7years and you never enter the place? Wow! The issue now is it that he wants you to impregnate her before marriage or does not want you to marry her at all? From what you have written, we dont know if he likes the girl or not. All in all call him and know his reasons

That broke girl u see there could be lavishing all her money, buying call card and boxers, wasting her call card on one dude she loves somewhere and collecting from u to even feed that guy she loves, it happens, I have seen it, Girls are crazy like that

The question is "do you think a Nigerian can be courageous enough to try that with a SARS officer"??

Robbin7:
Okay gimme your whatsapp number please. Or Facebook user name.

Check my signature for my number and buzz me on whatsapp

Its there a way we can chat on whatsapp? So i will explain better

I can help you, but there has to be questions and answers

Okotorigba!!!

Here is a risky thing to do, give the new girl ur phone and ask her to help u break up with the old girl, but dont let her call, before doing this bar ur phone number from receiving any calls, when she has done this and she has left ur house and all, wait 2 days meet and tell the old girl u wanted to test if she really loved u thats why u sent the break up text, and u have seen what u wanted to see, well believe me u will have alot of apologizing to do, she will believe you, some girls are dumb like that.

Balkan:
ok

Brilliant article must read

Hope you know about a term named Cobra Effect?

If not, it’s time that you learn about it.

The Cobra Effect is a term in economics. It refers to a situation when an attempted solution to a problem makes the problem worse.

This name was coined based on an incident in old colonial India.

By some reasons, there were too many venomous cobra snakes in Delhi. People were dying due to snake-bites and it became scary for almost everyone to step out of their houses.

The government of the day had to get into action to stop this menace and it offered a silver coin for every dead cobra. The results were great, a large number of snakes were killed for the reward.

Eventually, however, it led to some serious unwanted consequences. After a short-term dip in cobra population, it started going up.

This was because few people began to breed cobras for the income. When the news reached the government, the reward program was scrapped, causing the cobra breeders to set the now-worthless snakes free. As a result, the cobra population further increased. The solution for the problem made the situation even worse.

The unintended consequence for a well-intention-ed idea led to making the problem worst.


Trying a new solution?

or

Planning to tackle an existing problem with a new idea?

Well, it’s time to pause and think about how people would respond to the new idea that may sound great on paper!



Specially the solutions that try to affect how people behave.
There’s always a certain group of people who have a tendency to game the system -intentionally or otherwise.

They have a tendency to take short-term advantage of any situation though that may lead to harm to them & society-at-large only in the long run.

Every solution has consequences and those consequences may lead to certain situations where rather than solving a current problem, you may end up with more complex problems.

Few more examples:
A similar type of incident like increasing cobra-population occurred in Vietnam. The rulers realized that there were too many rats in Hanoi and spread of plague was imminent They created a reward program that paid a prize for each rat killed. To obtain the bounty, people would provide the severed rat tail. After initial success, the officials, however, started noticing rats with no tails. The rat catchers would capture rats, cut off their tails, and then release them back into the sewers so that they could breed and produce more rats, thereby increasing the rat catchers' profits.

As they say the road to hell is paved with good intentions, the similar mistakes are happening around us everyday when the decision -makers fail to take a 360 degree view of all the possible outcomes of an action before implementation.

Nearly 2 years ago, city of Philadelphia in USA passed a "soda tax" -- a US $1 tax on a typical 2-liter bottle of soft-drink- as a "sin tax" in the national war on obesity. But the natives didn’t cut calories as a result of the tax on sweetened drinks, nor there was a shift towards any healthier option. Instead, most of them just drove outside the city to buy the same colas , from stores where they didn’t have to pay the tax. But the poorest paid more as they could not find it affordable to drive out of the city to buy their drinks. In the end , city suffered loss of revenue due to lower sales whereas the lower section society paid more .


The unintended consequence for a well-intentioned idea led to making the problem worst.

Even big & brilliant companies do the same mistake!

It is not that mistakes happen only with the government run programs, there're n numbers of examples in great private companies too where the best & brilliant people lose sight of certain negative outcomes due to the initial magic of seemingly great looking ideas .


The Nano Car - a small car that could never it make it big !

The car once touted as the world’s cheapest, Tata Nano, seems to be running into a dead end as sales and production is down to a trickle. The poor demand has resulted in Tata Motors shutting down the plant in last month.

A car considered as a brilliant product, launched in a segment having a billion dollar opportunity. Hope ran high , the company expected all present and potential two-wheeler owners would shift to Nano.

But they forgot to dwell deeper – a car marketed as ‘the cheapest car’ , created huge initial interest. But it never took off.

Later on, Ratan Tata admitted that the reason for failure of this idea was none other than the term which became synonymous with Nano – “The cheapest car”.

Buying a car in India is associated with social status and prestige; if a person owns a car, he is assumed to be successful and settled. But the word ‘cheap’ in its marketing campaigns spoiled everything.

The company also failed to dwell upon the competition from used-cars. Used cars (2nd hand cars) from other companies , which were much better in quality, space and mileage were available to the same customer -segment at the same or lesser price than Nano .

An intelligent team of people failed to think about the above likely outcomes because it became temporarily blind by the brilliance of such a great idea, by the idea of tapping a billion-dollar opportunity.


Next time if you or your team has some brilliant idea , get your brilliant guys together in a room and think about the Cobra- effects before implementing that idea.

We can always fine-tune the idea to minimize the negative implications by spending few extra hours/days before rushing to announce it.

think about the Cobra-effects first.


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I read this and i concluded u were smart till i read...

Balkan:
how old are you Son?

Then i said to myself, this is one dumb dude, keep it up!!!

lexy2014:


Were are they moving them to?

They are moving Computer village to Katangua in Agbado area, dont mind the guy that said ikorodu, Its Mile12 that is being moved to Imota area of Ikorodu.

Cromagnon:
HahahahaHahahahahaHahahahahaHahahahahaHahahahaha
See as d mumu silent upon all the gragra
Shebi you say he should ask now you can't answer HahahahahaHahahahahaHahahahahaHahahahaha

Lol, and I was asking because i didnt know, now the fool changed it to how old are you

farem:


Urban developments has nothing to do with tribe. Mile 12 market is in the process of relocation and the the tribes affected are not gnashing their teeth like you.

Gnashing my teeth on a post i made with a smile on my face?? Why be stupid just to score a few cheap points? Did u see me mention any tribe in my post? Did it suggest I was mocking any tribe in my post? So why mention me??

Balkan:
Igbos are not afraid of relocating. Wherever they move computer village to, lgbos will make the place florish and you will still go there to look for them. Ask where Aspanda and Alaba electronic markets where before?

Where was Alaba market and Aspanda located sir

I tell you most solemnly, this will not stop APC Lagos from moving computer village to a different location, mark my word!!! Thats the APC way

Franzinni:
Omo....

Some one once told me poverty is not a sickness.... It is a mindset...

Because of 10k blood money that politicians give these cockroaches.... They are willing to kill and die...

Who will take care of the opc Okota boss that was stoned to death yesterday's wife and kids... Cus trust me a man like that will be a fuckative.

He die go like 200 naira MTN recharge card....

In other news the okota opc boss is alive and receiving treatment

Chereku and abuba nko i guess

Lmao reminds me of when i was working at Anthony village Lagos, exactly like urs, difference is this one claimed to have come from Niger and he has a lot of imported things he came with, and the things were much, plus he needed someone he could trust, and somehow his spirit trusted me, he asked me if i could find him a place to stay in exchange for part of what he imported, still acting like he does not understand English well, that was how one mumu jumped in, saying he has been watching the man since and asked what is going on in yoruba language, i explained to him and that one started persuading me saying lets help him since he will reward us... All i said to him in yoruba was, lets use style and take him to that police station, they might help him there, that was how the whole thing ended, with the yoruba guy saying "file ko kora e lo jare, owun lomo - meaning leave him let him go, that's his concern. Now i want you to note that the reasons why i wasn't moved was,
1 I have heard such story from my next door neighbor who gave 419 guys all his brother's cash because they told her she would die if she told anyone and she was made to swear an oat, plus they used that spit on the palm magic with her too, and
2. I was in a hurry as i was running a difficult errand for my boss then so they were more like disturbing me.
3. I wasn't a very curious and greedy person too

Sorry you learnt the hard way

Duchessree:
1. For your pores you can use baking soda paste
for how to make your baking soda paste, see below..I saw this on wikihow and it works for me

Mix equal parts baking soda and warm water (2 tablespoons each) into a paste.
Using a circular motion, massage paste into pores gently for about 30 seconds.
Rinse off using cool water.
Use this regimen as part of your normal face-washing routine, every night, for 5 to 7 days. After a week of use, reduce regimen to 3 to 5 times per week

2. For your pimples you can try Neomedrol ( I used some years back and it helped) but now am currently using this herbal cream and it works for me

That cream works like magic and is popular around ikorodu, But why didnt you show the name.... Chimex or something like that

Adekoya KEMI, keep making us proud, we love you

Well its too late now, maybe next year

They have come again with their madness, new disease will be discovered indeed, ndi ara

Its not biblical, but its not a sin to not go.

Its new year, sit her down let her explain what happened to the money in details, if you are not satisfied with the answer just sack her, and let by gone be by gone

LadyBeee:
marriage is not the ultimate thing in life, u uncultured son of a bitch

Merry Christmas dear

LadyBeee:
u re so dumb to realise that the economy of this country could be a factor. Ur reasoning is so myopic that you think everything is spiritual or ancestral. U can never move forward with this mindset

And you can never get married with this attitude of always talking back, and with insults for that matter. Tufiakwa gi mehn!

LadyBeee:
silly person. I'm not frustrated. Idiot. Husbands re crawling at my feet and I'm merely doing the screening.it is your own sisters and daughters that will end up being baby mamas, not me

Keep screening till you reach 50yo, thats when ur eyes will be open.
Then again maybe you have ancestral or spiritual problem, cos i dont know how Husbands are crawling at your feet and they are all broke.
Deal with it, no man wants a grumpy and miserable woman as wife. Uwa nka Amaka

LadyBeee:
will u shut up? Go back and read the guy's comment then u ll realize that you both are stupid

I understand how frustrated you are, but dear you can never get a husband being this aggressive, abusive and foolish.
Anyways u might end up a better baby mama than Linda ikeji, Think about it before its too late.

LadyBeee:
u re very stupid. I'm sure u re one of the hungry broke guys. I'm not desperate and am not in my mid 30s. I just turned 30

You say he is very stupid, that shows the kind of woman you are, insulting someone you dont know, but still dull enough to bring ur anxiety to nairaland. Who knows if he is supposed to be your future life partner. Check yourself, maybe its you and not those so called "broke guys".

Bro in all honesty, its really frustrating, mentally and physically. I cant try that nonsense anymore

The issue is alot of guys dont really care, they have the money to lavish on those broke girls. And its these girls that call you stingy, girls that dont know what its like to work hard