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WriiterNg:Moreover, they are not in the right position to be the mediator because they are the architect of the war. You can't be the one who engineered a war, financing it, arming it yet still the mediator. |
Hmmmmmmm.... This war is not stopping any time soon. The US can't be trusted. |
Watcharena: ![]() |
nairalanda1:If I am to follow your comment, that means hereditary dictators like Saudi crows, UAE kings, Jordan, Qatar who are all sit tight leaders and also friends with US and Isreal should be ready to get their countries destabilized if they don't dance to their tunes. |
Groupoid:Please go ahead |
Foodempire:You can always sell the bond before maturity to enter a new bond at a better rate |
0neal:Have replied you bro |
I want to use this medium to talk to men here today that please and please, do whatever you can in your capacity to add value to yourself in a positive way. Never ever compromise that for Love or a woman or relationship...Pleaseeee i beg you in the name of God because if it will take you relocating from Oshogbo to Lagos or Abuja or Ph to empower yourself and be a better man, then do it. If it will take japa for you to relocate and be better off financially, then please do it. Yes, you will be scared of losing your woman despite all the promises and i love you. Yes, it will pain you seeing your relationship you suffered to build start becoming cold due to distance and your woman misbehaving. Yes, you will see her stop calling you regularly again and the few chats you people have ends up in quarrels and probably insults. Yes, Yes, Yes, you will see her display her new booo on her status hailing him and showering his with praises. You will be depressed, betrayed, cry, cry and cry, lonely and bored. But i have a good news for you - If you keep adding value to yourself and start putting your life in order, Even though you will lose a woman (your girlfriend), Mother nature will Bless you with Women (plenty ladies admiring and willing to date you) Are you a man scared of leaving your wife or woman in nigeria just to go hustle abroad? while you are there guys at home laughing you because they are bagging your woman? I am here to tell you this morning that even though you are going to lose a woman, mother nature will bless you with women. You are just only going to lose 1, a sacrifice to get many. Don't lose foresight of getting many because you want to secure one ......SCARCITY mindset |
Despite all the Lovey-Dovey, Love has very strong weaknesses that can't be ignored. Distance and Time are 2 factors that influences Love alot. Distance - most relationship breaks due to distance alot and it is the reason why a relationship going on smoothly in school will start having issues after graduation because someone close to the lady in her street or church is now disturbing her. They say, out of sight is out of mind and it is true despite the regular calls ye distance will take it's toll in a relationship. Reason why so many japa relationship breaks. Even Lagos-Ogun state relationship is prone to breaking compared to Egbeda-Ipaja own. Love and relationship is too fragile to rely on.. Hardly will you see a secondary school relationship leads to marriage and even university relationship to marriage percentage is very very slim. Probably 1 out of 5.....Distance 2. Time - The longer the relationship, the higher the chances of it not leading to marriage. I don't know the percentage but higher percentage of those who are married today falls within less than 2 years relationship from my observation. Ask your female friends or family members that got married how long they dated their husbands before marrying......Please note Dated not Known. A lady could have know a man for years, even probably the man disturbing her for relationship but didn't date him because you may get a response like have known him since since 2017. The question is when did you guys officially started dating. The problem with Time in a relationship is that the longer a relationship, the more you get to know each other and quarrel occasionally which creates a vaccum or an opportunity for a new guy to sneak into the relationship. There is no better time and opportunity to get a lady that is faithful to our guy if not that short window of misunderstanding in their relationship and distance also. |
While there has been a lot of discussion about the word "Love", the back and forths, honestly i have my reservation about it. Simply because LOVE will fail you when you need it MOST. The best time when we need love most is when we are at our lowest point in life - jobless, hopeless, futureless, everything LESS when we need a shoulder to lean on, someone to give us a reassurance and encouragement to keep moving on in life despite all the odds against us. Moments when we don't even believe in ourselves anymore but someone is there giving us hope and encouragement. It is at this wit-end, unfortunately that LOVE will fail you most. So i actually don't really believe in that Love ideology. This is my personal view and not imposed on anyone. It is at this lowest point that your woman will start misbehaving, flirting with other men, even cheating, giving cold attitudes, insultive, confrontational and bold with it. |
A boy cries out that he has been molested by a lady or raped and people start laughing and mocking him but immediately you change that boy to a girl, all of a sudden, they stop laughing and start cursing and raining hell for the man or boy to be court-marshalled. A man cries out about how is wife is maltreating him, disrespecting him, not giving him sex and wants to pack out of the house and people start laughing him to be weak, simp and a sisi man who deserves all he is getting but immediately you change that to a woman, people stop laughing and start cursing. All of a sudden, they are wise enough to judge the case normally. A man takes a lady/wife abroad and on getting there shortly, she starts misbehaving and kicks him out or divorce him. When the man comes to nairaland with tears to pour out his mind, they all mock him, laugh him, call him names etc but change the same man to a woman and all hell would be let loose. Curses would be rained on the man for being an ingrate and a confirmation of why women are justified for not helping men when they climb up. A man and his woman starts hustling and then God answered the prayer of the man. Everyone and the society expects the man to pull up his woman but when she climbs first and dump him and he comes here to pour out his mind, they start laughing at him, calling him names, tell him to double his hustles and stop complaining, some call him lazy and believe the woman did the best by dumping his lazy ass etc. It just looks as if there is a deliberate campaign to rubbish and useless the male child....May God help us |
As a man, in whatever you do, please always constantly add value to yourself, try and make sure you are earning no matter what and please, improve your social life. Working, earning, financially stable is not enough, please increase your social life i repeat because without increasing your social life, all what you have achieved will make you settle for less and be satisfied with it. Join clubs be it Rotaract, 36 lioness, if you have the financial muscle golf club etc. Register with a nice gym center, go swimming regularly etc. Weekend movies, join tour/event groups that plans for weekend tours and beaches etc. Mingle with friends that invites you to parties and events regularly etc. With this, you will never be short of young beautiful women. The problem with a low social life is that it makes you settle for less. You will see your girlfriend as the best thing or woman you can get when in reality, your social status can afford you a far better lady. Women will explore their femineity to the fullest to secure the best man they can get, while are we men not fully utilizing our masculinity and secure the best woman we can get also? we settle far too low |
I will say relationship-wise, the average woman has a big edge over the average man. If a relationship breaks today, how fast will a woman and man get over it and move on? The woman gets the edge These are the metrics i will use to judge a broken relation - - How fast to move on and enter a new relationship : Ask yourself, if you are in a relationship with a lady were both are faithful but at a point the relationship stopped, who will find it easy to enter another relationship at the shortest time? the woman. While you may still be sucking or trying to convince another lady to date you, she already have a list of toasters disturbing her all these days. All she had to do is to start picking the calls of any of them and start giving him attention then Boooom, she is already in another relationship within 2 weeks while you are still struggling to build a new relationship with another lady. - The quality of the relationship: while you may be lucky to enter another relationship like the woman, the question is the quality? Your Ex can easily replace you with a banker, young medical doctor or business owner quite doing fine. What is the quality of woman you are getting to replace her? Are you leaving your 6.5/10 Ex just to getting a 5/10 lady as a stop-gap? how easy is it to get another 8/10 lady to quietly and easily replace her? How easy is it for you to quietly get a lady working in Glo, Mtn, Dangote, LNG as mid to top staff to replace your Ex? These are things that will make you to easily move on from a fresh broken relationship without looking back or stalking your Ex and been moody and depressed. Remember, when you start dating your woman, she will try to cut you off from all other ladies all in the name of Love and relationship to avoid regular quarrels, knowing fully that if the relationship stops today, she can easily kick-start another one and move on compared to you. - Quantity of sex: This is quiet different. Let me throw a challenge. How many ladies can you sleep with within a week excluding prostitutes or paid sex? compared to your woman? if a woman wants, she can sleep with up to 5 toasters or more in a week easily compared to a man that may still be wooing a woman within that period before convincing them to come to his house for sex. Even after coming, she may decide not to have sex with you thereby losing the 1 week challenge. In other words, women gets sex far easily compared to men and that is why money is a game changer for men. If i add money, the man automatically becomes the winner of the 1-week challenge because he can just order dozens of women to sleep with in a week. |
Scarcity in men is a necessary evil in relationship to Balance nature. For a moment, let us assume there is no scarcity for men in relationship. That is - the welder, bricklayer, vulcanizer, jobless, lazy etc all have women on their necks begging to date or marry them. What do we actually think will happen?1. Most men will become very very lazy and no enticement to improve one's self. Civilization will still be very very backward since it is not needed to get a mate and procreate. No need to improve sef to become better to build better houses, cars etc 2. Most women will surfer since they will literarily be begging men to sleep with them, date them and marry them. So, it is a necessary evil to sustain civilization even though men hate to be in such situation or position. |
0neal:Bro, i sent you message on telegram. Kindly reply |
seunny4lif:This man talks too much. He should stay away from social media a bit |
Youngzedd:Even Nigeria euro bond is around 9.8-10% too |
Streetinvestor2:Norrenberger dollar funds gives 10% bro |
Agbalowomeri:Even a fall to 15% will see a huge fund go to dollars MF at 10% which will be better than holding naira MF or TB |
ednut1:Something that is been done to men on daily basis? |
ednut1:Men should thank God the men of old were wise enough to mandate men to be educated first then. If they had made education only compulsory for women while the men go to farms, believe me, by now marriage would have died a natural death. The women would have avoided all men like plague and only date the Prince and other kids from the few well to do Chiefs in the society. Despite all the red flags in dating a woman that is below you in societal status - fake love, paternity fraud, reckless cheating and many more, so many men are still ready to pick up women to level them up, dust them up from scratch, bring them abroad, give them PR, cars, send them to school etc. but when it favours women, they will all see all the red flags in dating men - cheating, local etc, lazy, level-up |
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WriiterNg:These guys sha want to fight sha ni. The problem they are looking for, they will surely see it. |
pansophist:The bedrock of western hegemon is the Dollar and nothing else. It is not their military nor large economy. Peg the dollars and other currencies to gold and see the western economy crumbles. They are spending far more than what they are earning and the only thing covering their asses is the ability to go inside and print more currencies for economy stimulation in case declining economy or finance military actions. If they are pegged to gold, they will need to have surplus to change for gold to buy any weapons or finance any war and the surplus must be so large to withstand several years of war which they can't. |
pocohantas: ![]() Or maybe na juju |
cenaman:Please remind me, he said some slangs in igbo in a movie about Paul and Silas. I like that slang but don't know it |
WriteerNg:Hmmmmmm So they are not planning to end the war rather to expand it. This war is going to be very very long |
pansophist:Moreover, France and UK only have around 360 nuclear missiles compared to Russia that has over 5,000. Russia only need to waste 2,000 on them while keeping the remaining 3,000 for US that may want to come later for a weaker russia |
WritterNg:Seems these guys don't plan stopping the war. I guess they enjoy it. Whoever is backing them have long term plans for the war |
OkpaNsukkaisBae:They don't need to use Belarus when they have Kallingrad. It is way shorter |
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