₦airaland Forum

Lessons123:
I have a wife and blessed with a daughter, I earn extremely high and I am in a debt of over 2m monthly as a result of paying for a loan monthly to set up a business for my wife which has gulped over 30m and still a failure though this is the second failure of business opened.

I decided to open the business as we both agreed she should resign as her salary as a teacher was the same salary with one of our two maids.

The issue is despite doing very well financially, my wife always gives me issues and there doesn't seem to be any love apart from me being her daily ATM.

There was actually a phase when I had challenges financially and she was the only person to mock me.

I need your advice as the quarrels are becoming too constant and the severe quarrels are majorly related to my brother in laws and sister in laws. Mind you my brother in law has been living with us and disrespects me and she defends him. Also before the marriage she was a very humble and tolerating lady until the business was opened. Sometimes I feel guilty as my dad had to sell his house in lekki and is in the process of buying a house in Ajah because he needed only 10m to complete his house in the village, which I could have easily provided if it wasn't for my indebtedness through my wife.

Mature advise please.

what business did you invest 30 million into and didn't succeed?

longetivity:
Nice one, chealshit did not deserve the medals in the first place

Fool. What do you mean they didn't deserve it?

Because Fani kayode has more political value than Joe igbokwe. Simple

pocohantas:

Oga place your mother above your wife, as your papa sef take place your grandmother above your mother. Last last every woman would have a man that would place her highly, na just patience.

OP, we have to hear your wife’s side of the story. 13yrs with 5kids? No woman would throw all that away over 1 month allowance. Try again.

90% of men will place their mother above the woman. It is nature. A man's first love is his mother.

SeaTrade:
Oga, the business don't need to hedge any hedge,
All he need to do is to have stock,
Only foolish business people who like to keep cash will lose purchasing power.
All the serious businessmen and women actually gained from this whole inflation issue.
All they need to do is to change prices of their old goods to catch up with inflation.

You are 100% right. Its mostly fixed income earners like salary earners that inflation affect the most.

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sisisioge:
This is sort of beautiful though....I love twins

You mean three.some?

deking:
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Thanks

How many pineapple suckers can be planted on an acre of farm land?

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How many pineapple suckers can be planted on one acre of farmland with standard spacing practices

Virus99:
Same issue with almost every innovative Nigerian start up: funding wahala !

To take on market leaders like DSTV...one needs a very deep pocket.

And here in Nigeria, you are your own. Banks won't give you money, government doesn't care and we don't have the kinda organized Silicon Valley investors here.

So our innovative young people are easily fvcked by their big competitors.

Well said.

passionguy:
My dad is late since 2015
Before then my dad wasn't in the country for more than 5years. My brothers sisters during those periods are all in school even me
He was the only one with our mum

maybe he is broke since he has no job. Has your family try giving him monthly stipend? That could work.

passionguy:
My brother is 24 years old. His entire life has been spent fucking up. The thing is he lies, cheats, gamble and steals. He has succeeded in selling almost everything in the house be it fridge, stab, pressing iron, electronic and manymore
Now he has extended it by going out to steal from neighbors and people.
He as been arrested so many times and been bailed. Now everyone in the family is tired of him mostly my mum she can't eat good food because of him because his becoming worse.
Pls Advice me on what to do.

How is your dad punishing your brother for the bad behaviour? Your family should not take it easy with him before he destroy your family name.

Why are Nigerians obsessed with certificates? Nigerians prefer to acquire masters degree than to learn technical skills and be self employed.

For the family of Nwachukwu from Mbaitoli-Ikeduru in Imo State, the end to a promising life of their 27-year-old son, Onyekachi Nwachukwu, the only child and the sole provider of an ailing single mother, came to an abrupt end on Wednesday, August 11 when he was crushed to death under a truck he was meant to fix in a Chinese company in Ikeja, Lagos.

Sources at the company, Perfection Motor Limited in Ikeja, Lagos, told The Nigerian Xpress that Onyeka, who is a mechanic at the company, died of neglect by the company.

One of the sources, who spoke to our reporter on the condition of anonymity, said it took the company management over an hour after the accident occurred before Onyekachi was taken to the hospital.

“He was taken to more than one hospital because they kept rejecting him. He died on the way to the last hospital,” the source said...

https://www.thexpressng.com/2021/08/30/crushed-to-death-grief-as-only-child-of-a-single-mother-dies-under-truck-in-chinese-company/

For the family of Nwachukwu from Mbaitoli-Ikeduru in Imo State, the end to a promising life of their 27-year-old son, Onyekachi Nwachukwu, the only child and the sole provider of an ailing single mother, came to an abrupt end on Wednesday, August 11 when he was crushed to death under a truck he was meant to fix in a Chinese company in Ikeja, Lagos.

Sources at the company, Perfection Motor Limited in Ikeja, Lagos, told The Nigerian Xpress that Onyeka, who is a mechanic at the company, died of neglect by the company.

One of the sources, who spoke to our reporter on the condition of anonymity, said it took the company management over an hour after the accident occurred before Onyekachi was taken to the hospital.

“He was taken to more than one hospital because they kept rejecting him. He died on the way to the last hospital,” the source said...

https://www.thexpressng.com/2021/08/30/crushed-to-death-grief-as-only-child-of-a-single-mother-dies-under-truck-in-chinese-company/

itumafriday:
i mate one girl online and i promised to marry her because I love her. Now she came visiting my place but unfortunately, she take in now am planning to go and see her parents, she told me that she has a secret to tell me, she told me that she has married before and has 3 kids for the man and was divorced. I just feel helpless and i don't know what to do at this stage. Help a brother am dying silently.

breakup with her. 3 kids is too much burden for you to bear as a young man. Moreover, she is deceitful. She deliberately kept the secret and revealed it to you after she got pregnant for you. Can't you see its all a plan by her?

uzucuzu1:
Fellow Nairalanders, I have lost everything that I have laboured for in life. I have no reason to leave again.
The genesis of my story started when I gained admission to study Food science and Technology at University of Nigeria, Nsukka. Prequel to that,I was an academic whizkid. I maintained first position from primary 1 to SS3 except in first term jss1. When I went to pre science in Unizik, I came second out of 3500 students that applied. The result is still with me and can be provided to buttress this post if need be.
How I ended up in fst is a long story although not far from parental love for medicine and surgery vis-a-vis engineering.
When I gained admission in 2013, we were 3 people in class that had good GP. Three of us were first class and out of the three,my GP was highest. Then, there is this unwritten rule in our department that they can't graduate more than one first class in a year.
There was this girl that was behind me. Her name is Egwuonwu Kosisochukwu Vivan. She came to me directly to inquire about my reading skills which I willingly gave to her. In 'appreciation', she told me that I will never graduate, and that if I push too hard, I will end up in casket. Those were her exact words. I wanted to take it to school security but my classmates advised against it. Their reasoning was that people will take it as a strategy I employed to wade off competition.
I left it to God after prayers. I also told my parents who did absolutely nothing about it.
It was not long before I got sick. The sickness is such that whenever I leaves Nsukka, I will be very fine but any day I steps my foot again in Nsukka, I will be sick again. Merely looking at me, one would not notice any ailments at all.
As this was going on so was my GP going down. I did not understand myself until my final year. I was told that I have references for a course which I have passed in 4th year.
In my thinking, all these was just for the sake of the first class. So left everything to God and focused in business. Since 2018 that I left school, I have tried so many businesses and at the point of succeeding, it will crash.
One of my businesses is https://neonaija.com.
This has been happening to me since. I have prayed to no avail. A girl that I thought mini importation business in 2019 just acqured a #75m house but I can't feed. The worst is that I am her digital marketing adviser. There was a time we imported same product, I ran ads for hers and mine, she sold out in two weeks while mine never sold.
I need help and advise. I have goods packed here and they are not selling even though it is hot products.
I have no food to eat as I am typing this. I am using someone's hotspot.
Someone who wanted to help me spiritually is demanding 60k naira from me which I do not have. I need at least 40k naira to revive my business again.
I need help. I don't want to pull the plug I did not create but I might have no choice.
PS: My mom is dead, my Dad is a retired headmaster and not interested in me again because he is training my younger ones. The girl later made first class while I wrote a reference.
My contact is 08167938324.
My Bank Details are:
0424456509
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Thank you!
Anything at all, advice or otherwise can help me. I have lost it all.

Excuses Excuses Excuses
That's all you wrote above. Figure your life. You are a man. Life is never easy for anyone.

This thread is for losers. Life is fun.

uncleck:
I planted pineapple orchard. The very first fruit was eaten by thieves. The second, the third... Guess what? I never had a taste of a single fruit from my farm. This is farm I traveled hours to purchase the suckers. I just left the farm for grass to overgrow it and wildfire helped me finish up...

how many plots of land was your pineapple orchard? And how much is price of a sucker?

Pegi23:
Well I said 80% males.. never said anything about the females

you don't get it? On what basis did you derive your statistics to get 80% Edo men? Talk like an educated person.

Pegi23:
Edo hmmmm well not from my own experience tho but edo mean love to live life without having to work for it.. they beat women(this is the bad traits)..I don't understand why will u beat up your gf and you call that love..80%of edo men do this. I'm so sorry mod and the owner of this site if you are from edo oo.dont be angry with me oo...but I feel like typing my mind....my friend is dating an edo guy and men he actually came to the hostel just to beat her and he did not even fear we were all around (3 females)..and he was like what can we do to him(level of disrespect).he is lucky I like his bae as a friend I not I will beat him up..

Edo men pls repent....
NB:this topic is all about domestic violence..he use her as a punching bag..my annoyance is how dare him bring his bad behavior inside the hostel knowing fully well his babe left their house and came back to her room in the hostel and he still follow her to beat her up..the distance from their house to the hostel is 3 hours..

How can you generalize all Edo men are woman beater based on one experience? Please delete this thread. It is fallacy

chiiraq802:
Real Madrid nko

benzema has Algerian origin in Africa too.

This TEF grant is a waste of precious time. Why will tony elumelu foundation engage applicants from January till August and then disqualified them after 8 months? It sounds unfair. The grant is not worth the stress, time and data wasted.

So many candidates disqualified from pitching. BTW, my quiz scores are 90,90,100,80. Isn't that excellence? And my business plan I submitted was standard. I doubt if the selection was based on merit. No one knows their criteria. Its more or less luck to win it. Pathetic

mayorkun101:
Omo all this broke artist and whack rides... Both cars look rubbish for a celebrity like Mr Raw. Cars self dey decide some accident.

His red car involved in the accident above look like Lexus RX 350

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