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luminouz:
I don't sound angry. I sound real. Get your head outta your ass.

Yeah,you can Insult,do whatever pleases you but I can't stoop so low,that's how you know we not on the same class
And if you insult me I'll simply report your comment

luminouz:
Bla blaaaaaaaa blaaaaaaaa....

Oh is luminouz jealous and angry that other people are happy
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luminouz:
Lmaooo....this thing pepper you oh! Marriage counselor isonu

Ok Mr trigger keep on at it,am just laughing here,you seem to be the one in pains
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Offpointng:
Finally found someone who's got same striking thought as me. Bro I don't need a wife to.

If you say u want to marry cuz u want a child, the wife can turn ur kids against you and finally take them away from you leaving you with nothing. (If u think I dey Cap, people always say the hustle is for Mama. when last u hear the hustle is for papa??) Ur own Biological kids can also feel to entitled and misbehave anyhow cuz u no get where u wan tro dem

But Adopted Kids will be appreciative, make u proud, grow never to forget you and will want to pay you back in kinds cuz they know if they misbehave you can discard them. Many guys don't have this knowledge yet.

Adopted chil has destroyed some people
Doesn't mean they are all evil

So please try to control your words

Darkandhandsom:
It's easy abroad. Here, they try to take your money including the one you'll be using to feed the baby self. That's why you see many children when you visit motherless homes. They use them to get money from the public and govt in the name of NGO

Please adoption is not easy aboard at all
Don't just say it

helinues:
Go to middle east to access the damages done by USA soldiers

They did it to other countries not their own and that's why they will always be above us that kill ourselves

Testiebobo:
My dad's younger sister grows beard like a man, she is even hairy than my dad. I wanted to take her pictures but she refused because of netizens. Is it a health condition? Cuz it is very obvious.

Pictures used for illustration

It's as a result of PCOS
Polycystic ovarian syndrome

UDOKABESTLUV:
Source: CatiaKyen

Oh poor baby,this life is not balanced at all

I pray God guides him and gives him parent that will love him
Lord please bless me with twins I will take extra food care of them,I want to deliver twins in Jesus name amen

Thormentor:
sometimes baby factories are good

Meaning what, babies should be reared for nonsense purposes

RapistOnBail:
Women are desperately wicked. Don't be deceived by their fake cries and innocence

You must be a joker,do u think it's women doing this,these are the hand works of confused young girls

Savedday2:
Why waste your 50k to marry one ashawo?

Chai! Money wey reach men to take flex him you use take carry liability.

I wanted to reply you but went through your post and saw you are just a woman hater,not even worth the English I will write down

Taiwojon:
Abegi go sleep

Kala ko! Kala ni.
Two wrongs doesn't make right


What did the boy do to be flow Like that

Their is not a child will do to get such flogging from anyone much less a teacher,ill spend my last Kobo frustrating that teacher to death

Tonytonex:
you mean that those age brackets can rape a 12 year old girl?
C'mon! Let's be serious for once na.

A man was caught penetrating a 5 month old baby,her mother let her in the room to go take a bath,only to come back and see it, the baby almost died in the hospital,man was 48 years old,or is he innocent too

Philipmoon2:
We already knew that the world is full of evil, but just forget sentiment and reason this well. How can a 14year old girl be successful raped by these grown up men, her body can never carry penetration from one of these guys, talk of 3 of them. The police, parents of the little girl and whoever that's involved are not telling us the truth.

You are a evil person,it's very clear you can easily commit such crime with any remorse
A child of 12 was raped but you. Turn around to say it's her fault,what a evil world

bestman09:
But how can a 12 year old girl be so sexually active and promiscuous? Her upbringing is very faulty. This is a rape case because of the age of the girl and not because she was forced. The report said that the has been enjoying the act hence the multiple times.

The randy men are also shameless and should be dealt with severally. What is in a 12 year old that will attract a man? Even if she is the one enticing them

It's clear there's something wrong with you,did you hear that she went to have sex with them,she was attacked and raped don't you know the meaning of rape
Stop victim shaming just because it's not your child

EmekaBlue:
because men are versatile and can do many things even building a spaceship but women na only ashawo una sabi

I would have answered you in this statement but then I saw the lady statement above it shocked me, I didn't know some women are sexist just like men, wow 😳

luminouz:
And you do? Hiding behind your moral compass to say stuff like the rest of us don't know what's up in these streets!!! Look around you and once you remove the facades from the faces of these so-called married people, you get to see the rot within. Married women and men cheat shamelessly these days or you live under a rock not to know that?

I know what's up. I see it everyday. Marriage ain't what it used to be and will never be what it used to be. So take your high-horse snotty nose away from here.

Hmmm defensive much,got anything that's bugging you in your life!!

Been triggered by someone else's comment is a sign of been angry that other people can achieve peace and happiness that you weren't able to get

Peace 🕊️

CoronaVirusPro:
Who are you narrating to? Did anyone ask you to compose a novel?

Yes prefect example,childish character
Kids that have a phone,so they feel they can easily be rude and childish

luminouz:
Lmaooo....I hear...na today women dey hide dildos or you want me to tell you who the major buyers of intimacy gadgets are? Women!!! And 90% of them hide it from their husbands.

My dear, you are the one who is far from reality. I'm telling what I have seen

And you see those types of things in marriage because of the type of people you associate with ,with how you talk it's clear the type of people you have dealings with, people that view marriage as a joke,and with low morals

That's why I say some people don't know what marriage is about,the go into marriage for all the wrong reasons

And yet they are so many good people in thriving marriages living in happiness and morality,I use my marriage as an example

Anyway nairaland is not a place to get advice from people,I wonder any serious minded person won't post their home affairs here cause it's either insult or useless talk she will get here no single good advice

ayolinger:
Hi Guys. So my US Student Visa expired and I’m trying to do a drop shipping, but I want to do it without coming back to Nigeria. I want to ask if this is possible. Am I required to comeback to submit it myself and exit the US and re-enter with my renewed Visa? Or I can send my passport down to Nigeria and have it dropped on my behalf without any consequences?

I mean won’t my I-94 give me away that I didn’t leave the US?

Please I need genuine advice as I’m trying to avoid the cost and logistics of coming down to Nigeria, and also the wait till the visa is issued.

Thank you.

Get a visa assistant connected a good firm immediately,don't put yourself in a mess by trying to do it yourself

CoronaVirusPro:
The man is buying sexual pleasure he cannot get at home. What else should he do? Other men would have married a second wife.

It's clear nairaland is full of kids am sure lots of the people we reply here are just kids in secondary school
It's high time I stop coming to nairaland, this place is too childish
Kids commenting on marriage,I laugh

luminouz:
So when women use dildos and toys, ain't they cheating on their partners, TECHNICALLY? shebi you wan form say you get talk ni..oya na..let's go there.

Family resources? He spent his own money and nowhere in the story was it told that he lacked in his duties.

WTF?

intimacy gadgets should not be used without consent of both partners
The way you talk you don't know what marriage is about

luminouz:
So with all these good qualities, na onlyfans be your problem? At least he is not cheating outside. Women have varieties of toys and men have to stomach that but that he spends his own money to wash some nude girl pisses you off?
He didn't stop fucking you or taking care of the bills or whatever and you still have an issue with his fetish?

WTF?

You don't know the value and honor of marriage

optm:
there are birth control methods to significantly reduce the chances of that happening so why focus so much on what would likely not happen?

Ehn am a woman,so I should be the one to tell you about birth control not you,what exactly do you know about birth control
I must focus on it because it's very likely,it's highly common for women to take in while on active birth control especially younger women
And the do you know the effects on birth control on women any woman that has sense that hasn't given birth,will not put herself subject to birth control

MrBrownJay1:
yes this is my own opinion... marriage in such a room is no big deal, you can do it without starting a family. just get contraception and/or use condoms until you are emotionally/financially ready to have children. if 2 people are dumb enough to have unprotected sex knowing fully well that they cant take care of a child (or dont have a decent place to raise a family), then these 2 people are unfit future parents.

Yes I remember this,that's how my friend was conceived by her husband,and continued taking the pill for 3 years till today 15 years later,she's unable to get pregnant
Marriage eventually crashed before of inability to get pregnant, infertility induced by hormonal imbalance from taking the pill

Like you started if you don't have a decent place to live,why get married
Anyway I know the type of women that can easily be roped into such life

optm:
you are not following the logic in my argument . let me know why you feel a man would be slowed down in finding his foot after marriage without kids in the picture of things?

What is your assurance that after marriage, pregnancy won't come?

optm:
you actually misread my post . First of, getting a life partner is choosing someone to do life with. this person should ideally have a life as an independent person. If you both are doing life together, it means you guys ought to be better since there would be summation of resources, ideas and support that should ideally translate to better life for both partner. Now if a man is better off in being single than married, something is definitely wrong with the kind of spouse. it means his spouse isn't actually contributing much to his life. yeah i know in Africa, most girls are seeking men to take responsibility for their living and looking for who to live life through and not who to do life with. These kind of girls would definitely cause the men strain and slow down his pace cos she is depleting his resources.

What do you mean in Africa most girls are seeking for men to take responsibility for their living

Dude I fucking live in the USA, please it's the seem here don't trip yourself by saying in Africa that's a big insult
Even lots of white and Spanish do that here do
Yes they are some that's are fully independent,Mr if they give you those women to marry you won't last 3 months in The marriage
Ask any wise person,no one cares advice you to get married when not financially stable it's a mistake, because you must care for your wife,if you can't care for your wife why taking her from her parents house,I was in my parents house and they cared for me before I got married,that's the normal process of life for a normal girl,and a man that's getting married must be financially ready or it happens your wife gets pregnant,you will take her to abort it because your not yet ready,?
But Then you have been listing all the things a woman should have to give you in such management marriage and all the things she shouldn't expect from you
Then you went on to say that she shouldn't be the responsibility of her husband

So may I ask what does a man that wants to be called husband in such case have to offer or is his job only to take
Or will the woman be the head of such home and will he agree that they are equals,since he has both to offer

MrBrownJay1:
pregnancy OR bringing children to this world SHOULD NEVER BE A GAME. too many people out there have children that they cant care for.

You don't understand what am saying,he said you can get married when not financially stable and simply avoid getting pregnant
But it's not that easy because once your having sex even with protection it's not 100 percent assured you won't get pregnant,so it's best to be ready for pregnancy in marriage and not get married when you know you are not up for what comes with marriage, which one of the major responsibilities is children

optm:
I believe the lady you are marrying is an individual and should have been catering for herself and taking care of her expenses before you married her. both of you coming together shouldn't change anything much but rather amplify you cos of combination of resources and ideas. yes it would be proper to have your finances sorted before birthing kids because they would be dependent on you and if you do not plan properly, it would put strain on your resources. But for two independent individual coming together in marriage, it shouldn't cause you much strain in my opinion except it's the wrong spouse you are having. I hope you get my point ?

If you marry a wife what do you have to offer as the head of the house??
Because if you believe that she should continue been the sole caretaker of herself after getting married to you and you don't want kids after marriage
May I ask what exactly you are looking for by getting married in the first place
You have no need for marriage because you are not ready for the thing's that comes with marriage,you want to get married for sex and continue living your life as you were while still single with the only difference of having a stay in sex partner,all you said above is the simple example of someone that's not just ready for marriage but also selfish and you rounded it up by saying if your not successful then it's the wife fault,how exactly
There's nothing more irritating then a blame passer it's simply irritating if I don't make it it's her fault it sound immature

optm:
depending on the kind of partner. It is supposed to be the opposite. His acceleration in life should be faster with the right woman. If a man's life slows down after marriage, he got the wrong partner.

No it's slows done not because she is a wrong partner but because expense increase,if your wife is sick won't you treat her,if your kids are sick won't you treat them
School fees, feeding,health care, clothing,and on and on,you speed more,same applies to the woman,in the end you can barely see financial means to expand instead your just surviving and look around you and tell me if that's not what most people in Nigeria are going through
Yes you might see 2 or 3 that managed to expand and thrive but it's so rare,early marriage when not yet stable will hold you back
My advice make sure your financial back bone is strong before carrying load on it , If not it will crack, am not saying you have to be rich but at least be stable

MrBrownJay1:
if thats what you guys can afford then thats what you guys have to work with... nobody should pretend to be who they are not. a man and a woman can easily live in the above room although i wouldnt advise them to have children "yet". when they better their lives they can get a bigger apt and start a family.

just because you guys are married doesnt mean you have to have kids recklessly, regardless of whether you can afford/accommodate kids or not.

Pregnant is a game it can come even when on active protection,so why gamble

I believe if a man gets married too early,when his not yet stable it prevents him from actually ever getting his footing in life