₦airaland Forum

luminouz:
*Makes a face*

URGH!!! You don't understand anything about being a man and what we sacrifice. It's well though.

Good luck

My dear it's not easy to be a man,I fully know what good man sacrifice,I know what my husband sacrifices

And same apply to good women,they also have their sacrifices
In marriage each person must bend because you both come from different upbringings,you are not twins so no need expecting a perfect man or prefect woman it doesn't exist oh,no marriage is prefect,but if you put each other first before anyone else,you will certainly be happy
Marriage is us first not, only me me first am a man am a man not dey work same as am a woman am a woman,you must know how to pamper your wife,a wife is like a child and no child like to be forced or maltreated

AcuraZDX:
You're the one to be sorry for yourself.

But you guys run to Dubai every Eke market day for tourism.

You go there to see their Emir?

Am not igbo nor yoruba,so am not involved in your tribal battle

Please don't allow her to abort involve your parents and involve her parents as well

Starboytwo:
You are fucking a churchy girl, hell awaits you.

Oniranu, Oti domolomo kpa

Make she leave school, leave church, carry your belle, cuz you are the only son? You no even get money.

Put a ring on it if he sure for you, or na me gangan go carry her go Comot the Thang

A baby is not a thang, abortion is murder

Geovanni412:
Could you expand a bit more on the bolded?

Just to state a few things the judge will consider is who is the primary care giver if there is children
Was their an affair from any of the partners
Who works more hours
Who earns more
Was there any abuse in the home
Any criminal records
And some other things as well


Then In some states who even debts are shared, example a man owned 55 thousand in student loan his wife seeks divorce,gets told she will have to share that 55 thousand student loan as well,in that state the don't only share money but debt

And yes most times get awarded child support and the rest because let's face it they are the primary care givers,the state puts the children first not your emotions

Geovanni412:
There is not enough evidence to support either view

If the woman doesn't really like the man, going abroad is the ultimate opportunity for her to get rid of him

The reverse is the case if the woman likes the man

Either way, I'd advise any man/woman to prepare himself/herself for divorce if he/she is to get married or stay married abroad

Reason is this...the richer of the two couples is the one who pays child support and sometimes, albeit rarely, this happens to be the woman.

Say not richer of two couples oh,there's more than that involved

And yes you are Right,there is no enough evidence to support any if the two views,each should do what's pleasing to him but no one should spoil any mans mind concerning his wife I stand by that firmly

Beverlyjean:
Reason I also put hospital

Back to what u said... so how that making up 45% of international students in the medical field , result to Nigerians making up 25% of the entire medical workforce in America??

Today am stressed out,I have up coming exams,am not feeling in an discussion mode,there's google do some research,I think that will provide any needed information to a suitable level, thanks 👍

Iamicekid:
That’s what families are for, my sis got sent to the uk by my 2 bro and myself we don’t have to wait for a man to help her, why will I ever be mad or fight on how someone choose to spend his money, that outright entitlement mentality, we don’t do that here

I don't feel like speaking in this issue anymore,like have already said before,I rest my case with my last comment,bye

VanuatuWycombe:
You could rent it out as storage warehouse on a yearly basis. Give allowance for contract renewal with whoever is renting it from you.

Leave racking for your tenant to handle. Don’t forget to involve a property lawyer when drafting and signing any agreement on this.

You can be rendering forklift service with it, if there’s need for it.
Take safety seriously and train all your staff on this so that your investment doesn’t go down while you watch.
Insure it as well.

You have built the place like a storage warehouse already. That’s what warranted the suggestion. To use it as a factory would warrant pulling down some sections of the walls to suit the layout or line or machine design of such a factory.

Assuming you haven’t roofed it, you could have decked it and turn the top floor to an event center.

It's impossible to deck a building if it has already been built as a door floor,that can lead to collapse

Iamicekid:
Appreciative spirit or not I will still stand on my saying that it’s still better for a man to send his brother or sister abroad as long as they shared the same parent than make he send any other woman I rest my case

Well that advice is for you,I only pray you stick to the opinion when it comes to your own sisters and your daughters husband,they should take their relatives and leave them here, please don't fight them or don't even talk
I rest my case

Iamicekid:
That’s your own husband family ooo na them get craze and I do know what I’m talking about, my father send his brother who was the last born of the family abroad, now him don carry 2 of my brothers one of them don even marry born kids even became a citizen before our uncle but them no born am well make my uncle call any of them once make them no answer twice

Different people different stories,that's why you need to talk with respect, your manner of approach matters, saying that carrying a wife is stupid or whatever doesn't make sense because you saw some story online,so if your sisters husband abandoned her here and went aboard would you be happy?
Or even your daughter?

The story you just told me now is a not because of gender or relationship but appreciative spirit

ppogba:
You have the resources to build a warehouse.

You have the resources to go into manufacturing.

And you now come to Nairaland asking what to do. A platform populated by youths that are still being fed.

With all due respect sir, why not ask for a brain first.

Sorry sir if I sound rude.

Your comment is very very rude, if you happen to encounter said youths then that's means you have been going to the wrong topics and your manner of approach doesn't show maturity
With all due respect try to learn some respect and manner of approach

Sorry sir if I sound rude its not my Intent

StraightGaay:
Perfectly once you have operator's running the machines

Can you give me a breakdown of what it takes,my fear is not been around to monitor it,I don't want managers to live big on my money

fidelmarshal199:
I already advised you last year but you didn't take it, With this kind of building, your best bet is a church business. The only thing you needed are just chairs and a sharp mouth prophet.

I will recommend our resident prophets here, falseprophet and righteousness2. Trust me, in few years, you will be an owner of a private jet

Won't God get angry if one does such thing?

Am reading and learning

StraightGaay:
Plastic or recycling

Do you know about this business,if the owner is not around,how can it be managed

Kirchoffs:
So recently I wanted to change my phone from an iPhone 11 Pro Max I got last year because I was already tired of using the phone. So I asked a friend of mine who sells phones and he asked me to get a 14 Pro Max but when I hear price omor fear catch me oh.

My guy told me the 14 Pro Max is now 1.2million naira, I was beyond shocked, but since I wanted to change the phone I decided to still buy the phone. Lo and behold it’s being just over 4days since I got this iPhone and honestly I feel really really empty. There’s nothing special about this huge slab of Glass. Feels like a total waste of money to me.

Yes The Camera of the 14 pro max is superb, video quality is excellent but my old 11 Pro Max will still perform all the task this phone will perform.

My Question is this, fellow Nigerians using expensive iPhones what do you gain from it.

Sir you should be the one answering this question, honestly

AcuraZDX:
So suddenly Buildings are not development?

All these Tinubu minions sef.

Una wey dey use Lagos private individuals high rise buildings gum body for SW?

Sir please with all due respects personal houses, buildings are not development it's disgraceful that someone is saying they are Development and mind you I say this fre from politics

Geovanni412:
A bad person is a bad person

My mum gave one of my uncles 50k back in 1998.

She had an acct balance of 70k overall in her acct.

When the trip abroad no work, she asked for a refund.

My uncle turned around and asked her, "Did I give you a receipt?"

That was the end of the matter.

The worst people that can show you shege are family members.

You can't retaliate because everyone go dey beg you to free am.

Very true , whenever family members do you evil everyone will begin to sing forgive and forget

If I tell you some of the stories my husband has told me, i cryed,it's your family that will betray you the most

DonroxyII:
You can't be Complaining Bro, Start Your Own & Drop Your Price to N2k Per Bag...

You will automatically become the Market Leader Right Now !

Nigeria is indeed lawless and the citizens even encourage it

Iamicekid:
It still pay him pass, cause now the rest of the family will know what to do and put her in her place, no matter how big she later become all the members in the family will still be telling her that if not for your husband she would have been nothing and that will be there for life, it still better than sending a girlfriend/wife abroad any day

Actually they don't tell her anything,she came to Nigeria of recent, after many yeard,no one dey talk because Nigerians love money first and foremost, throw little money around they will not be able to confront the person no matter how bad the person is


I am a woman my husband took me aboard,I have made him very very happy,and even if he sees you today,guy he will boldlt tell you to your face that he never regrets it unlike the multiple relatives he carried their that only caused him trouble and wasted his efforts ,I know them even to greet him good morning they can't,some even told him that they are now all equals,so please don't preach what you don't fully understand in this life everyone will have different life experiences

saintbillion:
Life hard my brother. No privacy again

I remember as a kid,I would get shouted on for collecting white bag when I was sent on an errand,hope they are satisfied now that both black and white have become the same

thesicilian:
How were you able to afford the school

Scholarship plus my husband,am still on it

luminouz:
Lol...I think you are married already.

Why you go carry face for me na, I'm a man. Respect me and all will be fine. Na all those feminazi nonsense I no dey tolerate.

Simps are real. Surely,you have seen them too. Men who think tolerating bullshiit from women gets them pussy and love. But they end up losing both

Yes oh I am happily married and I do carry face for my husband and he knows how to make me happy when I do that,I married who I love and who loves me too
Actually maltreating your wife will get you nowere, nothing worst than a wife you have made to hate you in her heart

Beverlyjean:
So u have been to all the hospitals and hotels in the United States....lol...

Nigerian health workers will not even make up to 1%

Madam if you actually pay attention in the topic been discussed you will know that hotel is a typing error

HIbreed:
You are not fit for this advice. Marry first.

So you are married??

Iamicekid:
I don’t pity some of this people, unna go get brothers and sisters wey be your blood unna go leave them they send one girl go abroad because unna dey Bleep, se if na him sis or bro he send go abroad can this ever happen

My husband carried his blood sister aboard,she called police on him, lied to the police ,almost made him lose his job and tryed to kill him as well,the same sister that said she can even die for him while in Nigeria oh

kingbee90:
You live with your husband in New York and you just said you have been going to different hotels in the US.

Madam I hope it's not what I'm thinking........

If you know what I've been replying you on you will know that's a typing error,we were talking about doctors and I wrote hotel instead of hospital
But do tell me what is it that you are thinking??

Beverlyjean:
Do u know what's 35% ... total percentage of black population in the whole of America is 15% ... and u think only Nigerians make up to 35% of the medical field ....

Do your research,Ive been going to different hotels I tell you 4 out of 10 doctors is Nigeria

thesicilian:
I was waiting for this
What were your (or your husband's) first few jobs when you got there?
There's money to be made everywhere my sis
I'm currently in Nigeria, I own my own establishment. I don't see my self selling it and becoming a dishwasher in UK or Canada anytime soon. The only thing that can make me leave is war

My first step is school not job
My husband after school got a government
job,good one

Yes money can be made anywhere but some places are far more favourable than some and quality of living matters
I never washed no dishes for anyone and I don't know any Nigerian doing such oh

luminouz:
Why won't I be, when you refuse to marry me? 😡😡

If I marry you,and I carry face for you, your friends no go begin tell you say tell her whose the man,teach her a lesson,don't be a simp,cause simp na the new English I done learn for this nairaland oh

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Na PESIN way drink ENERGY DRINK fit read everything way u post...



Waiting I go advise u be say...


Make u fine 1 better ASHAWOO house way u go de JAZZ in anytime way ur GBOLA don de on high-tension..


ASHAWOO don cheap now...


u no say country don hard small now so ASHAWOO de find MONEY and CUSTOMERS..


Na 500h I use NACK ASHAWOO yesterday..


I even 4get my boxers for the ASHAWOO house but dis night I go JAZZ in der to collect my boxers..


mind u. rain don start de fall ooo..



LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

What kind of life is that