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rapheal5:
It’s almost impossible to find a lady who has money and be submissive, if you find one, trust me she’s either in her late 30’s or 40’s desperate to have a child and the moment she got what she want say bye bye to submission…Marriage is becoming a bondage, it takes excess patience and a bit of LANDE for a man to make marriage work…

A bit of LANDE bawo nitori Olohun

Everydaylove:
If you have a failed marriage with kid/kids pls don't remarry. It's not worth.it It's an opportunity for you to take your life back and enjoy it to the full.

Exactly - Just enjoy your life to the fullest like the way women would do.
Follow tour groups to rwanda ffor a week for 1.8m once a year, east africa tour - Uganda, tanzania, kenya for 2m, etc
Play golf, tennis, swim, gym, cinema etc
You will just be looking fresh and poking ladies without the needed stress of keeping any.
There is so much to enjoy for men yet they are eager to run back to marriage after divorce

Starz825:
Its a serious issue tbh

even relationship is not the way they used to be now

i have come to notice a thing

men should also learn how to live alone

for some women...its not always abt that the man doesnt have money to offer them.

its about her ego, pride, beauty, money, her hunger for independence from a man.


Once a woman is pretty and rich and probably has a child or 2........SHE WANTS INDEPENDENCE!!

Most women are still with their hubby cos may be they are poor, cant bisect life alone and all... not really cos they love their hubby

From your write up, it is obvious the problem is not mostly men but women.
Too much option is as bad as no option.
People tend not to take things serious if they don't need to invest sweat before getting it and if it is easy to get another one unlike men.
Most men marry not because of what they can get from a woman rather, ready to put in the work unlike women.
There is a direct relationship between job loses and divorce.
If we experience a global recession today and millions of men lose their jobs, within 1-4 years, divorce rate will go up - meaning most women never love men rather what they can get from men.
It has always been like that though. My grandpa didn't marry my grandma because of love rather he could provide as a cocoa farmer and she is meant to be subservient to him and they had a longer and better relationship.

tensazangetsu20:
I totally understand why so many men become red-pilled. Back in university, I was practically invisible to women, it was as if I didn’t exist. I remember mustering the courage to tell a Gabonese girl I liked her, and she hit me with, “What’s your like or love going to do for me?” I was so ashamed of myself.

I studied marine engineering at a maritime university, and if you know anything about that field, you know how tough it is to get a job without solid connections. Some companies would visit our school to recruit, but out of a class of 70, they’d hire maybe eight students. And, of course, those eight were the ones all the girls wanted to date because their futures seemed secure.

Then came life after university, and it was even more brutal. I barely had clothes to wear. Most of my trousers were torn at the back, and I just had to manage. I tried starting a business, but it failed miserably. At that point, it felt like all hope was lost.

That’s when I decided to learn coding, not because I had high expectations, but because I kept seeing ads during COVID: “Learn to code and work from home.” I figured I had nothing to lose. Little did I know that single decision would change my life completely.

I started struggling my way through, hustling on Upwork, then moving to Reddit, applying for jobs anywhere I could find an opening, and learning interview skills. Back then, people laughed at me, but little by little, things started improving. I began making decent money by Nigerian standards, but I refused to upgrade my life because my focus was on leaving Nigeria. Every month, I saved as much as I could while researching my best options. That’s how I discovered Chile, and once I had enough money, I left.

The beginning was tough, but looking back now, I’m so glad I made the move. The version of me that was once invisible to women now has them smiling at me and trying to talk to me all the time. But none of that matters because I only love one woman, and she’s the only one I want to be with.

Your story is not uncommon.
It is similar to what is happening to billions of guys out there.
I had my own fair share of women snubbing too during my early days with nothing to show.....broke.
That is why i find it hard being faithful now that everywhere done stew.........if you rubbish me during my struggling days, why should i follow love during my hay days?
Have come to realize it is not just a woman thing rather a Human thing.
When you are nobody - family, church, pastor, girls etc all ignore you and you are invincible but when you start earning fine, they all start singing your praises.
I hope the woman you Love is your mum and not one yeye girlfriend....because bro, na owo epo oooooo
As you are growing, as i am growing and other men growing, please never ignore to wisely invest because if you go broke again, believe me, that coldness and invincibility, insults from women would come back again.
Your money is your shield.
If you go broke, it is as good as you being NAKED

shoodboi2:
🇮🇱⚡🇸🇾 Syrian medical sources: 3 civilians killed and 19 injured in Israeli shelling of sites in the city of Daraa.

*It's ok, according to the latest FATWA by Jewlani, Zionists can kill Syrian people and instead HTS will attack Muslim countries instead.*

Coward

Ojagun:
Abi?!
One of them actually insinuated he is in the Matrix film

JOACHINpedro:
Sadly, most commenters here need more help than the op

Asonaijaaso:
Every time Iran is hit, they respond openly—with missiles flying straight to Israel. No covert ops, no deniability. They even announce it beforehand. That tells you they can strike Israel directly—anytime they choose.

Yes, they have natural allies—Lebanon, Yemen, Palestine—not because of some “sinister axis,” but due to shared culture, language, and history. If you attack Lagos state from Niger state, do you really think Oyo, Ogun, and Ekiti will just chill? That’s not alliance—that’s kinship.

The narrative the media sells is riddled with bias. These are the same storytellers who swore Saddam had weapons of mass destruction—a lie the world swallowed whole, only to discover he had none.

So spare us the spin. Some of us read beyond the headlines.

I love your points.
A keen follower

PresidObi:
You mean that someone actually committed suicide because of that overripe paw paw? The only fine thing about the lady is her handbag.

Gandrova:
As a rational thinker, if your status changes, it not necessarily for you to change your friends you should upgrade them to be on the same level.
You are supposed to use money not money to use you.

Lol

Common bro... Are you for real?
Most guys that japa to Canada/US/UK will come back and use their money to upgrade their old friends on street? Common bro.
Why not flash back, most of your childhood friends, where are they?
How many have upgraded you after moving away from your street and doing good for themselves?
How many have you upgraded too?
You think Mikel, Obafemi martins that got upgraded playing in Europe pull their childhood friends up? They may help but that is it. Nothing more.
Their taste will change to moving with fellow footballers, dating magazine girls/celebrities/hot class babes, traveling to islands for vacation and not carrying their childhood friends around like handbags.
Even musicians - 2face upgraded but had to just help blackface and face, nothing more.
His taste, environment and everything has changed and he needs to adjust to the new life and friends.
Such is life even though it is bitter to swallow.

Gandrova:
My friend trained his girl friend in such a similar way.
She got work with Airline and dump him for good.
I just pray she will not betray him

Lol.
Why won't she?
When your status changes, everything about you change - your circle of friends, your environment/where you live, your taste and so your relationship.
When take unnecessary risks women will rather die than take alot

IamHonourable1:
I wish I could tell you my stories, but don't worry, your own experience is waiting for you just by the corner

Please tell us make we learn from your mistake

Racoon:
Chai! Your nation is missing in action courtesy of the economic cluelessness of Buhari and then Tinubu but your stolkholm syndrome obsession is the good old days of yesteryears. To be a warped fella is not easy.

I don't know how true is this but the equitorial guinea I know and have been to twice is a very very poor country with impoverished citizens.
PPP is just total output divided by population.
So the lower your population, the higher your figure.
Equitorial guinea is just 2m people, just half of Ogun state yet pumping out and exporting crude oil which is been shared only by the political class only

Emodeee:
You go lie for me?

Don't get you bro?

Gerrard59:
You have seen a lot

My brotherrrrrr!!!!

Hmmmmmmm

LARRYOBRAIN:
Not all women/ wives are senseless, wicked or unappreciative.

We know. We are just talking in majority.
A 8-9 out of 10 situation.
There will always be an exception

Axis313:
So long she is his legally married wife,no problem.
What I am against is a man sponsoring a so called girlfriend's education with the intention of marrying her after she finished her education with NYSC,many men are not lucky in that situation.

Even being married is worst.
You will be dying silently at home - she will be disrespecting you, give you timetable for sex, you will be irritating her because your sight reminds her of a failure that she deserves something better with her new status, some will even cheat recklessly with their bosses or well to do colleagues, meeting upon meeting at work, in Abuja and lodge in hotels for days.
If you talk, everyone including her family will say you are insecure and not giving their daughter rest because she is doing better than you.
It will likely highly lead to divorce anyway

jetguy:
This one want to labour in Vain....

pen 🖊️ his name down as a mumu Man

DonBenny77:
She'll meet her real husband in a plane

And she will leave this man claiming he is too insecure, lazy who doesn't want to buckle up and level up.

We have seen this play out over and over

zendi:
You're still a shareholder of Flourmills.
But you no longer have much rights enforceable by SEC and NGX.

I think you will have to visit the Registrar to sign a document to the effect that you have refused the buyout and wish to remain a shareholder.

Importantly, you're still entitled to dividends if any.
Please note well this bolded, since you're no longer entitled to any disclosures like quarterly results.
So when you don't see any dividends, then you take it there is nothing to share.
But grumbling will be allowed.

Mind you the company still has a board which holds periodic meetings.
But the 'G' in AGM, for example, will no longer be there.

I must be missing many things.

YaQsGaYa:
Ask my uncle this ❓ I even asked him to give me half of my coffin money make I use do business still he no gree, he say na full he wan pay. I tell am sey no wallaha....

relaxandsmile:
Pushing a motor that can not start is wasting of time. Before you see most people ignoring their relatives, you don't know the efforts they might have put up to help them.
But there should be no neglect at death, that is why people come around to pay their last respect.
If I tell you about my story in trying to help people to succeed, you will know the problems I have caused to myself.
May God Guide us.

Exactly bro

ruffhandu:
Hahahaha. Because it is cheaper than keeping him and giving him money. You give him 30k today, next month he asks for 50k, next 100k. He keeps coming back. And when you have given him so much, that man will forget he was starving and starts chasing other women. He may even go take a second wife, or chieftaincy title - on top other people money o. But if he dies, which will happen to all eventually, then you can spend for the burial just once.

Those people rejecting the contributions for burial, where were they when their father died of hunger? Is it not shameful? Are his brothers his parents? This entitlement mentality sef. They don't owe you or your father jack. If they have and are disposed, fine. Afterall, you didn't lost what your father did for the brothers when he had money. If they were wicked to have let your father die of hunger, then you are devil himself for not feeding your father. you think they don't have mouths to feed themselves. He works in an oil company in PH so? You have calculated his salary and assumed a percentage of that salary should be coming to your father every month. yeye people.

WriteerNg:
⚡🍁 Canada’s new Deputy PM

He looks like a monkey they poured hot water on.

WriteerNg:
⚡New bill has been proposed to ban all Chinese nationals from obtaining U.S. student visas.

Na WA ooo

Hmmmmmm

This is really serious

LifeofDream:
All the ceasefire plan was written by Steinmar and Macron, their aim is to make Putin look like an aggressor if he refuse or a little weak if he agree..

I trust Putin and Lavrov, they're already planning a counter.. A peace here only save Ukraine from total collapse...

At this point, nobody cares if Russia is the aggressor or not anymore.
We have seen how they used the ceasefire plan between Isreal and Hezbollah in Lebanon to rearm isreal to the teeth again. Despite isreal not adhering to the ceasefire and using the opportunity to keep encroaching Lebanon.
They are not in the right position to criticize who adheres or does not adhere to a ceasefire anymore because we have seen what they all did in Gaza and Lebanon

FXtrader2025:
Nope just Price Action.

Okay

Kingsnairaland:
It doesn't matter if they re arm Ukraine so long as Ukrainians accepts Russia now owns the land and they won't join nato then the war should end

They will accept but when they regrouped and get rearmed, they will attack furiously

Do you use copy trading ? And robots?