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SIXTEENTH:
Suicidal thoughts is on the rise now

What must be done to avert such mindset happening around.

Hope she's at rest now

nothing averts suicidal thoughts,only the grace of God saves people from it, no other solution, life pass all of us may her soul Rest In Peace

CoronaVirusPro:
How do people commit suicide? What do they think about?

In my down times, the moment I think of cat-fish pepper-soup, Egusi with stock-fish, Isi-ewu and Ofe Nsala, I always have more reasons to be on Earth!

Mere knowing that their is no beer and peppered meat afterlife, is enough reason to make you want to stay on Earth.

you never jam depression nahh, pray not to experience it, it’s like darkness encroaching the soul, no cure but only Jesus Christ saves people from it

Hei u are not a driver at all, don’t enter the road oooooo see people piking ooo

Jews don enter, they are no longer safe all over the world and unfortunately USA can’t protect all of them, since the death of Christ Jews never had peace and it would like this till end of time

Ola9ja23:
It's getting red small small
They will start killing all Jews small small all over the world even the fake African Jews will not be left out

there are no African Jews, so keep Africa out of it

Roosters are lovely and edible creatures everyone loves why this man Dey complain, I even love their crows, u for bargain to get one for free as the landlord, enjoy better chicken barbecue

EvergreenDiarie:
Just use fish hook and pin it to a corn and throw it to the roaster, it will lost its voice instantly

ur too wicked bro

Offpoint1:
Pastor Righteousness abi wickedness

This Hamas-Isreal war has made me to realized that all religious folk don't value human lives. All the Biblical genocide would have been supported by todays religious folks.

As long as you put GOD'S NAME IN IT, all crime against humanity is HOLY in the eyes of religious folks, either Muslim or Christians.


If a nuclear warhead is dropped today in Palestine, these folks will be happy and if same is done to Israel, the other folks will be happy too.

Religion is curse to humanity.

A man who has no value for human life have no business with GOD...

u don talk am finish, I have been following this pastor righteousness am not suprised he is so insensitive to human life including lactating mothers and children, even premature babies in incubator are killed by Isreal’s bombing, cos I know most Nigeria pastors are fake

Nigeria don finish it citizens na only God would jugde our leaders

The world is a complete wasteland that would surely implode one day, everyday life is a challenge which would only worsen due to extreme poverty, suffering ,wickedness, hate, corruption and evil, Gods have entirely withdrawn his grace from the world, it’s very very minimal now just for few people that deserves it, so if u don’t know know now..

turmacs:
Those soldiers should be arrested and prosecuted. Why should they stop someone that wants to end their life in this miserable country? That should be a crime honestly. Someone wants to die and go and find eternal happiness in the great beyond, but you're stoping them, do you want them to keep suffering? Abi when you rescue them will you solve their problems? Please people have the right to do whatever they want to themselves.

you ain’t a Good person at all, change ur heart of stone or u may meet some life situation that is bigger and stronger than that ur stone heart…

Nigerians are poor once they borrow u money to pay you na voicemail

Olumaeme:
You get it all wrong.

When you give birth, you are taking responsibility of bringing a child to the world, and most importantly, they did not ask to be born.

Also, the mother have responsibility to the child also.

You see, feminine or no feminism does not have anything to do with the child because they do not understand this until they get to the world.

You created them and hence will have to do what you need to do to take care of them.

Look, even when a child grows up, you still have the responsibility to take care of them because, when you give birth, there I a a possibility that they may not be rich, depending on how life later goes, and don't forget they did not ask to be born.

not only the man gave birth to a child two people are responsible, when it’s time to open una very dirty and insulting mouth to claim equality with men una no go remember that we carry 85% problems of this cruel and difficult life , but immediately when it comes to responsibility una go remember say na man get am, the mother should take the responsibility period

Marriage is not for everyone, it doesn’t work for everyone and nothing works for everyone in life, this African mentality that everyone especially women must get and stay married is madness look at the result

Olumaeme:
You are obviously an irresponsible person and I pray you don't birth children.

You want children to fend for themselves?

thier mother is a human being and an adult so she should do the duty, by the way feminism says that men and women are equal so she should carry on the duty, as I told u the days of men toiling and slaving till death for women and their children are over, times has changed drastically men don try and we done tire for endless women and children wahala on top of only our head

I don carry someone child japa, we live in very terrible times

Omoawoke2:
Fear who no fear Igbo woman

waiting bring Igbo woman come here this Sunday?

sotall:


The problem of overpopulation.

Human lives becomes as cheap as bread.

Imagine a very poor country like Nigeria being over 200 million people.

abby ur right

Were is USA the human rights champions? Hypocritical, genocidal west

Ginaz:
o.p you're not fit for marriage. Your mental thoughts need to be totally liberated for you to have a happy life. all these your negative mindset won't help you in life.

shut up he did the right thing

You took the right decision to leave for ur sanity send whatever u have for their upkeep, don’t mind those nairaland warriors typing rubbish they never taste the bitterness of life they may do worse if they are in ur shoes , the days of men slaving for women and children are gone, nowadays everyone should should fend for themselves

Yorubas see una life?

Curiouscity:
I am married to a 1st girl, but second child. They initially appeared down to earth. But like play, like play, I trained the last 2 siblings through the University. At the moment, she is expecting me to help set up her married brothers in one business or the other. Everything always falls on my head. It comes with too many responsibilities and expectations.
It is very challenging thing!

kai this is called marital exploitation and cruelty, what kind of nonsense is this financial drainage all in the name of marriage ?

Nwanne go and negotiate with mother Russia and settle this ur ego madness u think you can bring NATO into Russias backyard and expect them to be sleeping. after mortgaging thousands of ur young men and women’s life to their early grave in the name of sacrificing for NATO membership ur eye don Dey clear small small u can’t defeat Russia even with the whole NATO support, the world have seen how how strong MOTHER RUSSIA is, USA don use style dump zelensky

KarinaSlim:
My senior cousin caught her husband cheating on her. Till date the husband doesn't know she knows. This man loves this my cousin like crazy. It shows. They married 2 years ago.

She told me that she will be walking out of the marriage by the end of the year (31st of December). The man doesn't know yet.

He still lives life thinking they will leave together forever.
She calls me for advice.
Me wey never marry, na me dey advice married woman.
I am thinking of telling her to go-ahead with the divorce becos she is bitter and it's telling on her.

She is as beautiful as me and so she will marry again.

But that her husband no try.

I'm thinking of telling her to call a big family meeting during Christmas period. Call his old father and mother to the house and some siblings. Cook delicious food. When everybody finishes eating, she should then drop the big news on their faces with receipts of their son's affairs before she leaves. Let them see the son they raised.

What do u think?

Matured minds




Modified
Thank you so much for your inputs. I appreciate. Funny enough. I have gotten the answers I needed from ur comments
So we have decided on what to do.
She will go ahead with my ADVICE above. It is the best for now for her happiness and joy. Life is too short to live in an unhappy marriage becos of an adulterous spouse.
Thanks once again.

I'm out.

foolish small girl that can’t even maintain a relationship for 2weeks is advising a married woman, and the naive married woman is listening. When she divorce the husband may you find her a husband that would never cheat on her till death, and you too if ever you get married make sure to find a man that won’t cheat on you at all, stupid women you and ur cousin that think they can control life events

Klington:
Shameless leeches setting useless standard that nobody in their family can attain.

Most of them has absolutely nothing to offer other than s3x.

I don’t blame them bro God created an Incomplete specie of human and for reasons I don’t know gave men the very hectic and enduring responsibility to take care of them, so they were given the power to set standards on top of mens head

modernWays:
Since a man is expected to take care of his wife and children in this part of the world, it is only logical for every female to marry at least who can comfortably provide basic things for the family.

Don't insult the girl, just don't get marry when you are broke because no matter how you try to explain, society will frown at you the moment you can't provide for your family.

true

oglalasioux:
Women see sex as a commodity. They give it to the person that pays.

you don talk am finish

11doubledee:
Then why apply for Visa/ asylum there.
It doesn't add up.

all my life I have never applied for USA visa or asylum, the country is a living hell

Nonsense, but the real mass murderers are Caucasian whites and not immigrants or non citizens , USA is a living HELL

The spirit of industriousness and self sufficiency has made Igbos big and independent I swear, Nigeria money don finish northern parasites can’t cope anymore but ruin their region with banditry, bokoharam, iswap, Yorubas too now live by over taxing Igbo businesses markets in their place, without Igbos Nigeria would crumble completely

insidelife22:
Most of the money was paid by Igbo traders.

Without Igbos Nigeria will crumble.

am telling you