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sleekdoc:
abegi go and sit down somewhere jor, how many girls are really that "normal" and decent nowadays, the few that can be that decent wld not even consider going for such a show in the first place.
Let me say this, any girl and i mean any girl that can have interest in going for such a show is unpredictable and can never be trusted, simple!

I think your views are really misguided. How old are you? You may be old, but your mind is a bit immature.

Again, I am asking you too, how secure are you in your relationship. Assuming you woman wants to go.

klassyguy:
@Elrazur, iknow why i'm saying this. it happened to one of my friends when i was back in skool. one of the artistes came, nd u need to see how the ladies were screaming!!! being in the front row, the artiste pulled the girl onto stage. see how this babe dey take all her assets rub the guy's body, not caring that her bf was just 3 metres away. wen show end, na so she jump enter car follow the guy go ihn hotel. my friend was heartbroken. later the girl came back apologizing, but the guy vex rake for her. she too started raking, telling him he was worthless nd from the nite b4, can see that he is not a man compared to the artiste. the guy culdn't even say anything again. that was wat ended the relationship.

Thanks for the insight.

What you described above is an extreme case, and to say that is the norm is probably not true. I am not going to try and make excuse for the lady, however it should be noted that who was at loss at the end of the day? The woman in my opinion, she got used as she presented herself as a "groupie" and she will probably never get that chance ever again.

Most women are sensible with their actions, especially, in cases where the relationship have a solid foundation.

Erm in a relationship, partners are equal, be it boyfriend and Girlfriend, or married couples. No one have any "automatic right" [like the bibles, quran and cultures seem to teach] over another in a relationship.

All parties are equal and as such, learn to communicate instead of trying to[i] control [/i]one another.

charles316:
THANKS MY GUY.MAYBE THEY DIDNT UNDERSTAND ME.HOW WILL A MAN FEEL SEEING DBANJ AND HIS BABE ON TV TO EVERY SHOW IN AND OUT OF NAIJA.HE WILL BE BASICALLY DATING HER.COS THEY GET TO STAY TOGETHER FOR OVER 5HRS EACH DAY.I DON`T EXPECT ANY  GIRL WHO IS INTERESTED IN D SHOW TO AGREE WITH ME COS SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS FROM D SHOW.

Why do you keep shouting?

Anyhow, just because you feel insecure is why it is hard for you to see the point I am making. Staying together for 5hours or so in front of camera, and hanging with Dbanj does not equates to the girl dating him. I am personally not a fan of his, but then I really cannot see what the fuss is about.

klassyguy:
From wat i read in the TV/movies section about the KOKO Manshion whatever, what i can deduce is that the guy is looking for a new babe to use nd dump for the next year. only God knows how many of them he go poke b4 the show ends. For once i agree with charlie. the winner of the show gets a ring, a car, and 1 year galivanting with him both inside nd outside naija. which guy will feel secure with that seeing his babe on TV with another man?

Don't believe everything you read!
I suppose it depends on what kind of relationship exist between the woman going in there, and her man on the outside. Personally, I have nothing to be insecure about.
Also, some of these ladies may just be in it for the fun of it, or for the extra large cheese that comes with it. It do not necessarily mean, the winner will have sex with him in my opinion.

klassyguy:
The annoying thing is that u'll see some of our naija girls falling over themselves to get the form. girls who are meant to be respectable and be good wife materials. Later dem go dey vex say dem boyfriends dey jealous.

Why is it annoying? He is an artist and a face on tv, it is normal for ladies to trip over him. Respectable or not, ladies likes a rich, handsome and young man.
I really do not see the problem to be honest, a few man wants to Bleep Hallie Berrie, Janet Jackson, Genieve, etc. It do not mean they will get their chance.  Just my two cents.

nich:
insure. . .,  wetin?   you mean a loved one gets some quid 'cos i got squashed?     

no way!

Half bread is better than none! Besides, not every accident or mishaps results in death.

Nice post CyberG

charles316:
@ELRAZUR,
U  ARE A KID.THATS WHY U THINK D WAY U DO.THIS THREAD IS NOT CENTRED ON ME AND U LIKE U WANT TO TURN IT TO.  PEACE

WTF You started a thread, you are getting responses, what more do you want? A flipping Gold medal and a ticket to Kokomansion?

There could be very good reasons for her actions. Speak to her, there isn't much anyone can do from here.

charles316:
KOKO MANSION IS A TV REALITY SHOW.I DONT UNDERSTAND D SENSE IN IT.BUT I KNOW THEY WINNER STANDS TO GET THE FF

5M
A CAR
GIFTS
WILL GO  WITH DBANJ TO SHOW WITHIN AND OUTSIDE NIGERIA.WILL FEATURE IN DBANJ NEW VIDEO.

MY GUY,D TRUTH IS DBANJ IS A SEX HUNGRY GUY LIKE TUFACE.VERY SOON WE GO DEY COUNT IM PIKIN.LIKE THIS

TUFACE 7 CHILDREN DBANJ ,  

TUFACE 7 GOALS  DBANJ ,

You know there is what is called "scripting" in tv these days?

I suppose there lies your problem - dbanj is sex hungry - If you trust your woman and take care of her, then you probably have nothing to worry about.

charles316:
MAY GOD HELP U.I KNOW SAY U WANT FIGHT.AM NOT INTERESTED.PEACE

Dude. No one is "fighting you" my original questions directed at you makes sense. You instead proceed to come at me with some dubious line. I suppose my questions hit the nail on the head, I mean, if you aint probably insecure, why your comments about leaving her and what not? All just because she goes to watch a show! That is what you should have addressed, instead of what you posted before.

After driving to Newcastle from London, I am not so sure. I mean, air fares are sort of cheap these days.

charles316:
SORRY MADAM

'Makes no flipping sense. Try not to come out guns blazing next time if you wont stand by it to the end.

Black, white, Chinese, Latino, Potorican, Yankee, Indian, Infact, any human with a pussy. I don't discriminate.

klassyguy:
Pally, atimes there is trust and atimes there is temptation. Why wag the bone infront of the dog if u know u don't want it to eat? Not that i'm saying the Op's babe or the artists will do it, but atimes its better not to allow such a thing to occur than allowing it nd then regretting later.

I see what you mean, and your reasons for saying so. I personally do not have a problem with my woman going to such shows. A few men getting over-worked and jealous for nothing and hence have a belief that their woman is up to something. This is evident in the OP's statement of how "he would leave the woman and ask her to move with the artist".

Can a woman not have fun any more without her partner getting worked out over it?

charles316:
I BELIEVE U ARE EDUCATED AND CAN READ WELL.I SAID IF

OR DO U READ WITH YOUR EYES CLOSED?

No I aint. I only had primary six education.

My question was based on what you asked, How hard is it to understand that?

@ OP, why are you feeling insecure for? Do you not trust your woman? Or do you think the artist sleeps with every woman who lust after them?

nich:
'dont mind riding a bike, but what do we do about dem crazie truck, trailer and tanker drivers?

There are insurance for cyclist if needed. Or your personal insurance you should cover you. In the UK, cyclist are protected by law. I suppose we can have a similar scheme?

Is your friend a grown man? Has he got pubes on his privates? Is he working and have his own source of income? Is he cute and ladies love him? If you answer yes to any of the questions I suggest you mind you own damn business.



I will not stop a grown man from doing what he seems to enjoy. He is not affecting or hurting anyone. Yes he is not hurting anyone, what the wife don't know wont hurt.

Ujujoan:
If you see someone about to make a mistake, its your responsibility to try to stop him/her. If you are really his friend, you owe him that much.

I dont think that's interferance.

One man's mistake is another man's right, correct and morally acceptable answer!

naijacutee:
I pity you. I know you warned us all that this is off-topic but how can you judge her lovelife based on her comment about bicycles? If that's how you judge, then I pity you!

I observe my opponents before passing a judging type of comment. I suggest you go check her posting history. Communication is a key thing in relationship and quite frankly, she do not have it with her persona on the forum here. . This is my last say on this, so as to not derail the thread further.