₦airaland Forum

kritikul:
Wonders shall never end, a guy has been sleeping with different girls every other day for 2 weeks now. This is not hearsay, its happening in my very eyes. . The worst part of it is that this guy is married and he laeves his wife at home and bleeps these girls at his friends house. What is this life turning into? its always on my lips to ask this guy if he is aware of the AIDS scourge, but am afraid of the insult i would recieve. Who knows? May be his intentionally spreading the virus. On one of sex escapades, the girl was moaning so loud that i had to leave my room and went strolling cos thier room is just next to mine. When i think of what this guy and his likes are doing, i just become afraid of getting married or even keeping a relationship. Pls my people, how do we get rid of this kind of immorality. I AM AFRAID OOOO!!!!!!!!

The state of feeling insecure; uncertainty; lack of confidence.

Kingsleyinfo:
For instance if i demand that my girl friend stop being or keeping in touch with her ex does that make me insecure? Or if i ask her who called her or where she's at when i call her does that make me insecure also?

I really don't understand this being insecure issue. If you love someone you should trust them but that does not mean you can't check on her sometimes to know if you are still on track. By checking i don't mean spying, i simply mean being a little bit nosy. So when is one crossing the line between just checking or being insecure. Your definitions and Experiences are welcome. We can learn from each other and learn how to overcome being insecure. While not being ignorant of certain things we should take note of.

bawomolo:
RichyBlack doesn't criticize the following countries.

Iran, Russia,Cuba and Venezuela.

You must be new around here.

bawomolo:
RichyBlack doesn't criticize the following countries.

Iran, Russia,Cuba and Venezuela.

You must be new around here.

RICHIE BOI:
niger delta boils again! why the unprovoked attack by JTF?

waterworks:
@ poster pls ignore all the things all these people here are saying about it no beign her fault and who cares if she cant read or write. it is a big deal!

If she cant read or write at all that is a big step to be taken ohh. she cant do any of the basic things, writing list for the market, dropping a simple note for someone, sending a text!!? How many other things wont she know about? We often take school for granted but the fact is apart from reading and writing there are other things we learn in school. biology, history, government economics, music, art name it! Lets not forget that she has grown up in the aunty's saloon so its not as if she could have learnt any office or such related skills. SO NUMBER ONE it is a big deal.

yes the next thing is enrolment in school and all that yes learn to read and write. Is that going to really make up for all the other things she has missed out? i personally don't think she will ever be on the same level of the poster and depending on what kind of environment the saloon had she might have some bad and backward habits and or mentality. (not necessarily though)

NUMBER 2 If the poster is ready to marry her she will need to meet up to a certain standard. one where she can relate on many levels with the poster regarding, work and being able to offer more entailed advice and ideas. she might need to broaden her horizons. you should at least have the basic knowledge to at least help your children with home work, encourage them to read, correct their spellings etc. Yes there is always the option of the lesson teacher but it creates some sort of bond. (as i child i always looked forward to when my mum guided me with me assignments, daily class summary's and when i showed her what i had done in school that day it helped that she understood!).

all im saying is that it is actually a big deal and it would take patience and commitment. it all depends on what the poster expects from a partner.

IT is not a reason to leave but its not a piece of cake either.

DEALERS WITH GOOD FEEDBACKS.

Ayodeji

Inspiredman

Viperman

Jenju

nana:
Is it happening for real?!

hoeyeadoe:
pealeaze guyzzzz, is any one of you single? i need a boyfriend.

nuzo:
Tombola or whatever you call yourself, you are up here again with yet another post filled with cowardice and hypocrisy.


B.T.W, you sounded as if everybody diasporan have been out of nigeria since when they were born, hence have not contributed anything.

MasterUgwe:
What about tongue piercings?wat do guys think about it?

Never engage in a civil conversation with an slowpoke. They usually lack the IQ to grasp the complexity of acting civil.

Akpangbon:
Is it too much to ask you to jump in front of a moving train if you resent me? Look at yourself from head to toe and come back here to tell me what you saw.

Akpangbon:
You are now taking it to your arse hole. I will continue to post until you out of anger jump in front of a moving train.

Busy_body:
Oh I geddit, so because you disagree with Friendl's approach, he should not make it to any other person's recommended list What a well-balanced and reasonable person Carry go bruv, don't let me stop you

Busy_body:
Groaning and rolling eyes @ topic, here we go again

Elrazur, Don't you have a party to plan

190:
Approved,
1, inspired
2, car-shopper
3, promise
4, Ayodeji1
5, friendl

non approved,
1, viperman (reason he's not friendly and only interested in raw cash)

friendl:
jealousy na bad thing,people are still buying my cars