MissRaine69:

Where there is a twerk there is a way

Absolutely.

Tinamoore:


Thanks. Talking about the other side of existence, I sometimes wish I can just go over there .maybe I can be emotionally at rest there. I just manage to keep going for the sake of my kids.life is not just fair

Naah. Not yet. Plenty time for that after you've raised your kids and helped them raised theirs too.

I'm sure you are stronger than you know. Take each day as it comes. Before you know it your kids are graduating from college and you are a proud grandmama.

Don't give up on those kids now. They need you now more than ever.

I know this sounds like empty platitudes but if you feel like crying, go into the bathroom and cry your heart out. It's good for the soul and for your eyes too. (Some of us don't get the opportunity to wash our eyeballs every now then, forming superman and wonder woman)

Clean your eyes and put on your best smile (for the sake of your kids, but more importantly for yourself) and be prepared to conquer the world. Be the woman that conquered the world with a smile.

You'll do fine, I'm sure. Now's the time to lean on the shoulders of close family and very close girlfriends.

After all said and done, you'll need to get a job o.

Wish you the very best.

So sorry for your situation. I can't claim to know what it feels like, but I know it will get better.

The good life you lived before marriage wasn't so that you have a good marriage per se.

It is so that when you draw your last breath and close your eyes to this side of existence you hope that the credit side outweighs the debit side when you open your eyes to the other side.

Wishing you the very best as you nurture and train your kids to be the best versions of themselves.

derrydinny:
blacks are really a stain to this world, anything irrelevant on the internet and blacks are your surest bet of making it.. the funny thing is that all three of them may not be married

Why is your life so bitter?

It must be that you've never had cause to celebrate anything in your life before.

Hopefully you will one day and then you can come back and withdraw this insensitive, arrogant, stupidly dumb, racist and ignorant comment.

Hanseel1:


You said feminism is demonic. Not just that, men are the head and women are heart.
Misogynist ,listen carefully you're not the head over any human.


Which support are you talking about?
Whether she support or she doesn't support you two are equal.

I still maintain that you haven't read my post or maybe what you lack is comprehension.

Meditate on this phrase "Men and women are equal in dignity but not in role".

Runalong333:




The bolded tells me you rely on over repeated heresay and have never been to South Africa, it's always embarrassing to read as a nigerian based in SA for years. Smh.

Well I stand to be corrected. My intention isn't to generalize.

But killing foreigners because they are doing well and maybe even better than you is reprehensible.

Sapphire86:


I need to intensify my prayers be dat

Hanseel1:


That you're the sole provider doesn't mean you're the head over another human. She's your equal .afterall nobody forced you to be the sole provider, your ego did.

You're the sole provider doesn't stop you from cooking for your wife and cleaning the home.

But my post isn't that long, how is it that you commented on it without reading it first?

Sapphire86:


Lol.... it was just nice to see a woman on top of her career and still have a husband ni.

Yeah. I like her too but most often a woman on top of her career will have to sacrifice her marriage on the altar of ambition except she's an extra ordinary woman who married an extra ordinary man. Very rare.

Feminism is demonic anyway.

Men and women are equal in DIGNITY but not equal in ROLE.

The man is the HEAD of the home and the woman is the HEART of the home.

So the lady is partially right in my opinion.

It's the man's responsibility to protect and provide for his family. The woman's responsibility is to support the man.

Well hopefully before you marry her you'll have found a deeper reason other than physical appearance to love her.

No one can be attractive 100% of the time.

Yes please. Go right ahead. And while you are it maybe you can replace my own phone too. I mistakenly dropped it.

How old is your boyfriend anyway?

She should be forwarded to Sambisa forest make she go dey twerk for Boko Haram dem maybe they'll release our daughters.

Sapphire86:


but for a divorce announcement to be online, it means they are way Beyond that na; you know how oyinbo people dey do na

Of course I do.

But this one wey e pain you pass the people wey dey divorce sef...

resurgent2019:


I really do not know how Fayose dislocated his arm, but i jolly know that the people of Ekiti need to stick with the PDP—not that the party is much better than the APC—because we are unable to decide where the loyalties of the President lies at this point in the life of the nation. The APC is a risky proposition for a state like ekiti given the courageous actions of the hunters, supported by the outgoing administration in the state.

PDP = APC on steroids.

Show us Fayose's achievements for the past 8 years he's been in office.

South African men are generally lazy.

Still that doesn't excuse the fact that some criminal elements of Nigerian origin who export drugs to South Africa have made all Nigerians an object of scorn and an easy target for xenophobes.

Sapphire86:
I really used to admire this woman because she managed to keep her home front while jumping from UAE to US to UK and worldwide trying to report business and other news..

I’m in shock, what shall I do now? I still admire her all the same.

@bolded, you are quite funny. Maybe you should arrange marriage counseling for them.

Mediocrity in government. That's the story of Nigeria. Not a single leader that can see beyond his nose.

ArcSEMPECJ:
...........

And who narrated the story to you that Igbos were defeated in the civil war?....
How many foreign countries supported Nigeria in fighting the Biafra Mafians that don't have any sopiscated weapons to fight......
Igbos fought because we don't behave like the lazy Yoruba sycophants who smile even when a knife is at their neck out of fear and parasitic gains.....
An typical Yoruba man can never say somebody is wrong... He will rather stick at the middle to make sure he doesn't lose from both parties..... That is what Igbos call COWARDICE.....
So Mr Man...... Next time think we'll before calling your elder brother names or insulting home

I have read many dumb stuff here on Nairaland this sure ranks as one of the dumbest to exit a human mind.

What would you call Ojukwu's act of scampering away to Ivory coast and leaving his people to bear the brunt of his misadventure?

Bravery?

You will forever be pained that you lost the war you started.

And if you don't believe that you lost, you can start another one so that we can kukuma just decimate your number and make you one of the minority tribes in Nigeria.

resurgent2019:


I have said it a million times in this forum that a host of haters cannot change my yoruba ancestry and heritage. Is it by force to support the feudalist fervor and campaign of the north? Omo Yoruba pombele ni mi, ko de si nkan ti ele se n’pa e. The ultimate decision rests with the good people of Ekiti State. Let’s all keep our gun powders dry till then.

So tell me, was it the teargas that broke Fayose's neck and arm or the slap from the police.

I don't see anything productive coming out of this meeting.

The two groups have shown a lack of resourcefulness in dealing with elementary problems.

The headstrong attitude of this people will always guarantee that they won't see eye to eye.

I sure hope they do so they can exit this country.

If you need proof that Aregbesola is mad, this is the proof.

Please what concerns Osun state governor with who becomes elected in Lagos state or does he want to come and contest there?

QueenSuccubus:


This thing I don't get it..Why a person who is supposed "exclusively dating" has balls to flirt around ?

Flirting is the first step of cheating sha..it all started from there.. But a lot of humans regardless of their gender will always fall for this shii...#SMH

So, OP u betta think twice sha. Are u ready to continue with a girl who keeps flirting behind ur back?

Quite right.

As a matter of fact flirting is also a form of cheating. Emotional cheating.

I wonder what the op wants from us. To tell him what he already knows or to come and help him flog the girl?

I think Nigeria's problems began when Nigerians decided to put a dullard as President and a professor as his Vice.

A nation that is desirous of growth and progress will do the exact opposite.

Osinbajo should be the president while Buhari should be the Vice.

resurgent2019:


You are not a Yoruba man. You are a Hausa-Muslim.

Omoluabi wo lo ma soro bi o’sen soro?

I pity your kind. How can you support gworo munching Hausas over your supposed brother?

And you will come here to claim Yoruba, right?

Did he tell you Fayose is his brother?

I'm sure you are fooling yourself that Fayose is your brother abi?

Keep fooling yourself o.

To ba ya a ye e.

Whether PDP wins or not is not even my concern.

Abeg let them hold Fayose very well o. He must not run after the handing over of power o. This one that he's putting neck brace on like person wey jump from third mainland bridge.

He must answer for his crimes.

LIFEisSIMPLE:
You will regret this words

Get a life and stop opening dumb treads up and down Nairaland.

Unless you are being paid to do so.

Your mentor Fayose has been teargassed, what are you going to do about it?

Ntorrrrr!

Dumb tread.

Try again.

Dino the dinosaur.

whizpet:
Yes, he will soon be in the country. He has done so many town hall meetings in Nigeria before he left. please visit www.sowore.org for more information. Thank you.

Ok.

I hope those in Atlanta are also going to vote.

only a few of those who have PVC in Nigeria know who Sowore is.

He needs to go back home and feed the grassroots his achievements and his proposals.

kbbanj10:
England. And they will trash France believe

Oh yeah?

It's quite interesting though. Two ancient rivals who have fought gruesome battles on different battle fields get to settle score on a football field somewhere in Russia.

May the best man win.