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you must behave like a human being and use ur head.I am in dsame position as u,though mine is ways younger than urs and i am actually in control of the household,but u will always notice that u will b the number 2 if not 3rd in the house.That is not gud for an African man.It doesnt need to bring quarels btwn u 2,but u really need to find ur way,if u r so deep in luv,u r allowed to cheat and find a rebound,else,wen that luv fades,u will b disregarded and kicked out,that sucks.Av u got ur own kids?how old r u? |
this lady is a bofoon,a what?aa bofoooooon.I rest my case |
Falana or what ever he calls himself will not get anywhere with this one.lets look at it this way,Mrs Chime may have been held at the govt house,though against her will but in the best interest of her health and public figure.As we read,she has been experiencing episodes of halusinations which is a first class symptom of schizophrenia.She may have been diagnosed of a similar mental ailement and as such,has become very vulnerable outside the care and protection of her family.(gov.Chime). There is no breach of human right here as Mrs Chime no longer has capasity to make her own decisions,hence the decision to remand her at her own home(Chime's residence) for medical treatment was made by her medical team and enforced by his excellency. |
GUY,U WILL B THE BIGGEST F.OOL TO SAY THANKS TO HER AFTER S.EX..IT DOESNT NEED TO CAUSE ANY PROBLEM AS OF YET,BUT YOU NEED TO CLEAR HA DOUBT SHARPLY BEFORE IT TURNS INTO SOMETHING ELSE. |
IT IS because MEN R BECOMING WEAK AND LISTENING TO SOME CRAP ADVISE,ESPECIALLY ''TALK WITH HER'' ADVISE.THERE ARE SOMETHINGS YOU TALK ABOUT AND SOME THINGS U MAKE STRICT,AS A MAN,U MUST HAVE A LEVERAGE,LUV IS NOT ONE COS THAT ONE MAY CRUMBLE.IF U LIKE,GO AND MARRY A LADY RICHER THAN U OR WITH 1MILLION BB FRIENDS,AFTERALL,IF U TALK,THEY'LL TELL U ITS IMMATURITY OR U R NOT MAKING THEM HAPPY.RUBBISH.HAVE U EVER NOTICED THAT IT IS THE MOST POLITE MEN WHO END UP BEING CHEATED ON?WOMEN R LIKE CHILDREN IN A WAY,THEY WILL ONLY TEAR EYE REACH THE LEVEL U ALLOW THEM TO. |
IT DEPENDS ON HOW MUCH D MAN HAS..IF U R DOING TOO WELL,WEATHER OR NOT SHE WORKS IS NOT A PROBLEM.FOR ME,I'D PREFER TO MARRY A FRESHER AND GET HER INVOLVED IN FAMILY BIZ,KPATA KPATA WE GO OPEN ANOTHER BRANCH/LINE OF BIZ.PRAY TO MAKE MONEY,IF U HAVE D MONEY,UR WIFE SEF GO LIKE B MADAM |
What kind of question is this,abi u drink shekpe come ask this rubbish..EVERYTHING IS WRONG WITH IT. |
seeking theses dream of a thing is the easiest way to break a marriage,period.Man goes to hustle,woman also goes to hustle then house help will hustle the kids abi?..fair enough if you want to work,that i believe can be arranged in consistence with the needs of the family. God forbid,marrying someone with dreams like mount everest,today in lokoja,tomorrow in ibadan,party meeting and you expect me to accept that because u believe there is gender equality,Abia |
What do u want them to discuss with you,are you considered a bad influence to them,are you married yourself?'whenever a friend gets engaged',when will u do urs?anyways,such is life cos when i get married,my mrs will definitely have to cut a lot of things off..family things!..lol |
guy,respect ur self..luv my bloody as.s..dey there naa.Use this opportunity to look for a more decent gf,once u find one,leave her,that way,u will not feel much heartbreak.. |
I agree with u,however,child support should b limited to fit its purpose ONLY.By that,i mean that,it should not be a loophole for women to blackmail men and it shld not be fashioned in consistence with western methods where a mans assests r shared or where he has to leave his house ect,he should maintain the ex and paid the kid's fees act and shld NEVER mean a portion of his value.. |
Bro,did u marry her or did she marry u?that is just impossible..what kind of advices r ppl giving u here,to treat her well,be a bid husband,talk to her my bl.post ads,she see 's u as weak,that's y she has d hits to do that..let me ask if u live in Nigeria,ur silence may be understandable if u live in Europe but if u live in Nigeria,then my advise to u is to b a man and put ur family in order,if u need to get physical do it without remorse..tradition,Christianity,Islamism and common sense forbids such acts,it is just unacceptable.. |
bros no vex eh,d time u were small,did u suck breast milk or tin milk,if u sucked tin milk,i hope it was not cowbell..okay oo..u were dating a girl for 2 years,no kiss no nothing,u just dey send money..how old are you,from your write up,u sound very young to me,if that is the case,this is your first experience in life but if you are above 25,bros u r a bloody(blaaahdy) fool.. |
broda,U messed up but this is not a time to pour out blames..Firstly,ur hands r not squeaky clean cos b4 u started dating her,she told u she had a boyfriend,y did u shag another man's girlfriend? secondly,the moment u notice infidelity in a woman,u shld dump her and go ur way. I once had a similar case where my wife to be tried to sustain contact with her ex,its a serious situation and i know cos i've been there.I finished that relationship sharply and i am very happy today. Listen,stop fooling urself with stupid emotions that will kill u before ur time,whether d child is urs or not,finish that sham marriage/relationship and move on with ur life while there is still time. |
CNN80: u have spoken ur mind, unfortunately it doesnt really work like that..insecurity is a very big problem to a lot of people.he will deal with it in his own way, just like anyother problem.it is not for u to teach him how to do so.dont give him a reason to suspect u, d only way to gain his trust is to b 100% submissive,never mind dressing like s.ex worker n keeping male friends out of office and strange call n all that..u need to accept ur fate if anything goes wrong.. |
Learn to control ur libido,men are not machines.I hope say u dey wash am for abunna cos bros no dey like am for abunna wen e dey hmm hmm..that could also b d case.. |
What women want is superiority just as it is in UK and many other western countries.Imagine 2 flat mates (men) when they quarrel,it can't b resolved cos they see them selves as equal and right,if u apply same equality to marriage,how many marriages do u think can survive?it is vital for a woman to respect her hubby. No matter how stupid he is,it is not for her to decide..unfortunately,not every man feels secure about himself,it is not his fault,u'll only be adding salt to injury to run ur mouth on such a person cos u'll definitely get a slap.. Imagine a very ugly man who marries a pretty lady so his children could look better,first its not his fault that he is ugly,secondly,he did not force his wife to marry him..At this point,he already feels insecure about his situation,he will often suspect his wife,he'd believe his wife's actions are because of his predicaments,and then d woman damages his vulnerable heart by running her mouth,if he gets fraustrated and acts out of provocation and low self esteem,pls understand the kind of pressure he acted under. |
Hahahahaha,i don laught tire..e dey smit me e dey smit u who go pay...Rubish,let her accept being a wh.or.e,then she can accept payment for being used..Bullocks |
omo man,it is really painful..Women can really endure,u dont expect a man to endure that..guess we're not same as women..really feel for her..May God open her womb..Amen |
@ fhemmy,u r wrong..her affair with simon is d reason for d divorce..its all over d papers mate.. |
I cant help but laugh when every woman screems run from an abusive marriage as if there are men out there willing to marry a used vessel,the right question should be,y is he abusive?could it be your fault?I have said this before on this forum,it isn't such a heanous crime to hit a woman,but a gentle man won't hit a lady,if ur partner is a lady indeed,trust me,she will be too precious to u and out of luv and respect,a man will not hit her,just because u have a pus-sy does not make u lady,too many naija babes are very vaulger and say very horrible things without thinking of the implications,if u behave like a lady u get treated as one,sorry dear,if u make ur self beatable,deal wiv it. |
I wud do dsame if i were d man,however,I will not attempt suicide..no chance,not for who-re..she got what she deserves..qed |
have you still got this car for sale...will 4.7 fly it? |
my girlfriend is currently within that range of pregnancy,honestly beating her will hurt me so much if i did so,indeed women can be very provocative and i quite agree that it could be a justifiable solution to actually raise your hand on a spouse/woman,i just hope that this circumstance will not occur when she is pregnant.Women should pls learn how to keep their mouths and not vommit rubbish,i believe u lots have common sense,try not to verbally abuse ur man,or to say something so horrible that he will find it dificult to digest,dont play on his ego,dont cheat,accord him respect and be submissive in all things..If even though u do all these and he beats u over little things,then u r just too good for him,but i doubt any man wud hit a woman with these qualities |
just before s.ex,buy insert a p.ssy adapter,that will solve d prob... |
Op,u must consider your self very stupid to think people will believe ur story..oh wait lemme ask oo,''u offered to go on errands,took her to parties,even disco''guy,u were bleeping ur friend's wife.That is not what you call being there for a mate's wife,ur hands are not clean,even u sef know dat one |
A lot of u ladies r just very silly.Why would a man who married u beat u up?because you have done something that made u deserve it.Anyway,na women get mouth pass,when time comes,we go c how many fit do anything,afterall,who wants to remarry a woman with 4 kids?u should concentrate on how to be a submisive and gud wife and not how to challenge ur husband,cos when it happens,u'll have ur self to blame |
correct 042 man...abeg enjoy ur fufu jor,nothing do u |
got any kind of phone u may need,just get intouch with your request..thanks for all who called,nice doing biz with u lots.. |