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MARRIED IN SCHOOL, SINGLE AT HOME
Thinking about this topic, I’ve been wondering
who the focus of this post should be – girls or
guys or both.
In almost every tertiary institution in Nigeria,you
find ‘undergraduate couples’ living as husbands
and wives. You find a lot of these misguided
people in virtually all schools. It’s so bad that,
often times,they are duly recognised and
acknowledged as couples by lodge neighbours,
classmates and even leaders of various students
associations. Little wonder there is such an
award as “The best couple of the year award”
shamelessly and thoughtlessly received by
students..Like I said earlier, I really don’t know
the particular gender to address but let me just
keep typing. The rate at which girls live with
their boyfriends in their various off campus
hostels is painfully alarming.
Most times, these young girls are very beautiful,
with bright and promising future.They cohabit
with boys who are their fellow students as
roommates. The lugubrious part of it is that the
silly girl would always introduce the small boy as
her fiancé..Our society is really sick courtesy of
those that live in it. These girls collect either
hostel fees or house rents from unsuspecting
(and sometimes, struggling)parents and end up in
the house of a boy. You struggled possibly for
several years to gain admission. Then you
suddenly became a prayer warrior posting and
shouting ‘Amen’ at the slighted provocation. You
fasted. You had one prayer point filled with
promises of your loyalty and devotion to God if
only He would answer your prayer. Now that He
has fulfilled His part by answering and granting
you admission, don’t you think He is expecting
you to fulfill your own part, to keep whatever
promises you made to Him??.
Many of you just got admission and once you
settle down (especially from your second year),
crazy thoughts will begin to creep into your
minds. Yes by then, the heat of the rush would
have been over; If God didn’t capture you
(possibly through the various campus
fellowships), boys would have caught you. In my
school we even have an unrecognized,
unregistered but well offered course .
For d guys its a course that shouldn't be carried
over.
Soon, they would persuade you to move in with
them. Of course, they’d give you one thousand
reasons to make you give in to their
prodding..Before you agree to move in and live
with a boy on campus, consider the reason why
you are in school in the first place. What image
would you be creating about yourself?
Can this boy marry you in case you get pregnant
for him as is always the case, or will you resort
to series of abortions like many other girls before
you?
What advice will you give your children in future
concerning this kind of things? After school,
what next? Will the relationship really lead you
anywhere?.
This post is finally addressing the female folks. I
didn’t plan it that way. Maybe it’s because they
are the worst hit by the grave consequences of
illicit sexual relationships. They are the ones that
turn out to be the sore losers in the end. They
call it school life but they don’t realize how
idiotic they have been till it’s too late. You are
not in school to get married. Part of the reasons
why you are in school IS NOT to get the
husband-and-wife experience, to see what it
feels like for the boy to provide the money for
food and for the girl to go to the market for food
stuffs and cook. That’s pure misplacement of
purpose!
One guy told me that he was practically learning
how tobe a caring and romantic husband. Such
shameless! Then you hear the girl say, “We are
not doing anything, we are just roommates”. Yet
she commits countless abortions before
graduation..Yes, your admission has given you
unlimited freedom. Yes, your parents are not
there to tell you what to do or what not to do.
There is even no blood relation around, so
there's no fear of someone reporting you. But
what about giving your womanhood respect and
protecting your dignity?
What about living in such a way as to have a
positive story to tell the next generation
(including your children) without your conscience
pricking you?
What Goes Around Will Definately Come
Around....
Y not exercise a moment of thorough thinking....Just a tot. Let's share it with all d youth u know. Thanks!

He ggo die there

Goodness.....i don't want them to. only. Go to jail hanging annd firing squad shld follow suit

Nonsense. Thread

just wanna know....tho I do as long as we nacked before sleeping

Seun,lalasticlacla and other mods donnt u think others should see and comment on this

KimBerlyie:
What's with all these shameless guys claiming to look like a celebrity? Is it low self esteem or wat?

It's low self esteem oooo. Its the reason y soo many young people are losing their senses dis days

Drunkards.......mbaka is a man of GOD....take it or kill ur self's

K

Ginaz:
I prefer the first one, you look so cool.

Tanks bae

At the age of 25 u. Have a ring On ur nose instead of Ur finger sister are u a bull? #naijagirlsmustchange


Add urs.lalasticlacla help us

It has never been heard of that any. Country lost it budgets plan anywere. Inn the world...I wonder why these budget didn't lost b4 d president submitted. it to NASS....and instead of people to be serious and concerned they are busy making. Fun of it....PDP stole that budget if really it is missing and I hope no 1 will shout witch hunting when buhari retaliates.......

I had to barb my hair cos of much pressure from my mum and our rev.fr don't like my new look bt I love my mum enough not to disrespect her...just wanna knw Whc one is more cool....back to back am still uglly

I have read soo many online articles and threads on NL of how confused ladies are and how/difficult it is for them to make a choice or particular say on some issues so. I want these question to trend on NL so ladies can generally tell us what they want and what. They see life as a lady to bbe .....


#What exactly do women want?

Who ddey don help

southniyikaye:
adekunle still never stop him photoshop wahala?

He never stop ooo....

What money can do

Cute and perfect no one will suspect.......

ETISALAT will soon come and deny any knowledge of dis advert.....na so MTN makke condom when their oga use am F•cK. all. The. Girls for costomer. Service finish thhhey come deny. The condom....stewpid threads making fp since the days of sani abacha

Crap

Pls we are tired of these. Davidos drama making fp...I wonder Since when social media took the place of family meetings and settling issues quietly....since last week. nairaland has been a joke all see is. Davido,olamide,donnjazzy,julliet ibrahim......even naijaloaded is not these boring....if u complain some drunk nd sleep. deprived fellows will come nd threatens u wit ban....some sane. people over here needs educative and informative news.....som1 can not cm back. from work after a long hetic day. Nd tryna relax and read what's happening around d world onnly to comme aand see Llong boring craps like diss on fp....makke una dey post better tin abeg u guys Aar nt d 1 subscribing my fone

All the. Above write up dawn on me after secondary school baack in 2010....i did. car wash.worked in a construction company and workked in a. Paint comapny to.....tank GOD for. we're I am. Nw...final year loading....advising students to Shaun relationships in school willl make dem hate u nd dey will tink u ar saying nonsense until dey ar hit withh cronic heart breaks,std and wasted time/oportunities...my dad. always says...pain will teach u a lesson that pride won't allow u learn...use ur days in school wisely...GOD blless thee poster GOD bless NIGERIA GOD blesss u aall

Am just wondering....i know all boss would follow the hit makers but the both of them are good

So wat

when there are hundreds of paper proves/evidence and why hasn't dasuki mention these himself I suspect someone is smuggling alcohol for dis man inn prison........i wonder when they will all go to jail....PDP Awon ekpa

Maycher:
uhmm, I had to look at your pic a thousand and one times to confirm what you said. I agree with you. I think a transition from slim to medium is gonna happen soon. You cute tho.

Btw, what's BBW?

Big beautiful women or beautiful big women either waays