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Buharidgeneral:
God's money

nothing concern God with money. give to ceaser what belongs to ceaser, it is the ceasers face that is on the money not Gods face don't be silly

bestdudes:
Hi, Happy Sunday Evening To Everyone.

A few days ago, I created a thread Titled "Why I Walked Away From 3 Ladies I Had Interest In."

For Those who may have missed it, here is a link: https://www.nairaland.com/7437137/why-walked-away-3-ladies

Most people who commented on that thread were attacking me: some blamed me, some said I am impatient, others said I lack game and so many other things and a bunch of others said the girls are not into me (meaning they do not find me attractive lol). Summarily, it was my fault.

However, I left out a piece of information in all of these and that is the fact that there is one girl whom I stuck with. What this means is that I approached 4 girls, discarded 3, and stuck with 1. 2 ONLINE, and 2 OFFLINE! Please take note.

Background: I saw this girl in church as she sat behind me, like Lady 3 in the other thread, in the company of her sister. We had just closed and it was crowded. I approached her with a compliment on her outfit and told her my purpose which is to exchange contact. I gave her my iPhone to type her number. She did but not without having mine.

As I was leaving, I dialed the number so that I can have it saved later when I get home. I curiously check my call log and didn't see the number... wow...It didn't store the dialed number because there is no sim inside. It is a new phone and I only use it to browse with a router.

I quickly ran back to find her and gave her my android to type the number again. She did, I saved it there and left.

On getting home, I ate and slept off. I didn't call her either and I didn't intend to call immediately.

As soon as I woke, did a few stuff... I opened my WhatsApp. There were a few messages waiting for me and to my surprise, hers was among those. In fact, I never thought that would happen but it did.

I replied to other messages first and hers last and when I engaged her, she couldn't contain the excitement. She told me what her sister thought about me and what I did, plus expressed shock that I came back to find her again, like how did I know they were there (a different location from where we stood previously) as it is one of the biggest churches in Nigeria.

Now, here is where it got even more interesting: She was communicative, outspoken, direct, responsive, and receptive.

Thankfully, she is from my mum's state, so that helped boost the influence and reception some more.

She was just asking me questions, wanting to know a lot about me. You could really feel the desire, energy, vibes, and interest.

At some point, she asked me to send my picture... For those who thought I was some not-good-looking dude, hence the reason those ladies were probably acting that way lol.

She is pretty, much taller than our Lady 3 who was replying with one-liners, with a nice shape than lady 3 as well.

And like they say, the rest is history.

The reason why I am sharing this is that a lot of Nigerian men have been conditioned to settle for anything. Listen up, the moment you know that there are many women out there, you will never settle for anything that does not give your what you want. Having an abundance mentality (something women do not want you to have so that they can mess you up) will save you from girls with repulsive attitudes.

I am a guy who is big on communication, be free, talk to me... once it looks like I am the only one doing the work, I will pull out. I don't ever want to feel like I am forcing myself on someone because, from experience, it never ends well.

See, at no point must you be found trying to manage a relationship with any girl you just met.

Some people feel you must FIGHT to win a woman, fight to convince her, Fight to coerce her... I have done that before and it didn't end well.

Instead of trying to fight as if you are at war with yourself, why not find that one person that matches your energy and returns the vibe? Why not find that girl who is interested in you? Why not find that girl who is willing?

If a girl is not matching your energy, move on to the next one. There are too many women out there than you can handle.

Like I said in that thread, I will keep discarding these girls until I get someone who is interested in me, one who is responsive, one who is polite, friendly, receptive, communicative, and willing. And just because my relationship with this current girl started on a good note does not mean it will end well. It could go North or South, but my point is that I would only go for someone that is friendlier, polite, and open.

Now look at the stat: I approach 4, I discarded 3 for a reason, and I stuck with one. Women are quick to discard a guy, why shouldn't I be allowed to do that?

Women are always keeping their options open, even while in a relationship... so why should you be sticking to just one girl?

I am not saying that you should be sleeping with many girls. I don't do that either but my point is to have as many options as possible. It helps and once a girl knows there are other girls fighting for your attention, your value in her eyes will increase but the opposite is the case if you stick to just one or making look like she is the only one in your life. When you do that, you are likely to get dumped.

The street is brutal, stay vigilant.

you are one of the few Nigerian men who reason and act like a real man. if more Nigerian men could act like you then the ladies would change their attitude, but you see the reason Nigerian men complain about the ladies soo much is because of the way the men relate and tolerate the attitude of Nigerian women. the men are the cause or reason why Nigerian women behave the way they behave.

Bvlgari:
U must be kidding me...these viruses EXIST bro

make we put am money ? go and ask any doctor or medical scientist if they have seen any thing like HIV virus in their entire medical career. do you think I will just come out to say things I have not verified? no medical doctor or scientist have seen a virus that causes aids, even the HIV test cannot see anything called HIV in your body,.. so every one who has been labelled positive has been wrongly labelled because that test cannot see HIV in you. the whole thing about aids is just a big hoax and nonsense if you really get to know what's going on.

HIV was said to be the cause of aids without any proof by Robert Gallo and his medical criminals without proof ,since then they have been pumping azt poison to Africans . the illness's called aids was first noticed in New York yet if you search Google Wikipedia will tell you it came from Africa.the aim of the propaganda is to kill of Africans with that poison called azt.

there is no virus called HIV. no scientist, medical researcher or whatever have seen nor can prove the existence of a virus called HIV.

all this transmitting HIV through sex is a scam just like Corona. when will people have small sense.

2.8milla

2.8mila

Riverville:
Gender equality

I wish I can like this hundreds times

MrBrownJay1:
again, YES although irrelevant to the issue at hand, the CIA knowingly brought drugs to the United States through Nicaraguan Sandanistas, but NO Pablo Escobar did not go the the US after 1981 and that was the only time he set foot on US soil (aka when he wasnt a well know drug kingpin).

by the time he became a drug kingpin and the DEA took notice of the Medellin cartel (aka Pablo Escobar, Carlos Lehder, Jose Gacha and the Ochoa brothers), it was 1983/1984, thats when the Colombian gov had an extradiction treaty with the US gov thus IMPOSSIBLE for any of these drug lords to go on vacations in the US.

here is a very simple question for you: if Barry seals was indeed an informant for the CIA all along "as you claim" (and not because he was busted for cocaine trafficking) then why wasnt he put into witness protection after testifying against the cartel?! as it was well known that he would be murdered by the Cartel (which they did).... or you believe that he worked for the CIA for "supposedly" 30+ yrs and got nothing but drug money for his work. really?!?

oga leave argument .Pablo Escobar son who now goes by the name sabastian maroquin said his father worked for, not with, but "for" the C.I.A. do you know Pablo Escobar more than his own son?.

funny you admit the c.i.a brought cocain to American yet you believe the American government does not know the second richest man who is the biggest drug king pin till 1983. a man who founded his cartel in 1976 and by 1978 was the biggest exporter of cocain to the USA.

the US only got rid of Pablo because in 1989 the Berlin walls came down signalling the end of the cold war which was financed by cocain money, so they no longer need Pablo who was killed in 1993. you think if they really wanted him dead they would not have killed him since 1983 or 84. instead they watch him build his own luxurious prison which is actually a joke for someone wanted by both the US government and American government lol ..think.

go and read the book "dark alliance" by Gary web and you will stop this arguement.

asking me question about Barry seal is actually a display of ignorance . you have not done your assignment. this is a man who has been working with the CIA importing both guns and marijuana into and outside the usa a well known fact before working with Pablo is the same man you are asking me if he really worked for the CIA lol.

i don't want to take you further ,but if you push me ,..I will make you keep quiet.

2.5 any issues? be truthful

MrBrownJay1:
you are getting your dates wrong... Barry Seals started working for the Ochoa brothers (aka Medellin Cartel) in 1981 and he wasnt working for the CIA yet, it is only in 1983 that he got busted and thus around that time that he started being an informant for the CIA ...a good 2/3 yrs after the above photo was taken. until 1983/1984, the CIA didnt know much about the Medellin Cartel or who was bringing so much drugs to the USA. the above picture was taken the same year that Barry Seal started working with Pablo Escobar (the Cia knew very little about him then).

so again, Pablo Escobar only went once to the US and that was well before his kingpin status... when he became notorious, he was so afraid of being extradited to the US that he did everything to change the Colombian law on the subject. you think a man that was so afraid to be extradited to the US would go on vacations there (or anywhere else outside Colombia/Panama)?!

what date did I get wrong lol. I know what I am talking about.

the man Barry seal has been working with the CIA since the 50s flying guns to the revolution fighter in cuba. an undercover operation. including flying weapons to rebele groups in Nicaragua. during the Iran contras you can research that. by 1981 the D.E.A already knew he was bringing cocain to the USA. so America knew Escobar by hat time.

Barry seal isn't even the only CIA agent that worked with Pablo there is also Vladimiro Montesinos. no need to argue about this pablos son admitted his father worked for the c.i.a so the US government knew who he was and only got rid of him when they got tired of using him.

the journalist Gary webb who was assassinated by the CIA proved that the CIA was behind the crack cocain explosion of the 1980s in America. the American government is the biggest fish when it comes to cocain smuggling. Pablo would never have grown so powerful and rich if not for the help and connections he had with government agencies.

Ladycewhy:
yen yen yen. Ya mama is the mumu .

stop replying me, mumu madam fish brain.

Cowbell521:
She's very stupid

extremely stupid.

Ladycewhy:
Yen yen yen.i didn't insult your mother o, I only said she was caged and never fought, so now she has enabled people like you to think other women need to be caged too. If she has fought to become a director or CEO I am sure you won't be carrying this mindset around that women are not good for any notable position.


This is why women need to rise up and stand up for themselves, stop choosing kids and husbands over your personal growth, it's doesn't end well.

mumu madam. you are a clear proof that a woman is her own enemy case closed. you opened the thread to talk of how women are hated by men but ended up proving that women are their own enemies.

Ladycewhy:
Same way your mother was relegated. Sorry, not everyone will be like your mother. . I know many of you only have affection for the sufferings and endurance of your mother's nothing else. If your mother was a director of finance ministry I doubt you will have this mindset.

You see why I was right when I said your mother is the fish brained, she never had anything outside you and your stupid father. So you think other women should do same

mumu girl your own comment goes against the thread you opened. throwing insults on a woman you don't even know shows your hate for your own gender. like I said you have defeated the purpose of your own thread. you women are only good in biting your own tongues .you can insult my mother till you die I don't care you are only displaying the fish Brian attitude we complain of. mumu girl keep it up. fish brain lady. doing the same thing you accuse men of , enemy of thy own self.

Ladycewhy:
There is nothing reasonable in your comment to reply to, just saying and as for your fish brained mother ,I could care less what reverse psychology you are playing at. I am sure even she will agree that she is fish brained for raising an idiat like you. .

you have actually defeated the purpose of your own thread. this is the reason why a woman is not suited for any position of note in the society. only whoring is best for you lot. fish brain.

Ladycewhy:
ya mama is the one with the fish brain.

Insults is not critical thinking, if you insult me,I insult you there is nothing critical about it. lol see this one. And by the way,na your real mama get fish brain .

you could not provide a reasonable reply to what I wrote so you resort to insults . you lack the ability to reason or even think using emotions only. my mama is a woman like you yet you attack her. now tell me who is the enemy of who? or who hates women ? it is men or their women?

foolish lady. I don't pity you, I pity the man who wil end up with you or your kind. Fish brain.

MrBrownJay1:
Pablo Escobar only set foot ONCE in the USA in 1981, and that was well before he became known as the drug kingpin that he was. it is well known that the CIA was helping drugs being shipped to the US, all thanks to their Panama shady arm deals!

below is the only time Pablo Escobar was in the US (in 1981), and back then he was just a nobody for the US gov....to give you an idea, the pic was taken in 1981 way before he joined Colombian congress (in 1982) and started killing people left right and center for his political ambitions. back then, even the Colombian gov (let alone US gov) didnt know how big of a fish he was:

wrong . Pablo Escobar founded the medellin cartel in 1976, by 1978 he was smuggling over 19,000 kg of cocain to USA. and the American government knew it ,.. you know how they knew?,... because it was a C.I.A agent who worked with Pablo Escobar that did the smuggling himself. his name is Barry seal. go and check him out. another CIA agent of note is The CIA agent Vladimiro Montesinos. pablos cocain trade to America where he makes most of his money would not have been possible without these men.

the American government knew who he was because they helped him smuggle the drugs to the USA. the American government is the biggest cocain smuggler in the world. the 1980s crack cocain explosion was made possible by the American government . the American government used the money made from cocain deals to finance the cold war.

Pablo Escobar was just a pawn . go read the book "dark alliance" by Gary webb an investigative journalist who was murdered because he uncovered the alliance between cocain trade and the CIA .

even Pablo Escobar son Juan Pablo Escobar who. ow goes by the name Sebastian maroquin has come out to say that his father Pablo Escobar worked for the CIA.

Ladycewhy:
Your real mama na mumu .

you see how you lack the ability to reason and think critically. yet think men hate you. you are your problem. fish brain.

Ladycewhy:
Oh shut it. All these idiots crawling like ants , facts seem to irk you nitwits . Only nairaland alone is enough to prove that Nigerian women are not liked . So go and hug transformer idiat.

what silly fact are you talking about. you took a swipe on the womb that bore me . that womb is your fellow woman not a man you think hates you. you women don't have any natural enemies that is why you are only enemies with yourselves. like the other guy stated,. it is men who make the laws that protect and favour women yet you think men hates you mumu lady.

Ladycewhy:
lol, sorry for the womb that bore you.

for what? it is the womb that bore you that should be sorried for. see the kind of mentality a matured lady displays. very achaic , no reasoning at all. like I said before ,..sorry for the man that will end up with you.

Ladycewhy:
Not everyone woman is like retarded like your mother . Take note please.

and you still displayed the fish brain mentality we are complaining about in this reply. sorry for the man that will end up with you.

MrBrownJay1:
bro, could you also believe that this man who was once considered the richest man on earth (and also the biggest criminal) never set foot outside South America, let alone Miami (even though he had a mansion there), LA, NY, Paris etc. the minute he started making money, the man was a prisoner in his own country, he couldnt leave the state of Antioquia, let alone enjoy his money in peace. the best he could do was exactly what he did in Medellin....aka buy the biggest mansions here and bring exotic animals and toys to enjoy here, pay the best biatches and surround himself with bodyguards and killas. this man had all the money in the world yet was NOT free.

wrong Mr,.. Pablo travelled to the USA many times even at the hight of him being wanted by the US government. what you don't know about him is that he was aided by the C.I.A to ship most of his drugs to USA.

Xplorepd:
This people with their lies again. Live Islam alone nah. Na the same una no go let us hear word for bus, road and even house. With preaching and the Muslim don't scream that you want to turn Nigeria to a Christian state. Why the hate for our own religion. Face your faith make we face ours. Why all this noise.

I am stating fact your stating nonsense

leksite120:
Christianity was in North Africa but never dominated.
Till today, there are still christians in Egypt infact very indigenous and deep, but they never dominated. Minority till date

I am not talking of dominating religion, I am talking about who came first. the dominant religion as that time is likely paganism. Islam came 600 years after Christianity. most northern part of Africa was part of the Roman empire and so Christianity spread from Rome to the rest of the Roman provinces

leksite120:
North Africa was never christian dominated.
It was pagan , slightly Jewish then Muslims.
Northern Africa is also more ike middle east. And middle east was more pagan and slightly Jewish then Muslim.

you have no knowledge of history. North Africa was once majorly Christian before Muslims conquered and enforced Islam on most of North Africans. go and do your research about the "Donatist".

Ladycewhy:
Mother go through labor pain
Some mothers actually pay school fees
Mother do maid work for her husband and kids
Mother is the psychologist for the child,knows their moods, is the first to know when they are sick .
Wife, tolerate and kill her dreams to raise a family.


So tell us which challenges men go through that women are immune to?

the fish Brian you exibited in this reply actually justifies men calling women fish brain

stunnert:
This is deep. This seems like they still wanna practice an indirect and disguised form of slavery by trying to control the people

yes of course slavery still goes on but in another form. it is no longer with chains and shackles on the hands and feet but of the mind, and this is the most effective method of slavery. they indoctrinate or scare you with diseases so that you can do what they want you to do.

stunnert:
A quick question pls, what do the whites stand to gain from reducing African population through these insane methods ?

it is pure hatred, but goes deeper than that. they have termed African useless eaters who contribute nothing to the world but consume and expand in population. plus too much population makes it difficult to control a people.

Broveens42:
1.Prove the scientific model for a virus HIV ...
2. When you say ELISA procedure for HIV is recommended, how do you control the high sensitivity and specificity of the test?
3. Prove that a patient with the suspect virus will die from AIDS when not placed on drugs

this is too much for the average Nigerian. not many are this wise. inferiority complex alone will never let them reason, to most of them anything coming out of the white man is 100% pure and true.


was it not bill gates that was injecting women in Kenya with abortion drugs In the guise of giving them tetanus injection.

https://globalpossibilities.org/abortion-drugs-discovered-in-bill-gates-vaccines-secret-sterilization-program-discovered-in-africa/

Brendababy:
You’re the stupidest animal on nairaland
Be talking rubbish with confidence

read what you wrote and tell me between me and you now , who has acted and proved to be animal .

stunnert:
I just read the article for that link and it is definitely a shocker and an eye opener

good

stunnert:
Are you sure about this?
Do you have proof ?

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2000/jul/10/sarahboseley

South Africans never had the highest rate of HIV prior to year 2000.

it was Thabo mbeki who rejected the azt at the advice of Duisburg that it was poisonous ( which is actually very true) in 2000 . this made the establishment mad and they did exactly what they did during the Corona period,..i.e labelling every death as H.I.V related.

the fear has to be created so that South Africans can take the killer drug azt. it is part of their agenda to reduce the African population.

a medical researcher called Gary null travelled round the world making his research when they got to South Africa they discovered that it was only in the media that South Africans die of aids. in real life they never even had any thing like that.