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One thing that has kept me away from ladies was always the thinking that i can never bed a girl i dont like, cos i am ppretty sure i wont marry you .

so i tend to avoid .

Never bed a girl you dont love

joyandfaith:
Ban usage of cash by enforcing cashless policy, kidnappings end naturally. Ransom payment can be tracked electronically.
I also agree with forceful rescue operations.

Banning cash is going to hurt them too, so they will never

NEVer in my life have i tasted food while cooking.
except fried plantain

orazx:
Instead of buying tipper of clay, why dont you look for people to dig a soakaway for you then you use the clay from the pit.
You just killed two birds with one stone

He needs more than that for 1 hectare

something fishy about this kinds of business, when they mix different ventures into one. is that a 9billion hq?

Bendeco02:
Na you no get link bro

I don't want to mention name. But I have the link back then.

They will even send you direct to NYSC without stress

Omoh UNICAL Years ago i saw someone get degree and got to service direct before even people who attended class and wrote exams

Emeka should just carry matter to court for breach of data privacy

Sofistcatdmoron:
25k per momth airtel odu

I’m at the verge of paying for mtn fiber

The 25k per month is the 50mbps option right?

Why does it them exceed that for you?

I get up to 250mbps mtn in my home using just my phone without fiber
So I’m hoping even if I do a 50mbps it’ll go over that some times

Sofistcatdmoron:
my own is very fast hewre
45 to 70mbps

For how much?

funnyDM:
You are at a point where delaying the decision is already becoming a decision on its own. Both women are asking you to meet their parents because they likely see the relationship as moving toward commitment. If you continue with both while unsure, the risk is that someone eventually gets deeply hurt — including you.
The confusion you feel is normal. Attraction, attachment, and compatibility are not always the same thing.
Here’s a practical way to think through it.

1. Stop asking, “Who do I love more?”
Instead ask:
Who gives me peace?
Who brings out discipline and purpose in me?
Who fits the kind of future I want in 5–10 years?
Who handles conflict maturely?
Who genuinely respects me?
Around who can I be fully honest?
If money became hard for two years, who would still stand well with me?
Which relationship feels stable instead of emotionally confusing?
Love alone is not enough for marriage. Stability, character, respect, and shared direction matter heavily.

2. Fear of making the wrong choice may actually mean you are avoiding pain
Part of your fear may not be “What if I choose wrong?” but also:
“What if I hurt one of them?”
“What if I lose someone valuable?”
“What if the one I leave later becomes more successful?”
“What if marriage changes everything?”
That fear can keep a man stuck between two lives for too long.
But maturity sometimes means accepting that clarity comes with sacrifice.

3. Observe who is truly compatible with your future
The nursing graduate and the polytechnic graduate may both be good women. But marriage is not a beauty contest or certificate competition.
Watch for:
Emotional maturity
Financial attitude
Respect during disagreements
Family values
Spiritual beliefs and lifestyle
Temperament
Loyalty
Ability to build with you
Ask yourself:
“If attraction reduced tomorrow, who would still make a strong life partner?”
That question reveals a lot.

4. Do not meet both parents if you already know you can only choose one
Meeting parents in many Nigerian families is seen as serious intention. If you are still uncertain, avoid giving both families strong expectations at the same time.
Instead:
Be honest with yourself first.
Take a short period to decide intentionally.
Reduce emotional juggling.
A man cannot think clearly while emotionally feeding two serious relationships equally.

5. Create a private comparison — not based on emotions alone
Take a notebook and divide it into sections:
Quality
Woman A
Woman B
Peace of mind


Trust


Respect


Communication


Shared future goals


Family compatibility


Emotional maturity


Supportiveness


Attraction


Ability to endure hardship together


Be brutally honest. Patterns will start appearing.

6. Ask yourself one uncomfortable question
If today both women suddenly disappeared from your life forever…
Which loss would truly break you the most — not because of ego, beauty, or benefits — but because you know that person genuinely fits your life?
Sometimes your heart already knows, but your fear keeps creating noise.

7. Once you decide, be clean and respectful
Do not keep one as a “backup option.” That creates long-term guilt and confusion.

When you decide:
Commit fully to one.
End the other relationship respectfully and clearly.

Avoid manipulation or false promises.
That is part of becoming serious in life.
You do not need a perfect choice. You need a wise, intentional, honest choice.

This wasn't meant for me but I've learned a lot as i'm also in this phase of making a decision or who to marry.

on each point you raised it all led to one person

just2endowed:
The new hacker has to do face recognition, which will definitely fails. So this op is a liar or lookin for content.

Does not need a face id if it was not setup and not all transactions require your face

You have no case and opay is not responsible abu you want to blame manufacturers of your Okon’s too?

You simply handed over control of your phone to that app and the reason it went blank was so u don’t see what’s happening

Stop and imagine what it means for Isis 2ic to be based in Nigeria

And no one knew until today

tunapawizzy:
I think every birth has 25% probability of being SS
so if dem born first born SS, 2nd can still be SS and 3rd and 4th and 5th
I stand to be corrected

you are right,

Voltron007:
I use the 2025 CRV LX. It’s been over a year. No complains so far. Probably the best vehicle I’ve ever had. The only common problem we have here where I’m based is - theft. It’s the most stolen SUV. So be ready to invest on security.

talk say you deh canada without saying so

SeriouslySense:
It seems it was the frequency, maybe it was harmonic frequency.

How many nigerian songs of that period were harmonic sef.

anyways whats melodic to the ears could be disastrous to some hearts,

3kay945:
Sorry, you may need to check your heart condition. Start with blood pressure or better see a doc. You may never know.

done that already.
was a heart palpitation thing then.
Bp is still normal

haven't experienced one that serious since then

At least this is evidence sound can kill.

Heres a brief story of what happened to me around 2012 -2013 Calabar Carnival (can't remember the exact year)

we had large speakers around mary slessor round about all the way to marian and they were so loud as i passed that road it seemed my heart was trying to blow up, i was holding my cheast and stomach at the same time as they both felt like popping.

Imagine walking that distance.

I decided to deviate and move towards unical wich has no loud speakers.

since then i've always been cautious of loud speakers, i stopped watching carnival on the street as well.


sound does not only affect the ears,

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282 MOTORCYLCES THAT WILL BE USED FOR banditry.

if securtity agencies get sense they should put some trackers on this gifts and watch where they end up or are concentrated in after distribution.

I had this addiction but to coke
I later realized the addiction was tied to the bottle too

So instead buying Coke I bought bottle water

cucumbar:
Will Mtn send the code to my mail if I ask them to ?

yes they should if its in a centre that has a computer, not those small machines

BarrElChapo:
My eSIM made it practically impossible for the people that stole my phone in December last year to use it in any capacity.

My new phone has all my numbers in eSIM

Exactly

With time when people start to understand benefits of eSIM the will buy only those and it will now get more expensive

Anyone that’s buying a device for long term use should get an eSIM instead

WantsandMore:
That's not what I'm referring too. E-sim enabled devices aren't as cheap compared to physical sim and mostly come in "smart mid-high end devices" except for used or UK used. On the other hand, Feature phones, entry level phones barely come with those Esim enabled features.

You say? eSIM aren’t cheaper?

I have a 17pm which I want to sell by the way and I got it for 2.350m meanwhile same device physical sim sold for 2.6m to 2.7m

eSIM in Nigeria is far cheaper than physical.

Also the comparison of eSIM and physical sim is always for same type of devices not high end vs low end

SixSeven:
We have an attachment to what we can see and feel. Our fear is that once we lose it, the digital for is not something we can hold to. No evidence, you go explain tire.



E-sim will digitally monitor you. With a physical SIM, you can manually remove the card to guarantee the cellular network cannot track your location or identity. With an eSIM, the hardware is permanently soldered inside the phone. However, you run the risk of also losing your device once you remove the sim so thieves love physical sim. Hackers can also hack the account to takeover the eSIM too

In all spheres of the world, they are digitizing many things and the danger of that is that you don't own it anymore, you are only a subscriber. Even with something as little as books, people are building their own libraries instead of this digital record that some people erase at their will. I don't mean to divert but I've seen events that happened in the last 15 years erased from the internet because the people in power don't want us to have any remembrance of what they once did. Remember George Orwell's 1984....

You can turn of your eSIM as well

jaxxy:
ease of transferring ur sim to other fones with plug and play convenience.

I can swap at ease tooo by just scanning the code in my email or the printed copy

WantsandMore:
mostly, just for the convenience to swap sims between physical sim phones. Esim phones aren't cheap and aren't readily available compared to physical sims imho.

Esims are same price as physical

Anywhere else they charge more just know it’s not official

This is Nigeria

mrvitalis:
Lmaooo done which part

This is a Bailable offense , why exactly was he sent to prison?

This APC government sha

The judiciary is now a tool of executive

Why exactly should someone as popular, rich with houses all over Nigeria be sent to prison for weeks for a civil matter?

He was remanded because all the invites he got he didn’t go

So judge and police came to an agreement he should be held because when next they need him he may not no show up

same glitch can happen with INEC. but never will they accept that