| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by Bamzyriches451: 2:13pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
This gender the lie well well |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by xjiggy: 2:30pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,
I just want to ask this simple question !
What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?
This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.
Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).
The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .
We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .
I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)
In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .
I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !
I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .
My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 ,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!
Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .
I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !
Is there something I don't understand ?
She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .
But why did she lie ? Bro it does happen once in a while. She may have used the money for something she didn't feel like telling u about (like giving it to a relative). You already said she's a good wife. Don't let little thing like this destroy the balance you have in your home. Speak with her and resolve it amicably. Nobody is a saint. |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by kayyzz: 2:43pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
GboyegaD:
Tell her you noticed three withdrawals and she should call the bank to complain since she didn't get value for the N5000 so that they could reverse the transaction as it failed. You are smart... This is the most intelligent reply I've seen so far. This will give her a chance of confessing and not feel caught before confessing. |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by Inspectahdeck(m): 2:48pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
I do not understand men nowadays. The thread above got himself entangled in a marriage with a woman and her 3 children. On the other hand you receive your salary in your son's account controlled and operated by your wife. Oga are you thinking at all  ?? You better change the account to yours and stop being a fool (sorry for the insults the matter pain me). you lean 13,000 from your salary to transport yourself to work. A breakdown of your salary includes Transportation so why borrow from it ? She go collect that money by fire by force Hope she also keeps her income in the same account or she has her separate account? The boy is good.......... Make we men start to dey get sense oooo. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by jaksmillioniar: 2:55pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
sisisioge:
Doesnt she work? 150k is too small for a family in Nigeria now o.....hian, and shes the one appropriately your whole salary? It is well.
1. Leave the 5k matter alone biko.
2. Look into broadening your income as a family
3. Work out how she becomes financially able too
4. Agree on shared contributions
There is no way you can grow if shes the one appropriating your whole salary. You need to have savings, flex money and emergency money apart from the family recurring expense money. Maybe school fees drained this one but you really need to relook your income.
I wish you and yours financial growth o cos it's a major constraint for families. have u marry dear |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by 15ssDRIVE(m): 3:17pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,
I just want to ask this simple question !
What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?
This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.
Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).
The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .
We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .
I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)
In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .
I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !
I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .
My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 ,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!
Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .
I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !
Is there something I don't understand ?
She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .
But why did she lie ? After all this good qualities, you come dey talk of 5k. If you dont have, may your pocket be enlarged ..Ameennnnnnnn no reason 5k abeg. if she explain how she spend am, your hand go fall. |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by GboyegaD(m): 3:18pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Mercychen:
Hey calm down! Kai!
I don't see anything wrong in what the op has done by bringing what is bothering him here for advice. After all it's a faceless forum. So what's the fuss about saying it here?
I mean.. isn't it better to let out his feelings than bottle up his emotions like a ticking time bomb. Don't you think the explosion will be more disastrous to his marriage? Calm down haba.
It was wrong of her to have lied on top of what was entrusted to her. Simple!
Let's call a spade a spade.
How did you ascertain the wife lied? |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by sisisioge: 3:19pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
jaksmillioniar:
have u marry dear I take God beg, no start again this year. May God bless your life biko leave my life alone. Dont even quote again. Thank you. |
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| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by Oju4190: 3:36pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
grafixdon:
That woman disrespected you by lying to you, you must let her pay for it. After Toiling day and night to provide for your family, this is how she want to pay you back. Some women are so ungrateful. Majority of people castigasting op are so ignorant and unmarried hence they can stew nonsense....
If I were you, I'll make sure she send the money back to the account with proof. What nonsense even when you've never benefitted anything from her. This is the devil speaking to the other ear |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by Gfskw: 4:17pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Lol |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by nikz(f): 4:20pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
obi4eze:
Oga this is not the right place to bring family issues. You should be a man and solve your family issues instead of washing your dirty linen in public.
If you truly love your wife as you claim you should be able to ask her why she lied and sort out the issue with her instead of coming to expose her here.
We are not your wife and neither is she us. I can't stop laughing hahahaha |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by grafixdon: 4:23pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Oju4190:
This is the devil speaking to the other ear I don't understand your English |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by bullykay: 4:53pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
So na cos of 5k u write this long episode, if she withdrawal 500k watin u go do? armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,
I just want to ask this simple question !
What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?
This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.
Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).
The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .
We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .
I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)
In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .
I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !
I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .
My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 ,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!
Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .
I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !
Is there something I don't understand ?
She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .
But why did she lie ? |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by Olaideolayemi(m): 4:57pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
sisisioge:
Doesnt she work? 150k is too small for a family in Nigeria now o.....hian, and shes the one appropriately your whole salary? It is well.
1. Leave the 5k matter alone biko.
2. Look into broadening your income as a family
3. Work out how she becomes financially able too
4. Agree on shared contributions
There is no way you can grow if shes the one appropriating your whole salary. You need to have savings, flex money and emergency money apart from the family recurring expense money. Maybe school fees drained this one but you really need to relook your income.
I wish you and yours financial growth o cos it's a major constraint for families. Madam,You called #150k small money for marriage.. until you earned million before running a family?God go help una... |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by mudiana(m): 5:08pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
armstrongadeola:
I am not cheating on her and she never caught me cheating .That's not the story here sa u re not cheating and she never caught u. I no understand u oh! plus how ur wife no go tif Ur moni wey u dey calculate expenses in ur home like tomatoes seller. |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by fof1: 5:24pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,
I just want to ask this simple question !
What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?
This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.
Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).
The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .
We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .
I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)
In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .
I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !
I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .
My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 ,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!
Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .
I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !
Is there something I don't understand ?
She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .
But why did she lie ? MY FRIEND...UR WIFE MAY NOT BE WHO U ASSUME HER TO BE...EVEN IN UR INFIDELITY CLAIMS...BOTH OF U HAVE TRUST ISSUES, STILL.THINK OF IT AFTER ALL... |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by afadi2410: 5:27pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
armstrongadeola:
I am not cheating on her and she never caught me cheating .That's not the story here sa Don't mind the mofo |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by frozen70(f): 5:29pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,
I just want to ask this simple question !
What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?
This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.
Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).
The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .
We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .
I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)
In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .
I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !
I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .
My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 ,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!
Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .
I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !
Is there something I don't understand ?
She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .
But why did she lie ? People lies to cover up some things best known to them In her own case, her lies are traceable Just ask her one more time, how come she withdrew a total of 35k and she insisted it's 30k Is she continues to lie, both of you, or you alone will have to go to the bank to complain and the bank statements for that period will be printed and every thing will be on display But if she refuses, then just watch out, she may have started learning bad things |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by frozen70(f): 5:30pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
armstrongadeola:
I am not cheating on her and she never caught me cheating .That's not the story here sa Locking your phone is a personal decision |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by eagleonearth(m): 5:52pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,
I just want to ask this simple question !
What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?
This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.
Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).
The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .
We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .
I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)
In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .
I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !
I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .
My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 ,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!
Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .
I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !
Is there something I don't understand ?
She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .
But why did she lie ? still can't believe you're married with this immature disposition. You haven't benefitted anything from her, imagine?? |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by Solatium(m): 6:08pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,
I just want to ask this simple question !
What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?
This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.
Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).
The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .
We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .
I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)
In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .
I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !
I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .
My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 ,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!
Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .
I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !
Is there something I don't understand ?
She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .
But why did she lie ? Never trust a woman with money,no matter how faithful she is
Finances are different ball game entirely, change the way you operates your financial engagement with her,give her what you want and never disclose your balance.
ire o |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by edoman2016: 6:25pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
jaksmillioniar:
have u marry dear jaks baba, do you still want to marry sisisioge ni? And the babe go make sense for you as I noticed she isn't the troublesome type. |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by Michiyke: 6:37pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Op, you have a good woman. I know that it is hard to shoulder all the responsibilities alone but correct your woman with love. She made a mistake by lying to you but understand that women are sometimes not logical in reasoning. Draw her close and tell her to always be honest with you no matter the condition. It is not easy for her too especially when the economy is bad and the family income is low. |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by Mypeople2(m): 6:57pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,
I just want to ask this simple question !
What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?
This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.
Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).
The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .
We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .
I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)
In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .
I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !
I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .
My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 ,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!
Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .
I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !
Is there something I don't understand ?
She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .
But why did she lie ? My guy go and discuss it with her... People family problems big pass this one |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by sisisioge: 7:06pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
edoman2016:
jaks baba, do you still want to marry sisisioge ni? And the babe go make sense for you as I noticed she isn't the troublesome type. Oga Edo biko mind yourself. No start I beg! Just let sleeping dog lie biko. Thank you. |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by Kay25(m): 7:12pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Are u alien to your wife?why not ask her maybe she needs money to sort herself out ..always learnt to address issues with your wife before putting anything ..One piece of wrong advise u pick up from here can spark a wild fire in your home and u won't be able to stop it |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by smasher1(m): 7:51pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest:
You are right...
But what engineered the divorce?
Any Kid?
How Long where you married?
Just being curious..
We are here to learn..
Sorry about your experience! Two years marriage. No kids. Details private. The experience made me stronger. |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by torvickof1312(m): 7:57pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
armstrongadeola:
!
Is there something I don't understand ?
She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .
But why did she lie ? You are fortunate to have a wife you do trust. Bros we all do this skits she did. She felt the ATM and alert is with her and it's all what she handle. Believe me she is not a cheat and don't take any drastic action but when you are home call her and seat her down and tell her never to make you loss your trust on her. Cos na little lies bring YAHOO Yahoo ohhhhh |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by bukas15(m): 8:29pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
armstrongadeola:
She didn't forget .she just lied but we will be fine tomorrow morning .We don't let our dispute go beyond a day but I still don't know why she said that .
I will not even ask her again .Bygone is bygone .That's the kind of man I am.i will just let it slide what have you gained bringing your family issues to a public forum. You should be man enough to keep your family affairs to yourself. |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by vickydevoka(m): 8:50pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,
I just want to ask this simple question !
What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?
This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.
Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).
The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .
We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .
I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)
In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .
I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !
I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .
My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 ,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!
Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .
I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !
Is there something I don't understand ?
She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .
But why did she lie ? Oga get use to it. Women lie wen it comes to money issue. My mama go tell my papa say out school fees na 400k, pockey 100k plus, use am buy rub rob . Them no de use de money do better thing, na make-up, cream n other rub rub |
| Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by Geenosko: 8:52pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
So what should we do? |
