₦airaland Forum

jesmond3945:
they are my neighbours here. Mean

Supersymetry:
Life is not fair, even nature, humans are even lucky some female species kill and eat the male after mating, and move to next male,
Men have, can still do it, we've changed many natural order with science and technology and will soon end female Monopoly .

Men waste useful time needed to drive the society forward in chasing women and trying to gain their affection.

jesmond3945:
eastern europeans are like that, mean and aggressive. I think their younger generation are changing.

Odunharry:
Update biko..

Nice one.. Sure you enjoyed your stay.

Greattestman:
Enjoy yourself Bro

Supersymetry:
Sure it won't be available anytime soon.
But artificial uterus/womb is not a complex option. There has been a lot of prototype, if given enough attention, fund and research it can be achieved in less than a decade, the decision needs to be taking first, as major research into such field are rejected by the public or viewed as unethical.

With such technology you just go to hospital to have a baby no connection with any woman, you get a male child and the cycle continue. To get the egg is another topic, you don't need to worry about it scientist know what to do.
Even married people can decide to use the hospital. This is the future it must surely come to pass.

Baby mama is somehow connected to you even if you deny it, and baby mama benefits only you, but pushes the societal morals into an ever deeper/lower potential well.

In negotiations you first get the leverage to secure better deal,
The leverage is now the true second option, introduce it and watch how women will spontaneously become understanding, good, etc.
Finally the end of hypergamy.

Nyascobar1414:
catastrophe will always befall simps like you...

You've fallen short of the glory of masculinity

begoniaa:
Guys that are fond of calling women gold-diggers are now realising money isn't everything?

How shocking!

Another person is recommending a student. Na shift cropping and rotational cultivation thing I see. I thank God say at least na my turn to hear positive thing about my group. Tomorrow I will be back to the trenches where I am supposed to be broke and to have fked all guys and lecturers in my department.

Even nonexisting of all people is recommending "classy, highly class and cerebral feminism-leaning women" who aren't man-focused.

Another is recommending virgins.

Another mentioned new generation pentecostal churches...

The race for a wife, mehn... Is this you people online version of "Jehovah, carry me dey go...?"

Ulunne777:
;DYou have been patronizing Ashawos since the first day you made your money no you want a homely girl.
Nwanneni,Get the wild one that will match your demons biko

Tickles001:
...and ice it with "must have something doing" and "ready to settle down"

Supersymetry:
A sure reality,
At the end most woman will still get a financial stable man, because men don't want to die poor.
But most men will definitely get, overused woman, ie not the kind their inner mind desire.
men can only change it temporary by raising their standard as it has been before, but that's equal to fighting nature and denying reality, like raising a particle into a higher energy level of unstable equilibrium, it will surely fall back to ground state giving enough time and circumstance.
Serious men are looking for alternative to women; Monopoly of any kind is dangerous.
Artificial uterus, AI android ,
Or the nuclear option, transcending and digital immortality, eg mind upload and cloning.

Raalsalghul:
Honestly.

After understanding the life cycle of women, I then do not blame guys that are fixated on marrying Virgins.

Had a female friend telling me to introduce any friend I know who's ready to settle down.

She has forgotten she told me she used to sleep with married men when she was younger.

Of course, men plenty wey go marry am but no be from my recommendation.

franchasofficia:
The breed of ladies the op want are rarely found in Nigerian universities, unless the few high-end private universities, even those ones like CU, Madonna, Igbinedion, etc have been infiltrated by the same class of chicks the op is complaining about.



Most Nigerian female students now belong to Yahoo plus fellow male students and the politicians.


Go to Baze University, your politicians like Dino and co have collabi all the finest chicks you think are refined ajebo girls, sadly.


Unless op will find his way to APTI Yola, i think he will find some of the refined breed of chicks there, but you see CU, Baze University, Igbinedion, Madonna, etc, I doubt

franchasofficia:
The op is right.


I have a very close friend who is still single and having same issue.


This guy is educated, an Accountant. He heads his company's account department at his young age. Aside being an accountant, he has a flourishing small fintech business with 5 staffs. He lives in what I may call a family mansion alone. He has met hundreds of ladies and none is up to what he desires or what we his close friends consider okay.


He is either meeting hungry, broke opportunists or ladies above 37 with good job though but he want something around 27 to 29.


This guy has tried almost all social media platforms, Facebook, etc still same class of babes.


Right now I de pity him cos it seems his spec of girls aren't in Nigeria again lol


Our Nigerian ladies need to work on themselves and try to upgrade at early age.


The younger ones seems to be immature, unserious and act too foolish. The older ones are more mature, cool headed, financially independent but like the op said, the girlie vibes and beauty is almost gone. The remaining beauty in them is now money induced beauty using beauty products and all those artificial enhancements.



I pity single people of this age, e no easy to find your taste as a well to do young man.



This is where studying abroad at undergraduate stage gives advantage cos it seems the type of chicks op want are all schooling abroad or they schooled abroad and have been taken by their Nigerian course mates and school mates abroad

Raalsalghul:
Na why me I comot hands for the matter.

Person no fit hustle finish for this life only to be short changed.

Na to just find one pikin give mumsy make she use live out her days.

Honestly!

Goodnigga:
One fool will say old ladies are the best, they are humble, loyal , seen-it-all etc bla bla balderdash. Who became older, is it not the young girls that became older and humble when they become short of options. Never settle for an oldie, their humility is a circumstancial and conditional humility. Why should I settle down with a wasted, expired and over riped products? Better to find a younger girl with sense. With all thy might, find her and you will obtain favour from the Lord.

JBriel:
It's not about rejection. Trust me, there are guys ladies can't reject. It's total inaccessibility and unavailability that's the concern

0bamaMesssi:
which campuses?
Abeg don't even go there

JBriel:
What conditions is too much? Is decency too much to ask for?

JoyousFurnitire:
Then posh Churches is your best bet except that you're not in Lagos.

Find you a posh Church around you.

Maybe Varsities too because of the agre group you're looking for but be careful of these ones. They're still very young and hoeing.

However, might need to read your OP again. The're still 30+ posh and clean women. You never hear about Shiloh?

Tickles001:
This is not true. An average woman doesn't want an average man. That's leaves the average man with bellow average women to pick from.
Decency in a man doesn't attract a decent woman.

heartofcity12:
Seen. Really appreciate bro. More grace and blessings. I’m very grateful. Cheers.

heartofcity12:
I’m glad we can all benefit from the thread bro, iron sharpens iron. I’ve replied you sir.

heartofcity12:
#trp..

ubunja:
I don't know how you got to the bolded. your analysis failed you.

if women show love through sex it's because they're choosy with who they fukk, which is the reality hence the best woman is a virgin who has never been fukked.

now since prostitutes fukk every man then their pussy is worthless so the equation runs backwards..... there's only really 2 things that are exchanged between the genders: sex and money. a man accepts sex as an expression of love from a woman on condition that she fukks only him. now if she's fukking many men then her pussy has no worth , her worth then tranfers to MONEY. everything is now running opposite normal relationships. so a man dating a prostitute, because a prostitute is sleeping with many men for money, he can't show the prostitute his love through money but through SEX. while other men pay the prostitute for sex she herself pays her man for love through that same money. that's why when a girl starts selling sex she stops asking for money from her boyfriend and instead starts GIVING him money. while her boyfriend then starts to play hard to get by denying her sex since his dicc is now his expression of love for her, so he only fuccs the prostitute when and if she gives him money. which is the basis of pímpíng. while a prostitute is a prostitute to men, the pímp himself is a prostitute to the prostitute. what a prostitute is selling to men (sex) the pímp himself is selling to her. so in effect the pímp is a prostitute's prostitute. that's why a pímp never fukks for free and he's forbidden from dealing with normal (square) women cause to take money from a prostitute and spend it on a non prostitute is the ultimate sin in the game.

Raalsalghul:
Hmmm.

Egbon mi

ubunja:
imagine someone walking into a fashion boutique and shouting "there's more to life than clothes". dude here we sell clothes I don't know what you looking for.

ubunja:
"there's more to life than pussy", this is the Red Pill, this is not life orientation. isn't this the Romance Section anyways? so what do you wanna talk about? jobs, business and education? please sit your ass down.

anyways how can we be shouting "Women have nothing to offer just pussy" and then at the same time make it a crime to talk about pussy?! doesn't make sense.

enumerica:
The standard for men has declined over the years of human civilization, we went from marrying only virgins to nonvirgin and now some are even marrying other men's babymamas, but the standard for women has never changed: marrying only men who can provide.

How men have fallen!