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In other threads, you will claim you can fight. Trouble dey rear head, you don prepare to hide under bed. Nairaland Rambo. LWKMD.

pinkguy:
I'm in Kaduna helicopter have pass our community More than ten times this night October 30/ 2025 please what is going on

Those people have been killing themselves for the longest time and are dark in complexion. Caucasians believe blacks lack intellectually and the ones they can pinpoint murder themselves instead of coming together to build things. On the other hand, Israelis share the same race as the white (likely Jewish) masters who we describe as western media. Africa is expected to be a place of suffering. Nothing new there.

NNtv:
The blood is still flowing in Darfur, yet the world has moved on — or so it seems.
While images from Gaza dominate our screens, the crisis in Sudan remains shockingly under-reported. So what’s happening? And why the silence?

1[b]A crisis deep in place and scale[/b]

In Sudan, since April 2023 a devastating power struggle between the Sudanese Armed Forces (SAF) and the paramilitary Rapid Support Forces (RSF) has plunged the country into war.
The RSF has been accused of carrying out large-scale ethnic massacres, especially in Darfur, targeting non-Arab groups.
In January 2025 the United States Department of State officially determined that RSF forces committed genocide in Darfur.
Meanwhile, millions of civilians are starving, displaced, and living under constant threat. Famine has been declared in parts of North Darfur.

2. Why it’s not getting the same spotlight

Geopolitics & media attention: Gaza sits at the centre of a protracted global narrative; Sudan is more chaotic, less linear, less “neatly” packaged for media sound-bites.

Access & visibility: In Darfur and other regions the picture is grim and the information trickier to reach. The world often only sees what’s easiest to broadcast.

Narrative fatigue & scale: We’ve grown somewhat desensitised to war-news; unless there’s a dramatic headline or a celebrity advocacy moment, some crises get buried.

Strategic interests & alliances: Sudan’s war involves multiple armed groups, external actors, and murky interests (for example, recent reports show UK-manufactured military equipment in Sudan used by RSF forces).

Ethnic dimension but limited outrage: The RSF’s targeting of certain ethnic groups should spark global alarm, yet much of the conversation avoids naming racism/ethnic-cleansing.


3. Why we should talk about Sudan right now

Because genocide has been determined – this isn’t just “war” or “conflict”: the RSF have been found to be committing atrocities with ethnic targeting.

Because millions of lives hang in the balance. This is one of the most severe humanitarian crises on earth right now — famine, displacement, mass death.

Because ignoring it makes us complicit: When the media and public turn their gaze elsewhere, powerlessness grows. Silence emboldens perpetrators.

Because the African context matters: As a Nigerian posting on a Nigerian forum, we should care about how African lives are valued in global discourse — are they being ignored?


4. What can we do (and why posting now matters)

Speak about it: A post on forums like this, on social media, helps force the conversation into public view.

Amplify voices: Share survivor stories, reports by aid agencies, credible updates.

Question coverage: Why are some crises “front-page” and others invisible?

Encourage action: Support organisations on the ground, push for humanitarian corridors, demand accountability.

Remember the people: Behind every stat is a lost home, a family ruined, a child starving.

Gaza’s suffering deserves attention — no question. But that shouldn’t mean we forget Sudan. War, famine, genocide in Sudan may not be splashed across every headline, yet the scale of the tragedy demands that we talk about it. If we don’t raise our voices, whose voices will fill the silence?

Now I understand why you children don’t have respect in this platform.

A snake has no reason whatsoever to guard a bundle of money.

Oyibo no send you. I love their way. Many African men wish they could do the same. They however fear what society has to say regarding their actions. Do anyhow with oyibo and you go see anyhow. Either the woman cared more for him than his son or she played a fast one on his aged brain.

Bored children on X (still referred to as Twitter) creating engagement for each other. It made front page on Nairaland. This forum is a waste.

How deep was the conclusion you jumped into?

sreamsense:
So,.to you now; because your sister does that means every woman delayed did that too? I would have asked you how old are you to compare if your age has anything to do immaturity to vomit that out?

God has a purpose for every individual, discover your purpose and wait for its fulfillment. A lady or man that marry late or never marry doesn't mean he has molested her or his life in the past or has suffered men or women. No! Not necessary!!

These women spend their lives peppering peers. No wonder they’re never truly happy. How will you sleep well when your mind is always thinking of the next step to stunt on your opps?

Evil comes in all sizes, races, genders and orientations. Bad news.

Somebody who has less than a decade to his life? ROLFMAO.

…but will not read. Lol.

Emceecee:
But you had time to reply
Lol

We go japa after all is said and done. With the small number of children developed countries birth, there will always be shortage of labour. Here, we birth like it’s a competition. Since we have no jobs, we’re going to fill the gaps in wealthier nations.

Princedapace:
The political class has loot everything, and the masses keep supporting them. These men have loot the future of Nigeria dry.

2025 proves otherwise.

OgaTheTop2:
Everything is not AI

Na una know. If you like, meet Jesus, Satan, God, Buddha, spirits of the ancestors and what-have-you. All these hallucinations are societally accepted mental illnesses. I will find out the true religion after death. I live a good life. Any deity which feels I should suffer eternal torment for it is not one I should worship.

Those pictures look like AI to me. I don’t believe it.

Live till their oil runs dry then you can criticize. This is like the people who laughed at Noah for building an ark when the clouds were bright and sunny.

nairalanda1:
Even then, tourism doesnt make as much money as manufacturing and exporting manufactured goods.

Japan is a mega tourist destination, but most of its income comes from industrial growth and development

Super boring program. R.I.P. to her. She lived long.

…and that is why no one takes Nairaland serious. Here na to type comment move on to the next post. No time to check time nor authenticity. Life continues.

Ewedegubbler:
Thunder fire whoever posted this misleading nonsense. I don’t care about the Regina thot but this is an old video of her and her hair dresser stylist whatever.

They have a century plus more to add more destinations.

nairalanda1:
Saudi needs to become an industrial nation. Not a tourism nation.

Stadiums don't make enough money from tourism.

That fat boy will perform better than Ned in any physical activity. He also has the opportunity to trim down to athletic size based on youth. Any fifty year old and younger is better than Ned. Wealth and influence are the only things he has over them. She’s gotten wealth from him. Let the influence rest small.

walosky:
Na this Kain thing she go carry? Ned is even better than this sack of gbegiri

Finally has her chance to date a Yahoo boy. I no know if them use those men swear for Naija women. He looks 29-ish. I knew she’d quickly go for young blood who can give her a needed p*ssy beatdown. This guy is fat. Her self esteem must still be low. She’ll get a fit male in due time.

He’s too old to engage in 16 - 18 hour flights. He wants to traumatize people with the potential sight of his dead body. Abeg, long journeys for him ended at age 83. He should stay home and play with his grand kids. Anyone who wants to see him should fly into the country and spend money in Tinubu’s economy.

“Saanu mi. He’s a good boy. He could never hurt a fly. Egbon Tinubu, saanu mi, he’s the caretaker of my shop and looks after his bedridden father. Please, don’t kill me before my time. E jo. E ma binu.”



Let him personally find out that there are consequences to his actions. I keep telling you children that any of you can be fished out if the government finds the need. Make una continue dey feel untouchable. Na that fat man for Sango Ota go release all your posts from your main and alternate accounts to them. He will avoid social media for almost a decade after this.

Believe he destroyed it at your own peril. There was no video, hence it never happened.

Ghost dey inside?


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With oil projected to last for the next century, they’re still putting efforts to diversify to tourism before the inevitable. Naija, how market? 100 years is just 3 generations.

Visblog:
“Saudi Arabia Unveils Futuristic ‘Sky Stadium’ Suspended 350 m Above Desert Floor for 2034 FIFA World Cup”

Saudi Arabia has unveiled plans for a stadium unlike anything the sports world has seen. As part of the futuristic NEOM project and the ambitious The Line city-within-it, the so-called “sky stadium” will apparently sit 350 metres above ground level, host approximately 46,000 spectators, run entirely on renewable energy, and serve as one of the venues for the upcoming 2034 FIFA World Cup in Saudi Arabia

All these ChatGPT fables.

I lived in the UK for a while. I saw a handful of Nigerian Brits who, for some reason, embraced their heritage. One I knew was 19 years of age and routinely dobale’d anytime he saw me. It confused me. He still had many British tendencies. He could disrespect an elder if there was need and threw punches to protect himself. His baseline, however, was a calm and easygoing demenour. He didn’t care for Nigerian music or off-the-boat females. All he ensured was to show respect to whom it was due.

The wild Nigerian Brits were those whose parents were too busy trying to make ends meet. It was up to them to pick a struggle in life. Many of them pick wrong. The system is always there to put sense in their heads. Anthony Joshua said a prison scare put his head right. He is one out of many.

Nnamdipapa:
I Regretted Travelling and Training My Children Abroad

When I look back now, sometimes I just sit and sigh deeply. If someone had told me that travelling abroad would come with this kind of hidden price, I would have argued. My name is Tunde, a married man from Nigeria, and this is my truth.

When we first landed in the UK, everything looked perfect, the neat streets, the calm weather, the polite smiles. My wife and I believed we had finally arrived at the “promised land.” I remember saying, “Omo, we don make am!” But we didn’t know that survival here isn’t about how fast you run, it’s about how long you can endure.

At first, we struggled to get decent accommodation, landlords wanted proof of income, and jobs weren’t easy to come by without “UK experience.” My wife, a graduate back home, started working as a cleaner in a care home. I, too, joined the hustle , doing night shifts in warehouses, sometimes two jobs at once. Sleep became a luxury. We smiled in pictures for family back home, but behind those smiles were swollen feet and endless bills.

Then came the children, our pride and joy. We were determined to give them the best. We worked so hard just to keep them in good schools. But with time, something changed. The same children we sacrificed everything for started drifting away. The values we grew up with in Nigeria which is respect, community, humility which began to fade in their own lives. They questioned every correction. “Daddy, you can’t talk to me like that, it’s abuse.” “Mummy, this is my right.”

We couldn’t even discipline them without fear. Teachers, social workers, and school authorities were quick to interfere. Back home, it takes a village to raise a child; here, it takes caution not to lose your child to the system. Our weekends were no longer for family bonding, my wife had back-to-back shifts, and I was constantly calculating bills: rent, council tax, electricity, food, transportation… everything had a price tag. The “soft life” we imagined abroad turned out to be an endless cycle of work and worry.

Now, sometimes when I talk to my friends back home who envy me, I just shake my head. They see the pictures, not the pressure. They see the pounds, not the pain.
If I’m being honest, there are nights I lie awake and whisper to myself, “Did I really make the right decision?” I wanted a better future for my children but in chasing that dream, I lost parts of myself, my culture, and sometimes, even my peace.
Don’t get me wrong, the UK gave me exposure, structure, and some comfort. But it also took something from me, something I may never get back.

If I could go back in time, maybe… just maybe… I would have stayed in Nigeria, built gradually, and raised my children close to our roots.
This isn’t to discourage anyone. It’s just a reminder that abroad is not heaven, it’s another battlefield.
Sometimes, when you think you’re running toward a dream, you might just be running away from peace.

It is what it is.

Did not read. I have important issues to deal with in my life.

dbabs500:
Hello Nlanders

I will tel you guys something for sure, marriage is sweet, but the bitter part of it can affect a mans life even more than a woman. Episodes upon episodes have surfaced online regarding SOME men bringing in their wife to the western world and gradually seeing the demon crawl out of them. I have read many and heard of some within my community here in the UK. I always thought these episodes only happen to some people that it could never happen to me, bros and sis, he dey sup oo.

I don't want to delve into too many details, but I just want to share with you guys the most recent thing happening in my own, this is just to let u guys know that he unthinkable can happen to anyone whether or not you deserve it or not

So one day i decided to change the kitchen lights from the white one to the warmer bulbs, I had kept them right atop the kitchen cabinet which is a bit high. I climbed my chair and lo and behold I saw a paper neatly wrapped in a square shape, I took and opened it, lo and behold the attached is what I saw, I obviously don't know exactly what it is, so I called my mum, and the only thing she could tell me was to destroy it and up my spiritual game.

Overtime, I sort of react on situations with my wife, but I have changed ways. I politely and diplomatically approached her and asked if she knew anything about what I found, and she said, where is it, told her I have destroyed it but showed her a picture that I took. She sobbed and said she knows nothing about it, and I silently ended the convo. A week later, I was assisting her to monitor the facebook ad that I have helped her with, a notification popped up on her computer saying ' finalize your hotel booking', which apparently popped out from bookings.com, I checked and saw that she pre-booked a hotel booking for 24th of Oct to 25th of Oct, I saw this 2 days prior to the 24th. I have had it in mind that I will not question her, set a trap and catch her red-handed, I know alot of you would say you should not have told her, she will now be smarter, I have my reasons and that's that. I left for work that day (24th), she was suppose to go for a house viewing as we are planning to move, I knew if for whatever reason, she might use that outing to go run things, that's if an actually plan was underway. On her wayback, we were talking while she was driving, then towards the end of the conversation, I asked her why she nor tell me sey she book hotel for me and her for Basildon, 24th to 25th two adults, she paused for like 6 seconds, and said which booking,then i gave her the lowdown, at first she was defensive, saying she does not want to further be asked questions, but that the pre-booking might have been done in error bla bla. I just ended it with no p, I thought I'd ask you. Since 7 days now, she dey try seduce me, i nor gree Bleep, im just telling myself, what kind of fake life person wan dey live so, i am with a woman that at least i know she's effing someone, because she has not been caught red-handed its all 'lets continue our normal life' but me nor sabi pretend and the fear of contracting disease and also spiritual misfortune is now on the high for my mind. Winter dun come, who i wan dey nack, the depression just start now again. Nlanders what would u do

In the other thread, Nairaland children claimed men who go to gyms have little carrots. In this thread, those same children are claiming gym guys chop everyone’s wives, girlfriends and what-have-you. So much femininity in male bodies. I’m sure you boys have breasts.

At 92, what is he traveling about for? He should stay put. We’re still waiting for him to tear his permanent residency. He never went through with the promise.

Good. What does this mean for me?