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Legendguy:
I'm on the verge of disowning my father.
The story is long but I will cut it short.
It all began last year when I was in service, I called my father informing him of going for post graduate studies. He bought the idea and when I came back from service he gave me money to purchase the form and I did and proceeded with the application.
Due to covid 19 restrictions we wrote the entrance exam March this year. So I was offered part time post graduate admission
Bfor I was offered the admission I was working as a sch teacher and the pay was very low and during d holiday I had health issues and I was at home recuperating. During that period there was a misunderstanding between us and a family friend came to settle us, and right in front of the man, his wife and my mother, my father declared his decision to sponsor and fund my post graduate studies. He pledge to take money from his cooperative to fund it along with accommodation. I live a state away from the school. He is a pensioner receiving steady monthly pension of 200k monthly after serving in the military.
So the following month I proceeded with the screening and I started lectures immediately. He gave me 40k which I used for Dept registration, pg screening and collected my degree certificate.
The problem started early October when during the screening period I declined job offers that I applied for so as to focus on the early part of the admission.
The problem started early October when I went to discuss sch fees because exam was mid way approaching but to my dismay he tolde bluntly that he doesn't have hands in funding my Masters anymore, meaning he want to have a uturn. I was confused because he can't jus Allow me start something and abandon me Midway, leaving me hopeless, dejected and frustrated. I called our family friend to come and beg him and to also know how I offended him. He began to open up by saying he hasn't see any usefulness in my education. He narrated history of my education from secondary school, company training, few years of writing jamb, one yr polytechnic before I withdrew to university and how I studied a useless course coming out with lower grade. I asked if he didn't know all this before he agreed to sponsor but he couldn't answer so we begged him even kneeling down and he succumbed to the pressure and he promised to see what he would do.
The following day I met him to discuss about fees and accommodation, he didn't say much then on Sunday he left home and went out and came back sweating, he said he went to a church his friend invited him to meet a prophet and he came with a written prophecy report. The report highlighted every one of us in the family but I focus on my own which reported that my father should not spend money on me until he do some certain things. My intuition told me that the man forged it jus to evade his responsibility. I went to meet the man that he says took him to the church and the man denied that he never took him to any church.
At this period I was not my self because we kept on calling people to come beg him even calling his relatives but he kept on giving excuses and always on the defensive side. He called me failure, lazy levelled lots of allegation on me and manipulated his way when I reported him to people and make them to be against me
Reality later Dawn on me that this man want to ruin my education. The worst thing is that I have already started even as far as attending lectures, assigned to a project supervisor and even loosing a job offer, and he's about to ruin my plans of even working because the place I currently live with him is very remote and far from City center.
Currently I'm stranded going to two months now, he hasn't giving me any money, I borrowed money to be attending lectures and getting school expenses
This same man is sponsoring some children's education in the community, two children I'm an expensive primary school, that's just the annoying part of it all.
So now I'm about to disown him, I would make life miserable for him. He must surely pay for the frustration and depression he has put me through.
Since he depended so much on monthly pension I wish federal government should jus stop it for him
Pls I need your contribution before I forget what's on my mind
Mods help me push this to front page

I doubt a military retiree collect 200k monthly as pension. It is a lie. Military personnel are not that well paid

If the private assistant is dead, definitely the building owner Femi osibona is also trapped in the collapse building

rotecch77:
We are here to give you better services

Good job. Please, Is the house 6 units of two bedroom flat and 2 units of mini flats?

pocohantas:
I am 43. Not me.




No need for that. Menopause came early.

I doubt you are 43. Let guess, you write like a 36 or 37 years old lady. I could be wrong.

BellaBliss:
I can see something must be very wrong in your head
Where you there when we were transacting or did you know what transpired between us?? Oversabi people like you will just open your gutter and start spilling rubbish see mind yourself before I go get your time now

Scammer. Refund the man back his money. It is glaring you are a thief. And every nairalander should avoid you.

SavageResponse:
You asked a question yourself and you answered it yourself

Bro, you are hilarious

sisisioge:
Oga Edo biko mind yourself. No start I beg! Just let sleeping dog lie biko. Thank you.

OK sisisioge. But seriously I was just bantering.

TheGoodJoe:

The woman has chosen the man. Swearing and cursing does not change it. Are you going to marry her with the baby or you have someone to marry her and father the baby?

Has the OP mentioned anywhere that they want the baby?

What she needs is support. If she has chosen the man, the only thing the family can do is hope he does his matrimonial rights.

We are past the age of choosing lives for our siblings and loved ones.

shut up idiot. What is bad is bad. How can the imo state man just eloped with a man's daughter like that? No bride price, no marital commitment to the family that nurtured her up. I feel for the OP's family. Will you wish such for your daughter?

jaksmillioniar:
have u marry dear

jaks baba, do you still want to marry sisisioge ni? And the babe go make sense for you as I noticed she isn't the troublesome type.

chinasaekpere:
Hello guys, this is a very strong decision I want to make, I need your help to make this decision or not to. I am thinking of cutting my parents off because they have caused me enormous financial setback as a result of the bad decisions my father made. Firstly, I will like to give you a background of the story.

I come from a family of 4 and I am the first child of my parents. My dad is a retired federal government worker, he worked for many eyes as a school cert holder (so obviously, he didn’t hold very top position until he retired, probably the max in reached was level 8 or 9). He trained me through the university and he retired during my NYSC, at this point one of my brothers was in the university (he never graduated because he was nonchalant), my 3rd brother was a jambite and the last born was in primary school. The Jambite graduated this year and the last born is now a jambite.

In 2013, my dad retired and received gratuity worth several millions. My mom tried persuading him to build a house in the village because we are Igbos but Based in ogun state but my dad refused and insisted that he was going to develop his land in ogun state by building a 4 flats building (up stairs) then start business with the remaining money in Ogun state (apparently, he got the revelation from church to do that), he never completed the house. My dad is very religious until date, so out of the money he paid tithe, bought instruments for church and made some donations. Immediately I finished serving, I got a job with a pharmaceutical company as a medical sales representative. I was receiving a salary of 80k with commission. Things started great. I served some money I joined my dad in some of his fish farm business, I was in Enugu while he was doing the farm business in ogun state. When it was time to harvest the fish, I was told stories about theft, I spent 700k on the business but was able to recover 200k because I had to help him offset some debt.

To cut the long story short, my dad started having serious financial issues, couldn’t pay school fees of my last born in school, had several debts just about 2years after collecting millions as gratuity due to his wrong choice of investment. Ofcourse the financial burden transcended to me, until a point that my dad got into trouble from another debt, he spent church harvest savings that he was suppose to remit. I was paying my brothers school fees worth 150k per term, i had to take money from company’s account to help him offset the debt hoping that he would pay up and I will pay some before company finds out. The whole financial burden was so huge for a starter like me, owing to the fact that I lost all my savings to the fish farming business and I also had to pay house rents in Enugu and pay other bills.
I accumulated a debt of 1.2million with the company and then is started paying it by bit until the company found out that there was a deficit of 400k. I was arrested and was in the cell for days.
To get out of the cell, I had to sign a legal agreement for a payment plan of paying 30k monthly to offset the debt. Luckily for me, I got a 60k job 1month after, my dad couldn’t pay my last siblings school fees, I took him to Enugu and started Paying his bills. I was also paying 30k from my salary every month until I paid all the lost the job again during the heat of the recession. I managed to pay up that debt.
Since 2018, I haven’t really done any serious job, I started driving Uber in 2019, saved up some money, my mom needed money for business last year, i borrowed her, she couldn’t complete the payment. The car I was using to do the Uber got bad again.
I had to look for a remote job now in Lagos, I saved up money and learnt how to do footwear, i Am saving some money to pay my house and shop rent and get machines.
Last two month my dad called that he needed money for my brother’s school fees so he can complete his SSCE exams. He promised to payback mid last month, now I have not seen the money and my that was my house rent I borrowed him. My house rent expired in August. I called him, and ofcourse, he is playing the emotional game. Now, they are in serious financial mess and they seem not to want stop dragging me into it and it’s not as if I am doing great myself. I am not, I’m struggling to make something after mortgaging a lot of time paying several debts. It is overwhelming.

The point is, I am 31years old, I’m looking forward to making my own family and it seem if I am not careful, they will drag me back from this objective. Anytime I try to organize myself, they come up with their monetary problems and it hinders my growth. My plan was to get a shop and equip it before the end of first quarter 2022 from the saving I made from my current 80k salary and now they have collected my house rent in form of a loan. That’s a drawback again.

I have to make my own family, I need to shed some burden to be able to do that. I also want to be a parent and I never want to depend on my kids in my old age.
Should I cut them off?
If no, what do you advice that I do?

Was your Dad still able to build his house in Ogun state before wasting his gratuity money? Or is he still living in a rented house?

missidy:
Please I need a 2 bedroom flat in okota, Aguda or ogunsanya surulere. Budget is 500k. I would really appreciate if can get any suggestions, we have been searching for more than a year. Thanks.

its impossible to get 2 bedroom flat at 500k at those locations. Don't be deceived.

savemeas:
still available.

Where is your farm located? Which state? Can you guarantee all year round supply of the lemons

clarocuzioo:
My brother, its a true story.

I served in Akwaibom also. Its a lovely peaceful and beautiful state, but their serxual drive is beyond this planet, especially their married woman.

I remember few days to our coming out from camp, NYSC officials were sounding it as a note of warning that we should avoid married women.

I never really understood what they meant until we were out of camp. Their married women will be chasing corpers around. like you rightly said, they brag about it.

Akwa Ibom.women can fuc.k, the more reason HIV is high in the state.

But they are lovely people and their sense of hospitality is amazing.

I really enjoyed my service year that I was practically crying when my serviced came to.an end.

It's just that there isn't much money in the state, I would have stayed back after.my service.

I thought akwa ibom is a major oil producing state. How come there is no money there?

Lessons123:
I have a wife and blessed with a daughter, I earn extremely high and I am in a debt of over 2m monthly as a result of paying for a loan monthly to set up a business for my wife which has gulped over 30m and still a failure though this is the second failure of business opened.

I decided to open the business as we both agreed she should resign as her salary as a teacher was the same salary with one of our two maids.

The issue is despite doing very well financially, my wife always gives me issues and there doesn't seem to be any love apart from me being her daily ATM.

There was actually a phase when I had challenges financially and she was the only person to mock me.

I need your advice as the quarrels are becoming too constant and the severe quarrels are majorly related to my brother in laws and sister in laws. Mind you my brother in law has been living with us and disrespects me and she defends him. Also before the marriage she was a very humble and tolerating lady until the business was opened. Sometimes I feel guilty as my dad had to sell his house in lekki and is in the process of buying a house in Ajah because he needed only 10m to complete his house in the village, which I could have easily provided if it wasn't for my indebtedness through my wife.

Mature advise please.

what business did you invest 30 million into and didn't succeed?

longetivity:
Nice one, chealshit did not deserve the medals in the first place

Fool. What do you mean they didn't deserve it?

Because Fani kayode has more political value than Joe igbokwe. Simple

pocohantas:

Oga place your mother above your wife, as your papa sef take place your grandmother above your mother. Last last every woman would have a man that would place her highly, na just patience.

OP, we have to hear your wife’s side of the story. 13yrs with 5kids? No woman would throw all that away over 1 month allowance. Try again.

90% of men will place their mother above the woman. It is nature. A man's first love is his mother.

SeaTrade:
Oga, the business don't need to hedge any hedge,
All he need to do is to have stock,
Only foolish business people who like to keep cash will lose purchasing power.
All the serious businessmen and women actually gained from this whole inflation issue.
All they need to do is to change prices of their old goods to catch up with inflation.

You are 100% right. Its mostly fixed income earners like salary earners that inflation affect the most.

Amadosibina:
Hello people,
Call here for your sugarcane juice extracting machine.
Easy to use.
Start your own business today.
Serious buyers ONLY.
Call 0902 116 6277 for more information.

your label on the sugarcane juice bottles, are they sticker labels or shrink nylon labels?

sisisioge:
This is sort of beautiful though....I love twins

You mean three.some?

deking:
Hello All,

I have an hectare of Pineapple around Dangote Cement Ogun and seek buyers for the soon to be harvested fruits.

Do kindly contact me if you are interested or know anyone who will be .

Thanks

How many pineapple suckers can be planted on an acre of farm land?

sedulus:
Sedulus Farms Nig Limited


Smooth Cayenne Pineapple.

Smooth Cayenne Pineapples are the variety that is usually found in the supermarkets. They have yellow flesh and orange rind and have high acid and juice content. Since its flesh has low fiber, it comprises of about 90% of the canned fruit in the world.

GENERAL REQUIREMENTS
Temperature Range: 65 °F - 95 °F.
Rainfall: 60 cm/year (at regular intervals throughout the growing season).
Soil Type: Well-drained and acidic soil (4.5-5.5 pH).
Propagation: Crown, suckers and slips.
Flowering: Requires cooler temperatures.
Smooth Cayenne' are smooth and it is the most commonly grown worldwide.
In short, this strain was developed for a target market looking for extra sweet fruit, uniform in size and ripeness. This has change the market for pineapple in Europe dramatically in the past years.

We have it very larger quantity .

For one acre contain 16,500 pieces with spacing of 30cm x 30xm ....contact us with the below number so we can deliver to your destination .

We also render the service of planting only at demand .
Kindly note that we make delivery 5 working days from time of placing order.

Payment could be done direct at our farm or bank transfer to the company account kindly call Sedulus Farms With below contact details .

Call / Whatsapp : 08120757274 : 08057761905
Visit: www.sedulusfarms.com.ng
Pick Up Location : Ibadan, Oyo State

How many pineapple suckers can be planted on one acre of farmland with standard spacing practices

Virus99:
Same issue with almost every innovative Nigerian start up: funding wahala !

To take on market leaders like DSTV...one needs a very deep pocket.

And here in Nigeria, you are your own. Banks won't give you money, government doesn't care and we don't have the kinda organized Silicon Valley investors here.

So our innovative young people are easily fvcked by their big competitors.

Well said.