young beautiful girl that is my friend. she's just 19. she's indeed an epitome of black beauty. we are very close. there's nothing about myself I don't tell her. infact we confide in each other. but I like that thing that's under her legs. I just want to have a bite of it and she's aware I'm in a relationship. I've used all my antics such as buying her things but it's not just working out. so I told her to name her prize but she didn't say anything so I offered to give her #1 million either in cash or by cheque just to enter that punana island. She said no that she's not ready to start having sex now. I think she's not wise.

Give your life to Christ

DenreleDave:
With the rate of ladies that self service themselves, it's very obvious that dicks will certainly be useless in 50 years time.... More like saying Men will be useless in the next 50 years coz to even get a baby, ladies can consider other options

Ladies will self service themselves with Big cucumber, plantain, and so on...


Most ladies now have sumtin they use to self service anytime they feel Hot..


Guys, what can we do to stop this??


Cc: Capslocked westernlove ubunja martinez39s madeinchenzen2 seanwilliam seanjy4konji LegendaryLover omar09

And the Bible says, a time will come when men shall be very scarce...


It is your word vs the Word of God.

I know where to put my money.

@bold.... Yea, I'm gonno assume you didnt read, your brain didnt proof read and your understanding is busy with cucumber.

Gentle0wavez:


Like how?? I don't get you.

You change the guy post to words, their meaning and .......

AprokoDentist:
if you really love the girl and you feel she's worth it, I think You should press further

Does she have a boyfriend? That's a no-no for you if it's a serious relationship

if she's still single, is she ready to have a boyfriend? Relationship ain't everyone's priority

are you even her type?
Maybe she's just trying to be nice. You might not be her type afterall

I think if you can get perfect answers to those, you'd know whether to be friends first or just japa.


Never again jump to conclusion. I've had to cut some ties(friendship) in the past for fear that it might lead to relationship. Everyone has their reasons

Press further! This is the worst advice ever. It's because of guys like you that make girls to call guys stalkers, pests and parasites

SPOLO:
Abeg Bosses wey Sabi matter advice me on how to counter this.


I am not really the type that ask a lady out, i just make friends and take it beyond to dating level.

But recently i asked one out and she said she is gonna give me a reply and today she was like.... '' Can we just be a friends''?...


And i am not the type that do friends issh stuff is either you say yes or No.


Please what's the best response to this question ❓

It's pretty straightforward. You told her what u want and she wants something else.

There are two possible outcomes;

You accept her friendship suggestion and become the newest guy to be friend zoned.

OR

You walk away without looking back, give her the option to reach out to you if she changes her mind.

Walking away means no contact and no conversation.

NB: If she contacts after a while, just assume that she wants what u want. So ask her out to a nice date, give her a good time, and if she reaches out again....she is yours. Do not bring up the "will u be gf" again, treat her like your gf but act like you have so many options. This is very important.

Goodluck.

No sex before marriage according to God's word, so dont go there

Gentle0wavez:
Well, at least I learnt the meaning of "Ambivert" from this post, apart from that....

Why are we like this in this country! Nose mask has finished us

Lemme..

Pearlla:
Hi, i'm new to this web forum, i joined about three days ago, i was invited on @kakao talk by a south african friend, she said it was awesome and fun, so she told me to use the web address and i'll find it.....before entering the web i had some kinda' issue with the @korean spam system, this restricted me from registering, so she helped me register here, and ever since i've been loving this forum. Neoge sip-eo ¤|>.
hope i'm welcomed, thanks.

YOU ARE WELCOME DEAR... YOU HAVE MY FULL SUPPORT.

IGNORE THOSE PEOPLE THAT SAID YOU ARE FAKE.
THERE WAS A TIME I WAS SPANISH, MY NAME WAS GARCIA. IT'S THOSE KINDA PEOPLE THAT OPEN MY YANSH. HOPE YANSH IS THE SAME IN YOUR OWN KOREAN?