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@visa officer where do I get the form?online? Do I bring the money in cash (dollars) when coming? Thanks in advance

@visa officer thank you so much for your prompt reply. Do I fill the form before emailing for an interview and about evidence of staying outside the states is tricky. My dad seized my green card and it was after his death I got hold of it. Please if my dad is a former employee of the embassy will it make it easier?

Dear Visa Officer how do I renew an expired green card. Been in Nigeria for like ten years and I just got to know about my green card. the embassy in lagos is proving ignorance.

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@abx1 na after roundabout be this? we no hear anything for our side o.

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Please I can't seem to be able to download pictures to my phone via whatsapp /nairaland etc. It tells me file doesn't exist. neither can I view ones sent to me. Please help me

@op as I see the topic I think say na" P2 Okoye "

My hubby says it's just "ojukokoro"

I beg u my egbons to help out Just got a tecno H6 and I aint enjoying it. Use mtn o

Suzyky4u:
The positive comments from optimistic people above, actually gives me hope.

r u getting married to one??

@rasojie pls dnt think of dating her whether for sex or marriage and you knw y?because u wont like d end result.am talking frm experience.relationship is nt all about love it has to do with compactability.her family will always threaten u with d jazz.u might love her bt u will neva be free.bt in d long run its ur decision

@op nigerian girls r suffering,if she doesnt stick by u she is a gold digger,if she is nt generous na wahala,if she says no sex u call her names and find other options.To me all what u typed is nt foolishness some r actually sacrifies.though their r bad women bt their r also a lot of good .its so sad to be a nigerian woman

striktlymi:
That's not totally correct. Some parents are only after their selfish materialistic gratifications at the expense of the child's good. Just as we have good parents, we also have very terrible parents.

God bless you

soonest:
Give it to the fathers,it's their prerogative. However, the mother can name the child as well. I name mine because if I wait for my husband,the child will be 2yrs old without a name.

loooool

@toyosecole u for no live with them oooooo dat is mistake numba 1 and mistake numba 2 be say u 4 no confront am.this fight no go finish.my opinion though

[quote author=mamateniola1]Emioga..thanks. I never apologise jawe, wil try do. you think I should let him know about the guy?
hello everyone,how weekend]
well it depends on d level of communication btw both of you.my hubby and i talk abt anytin bt becareful of time and mood too.if i were in ur shoes i wud tell him maybe when gisting abt other couples or relationships bt pls do apologise

@mamateniola1 i lol when i read ur post bt hope u have apologised to ur hubby and i think it is better to explain what happened and hw u were feeling then.GOD will answer ur prayer too@oluwabukonla i rushed to put u in check abt name calling bt i saw pickabeau and temi4fash had done so i later saw ur apology so no hard feelings@purecotton do you feel secure in this relationship?(nt financial security o)as for me i dey my house with my ''neighbours'' minding my own bizness.PS:is their a thread for places where one can get baby clothes(sorry for going off topic my ogas @ d top)lool

@krystal101 looooool and my palour too na my territories be dat and i never overstep them.i even have another entrance into d house(my own entrance)i sweep my side of d house they sweep theirs.like a poster said desperate times call for desperate measures i cant kill myself

@beetle and other posters who suggested my family members moving in my MIL,when moving in with us said her pastor said no visitors shud be allowed 2 stay with us(i took d hint)bt dem family dey cum sleep ova sef and like u suggested i've ignored both completely.i dnt smile/laugh/have any conversation whatsoever just a good morning to MIL if i see am and i'm either in my room or d kitchen(dnt allow them cook in my kitchen)#operation mind ur bizness#@beetle u r soo on point abt her nt being able to stand competition(she saw me as one frm day one)

@beetle and other posters who suggested my family members moving in my MIL,when moving in with us said her pastor said no visitors shud be allowed 2 stay with us(i took d hint)bt dem family dey cum sleep ova sef and like u suggested i've ignored both completely.i dnt smile/laugh/have any conversation whatsoever and am either in my room or d kitchen(dnt allow them cook in my kitchen)#operation mind ur bizness#

@cutiemoi love who!??!!!!!MIL?we both knw dat aint possible(forget say i be christian)i remember when we just moved into our home she abused me saying belle i no get say na sakara i dey do for inside her son house and which rubbish house hubby build sef,fastforward am 8mths pregnant and getting ready for my wedding,pastor says no carry aso ebi/gele if i love myself not knowing MIL don carry ankara/lace/gele.when her son asked her she denied saying y wud she do such.i lost ny pregnancy 9days after my wedding o for midnight in my bedroom d baby just dropped bt i thank God am alive and pregnant again!as am typin am trying 2 rest bt noise no gree(still trying 2 figure out y one has to shout to make conversation)a poster asked if am sure she has 4 houses,lets cancel d one under construction or d one in lag(she may nt wnt 2 stay in lag)what about her husband house which is just 70naira away frm us?!!!!*yezudo's voice*I GIVE UPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!

@picabeau i stay in a duplex but b4 sm1 say i shud be accomodating she has 4houses of her own!!!!!imagine i found out ystaday dat she was taking my turkey eggs(and i am busy thinking dem no lay egg)she has her own chickens!!!!I dont work but am given money @ home monthly despite am married and here is a woman that sells in my home and at d market!!!!!(na only she waka come?)i tot marriage was the starting of a new family bt mine is the continuation of hubby own.no privacy at all bt wetin i go do nw?food and money!!!she fit kill u cos of d 2 as 4 BIL he enters our room anyhow bt i have never stepped in his room@temi if that is d case its better men marry their mothers.dnt i have a mother too?i have been married for two years nw and courted for two and my mother has never and i repeat NEVER stepped my house.she no sabi d street sef talkless d colour@wendy looooool abeg no fight ur hubby on top my matter o thank GOD u guys made up

@ego u knw exactly hw am feeling!!!!i feel soooo mch hate 2wards hubby bt like u said i will keep trying my best.thanks ur advice was right on tyme

Dnt have a maid@picabeau@temi i knw their r ways to put sm1 loved ones in place y cant he?as 4 me am a vry private person bt with them no privacy(just 2 close door na slamming things)constant shouting as early as 4am(dnt knw y dem dey shout i swear)etc.am praying o.just pray God shud do smtin fast,thanks 2 evry1 though i do feel beta.guess when i ve my baby i wnt feel so alone.sm1 asked if d marriage was arranged it wasnt bt i realise now that i overlooked alot of things(guess na my fault abi?)bt i knw it is well cause only time is d best justice and God knws i cant wait!!!!!!

@megamindmaster when we were courting no be like this o(at dat tyme he was building his house)immediately we moved in last year january BIL moved in and MIL moved in feburary.by april/may/june wahala don start(her food is small,i give her bones)etc so hubby separate food.since BIL came to stay we no dey greet(secondary skool boy)my MIL has 2houses of her own(1 complete and one unda construction)while she inherited 2 4rm her hubby(1 in lagos and 1 in ogun state)wonder y she cant stay in these houses!!! I dnt have a prblm with hubby financing his family i wud just prefer them out of my home(doesnt even feel like a home)where is my hubby in all this?telling me if i cant take the heat i move out!and that he cant allow his mother to curse him because of his wife(talk of killing me emotionally)even my family never come my house b4(fear of MIL).story plenty jare@temi no kids yet bt pregnant right nw.feeling so alone

@temi i just moved into town from lagos so am seriously searching.hope to get one very fast.pple say i shud mind my bizness in d house hw does one actually do that?

Mine is worse.my MIL and BIL stay with us despite they have 3 houses of their own.its been tough bt to make matters worse hubby will tell u 'its my house and u didnt give me money and u r d visitor ,if u aint comfortable move out''.marrige aint sweet i tell ya

Yes o!it can be gone forever or be tainted!i believe you cant hate your partner in a twinkle of an eye im go done dey vex u wella