Why all these??

Nairaland all the way

president buhari is like wetin dey do this one?

Very nice op. Nothing beats a woman with class and self confidence.

No spouse yet. Waiting on the lord to send the right man

Lol.

Thank you so much op for this thread. God bless you

omg I can soooo relate to number 8. Lol

there are truly kind hearted people here on nairaland. tank u all for ur responses

noblegrex:
I've commented B4 I realise I have to ask a question first,which is;is the guy a poor guy.

no he is not

Tnx everyone for ur advices

witnezHD:
what's her innocence.... dead curious

virginity sir

Hello nairalanders

It is with sadness and hurt that I decided to ask guidance on what action I should take with regards to the event that happened in my life.

I met a guy two years ago and fell in love with him wholeheartedly in fact he is my first love. the relationship was fun and romantic. I lost my innocence to him. Although there were times I had suspicions and I would confront him about it but he always found a way to clear my suspicions. One issue I always felt bad about was that he never took me to his family. As at the beginning of the relationship about a month into it his sister got married and I was not invited I felt maybe it was too early and shrugged it off. he never used my pictures as dp claiming he doesn't feel its proper until we are married. apart from all these he was a sweet and loving man. we were like best friends.

Fast forward to two years later I did something I had never done before. I searched his phone while he was asleep and what I discovered was a blow for me. He was in another relationship!!! I stole the girl's contact and disguised as his colleague just to get information from her with time she was free with me. I discovered they had been dating for seven years and she lived in another state. just last week he said he was travelling for a business event only for me to find out he went for his introduction to her family.

confronted him and he has been begging me to forgive him.

Kind hearted nairalanders please what do I do? should I expose him to the girl or not.

kikilove:
This gal is crazy,if she was really raped I think she would have been too traumatized to release a single.i think she planned everything and timaya walked into a trap

my dear lady, did u just use the traumatized word? as much as i do not want to believe the claim made by this sheila lady,expecting her reaction to rape to be trauma is not correct because everyone is different and so will their reaction to incidents be different.
N.B not everyone will be traumatized by rape.

latfun22:
Am the chosen one

lol.salaam

prettymina:
Am single bcus I have only a xtain suitor who is ready to marry me.duo he promised nt to disturb my religion but I don't blv him.i don't want to leave ISLAM

I guess ur name is Amina. how about ur parents what is their stance on the issue? if u decide to settle with him will they give their consent?

Unmarried cos I haven't met the right man

is this the end of this discussion? no settlement or conclusions made!!! from things I have gathered here so far it means no specific religion has it all.That's
why even the Quran says we shouldn't discriminate and therefore to serve God righteously we need to combine knowledge from all of the revealed books.
Funny how for every book there is a religion attached!.No religion combines it all.so none is the true religion!.

Op I understand what u going through. But your husband seems like one who is capable of loving you but is protective of that feeling. He doesn't want to bring himself down cos he feels you may begin to act with overfamiliarity towards him and lose respect for him. My advice is stop focusing on his happiness or unhappiness, and focus on your happiness and your children. Take yourself shopping and look your best always. engage in other activities to limit your free time. but not too much to keep u away from spending time with the kids. Maybe reading of inspirational books whenever u are done with your necessary duties. and finally always pray

So summarily OP,are u trying to say that Non virgins are Ill mannered while virgins aren't? And once the mannered virgins lose their virginity they become ill mannered too.

how much is the red heels

wow she's 23?

This daily trekking news is getting too much o

might be a gf na. ;Dmight be a gf na.

lolzz.so funny

Ishilove:

You sound experienced

everyone on nl sounds experienced

to while away time of course

bushdoc9919:


Yes....but a poor man and rich man have one thing in common....they can sleep in just one bed at the end of the day!

how many poor men can afford a bed??
Besides bed has grade.

I love this specie of pear so joining him is for certain. Although I am not a fan of roasted corn.He is my boyfriend na

YES

DoubleQueen:
Share your problem with him. Its his decision to help you or not.

One time, I visited my BF, it was his birthday. I picked up his cake I booked some days before. Bought him a new perfume. On my way to his house, the traffic was crazyyyy! So I deceided to take a bike.

I got there, celebrated. Time to go, I was shot of money. I needed #200 to complete my t.p. I tried asking. Was too shy.

So I left, trekked from Awolowo way Ikj to Ikeja along. To mice my money.

Lesson is.....Learn to share your problem. Atleast, with a few people.



www.nigerianschoolgirl.

lol u are right,but at times asking isn't as simple as it sounds

VanLucius:
U are a rear breed lady and I admire you.Six months and u feel uneasy asking for financial assistance from ur boy friend?I wish other ladies are like you.I dont think he will turn u down.I wont if I were him.But u never know how some guys think.So I would suggest u discuss the issue with him and make him see that u need help..indirectly that is.I hope he is financial standing is such that he can actually help.I wish u all the best and keep being this way.Doors that lead to an easier and much rewarding room will open for u.Dounle thumbs up.You can have the last piece of cake on my plate any day Peace

tnk u very much.