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ebubeson:
Your sexual cravings can destroy your life and may give you a wound or lifetime scar that you may regret.

What are your sexual cravings, kill them today. Are you sexual cravings in this list?

(1) Quest to sleep with a married woman.
(2) Desire to sleep with a married man.
(3) Quest to sleep with someone's fiance or girlfriend.
(4) Married couples having group sex with other person or persons.
(5) Group sex.
(6) Video-taping your sex act.
(7) Anal sex
( Gay.
(9) Lesbianism.
(10) Bestiality: craving to sleep with dogs, goats etc
(11) Urge to commit adultery.
(12) Urge to sleep with an EX few days or weeks to wedding day
(13) etc

Whatever the sex craving is, kill it today, get married and stay faithful to your spouse.

God wants you to have proper sex only in marriage.

Not your concern

Sonnobax15:

Na normal banny dey draw tats . Imagine as a man trying to settle down,will you consider a lady on tats as a wife worthy material?

That is your concern. Some draw on more intimate area. One a friend met drew baby dad's name on vulva. My guy no even get mine go second base

babeface3:
What is wrong with Nigerian girls. They pretend a lot; a friend of mine is ready to marry and seriously searching. I have introduced him to 2 girls and all they do is play hard to get, and both are overdue for marriage; they do not know that they lose their opportunities in useless pretext and tomorrow they start crying in the mid night. My guy has severally tried to fix meeting with each girl (in different locations in Nigerian and not knowing themselves when he arrives Nigeria. One said she would be travelling to Dubai on a holliday, the other said she would be "driving to one OBUDU Ranch in the east" on a holiday. The moment they notice say ma guy dey come from jand, they too wan show body may be not to be taken for granted. As I speak to you, among the two girls, none agree say she go dey for the whole of July wey ma guy go show. Meanwhile, the one wey dey go Dubai na one Mushin girl wey just start work dey try feed who I wan even help to get better hubby. The one driving to holiday, that one na long story. Why things change like this for these girls. One irony is that if ma guy na one home boy, him for no get all these posting. I tire oh.

It is not by force

Businesstimes23:
Finding a partner who loves unconditionally is increasingly difficult as more relationships and marriages face pressure from conflicting expectations. Across homes and faith communities, couples are navigating sensitive issues that test the balance between personal beliefs and marital responsibilities.

One such issue gaining attention is whether it is acceptable for a married woman to wear a G-string bought by her husband, particularly when it appears to conflict with her Christian values.

Experts note that modern relationships are no longer driven by a single purpose. While some couples prioritise emotional connection, others focus on financial stability or social expectations. However, when personal desires and belief systems collide, tensions often emerge.

In many cases, partners enter relationships with different assumptions about intimacy and expression. When these expectations are not aligned, dissatisfaction can quickly set in, contributing to the growing rate of separation and divorce.


Read up more on https://businesstimes.ng/2026/05/05/is-it-a-crime-to-wear-g-string-as-a-christian/

Show us the G-string pants so we can assess for ourselves

lovediehatelive:
It's crazy how women keep raising the bar higher and higher for men, the type of men they want while men keep lowering the bar for women.


Something as basic as virginity which should be the least a man should expect from a woman is now seen as asking for too much?


In the past you don't dare say you have a boyfriend but these days a lady with numerous body count would be so bold to display it and expecting a rich handsome disciplined man who earns nothing less than $50M a month.


But would be guilt tripping you for only wanting a girl that hasn't slept with anyone before.

They even go as far as demanding much from a man for a single mother of 3!!!


Wonders!!!

Men need to do better, some keep lowering the bar but right from ages women keep raising the bar!


Back in the days you only need to have a farm to be considered as the ideal man, but as bicycle came it become the new norm.

And today if you have a bicycle no girl will want to look at you, they'll keep broke shaming you, preferring a guy with a car as the ideal man.

They keep raising the bar higher and higher for men to work harder, but they want men to accept less.

Most men aren't even asking for too much, just a decent virgin girl, no house, no car, no fat bank account.

Over the centuries men hardly raised the bar, but women want a man they set very high standard for to marry a lady that the whole neighborhood has pipped, a lady with zero sexual purity, a single mother of 3 or so.




But

Rig it back. Dating is not by force

pansophist:
I have lots of German friends and the one that I know that still lives in Germany (most of them moved) ain’t married. They may have a fling or two, or at best, a girlfriend, but marriage is out of the picture.

And would you blame them? Go read German laws and how it treats men, and you will understand why men avoids women. Many Nigerian guys in Germany are just sleeping around and won’t commit

I even have to cut of a Naija guy that is a sex tourist. Travelling to different German cities to fork many of these lonely women, some with kids.

The west generally do not support family, and you can argue that it is anti-family. Even at that, women will still desire a traditional man, when the landscape has changed completely.

That's another lie

Dogalmighty17:
You'd be shocked the extent some guys can go. One even went as far as doing traditional wedding with the lady. Once he had gotten his fill of the cookie, he abandoned the home in little less than 3 weeks.

Someone bought car and open busy for coochie. My eyes and ears have seen and heard too much. I can't say more

Ironfaceman:
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cgjwxdz45ywo

To their tent oh Israel. If women decide to remove that right to conjugate. There are other ways to kill a rat.

DeclanR:
I'm really confused right now.
I met a lady I thought we would build our lives together, but later on, I noticed she isn't worth it.
She's not someone to Trust. The relationship was built on lies. She lies a lot. And also acts suspicious. This is why I'm doubting if I'm responsible for her pregnancy.

The first day I asked her out, and the second time we were seeing ever, I got home, we began chatting, she began making demands on me that she was hungry and craving for Draw soup and Semo to eat. I ignored her. I didn't send anything.
A month after, I learnt she's a single mother.

Again, she did abortion and denied it. Of course I wasn't responsible for it, since I was yet to sleep with her. I saw that she used her phone to search about "Abortion pills" on Facebook A.I. she claimed a friend of hers used her own phone to search it. I requested for the friend's number & called. But the friend denied it. The friend said she has an Android phone, so if she wanted to type such, she would do so with her phone and not on someone else's phone. My babe was seriously sick at that point & couldn't go to work for a week. She was throwing saliva everywhere. It was later she claimed she was on a 6-Month family planning. Why would a single lady be on family planning?
Again, I can't touch her phone. Her phone is a privacy. But same lady came into my house, grabbed my torchlight phone and began reading my messages and going through my contacts. I caught her, I asked, and she said "Is it not just a torchlight phone. What's in there?
Whenever she's with me, she won't pick her calls and wouldn't allow me see who the caller's are. I complained. She moved from that to switching off her phone and claiming that her battery was low, but immediately we part ways, her phone miraculously gets ON without having to charge it first. I complained, she again moved to putting the phone on flight mode, I still caught her. The last one was Barring all incoming calls. I was always ahead of her, so I could always catch off guard. Her reason for all these, according to her, was because she doesn't want incoming calls to disrupt or disturb the moments we are together.
She will post pictures of clothes on her WhatsApp status and ask her contacts viewing same Status to buy same clothes for her. I saw this as an attempt to invite guys into her DM. All these are signs of a disloyal girlfriend. And each time I complain, she says I complain too much.
The last straw was when I accidentally saw her call log & noticed that a particular caller was always calling her, she even calls the caller most times. I confronted her and she said there is nothing going on between her and the caller and that the caller is a married man with kids. She went further to say that the man has being so helpful to her and that if she's in danger or need today, the man will always come through for her, even before me, her guy. I was so so shocked. That moment, I politely sent her outta my house. Her friend started calling and apologizing on her behalf. But I told her I wouldn't be able to continue with the relationship due to this act and several other acts which I consider inimical and detrimental to my mental health.
Before now, each time we had issues, she would message me saying " I'm praying I don't get pregnant".
I'm really sad that it has resulted in pregnancy and I'm not the one to suggest abortion. If in th end, I discover she's actually pregnant, she will have to keep it. But we can't cohabit. I'll take full responsibilities.
She hates to apologize whenever she's wrong. Since the moment she noticed I loved her and I had no other lady aside from her, she began to misbehave. Always making senseless financial demands on me. Rude and disrespectful.

If she misbehaves and I confront her, she'll get aggressive and defensive, she'll slam my door, take her bag and leave. There was a day she did this, I was running after her to give her transport fare, I was even without a shirt, I was trying to wear my shirt while running after her, I began calling her name to stop and wait for me, but she ignored me in fact, she never looked Back. I felt so embarrassed in the public.
There's no quality In her that suggests she's good. There are so many shortcomings of hers which I can't write here.

I intend inviting her over and conducting this test again, at least, twice. Then take her to the hospital and do it again to know the duration of the pregnancy. I only just started sleeping with her towards the end of November. I slept with her last, two weeks ago and we dated for five months.

Papa oyoyo!!!!!!

SpencerForbes:
Woman shares how she rebuked her husband for wanting to join her and her daughter on a lunch date with her babydaddy.

She is not well. Am even surprised there is anything to discuss here. The woman can move in with her ex cos that story has gone

Posotome:
No because they , the ladies don't have the right to see each other's unclothedness, you can see their unclothedness only if you are their husband but you can't pack them together in the same place and allow them to be seeing each other.

It may lead to jealousy and they may even plan to kill the man

Islamically it is not good, you have to enter their rooms separately.
And you cant disclose the secrets of one to the other, may be one is good In bed than the other, you mustn't kiss and tell, WHAT HAPPENS IN VEGAS, STAYS IN VEGAS!

Come oga Islam, this is romance section not islamic study. Make we here word with una islam

Teetee777:
Islamic ally, it is not permitted for 2 people to be seen their private parts talk less of having sex to two people at the same time. Only husband and wife can see each other private parts. It is also not permitted to have two wives in the same room.
Women are very fragile, very easy to control, and at the same time they are very hard to control, only those who have more than one wife will understand the easy and hard way of the woman.
Our Prophet said, “O driver (Man), be gentle when you carry the precious glass. (woman)”

Abeg make we hear word with una yearns. Who called religion here.
The question was clear, why can't you answer it without bringing religion into it?

GetMeOutofNaija:
Are you in the USA, Canada, U.K, Australia or Germany, at least 30 and looking for a wife? Pick me. Am a fashion designer, homely, respectful, ready to be your lovely wife. You come marry me in Naija then carry me go.

Serious men only.

First you must tell us if you are male or female.

Then I would add that it you are female then May God help your ministry. Thing is many people won't take you seriously. It's sad but they won't understand. It's the Nigerian myopia playing it's tune. There are many NLer here who are watching.

FarahAideed:
Where did he lie ? Those Protesters didn't even breach the white house fence for there to be any panic.

If u can't see the lie then u have a problem

sesameq:
https://dailypost.ng/2020/06/03/why-i-was-taken-to-white-house-underground-bunker-trump/

Lol, this pathologic liar can never say a single truth

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

It is not by force to have gf. Date the one Ur pocket can handle

Madam u went thru shit. Nobody should go thru this just cos of husband or wife. This life is too short. Just imagine what it would have been had u started late?
Congratulations on Ur twins

three:
As shared on twitter



By tyro
@DoubleEph

https://mobile.twitter.com/DoubleEph/status/946855243563880450

Shey, I pity this country. Even when bubu can appoint ghost workers, which of his underlings can be prosecuted for doing such

oyesiju:
I pray this make a FP,
this is one of the way it can be widely publicized.

this is an all out war of Christianity. One other people´s belief. Lets not shy away from doing what is right in the face of humanity.

I just came accros this and desided to share. Mind u none of these are originally my words so anyone who wants to biff wif me should please shift and jamm transformer.


ISLAMIC JIHAD HAS ENGULFED THE WORLD!!!!!

Who is an INFIDEL?

This is a true story and the author, Rick Mathes, is a well-known leader in prison ministry.

"The man who walks with God always gets to his destination".

If you still have a pulse, you have a divine purpose to accomplish.

As it stands today, the Islamic religion is the fastest growing religion per capita in the United States, especially amongst the minority races!!

Last month I attended my annual training session that's required for maintaining my state prison security clearance. During the training session, there was presentations by three speakers representing the Roman Catholic, Protestant and Muslim who each explained their beliefs.

I was particularly interested in what the Islamic had to say. So, the Muslim gave a great presentation of the basics of Islam, complete with a video. After the presentations, time was provided for questions and answers. When it was my turn, I directed my question to the Muslim and asked:

'Please, correct me if I'm wrong, but I understand that most Imams and clerics of Islam have declared a holy jihad [Holy war] against the
infidels of the world and, that by killing an infidel, (which is a command to all Muslims) they are assured of a place in heaven. If that's the case, can you give me the definition of an infidel?'

There was no disagreement with my statements and, without hesitation, he replied, 'Non-believers!'

I then responded. So, let me make sure I have this straight ie. All followers of Allah have been commanded to kill everyone who is not of your faith so they can have a place in heaven. Is that correct?'

The expression on his face changed from one of authority and command to that of a little boy who had just been caught with his hand in the cookie jar. 'He sheepishly replied, 'Yes.'

I then stated, 'Well, sir, I have a real problem trying to imagine the Pope can command all Catholics to kill those of your faith or in addition, Dr Stanley ordering all Protestants to do the same in order to guarantee them a place in heaven!'

The Muslim was speechless!

I continued, 'I also have a problem with being your friend when you and your brother clerics are telling your followers to kill me!

Let me ask you a question:

Would you rather have your Allah, who tells you to kill me in order for you to go to heaven, or my Jesus who tells me to love you because I am going to heaven and He wants you to be there with me too?'
You could have heard a pin drop as the Imam hung his head in shame.

Needless to say, the organizers or promoters of the 'Diversification' training seminar were not happy with my way of dealing with the Islamic Imam, and exposing the naked truth about the evil in Muslims' beliefs.

Therefore, the way things are going now in the next 10 years there will be enough Muslim voters in the U.S. to elect the President! Enough Muslim voters in the UK to vote in the Prime Minister. In fact, by 2019 when Boko Haram had finished their depopulation of Christians in Nigeria, there may be no Christian candidates to stand for elective post in the next 5 years. Think about your children's world. I think everyone in the WORLD!!! should be required to read this, but with the careless attitude of most believers, there is no way this will be widely publicized, unless each of us sends it to relations and friends! This is your chance to make a difference...
The battle is the Lord's but he need a vessel to stand in the gap.... Are you available for Christ?

Please, for Christ's sake, pass it on! Thanks.

aanumama:
Na so life dey o
They fish illegally in our water and still sell it to us at expensive rate.
smh for our Africa leader.
Chinese been robbing us since time immemorial.

na so and what does ur african countries do. just roll back. Na wah 4 una.

lalasticlala:
http://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/184282-senate-approves-buharis-request-to-appoint-15-advisers.html

who knows why these buffoons are now eager to pls as if na so dem bin dey work b4?

More than 70 Chinese vessels have been found fishing illegally off the coast of West Africa, Greenpeace says.

Using information gathered from 2000 to 2014, Greenpeace said Chinese companies had fished in prohibited grounds or under-declared their catches.

Boats either turned off their identification systems or transmitted false location data, it added.

One company's fishing capacity off the coast of Guinea Bissau is said to have exceeded its authorised limit by 61%.

The absence of efficient fisheries management in some West African states allows rogue companies to plunder marine resources, the BBC's Thomas Fessy reports from Dakar in Senegal.

China illegally fishing off W Africa - Greenpeace
20 May 2015From the section Africa
There is an absence of efficient fisheries management in some West African states

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In less than a month, Greenpeace documented an average of one new case of illegal practice by a Chinese-owned boat every two days, but the report's authors say they think that is only the "tip of the iceberg."

Chinese companies were "unlawfully exploiting West Africa's marine environment," said Rashid King, head of Greenpeace East Asia's China Ocean Campaign, in a statement.

"They were taking advantage of weak enforcement from local and Chinese authorities to the detriment of local fisherman and the environment."

'Exploiting'
Mr Kang said unless the Chinese government controlled rogue fishermen, it would "seriously jeopardise" its mutually beneficial partnership with West Africa.

China came to West Africa's aid during the Ebola outbreak, Mr Kang said, but Chinese companies were "exploiting" West Africa's marine environment.

In the most recent cases, the Greenpeace ship MY Esperanza, which sailed off Senegal, Guinea-Bissau and Guinea last autumn, documented 16 illegal fishing activities by 12 Chinese vessels.

drnoel:
hmm no comments yet!!!!

how u mean say u no get comment?

dokyOloye:
I swear.
See how mumuish our Nigerian girls are.
When d guys treat them like d pay as U go article they are,they'll start complaining.
I am a doc,I have several female classmates and colleagues, they earn equal to or even more than I do.will any of them view this scenario as d guy being foolish?
Hell,no.They'll say,"I met a gentleman on d bus today".

Thats the reason I dont give those small girls face cos when u are nice to them they insult u for being nice