₦airaland Forum

Gerrard59:
Yes, corona virus originated from China, but the West actually kicked against sharing the intellectual property behind their vaccines until pressured stepped up and India was capable of producing vaccines. China later shared its vaccines to interested African countries.

In Nigeria, more jobs and investments have been created and made by Chinese owned investors compared to Western owned. States like Kaduna, Kogi, Nasarawa, Ogun, Ondo etc., would have been worse if not for Chinese investments.

I don't know why there is this strong anti-chinese/china among nigerians.
They are far better that the west.

Disenfranchised:
USA gave Nigeria over $500M in grant (free money) and china made an investment of less than $200M and in that investment, china will provide labor, material, etc.

Ronus get sense nah!!

Yet, we see more impacts in the China $200m in train stations etc to the free US $500m grants

Bros.....you too give yourself advice

Raalsalghul:
I can imagine your face while saying this.

JESHAL007:
If you think Oloshos are only on the streets, you are joking and highly ignorant.

Most prostitutes are honest women as they just go straight for the money, Most women (your girlfriends, fiancee and wives) are DISHONEST PROSTITUTES.

The problem with men (that has been highlighted here several times) is that they think those they "express their feelings for" (to use the phrase common with Male Amateurs in the dating game on nairaland) who don't directly sell sex to them are far better than the ones on the street.

There are far more WHO.RES in SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS and MARRIAGES today than those the streets.

Chaii

HacheNoire:
FESTAC needs to be declared as an open air concentration camp.

What’s the difference between FESTAC and Gaza!

kpankpangolo:
Rather than pool money for a paint job, they’ll complain that the government abandoned them. It’s the mindset which kills people, not the reality on ground.

Humans especially blacks hardly work together. So the best option is for the caretaker collecting the house rent to reason that and do it rather than waiting for hundred tenants to agree to save money and do it.
Most western economies we are running to are been designed and managed by the few best brains and hands and not the majority junkies on the streets

one4GOD:
with the way things are now 2027 will just be sachet water and ur vote is bought!

obonujoker:
Let's be frank, Nigeria no fit better.

Make I just get enough money Japa, before Nigeria renders me naked

emmanuelewumi:
Not even easy to have as savings by the owners of dollar

JESHAL007:
just as women are always aiming for Financial Independence, so men must always aim for Sexual Independence. Women are fighting so hard to be financially independent so they don't have to rely on relationships for money , which is a way to live their life free from male control, Men should also fight equally hard to be sexually independent so they don't have to rely on relationships for sex, to be able to live their lives free from women's control. If as a man your access to sex depends on whether or not you're in a relationship you're in trouble.
But it's not going to be easy cause men are moral, and sex outside of relationships is something many men feel guilty about. While lots of men can have sex before marriage, quite a good number have issues with sex before commitment, we all have heard it, "I can't fucc a girl I don't love" "I can't sleep with a woman I'm not in love with".

This is so true.
So true and correct Jeshal

adamx23:
I think you guys live in a bubble or something. 200m naira is a huge amount of money. Majority of the world population have never had anything close to that.

My brother, it is only when I come online I see people talking down on some money.
You will someone who is not earning 500k talking down on a pilot earning 2m per month saying it is a peanut.
Many have never floated a business and pay workers just common 100k per month yet will come online and rubbish someone earning 300k.
200m is roughly 130k us dollars.
You can buy a nice bungalow in any state capital, lesser outside the state capital aside Lagos and Abuja for 35m.
A friend showed me a building he wants to buy in PH for 35m and it was beautiful.
So 35m on house, 10m on car and you are left with about 150m.
Divide it into 2, 75m gives you 11m interest on TB or mutual funds per annum at 15% rate while the other half 75m in dollars MF which is $50,000 at 9% gives $4,500 which is roughly 6.5m.
Total annual income 17.5m in passive income and we are here debating it is a peanut.
For a country where over 85% of the population are earning less than 10m as house hold income per year (wife and husband total income)
Well, this is internet sha were everyone is a billionaire are living in mansions

goran3310:
I can’t imagine myself — not even in the worst nightmare — being married or in any kind of relationship with a woman who has a child.
She can’t possibly look that good, be that good of a person, be that smart, be that young — nothing. There’s no such woman in the world who could make me agree to let another man’s child into my home.

That would be deeply, deeply humiliating in every possible sense. Me, raising someone else’s child? I’d rather die than agree to that. Never. Not even then. There’s no scenario in which that would ever happen.

Even the thought of having a casual relationship with such a woman disgusts me — simply because that kind of relationship is far below and far more hypocritical than being with a prostitute. I can’t picture myself in that situation. And many men who actually have value think exactly the same way.

I do understand those women. They’ve ended up in that situation for all sorts of reasons — but that’s not my problem, just like it wouldn’t be theirs if the situation were reversed. They desperately try to find a new life, a new partner, without realizing that, in the eyes of men who actually have worth and could give them what they want, they are worth nothing.

That’s why they end up with low‑quality, weak‑character men who can’t get real women, so they settle for divorced ones — promising them everything, only to run away later because they have no real potential for anything. And that, in turn, frustrates those divorced women even more, making them increasingly toxic over time.


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Psychological Profile of a Man Who Stays with Divorced Women with a Child

1. Low Self-Esteem and Confidence

He does not believe in his own value or that he can get a better option.

He depends on the woman’s attention and is willing to tolerate compromises he would never accept if his partner had no children.



2. Emotional Insecurity

He constantly seeks validation from his partner.

Fear of rejection or loneliness keeps him in a burdensome relationship.



3. Inadequate Strategy and Resources

He cannot “target” free, quality women because he lacks social, financial, or status capital to be competitive.

Often weaker, more passive, and less ambitious.



4. Compensation Through Control or Promises

If he is seen as a “good guy” by the woman, he often promises everything to maintain the relationship.

If he lacks real potential, he runs away when things get serious or when investment is required.



5. Limited or Illusory Emotional Intelligence

He does not recognize that a relationship with a divorced woman with a child comes with a complex emotional package and responsibilities.

He believes he can “fix” the situation or be a heroic partner.



6. Passive Comfort and Compliance

He settles for a situation below his real potential because “something is better than nothing.”

He tolerates manipulation, drama, and complex dynamics that a quality man would avoid.





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Essence:
These men are not “bad” in themselves, but they are not a challenge for a woman seeking real value. They are the backup choice in the relationship market — men who do not have enough to choose from, so they settle for what is offered, regardless of additional complications.

In short: divorced women with a child do not get a man “who truly has value,” but a man who is not valuable enough to choose a free woman without baggage.

Chaii

WriterrNg:
⚡Ukraine prepares new graves for the aftermath of Pokrovsk.

🇺🇦 Ukraine prepares new graves for the aftermath of Pokrovsk.

So many graves … pic.twitter.com/aLZsUwGhOv

— Lord Bebo (@MyLordBebo) October 31, 2025

The reason why they won't stop is because none of their families are fighting the battle.
Other people's fathers, sons and uncles can go die for all they care.

WriterrNg:
⚡Pete Hegseth to ASEAN members:

We must ensure that China is not seeking to dominate you or anybody else.

Pete Hegseth to ASEAN members:

We must ensure that China is not seeking to dominate you or anybody else. pic.twitter.com/tlm5PLvyvU

— Clash Report (@clashreport) November 1, 2025

But you have dominated and subdued your own neighbors and don't want an external party to interfere in your affairs with them.

Gerrard59:
This is the same state where Islamic terrorists have gradually invaded, and the governor has SAID NOTHING about it. A Kwaran resident here has complained bitterly that the same man has not bought new patrol vehicles for policemen in the state to man key locations in Kwara North. Tomorrow, we will blame the White man when he points out the insecurity in Kwara. Did the White man tell the governor to forgo his security responsibilities to dance skelewu in London (not Abuja or Lagos)?

You people would never call out the ineptitude and irresponsibility of Nigerian elites!

WriteerNg:
⚡Marco Rubio:

"The reason the U.S. is preparing to attack Venezuela is the influence of Iran and Russia in that country. The Iranians are exploring the possibility of building drone manufacturing plants in Venezuela."

Interesting.
For a country arming other countries to attack their perceived enemies, so they want to attack Venezuela because of Russia and Iran's INFLUENCE, emphasis on INFLUENCE and not large scale /massive arming of Venezuela just like they did to Taiwan and Ukraine.
Interesting

kintus:
Why are some people happy when the market bleeds?

Do you take delight in seeing your fellow brother lose money? Why celebrate another man’s downfall?

How does it even give you joy to come here and keep chanting “red, red, red”?

If this were a village setting, such an attitude would easily be likened to witchcraft.

We need to be more considerate of others — their emotions and mental health — before throwing our unsolicited jabs.

Better days are ahead. 🌱

Stray bullet....

Streetinvestor2:
U need to check malaria too

Agbalowomeri:
Enjoying his loot in the Caribbeans
It's holiday time

Maybe the crypto crash wiped-off a chucnk of his portfolio

goran3310:
Because you are weak and low-quality.
It’s the same as if a woman wrote why she prefers being a mistress rather than a wife.
You are weak. You cannot offer anything more than what any biological man can. Your genetic legacy is not fit for use or continuation of the species. You have no character. You have no values. What kind of offspring would you leave behind? What qualities would that offspring inherit from you?
Not even in my worst nightmare can I imagine myself in that humiliating role.

I am also surprise that a man will feel comfortable in such scenario.
It speaks of low quality and a man who has been pushed down the sexual ladder by mother nature.
In all my dealings, have never seen a lady who feels comfortable playing the second role. They may accept it but believe me, on the long run, they don't like it and will ask where is this relationship heading to? or what will be my end benefit.
No quality man will be comfortable in that role and i repeat it again.
If a rich man likes a woman, he will totally snatch it away from the main man instead of hiding to sleep with her.
He doesn't mind adding her as the second or third wife at home but he won't be sneaking in or out of her apartment. That is left for the men down the sexual ladder.
Quality men have ego and high self esteem. A senator or army general will not hide in the wardrobe or toilet or sneak out through the windown for another man, it is a bruise on his ego but a low quality man will gladly do that while boasting about it.

Mpeace:
They will resolve their issues. The problem for America is not the genocide.
The problem is that 15% tax on imported fuel. It's going to totally eliminate importation if dirty fuel from Europe and America. Genocide didn't start today.

They will reach another deal that will calm trump. If not, trump will try to scatter things for our president in the next election, using genocide as an excuse.

I also want to believe the sanctions placed on US by china for rare earth minerals is making them look for other countries as options and probably there are minerals of interest to them here. If so, their most likely option is to keep crisis and insurgency high is these areas of interest in Nigeria

Mpeace:
They will resolve their issues. The problem for America is not the genocide.
The problem is that 15% tax on imported fuel. It's going to totally eliminate importation if dirty fuel from Europe and America. Genocide didn't start today.

They will reach another deal that will calm trump. If not, trump will try to scatter things for our president in the next election, using genocide as an excuse.

So invariably, dangote's fight with the cabal is just starting since the US encourages our importation

emmanuelewumi:
Stock Price

Thanks.
It is the only joker I have in my portfolio and I will trim it down to 40%

Agbalowomeri:
Senior Prefect

Ishhhh for you.... Agbaya

crownprince2017:
When people become too emotional about a company or because they wished people lose their money so they can say I told you, then it's senseless.
I said n I quote, buy and sell on your convictions and not follow follow that left some people trapped in oando.

Immediately I discovered clearly that Ellahlakes management are interested in sp of their shares I have to tell myself the bitter truth and act accordingly.

I had to move my funds with over 400% gain to presco, okomu, VFD and access.

My leaving doesn't mean people can't make money and me staying doesn't mean people can't lose money... Follow your own convictions and not strangers here.

Any company that is obviously desperate about sp is a turn off for me.

If presco does the same tommorow, I will leave without leaving a Kobo there. No emotions.

What is SP bro?

Fredfrankhussle:
With what I read from the financial report today, I don’t see any good news coming from this company.
There’s no section on the financial report on mining, I thought he said he had moved from offshore business to mining, but no activity on mining. Na even 1million dem use buy land
I don enter one chance. The earlier I alight from this train the safer for me.

Fredfrankhussle:

So we wey ff loco train na grave yard we de head to so?

Lofty1000:
Yep
4th of Nov to dec
They had a call today
Its on ngx on utube

So from Nov 4th, we can start getting TIP public offer at 9.5?

Mpeace:
https://doclib.ngxgroup.com/Financial_NewsDocs/45330_TOTALENERGIES_MARKETING_NIGERIA_PLC-_QUARTER_3_-_FINANCIAL_STATEMENT_FOR_2025_FINANCIAL_STATEMENTS_OCTOBER_2025.pdf

No body want talk about the result. Dangote refinery is dealing seriously with this company.

Likewise conoil

ogawisdom:
It's will dip to below 11 because there is public offer at 9.5 and right issue at 7. Investors will take profit and buy public offer. TIP is dip well

When is the public offer at #9.5?
I will like to get some

Agbalowomeri:
Lol remove finance income abi Oando don become financial institution ni?

My brother i tire oo.
If they wan before VDF or equity/MMF trading company make we know.