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giftson102:
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Shock as a priest allegedly impregnates a married woman, while her husband unknowingly raises children said to belong to the Rev. Fr. — Dr. Duubby reveals.

As at the time of writing this post, the lady in the photo was having serious health issues. In short, her mouth has bent backwards. Physicians have done all they know how to do, But there are no signs of improvement whatsoever. So, the woman's family decided to go spiritual. This is Africa. Africans tend to realize when things are no longer normal.

On getting to a Native doctor (a seer) the W0man was told that her death is inevitable. The only way she can survive this, is to C0nfess what she's been up to.

She has now C0nfessed that all her 5 kids (including the one she's pregnant with at present) do not belong to her husband. She says a priest is responsible. The priest's name is Father Chinwe. This is happening in enugu.

The lady has C0nfessed that she's been in a S£cret relationship with the pr!est since before she got married. And she's been cheat!ng on her hμsband with the priest. None of her 5 kids belong to her husband.

Her first son is 10 years old.

What Bollywood movie?

escortafrik:
I’m a lady in my mid-30s and life was going very well for me except for one thing everybody except me seemed obsessed with - marriage.

I have a good career, I’m financially stable, respected in my field, and I genuinely loved the life I built for myself. But every family gathering, every wedding, every phone call from relatives somehow turned into:

“So when are you getting married?” You’re not getting younger oo

Eventually, I met someone through mutual friends.

He was unemployed at the time, but that did not bother me much because he was intelligent, kind, calm, and surprisingly very knowledgeable in the same profession as me.

We connected deeply and for the first time in a long while, I felt like I had found the ‘one’

As our relationship became serious, I started helping him professionally too. I helped him restructure his CV, prepared him for interviews, connected him to opportunities, and eventually introduced him to my organisation when there was an opening.

Thankfully, he got the job.

I was genuinely happy for him because I knew how difficult things had been for him financially before then. And after he got the job, things became even sweeter between us.

And some month after he proposed to me ! my joy became complete! My family was overjoyed.

Then, just as our wedding plans were moving forward smoothly, the company we worked introduced a new policy stating that married couples could no longer work in the organisation together. Once two employees got married, one person would have to resign.

That was when the real problem started.

I assumed we would sit down and discuss it logically.

I have spent years building my career there.
I’m more senior.
I currently earn more.
And if we’re being realistic, my position is more stable at the moment.

But my fiancé shocked me.

He told me I should be the one to resign because:

“I’m the man.”

Initially I didn’t take him seriously but as the wedding date drew closer, he kept pressuring me to resign !

I then reminded him that I was already established before he came into the company. I was the one who helped him get the opportunity in the first place. If anyone should logically stay, shouldn’t it be the person whose career was already firmly built there?

But he said it would be embarrassing for him as a man if he was the one leaving while his wife continued working there, that I could do something else like supermarket business.

Imagine !

Since then, everything has changed.

Wedding plans have paused.
We now fight everyday
Even his family are supporting him, telling me to resign !
my heart is broken.

Not just because of the job itself, but because I genuinely believed I was building a life with someone who saw me as an equal partner.

Well I have concluded that I won’t resign and I will also make sure he is sacked. No one should call me wicked because he is very wicked for wanting to do this to me.



https://community.escortafrik.com/d/198-i-helped-my-fiance-get-a-job-in-my-company-now-he-wants-me-to-resign

Story story, guy should resign and leave matter for jesus

Cum4me:
Sometimes I asked myself what dose men see to engage themselves in this gay act. I find noting reasonable from my research. Then I finally believe that there's demonic realm we don't see with our physical eye's if you as a man get involved in it you become a victim. When ever I come close to any gay I do my possible best not to be a close friend to that man they're possess and they can't help themselves. Being a gay no matter how wealthy you're believe you're completely half dead.

No demonic realm there. Africans and Nigerians, we can't use devil to explain everything away. The devil is innocent here

Jman06:
I have observed with dismay how the older generation ladies who are already past their primes go about spreading falsehoods about men's fertility and virility claiming that men have biological clock and blaming infertility in marriage on men.

These fallacious claims are borne out of the desire to deceive the younger girls and make them reject marriage proposals from older men. These older women do this in a bid to have a the older guys settle for them when they can't get much younger girls to marry. It is a strategy which they're using to ensure that the eligible older men are left with no choice than to settle in marriage with the older generation of women!

The fact is that men age like wine which becomes stronger and better with time. In this country, it takes a lot of time for a guy to become financially ready to start a family due to the economic situation of the country. This is why most marriageable men are those already in their late 30s to early or even mid 40s.

These older women spread the lies that men have biological clock and would not be able to father a child at older ages. Evidence around us have proven such claims to be false because even in our immediate families, many of us were born while dads were in their 50s and early 60s. So, what biological clock are they now talking about?

They also claim that at such ages, men lose their virility and become impotent. This claim is also arguably false because, except in the cases where the man suffers from chronic illnesses that affect their sexual effectiveness, healthy men still retain their sexual potency even up to the age of 70 in some cases..if at my age, I still have those embarrassing moments of genital attention in the public, then I can tell you that such claims are unfounded.

We know that most cases of infertility in marriage occur from the side of the woman! But these old women like to twist facts and put the blames squarely on the men. For this reason, men who are being accused of being responsible for infertility in their marriages should not sit back and swallow all the humiliations and insults. Let them try their potency and fertility outside with much younger girls! I'm very sure that the result will always be positive.

As a man, when you have suffered all your life and eventually make money to be considered marriageable by the greedy female gender, save yourself all the troubles of having to struggle with bearing children by marrying from the pool of much younger girls. If you know that you desire to start having children immediately after marriage, then do yourself a favour by marrying a girl in the age range of 18 to 22. An uncle of mine got married at 42 to a 38years old lady, he's now 62 without a child. His wife is now 58 and obviously reached menopause. Now, imagine if this man had married a girl in the age range of 18 to 22, he would have had all the children he wanted before even crossing the age of 50 so that he could have used his working years to take care of them and help them stand. Now he's retired and without a child! His case makes me sad whenever I remember him because he's a good man by all standards.

Now to the young girls, learn to set your priorities right. As you go through the various social media platforms, don't be deceived by what you read or hear there from those older women discouraging you from marrying older men. In Nigeria today, those older guys are the most eligible for marriage by all standards. They are more financially and mentally stable to handle marriage! Besides, provision for the family goes seamlessly when you are dealing with the far older men! If you know that you want to marry on time and have your children easily, then your best bet is marrying a more stable older man.

It is very good when girls marry early because aside reducing the problem of infertility in marriage,it helps reduce the chances of complications and high risk pregnancies. The problem of genetic diseases and congenital anomalies is also greatly minimised when a woman starts bearing children early! So, don't be deceived by those selfish older women who want you to remain unmarried just like them. A word is enough for the wise!

Blah blah blah!

laivwire:
Very valid points.

@Op: Tell her and know your fate. If her reasons are excusable, challenge them. And if it's a deal breaker for you, tell her as well or wait till she's ready.

Some girls may stop you due to their conscience of recent exposure to pregnancy or illness which they are still working on. You dey there dey rush. She will soon give you access now and tell you she's positive. Na then your eye go clear

You are inexperienced. Do that and she walks out the door. Wetin go vex you pass na say she hands the same cat to the next guy that is nicer to her.
Happened to me!
Wetin vex me pass na say she come dey use am do shakara for me. Then I was in uni and didn't have control so I almost died with vex. Learnt a big lesson there.
I get am later sha but that one na story for other day.

AllBlack:
She dey stop you and she has stopped you 3 times. Don't you feel used? Don't you feel like a sponge?

Abeg Who made her the gateman of sex?
Why can't you say NO and stop her too? Treat her like a child & Let her simply sit down, watch TV and go. But you can't because you are afraid of her and don't want to lose her.

TELL HER NO too. STOP HER TOO. Do it to her and watch how she reacts under your control. CAN SHE TAKE IT? will she ask that yeye question of WHY WOULDN'T YOU LET ME KISS YOU? ARE YOU ANGRY?

instead you allow her and your best move is to come here and turn to a journalist on Nairaland.

and Yes! you are a simp.

Lol, it seems this chairman also knows the trick.
You can't just be giving advice without knowing if the said guy has good or bad intentions

heartbraker:
but she dey stop me naa,this is not a cook up story

God help us sinners! Can remember how many of these walls I broke down in my journey in the ocean and my longer one to redemption.

Back to OPs comment.

She will stop you cos she is unsure of you. She doesn't know what comes next after you don't lash. That's the oldest trick in the book.
I will not say more.

Businesstimes23:
Finding a partner who loves unconditionally is increasingly difficult as more relationships and marriages face pressure from conflicting expectations. Across homes and faith communities, couples are navigating sensitive issues that test the balance between personal beliefs and marital responsibilities.

One such issue gaining attention is whether it is acceptable for a married woman to wear a G-string bought by her husband, particularly when it appears to conflict with her Christian values.

Experts note that modern relationships are no longer driven by a single purpose. While some couples prioritise emotional connection, others focus on financial stability or social expectations. However, when personal desires and belief systems collide, tensions often emerge.

In many cases, partners enter relationships with different assumptions about intimacy and expression. When these expectations are not aligned, dissatisfaction can quickly set in, contributing to the growing rate of separation and divorce.


Read up more on https://businesstimes.ng/2026/05/05/is-it-a-crime-to-wear-g-string-as-a-christian/

You are talking about G-string.
Some people are not even wearing pants to go to church. You never jam

Sonnobax15:

Let's be honest for once.

Will any responsible man allow his wife to go to the gym? . Unless you wanna deliver her into the hands of tramadol nighas who won't pity her when pounding the hell out of her

If your gbola can't keep your wife in the right needed shape, simply know that you didn't only fail yourself but man-hood in its entirety

This is a fallacy. Nothing like pounding away. Two parties enjoyed the sin, who is complaining

Sonnobax15:

Let's be honest for once.

Will any responsible man allow his wife to go to the gym? . Unless you wanna deliver her into the hands of tramadol nighas who won't pity her when pounding the hell out of her

If your gbola can't keep your wife in the right needed shape, simply know that you didn't only fail yourself but man-hood in its entirety

Depends of the people in question

bmd1010:
Someone told me a story recently that honestly has been making me feel uncomfortable

He moved to the UK for his MSc.

Like many immigrants, life wasn’t easy at first.

He was managing.
Sharing flat with other people.
Working hard.
Trying to stabilise himself financially.

Eventually, after his MSc, he brought his wife over to join him so they could be together.

According to him, the wife moved into the shared accommodation with him because that was what they could afford at the time.

Nothing luxurious.
Just two people trying to build life together abroad.

At first everything looked normal.

But slowly, the wife started getting very close to one of the male flatmates.

The painful part?

Apparently other people in the flat noticed things before the husband did.

But nobody spoke.

Most of them already knew the other guy first and didn’t want to involve themselves 😭

Meanwhile this guy was focused on work, studies and survival.

Then one day, the wife suddenly started complaining that he was too quiet for her. They should separate and see if things would change

She said they weren’t compatible anymore.

Few days later…

She woke up and packed her things while he was sleeping and he thought she was just doing her normal weekend clean up. Only to say she was leaving to get her own place

The husband was heartbroken and confused but still didn’t fully know what had really been happening behind his back.

Then one evening something happened that completely broke him emotionally.

A food delivery arrived at the flat.

The driver handed it to him.

But he said:
“I didn’t order anything.”

So he asked the delivery guy to call the person that placed the order.

My brother…

The phone that rang belonged to the flatmate 😭

And the order had been placed by his wife.

For the same man she had been secretly seeing inside the same flat.

According to him, that was the exact moment reality hit him properly.

The guy reportedly broke down crying immediately.

Honestly, immigrant stories abroad can be deeply painful sometimes.

Because many people sacrifice:
• comfort
• family support
• stability
• peace

…just trying to build future together.

And betrayal hits differently when somebody suffered with genuine intentions.

Question is…

Do you think living abroad exposes people’s true character more quickly…
or does pressure abroad simply change some relationships completely?

Stories story

okomile:
Things fall apart and the centre cannot hold
Chinua Achebe

Desmond, good luck in your future endeavors

What? What is the beef between them?

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. A time is coming when women would be the ones doing the chasing or hunting for men, and not the other way round. You see most of these ladies saying that they don't need any man are only deceiving themselves. Their ego, beauty(which they claimed they have and have prided in) and their achievements, won't let them admit it.

Which time is coming? The one they have been doing since the 80s?
One woman would only pursue what she wants not what she doesn't want

Toolegit123:
Good afternoon Nairalanders.

A friend of mine came to seek advise from me yesterday and I only gave him the little I knew I could give.

There's the girl he has been dating for over a year now and things had really gotten serious between the both of them. So, taking the next step which is about going to see her people has been on his mind for some time now.

Now, here's the problem. This particular lady in question is presently working in a hotel and she has been holding a very big position in the hotel. Just like how we are made to believe, concerning ladies working in hotels. Of course, we've heard of various cases of how ladies working in hotels turn out to be promiscuous and render their bodies for men who comes to lodge in those hotels which they're working in. This friend of mine is worried,and has asked his lady times without a number if she would quit the hotel work after getting married to pursue another career. He has even promised to open a super market for her but she didn't obliged to his request.

As a matter of fact,my friend is currently considering walking out of the relationship but I told him to speak with her one more time. And if she should insist on quitting the hotel work,then,he could do whatever he has on his mind.

So,my dear fellow Nairalanders, especially the guys ,how do you guys view this kind of situation?

Why should she leave her career path because she wants to marry? This is archaic mentality

FreeNaijaII:
So my friend proposed to his longtime girlfriend of 3 years this month.

They are already planning to go and see her parents later next month and to also get a date for the wedding sometime in December this year.

They don't always have issues, and anytime they do, they will resolve it within a day or so.

So, my friend saw his fiancée's comment on Instagram validating Frank Edoho's ex-wife opening her legs to Chike (another man) while married to Mr. Edoho.

In her argument, she said that she was right to open her legs to another man because Frank confessed that he keeps malice as a form of punishment.

For the sake of anonymity, I can't share the screenshot here.

He (my guy) has already made up his mind to quit the relationship because he sees her comment as a red flag that should not be ignored.

I tried to talk him out of it, but it seems his mind is made up.

What can I do to help?

I doubt there are ladies out there that are that stupid

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ogugwa1992:
Defence Shreds Prosecution Case: Alleged Bribery Figures Shrink to a Handful of Shopping TTrips



https://leaders.ng/2026/05/14/defence-shreds-prosecution-case-alleged-bribery-figures-shrink-to-a-handful-of-shopping-trips/

Lol, I knew they had nothing on this woman.
Instead of to leave her in peace they be pushing her everywhere to cover their own thieving.
Brigands and vagabond

Yorubastardz:
I stumbled upon this post
https://www.nairaland.com/8670288/cutiejuls-accuses-chike-sleeping-frank

And I felt so guilty that I had to confess something that has been quite heavy on my chest.

I made a post here about how I became number 2 man in my workplace.

It so happened to he that a married woman with 5 kids also work in my workplace. Her husband is a Keke driver. But for some reason he started coming to our workplace to drop of the kids to his wife after picking them from school. .
All of a sudden anytime this man sees me he will greet me and hail me like I am a very big celebrity. E dey always shock me.
Hr fo remove cap sef come use two hands shake me.
Then one afternoon I meet him with his wife our co worker and he did the usual greeting but this time he started telling me how much he likes my style and how I carry myself and his wife was there ooo. It was so weird like say another man wey you no know dey praise you like a fan.

After that encounter, anytime his wife see me at work she will be cutting me eye and calling me sir sometimes bowing when greeting me.
Omo I no know wetin enter me one morning I jam her for one tight corner only two of us
Long story short I ended up knacking her and it was amazing!!!!

Now yesterday I see this man again but outside my workplace and he horns his Keke I look at him and act like I didn't recognize him he horn again so I look again and wave hi to him.

Now my guilty conscience dey worry me now because I see him as somebody that respect me and I'm scared if he find out what I did that admiration might turn into serious hatred. .

I don't see what the issue is. You have problems if you carry another person's issue on your head.
So what you saw another man's wife's pant, then u back so what? How does that change the price of garri?
Children here should learn to grow up.

h777:
“What I Saw At My Friend’s Wedding Shocked Me”

Yesterday was supposed to be a happy day.

My friend finally got married after almost seven years with his girlfriend. Everybody came out fresh, smiling, dancing, spraying money, taking pictures, acting like love still conquers everything.

But something happened during the reception that honestly disturbed me.

While the bride and groom were dancing, I noticed an older woman sitting quietly at the back. She wasn’t eating, smiling, or talking to anybody. Just watching them.

At first, I ignored her.

Then one of the groom’s friends leaned close to me and said quietly,
“That woman almost became his wife.”

I thought he was joking.

Apparently, they dated for years. Everybody expected marriage. According to him, she stood with this guy when he had nothing. Paid bills sometimes. Helped him survive difficult years.

Then suddenly he met this new lady abroad through a relative, and everything changed fast.

What shocked me wasn’t even the story.

It was the woman’s face.

No anger.
No drama.
No tears.

Just silence.

At one point, the groom accidentally looked toward her side, and for about three seconds his smile disappeared completely.

Three seconds.

Then he smiled again and continued dancing like nothing happened.

That moment has been sitting in my mind since yesterday.

Life is strange honestly.

Sometimes the person who helps build the house is not the one who lives inside it.

And sometimes, what people celebrate publicly has a story nobody wants to mention quietly.

I still don’t know exactly what lesson to take from what I saw.

But one thing became clear to me:

Not every smiling couple in wedding pictures arrived there with clean footprints behind them.


Image is from Google

That is a story for another time.
Wait and see more reloading. That lady is not done with them. I pity the new bride cos na one chance she enter. That man would always have the one he didn't marry in his shadow and extramarital affairs is highly possible in that case. Have seen it several times

escortafrik:
Hello guys, I really need your advice because I’ve been turning this over in my head and I don’t want to make a mistake.

So a bit of background… I’m in my final year at the university, just trying to finish with good grades and figure out what’s next for my life.

A close friend of mine introduced me to her cousin a few months ago. He’s doing really well for himself, stable, calm, and very intentional in how he carries himself.

We got along pretty quickly and things moved from just talking to a serious relationship faster than I expected, but it has been good so far.

Now the situation is this… he wants me to move in with him.

At first, I thought maybe it’s just excitement and love growing fast, but he’s been consistent about it and says it’s because he sees a future with me and wants us to start building our life together properly. I do like him a whole lot , and part of me likes the idea of us being together in that way, like a real couple sharing everyday life.

But I spoke to my friends and they are not having it at all. They keep telling me that once I move in, it might reduce the chances of marriage happening, that men can get too comfortable and stop seeing the need to “formalise” things. Even his cousin who introduced us is saying I shouldn’t as well but I’m quite surprised because this guy has been so good to me in every aspect of my life.

Now I’m stuck in the middle. I don’t want to act based on fear, but I also don’t want to ignore advice that could save me from future regret.

So I’m asking honestly… what do you think I should do in this situation?

Time for serious talks here.
Moving in with a man removes the idea of legal commitments before the real deal.
New love is sweet like wine but once you give up all the goodies cos love is killing you, you leave yourself wide open and to his mercy.
Not all men would then honour the agreement.
In this age of financial hardship and uncertainty don't move in till he has paid your bride price and done your traditional wedding and you are organising the white. Ofcos you would have already done registry.
Regardless of how much you trust the man, people might act differently in stressful situations

ebubeson:
Your sexual cravings can destroy your life and may give you a wound or lifetime scar that you may regret.

What are your sexual cravings, kill them today. Are you sexual cravings in this list?

(1) Quest to sleep with a married woman.
(2) Desire to sleep with a married man.
(3) Quest to sleep with someone's fiance or girlfriend.
(4) Married couples having group sex with other person or persons.
(5) Group sex.
(6) Video-taping your sex act.
(7) Anal sex
( Gay.
(9) Lesbianism.
(10) Bestiality: craving to sleep with dogs, goats etc
(11) Urge to commit adultery.
(12) Urge to sleep with an EX few days or weeks to wedding day
(13) etc

Whatever the sex craving is, kill it today, get married and stay faithful to your spouse.

God wants you to have proper sex only in marriage.

Not your concern

Sonnobax15:

Na normal banny dey draw tats . Imagine as a man trying to settle down,will you consider a lady on tats as a wife worthy material?

That is your concern. Some draw on more intimate area. One a friend met drew baby dad's name on vulva. My guy no even get mine go second base

babeface3:
What is wrong with Nigerian girls. They pretend a lot; a friend of mine is ready to marry and seriously searching. I have introduced him to 2 girls and all they do is play hard to get, and both are overdue for marriage; they do not know that they lose their opportunities in useless pretext and tomorrow they start crying in the mid night. My guy has severally tried to fix meeting with each girl (in different locations in Nigerian and not knowing themselves when he arrives Nigeria. One said she would be travelling to Dubai on a holliday, the other said she would be "driving to one OBUDU Ranch in the east" on a holiday. The moment they notice say ma guy dey come from jand, they too wan show body may be not to be taken for granted. As I speak to you, among the two girls, none agree say she go dey for the whole of July wey ma guy go show. Meanwhile, the one wey dey go Dubai na one Mushin girl wey just start work dey try feed who I wan even help to get better hubby. The one driving to holiday, that one na long story. Why things change like this for these girls. One irony is that if ma guy na one home boy, him for no get all these posting. I tire oh.

It is not by force

Businesstimes23:
Finding a partner who loves unconditionally is increasingly difficult as more relationships and marriages face pressure from conflicting expectations. Across homes and faith communities, couples are navigating sensitive issues that test the balance between personal beliefs and marital responsibilities.

One such issue gaining attention is whether it is acceptable for a married woman to wear a G-string bought by her husband, particularly when it appears to conflict with her Christian values.

Experts note that modern relationships are no longer driven by a single purpose. While some couples prioritise emotional connection, others focus on financial stability or social expectations. However, when personal desires and belief systems collide, tensions often emerge.

In many cases, partners enter relationships with different assumptions about intimacy and expression. When these expectations are not aligned, dissatisfaction can quickly set in, contributing to the growing rate of separation and divorce.


Read up more on https://businesstimes.ng/2026/05/05/is-it-a-crime-to-wear-g-string-as-a-christian/

Show us the G-string pants so we can assess for ourselves

lovediehatelive:
It's crazy how women keep raising the bar higher and higher for men, the type of men they want while men keep lowering the bar for women.


Something as basic as virginity which should be the least a man should expect from a woman is now seen as asking for too much?


In the past you don't dare say you have a boyfriend but these days a lady with numerous body count would be so bold to display it and expecting a rich handsome disciplined man who earns nothing less than $50M a month.


But would be guilt tripping you for only wanting a girl that hasn't slept with anyone before.

They even go as far as demanding much from a man for a single mother of 3!!!


Wonders!!!

Men need to do better, some keep lowering the bar but right from ages women keep raising the bar!


Back in the days you only need to have a farm to be considered as the ideal man, but as bicycle came it become the new norm.

And today if you have a bicycle no girl will want to look at you, they'll keep broke shaming you, preferring a guy with a car as the ideal man.

They keep raising the bar higher and higher for men to work harder, but they want men to accept less.

Most men aren't even asking for too much, just a decent virgin girl, no house, no car, no fat bank account.

Over the centuries men hardly raised the bar, but women want a man they set very high standard for to marry a lady that the whole neighborhood has pipped, a lady with zero sexual purity, a single mother of 3 or so.




But

Rig it back. Dating is not by force

pansophist:
I have lots of German friends and the one that I know that still lives in Germany (most of them moved) ain’t married. They may have a fling or two, or at best, a girlfriend, but marriage is out of the picture.

And would you blame them? Go read German laws and how it treats men, and you will understand why men avoids women. Many Nigerian guys in Germany are just sleeping around and won’t commit

I even have to cut of a Naija guy that is a sex tourist. Travelling to different German cities to fork many of these lonely women, some with kids.

The west generally do not support family, and you can argue that it is anti-family. Even at that, women will still desire a traditional man, when the landscape has changed completely.

That's another lie

Dogalmighty17:
You'd be shocked the extent some guys can go. One even went as far as doing traditional wedding with the lady. Once he had gotten his fill of the cookie, he abandoned the home in little less than 3 weeks.

Someone bought car and open busy for coochie. My eyes and ears have seen and heard too much. I can't say more

Ironfaceman:
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cgjwxdz45ywo

To their tent oh Israel. If women decide to remove that right to conjugate. There are other ways to kill a rat.

DeclanR:
I'm really confused right now.
I met a lady I thought we would build our lives together, but later on, I noticed she isn't worth it.
She's not someone to Trust. The relationship was built on lies. She lies a lot. And also acts suspicious. This is why I'm doubting if I'm responsible for her pregnancy.

The first day I asked her out, and the second time we were seeing ever, I got home, we began chatting, she began making demands on me that she was hungry and craving for Draw soup and Semo to eat. I ignored her. I didn't send anything.
A month after, I learnt she's a single mother.

Again, she did abortion and denied it. Of course I wasn't responsible for it, since I was yet to sleep with her. I saw that she used her phone to search about "Abortion pills" on Facebook A.I. she claimed a friend of hers used her own phone to search it. I requested for the friend's number & called. But the friend denied it. The friend said she has an Android phone, so if she wanted to type such, she would do so with her phone and not on someone else's phone. My babe was seriously sick at that point & couldn't go to work for a week. She was throwing saliva everywhere. It was later she claimed she was on a 6-Month family planning. Why would a single lady be on family planning?
Again, I can't touch her phone. Her phone is a privacy. But same lady came into my house, grabbed my torchlight phone and began reading my messages and going through my contacts. I caught her, I asked, and she said "Is it not just a torchlight phone. What's in there?
Whenever she's with me, she won't pick her calls and wouldn't allow me see who the caller's are. I complained. She moved from that to switching off her phone and claiming that her battery was low, but immediately we part ways, her phone miraculously gets ON without having to charge it first. I complained, she again moved to putting the phone on flight mode, I still caught her. The last one was Barring all incoming calls. I was always ahead of her, so I could always catch off guard. Her reason for all these, according to her, was because she doesn't want incoming calls to disrupt or disturb the moments we are together.
She will post pictures of clothes on her WhatsApp status and ask her contacts viewing same Status to buy same clothes for her. I saw this as an attempt to invite guys into her DM. All these are signs of a disloyal girlfriend. And each time I complain, she says I complain too much.
The last straw was when I accidentally saw her call log & noticed that a particular caller was always calling her, she even calls the caller most times. I confronted her and she said there is nothing going on between her and the caller and that the caller is a married man with kids. She went further to say that the man has being so helpful to her and that if she's in danger or need today, the man will always come through for her, even before me, her guy. I was so so shocked. That moment, I politely sent her outta my house. Her friend started calling and apologizing on her behalf. But I told her I wouldn't be able to continue with the relationship due to this act and several other acts which I consider inimical and detrimental to my mental health.
Before now, each time we had issues, she would message me saying " I'm praying I don't get pregnant".
I'm really sad that it has resulted in pregnancy and I'm not the one to suggest abortion. If in th end, I discover she's actually pregnant, she will have to keep it. But we can't cohabit. I'll take full responsibilities.
She hates to apologize whenever she's wrong. Since the moment she noticed I loved her and I had no other lady aside from her, she began to misbehave. Always making senseless financial demands on me. Rude and disrespectful.

If she misbehaves and I confront her, she'll get aggressive and defensive, she'll slam my door, take her bag and leave. There was a day she did this, I was running after her to give her transport fare, I was even without a shirt, I was trying to wear my shirt while running after her, I began calling her name to stop and wait for me, but she ignored me in fact, she never looked Back. I felt so embarrassed in the public.
There's no quality In her that suggests she's good. There are so many shortcomings of hers which I can't write here.

I intend inviting her over and conducting this test again, at least, twice. Then take her to the hospital and do it again to know the duration of the pregnancy. I only just started sleeping with her towards the end of November. I slept with her last, two weeks ago and we dated for five months.

Papa oyoyo!!!!!!

SpencerForbes:
Woman shares how she rebuked her husband for wanting to join her and her daughter on a lunch date with her babydaddy.

She is not well. Am even surprised there is anything to discuss here. The woman can move in with her ex cos that story has gone