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Nonexisting:
These same men you are telling not to fucck women unless they make money, don't forget to mind your business when they make this money and decide to fucck battalion of women.

Ayo2004:
Women will tell you not to date if you are broke but will still tell you to be loyal when you become rich.

If God hears your prayers and gives you money after these women have broke shamed you only for you to be loyal to one woman,you must be a fool

Rollsnjaguar:

Putin my man.

If they like, they should be trekking.

Bobmarie:
And when we decide to split the bills equally?

Magnoliaa:
I am an 'I-too-know'. Yes, I accept. Doesn't change the fact that you could not answer a thing of my questions.

What you cannot do for your wife, don't expect her to do it for you.

The person you quoted mentioned being an only heir to a estate and family holdings. That was NOT your point. You never said so. The only condition you gave was opened. Being an only son of a parents or of a single parent.

But if you can move into the estate of your wife's parents, as she's the only one there to run and keep a hold over things, just say yes, you can or will, and I'll drop this.

MrBrownJay1:
with such damage, you would think that this league was the best in the world (to these fans).

Kriss216:
Don't allow broke girls access your glorious gbola. Starve them.

Poor girls feeling ho.rny should be treated as terrorists in a sane country.

KingOfAllIgbos:
I can't even begin to imagine.

For them both to be squabbling over what they didn't work for.

The son inherited the shameless entitlement behaviour from the father.

I don't mind sounding harsh but it's the bitter truth.

If the son is truly self sufficient and successful, at least he would leave the father to be irresponsible?

Joining in the act is just as disgusting. I can imagine being called as a family friend to resolve this kind of issue..

Would recommend public flogging for them both.

Techguy96:
So who is the successor of Sudan?

North or south Sudan.

Since disintegrated countries now have successor.

simpleseyi:
Just the same way you are fighting your father for properties, you are also fighting anybody that has s contrary opinion to your prodigality

bjprodint1:
Are u ur mom's next of kin?dont u av other siblings cos it seems u are d only one fighting 4 properties.uncle,go and hustle so dat u can leave properties for ur wife.or is it ur mom's properties u want 2 leave 4 ur wife and kids?

LadyRosa:
E get wetin some men no go _4ck?
From puz'zy,to anus to cow to goat?!Now monitor lizard,infact they had to rape the reptile.Jesus!

I actually saw a video where a white guy dey _4ck python . OMG! PYTHON!

Them dey _4ck even doll baby sef

Anything wey be like say e get hole dey Make some men cu'm.Just fold 'oyeld' akara newspaper round their _preek and watch some of them jerk in stupor!

Some dey straff their bed too, especially teenagers.Wereys

pansophist:
I call such people peasants, and yes, it's very common with girls. Their esteem is based on their dressing, phones, boyfriends, hair, cliques, stupid phonetics, ego, appearance and sassy attitude. She is too dumb to even know that those things are a mark of her vanity, not status.

People with true class worked for it themselves. For example I'll understand and tolerate if Beyonce is pompous, afterall, she is a singer with such a voice only few possess, loved by the world and goddamn wealthy. Jayz or not, she is established for life through her own hardwork. Her esteem is organic, it comes from within and not based of what a man can do for her.

Girls like that are not aware of their burden status. Because if a girl is proud due to the calibre of men she follows, then the burden is on those men to match her delusion with reality. They'll have to pay for things that convince her that she is high status. If one lack a virtue, then the person who didn't lack it will suffer.

For example if a wealthy man marries an uneducated woman that knows how to spend instead of make money, then the woman enjoys, while the wealthy man becomes a workhorse and may end up broke. Its how an adult walking with a kid must match his/her pace with the child's pace. Or a horse going for a walk with a tortoise must match the speed of the slow animal or carry it on its bag, which reduces his speed. If you vibe with peasants, they'll slow you down.

Sometimes I just wonder why a lot of people go through life without consciousness, to understand their place in it, and cultivate behaviours to live with dignity in it. Inside life.

JIREXXIE:
How do I get experience if I don’t work �

pansophist:
Her mentality is really bad. How does riding for uber means one is low? You know a society that is messed up in all level when hardworking citizens are looked down upon. The obsession with status is so stupid on all level I honestly can't find a justification for it.

What's even Ironic is that she feels high status because she thinks she is, not because she truly is. She judge her status by the kind of men she follows, not the kind of woman she has developed herself to be. Such an idiot.

There was one Christmas eve, me with other international students and a Dutch professor went for the fireworks, and as usual, there was lots of can beers, bottles and plastic littered all around the streets. In Sweden, you can exchange a bottle of beer for .25 cents each.

We spent the night pick trash bottles from street to streets till next morning up to ten full bags, and sold all next day, amounting to about 75 euros or so, we shared the money. It was little money, but it just shows how a healthy society should run, where everyone is respected as humans, especially if they are working a honest job. People will respect such professors for that act, unlike Nigeria where he will be looked down on.

posty56:
your statistics is very low

sgtponzihater1:
Cerebral physics:

They expect a who is at fault type write-up. The finger always points back to men in this case. You didn't search well, you didn't study her, you didn't investigate.

Interesting as the above line of thought sounds, it puts the buck back at the feet of men. Men would always be the mule that bears the brunt.

Nothing wrong shaming a pot bellied man, but it's offensive to call a lady fat; use plus sized instead. Like no harm calling a man jobless and lazy, but a woman who makes up at 12noon is one who just want to relax and be taken care of.

Life is hard for men. The only thing men need is someone to cheer him on. Tell him well done for the little he is doing, and tell him don't worry when he fails, we can try again tomorrow.

It will all be well with all the men putting in the work, and all the tears dropping down their brows will not counting as nothing in the end.

SgtPonziHater

JIREXXIE:
I’m a licensed 2nd Officer and a recent graduate of Shipping and Cargo operations with passion for the sea
Lol English dun finish baba
I dey find work
I dun waka tire .. my trainings complete
Abeg if you go fit help me
07065610063

tensazangetsu20:
I am curious why is it that if good marriages exist I never hear or see them. It's always the bad experiences I see. I mean with regards to other things in life I always see pros and cons but with regards to marriage I always see the bad why?

CAPSLOCKED:
I WON'T SAY THAT YOU'RE WRONG BECAUSE SINCE 70% OF THE EARTH'S SURFACE IS COVERED BY WATER, BLUEPILLED MEN COVER 29%, LEAVING MEN LIKE I TO SHARE THE REMAINING 1% WITH THE WORLD'S ENTIRE FEMALE POPULATION.

mymadam:
ANSWER: Eligible bachelors are no longer available for their kind and several others like them QED

We4all:
Stop justifying domestic violence. If your partner is uncouth, then walk away.

Do you know the number of toxic bosses some of these abusers have? But they choose to keep silent because they are afraid to lose their jobs.

If they can endure their bosses at work, then they should also learn to endure their wives at home.

CAPSLOCKED:
WOMEN THAT KICK AGAINST THE REDPILL ONLY CARE ABOUT THE ENJOYMENT AND FREEBIES THAT SIMPS OFFER. THEY FAIL (AS WITH ALMOST ALL THINGS) TO SEE THE BIGGER PICTURE OF WHAT SIMPS ARE TO SOCIETY.

A SIMP IS THE ONE THAT'S A THREAT TO HIMSELF AND TO THOSE AROUND HIM. THAT FAMOUS GOSPEL SINGER WAS KILLED BY A SIMP. A REDPILL-AWARE MAN WOULD NEVER. HE'D HAVE LEFT THE MARRIAGE YEARS AGO IF IT WASN'T WORKING FOR HIM AND HE KNOWS BETTER THAN ACT EMOTIONALLY AND CAUSE DAMAGES TO PROPERTIES AND LOSS OF LIFE.

THAT JILTED MAN DRINKING SNIPER OR TRYING TO KILL HIS EX-LOVER. HE'S A SIMP.
THAT PAINED MAN THINKING TO CAUSE CHAOS AFTER LEARNING THAT HIS GIRL'S SEEING SOMEONE ELSE. HE'S A SIMP.
THAT SHORT-TEMPERED MAN THAT BEATS HIS WOMAN ONCE HE FEELS OFFENDED. HE'S A SIMP.
THE RAPIST AND CHILD MOLESTER. HE'S A BLOODY SIMP.

A SIMP IS A THREAT TO NATIONAL SECURITY. HE WOULD SET THIS COUNTRY ABLAZE TO PLEASE EVEN A CRIPPLED UNATTRACTIVE WOMAN. YOU SHOULD BE VERY WARY OF HIM.

Lalami3232:
Some of una no go ever wiseup with our daily preachings and sensitization for this awesome forum? What do you expect when you dey date a 9ja girl? Even most married women toto no dey stay one place, talkless of a mere girlfriend. My brother, treat a Nigerian girl like a swimming pool and have peace. For swimming pool eeh, you no dey care who dey swim with you, who don swim before you, and who go even swim after you. If you can get the "swimming pools philosophy", then you don overcome heartbreak. 99% of 9ja babes aren't worth it bro. Ask yourself this simple question, "aside this my babe toto, wetin I dey benefit from her again? "
When you answer that question, you don liberate yourself from boreholes aka non virgins. I rather cry over bet9ja website wey den never rectify than to worry over a 9ja babe. Laslas eeh, most of una go wise with time. One question wey I dey ask myself ever time be say "the way we dey give una sense reach for nairaland, most of una still dey mumu. How una for be without nairaland? "


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the average 9ja babe no suppose stay labor room pass 2mins maximum because the borehole wey den carry nowadays is shocking"

Tonnyray:
Life is actually balanced in my opinion though and if we were to actually delve inwards to discover and unearth the qualities that are gifted to us as men: the powers of creativity, aggression, courage, strength, competitiveness, resilience, mental and physical energy, capacity for critical thinking and logical thought to mention a few. These are qualities that last 50 years and more. Physical beauty that lasts for just 10 years (maybe 15 years max for the extremely genetically lucky ones) pales into insignificance in comparison. If we are objective enough, nature has ensured we MEN actually have the "unfair" advantage.

Jeremani:
I just randomly picked a number added it on Whatsapp, her about status was " Shiloh 2022 I more than a conqueror"

Paulianfa:
All these talk cannot solve any problem except one learned to understand what is happening in people's lives and home.
Some of these domestic violence are cause by women themselves cos they seems not to understand the ways of life.
I don't think a man with a right senses can lay a finger on his wife without something behind, u see all these women wen they have more than u, they wants rule over u, they want to control and becomes the head of the house, they will insult and abuse u the way they can.
And wen u stood ur ground, the whole world will be blaming you for defending ursef, they will now turn against u.


One needs to investigate and asked questions about domestic violence.

Kaymicheal852:
There is nothing good about poverty no justification


Like me ,if anyone comes from a poor home ( never lack food or shelter but lack any other good thing ) you will know how important money is

A man can't really function without money , if you're single people will pity your sorry us because you don't have money that's why you don't marry and if you marry poor you might eventually become a deadbeat dad ,a tyrant to your family or you're just box to the corner by your family,friendd and your community

As as for your kids they will suffer for it trust me , from not having a strong father figure that will put strong values in you , having to start your own Hussle from zero with zero inheritance and support,with growing up in an unhealthy and a morally awful community

To getting exposed to alcohol and hard drugs so early
Exposures to fast life and all kind of environmental and sexual disease

The list goes on and on
Imagine I have to live with hynea for years before I can personally can afford to do surgery of 100k which might have cost less than 60k years earlier but my parents can't afford it

The list goes on and on,I'll advice anyman who can't at least doesn't own a house yet not to start having kids

I don't know about everyone else but For someone like me , poverty is not an option

ubunja:
the peace of mind that poverty supposedly brings evaporates the instant one is diagnosed of cancer and suddenly needs millions for treatment abroad. Then they start wishing they had money.

no one wishes for poverty. No one. I will speak on behalf of the world by force on this one. Just that people have trained themselves to be happy with the little they have. But given a chance, we all would like to live comfortably.

CAPSLOCKED:
STRANGE TIMES. NEVER IN MY BORING LIFE HAVE I EVER IMAGINED THAT THE DAY WOULD COME WHEN POVERTY WILL GET A PR AND ADVOCATES. BUT HERE I AM HAVING TO ARGUE WITH ADULTS AND SUPPOSEDLY LOGICAL AND INTELLIGENT MEN THAT POVERTY IS NOT A GOOD THING AND HAS ZERO BENEFITS.

PERSONALLY I'D RATHER DIE YOUNG THAN LIVE ALL MY LIFE STARK POOR. IF YOU NOT MAKING ANY MONEY EVEN IF SO LITTLE TO AFFORD BASIC THINGS LIKE FOOD AND DRUGS WHAT ARE YOU SPENDING MANY DECADES ALIVE FOR? WALKING AROUND AND ACCUSING RICH PEOPLE AND HUSTLERS AND WISHING THEM HELL? LMAO

immortalmortal:
Most married women who sleep around don't get money in return

SeaTrade:
In light of all what's been happening and from experiences,I am beginning to think our predecessors were right in always picking women way lower than them in the food chain for marriage or the homely ,younger ones to be complete housewives for sanity reasons.
All these independent women come with one barrage of problems or the other(my experiences).
Some of them are;
Too much experience.
Barrage of exes.Their exes no dey finish,everyday new name.
Age .Before a woman or any person can achieve stability,time don go well well.
They can actually do without you and in the long run,this becomes a big problem like it or not.That feeling of having someone need you?forget it with these set of women.(they already have mechanics,artisans and all contacts throughout their long years of being independent).
Prone to cheating.They've got jobs so it's easy for them to cheat on you with colleagues and associates and trust me,you'll never find out if she's good or don't want you to.
Highly opinionated,trust me you'll have a lot of clash of interests with them and confrontations,especially with the rude ones.
Pride. I need not say much about this but its real,they feel way above their heads most times.
Etc...
These are my observations, I'd love guys who've experienced different or similar circumstances to throw more light from their experiences so we can discuss about this .
What Compromises did you make for peace to reign and enjoy your union?
PS;Please all those rude kids with penchants for disrespecting women and insulting them should stay off this thread please,I am not in the mood for your shenanigans.