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TravelRe: Top 10 Countries In The World To Migrate To by Emmyk(m): 12:15am On Oct 06, 2013
Prison of Norway is even a nice place to be. Search google pix to see it, with the keyword "Prison of Norway" cheesy
Forum GamesRe: Match A Nairalander With The Username Above You by Emmyk(m): 12:13am On Oct 06, 2013
Obowunmi :p
Nairaland GeneralRe: Where Is SniperInaDiaper Of Nairaland??? by Emmyk(m): 11:59pm On Oct 05, 2013
Talk of the STATS not been stable anymore.
Music/RadioRe: Your Current Mobile Phone Ringtone? by Emmyk(m): 8:38pm On Oct 05, 2013
Pray for You - Nosa.
FamilyRe: Why Do Married Couples Look Alike With Time. by Emmyk(m): 8:02pm On Oct 05, 2013
Lovetinz: ^^ ^^ The like is not for your post. it's for your Signature. grin
I'm sure you do it well, right? cheesy
Forum GamesRe: Match A Nairalander With The Username Above You by Emmyk(m): 7:57pm On Oct 05, 2013
Sexkilz :p
Forum GamesRe: Meet Your Birthday Mate........... by Emmyk(m): 7:54pm On Oct 05, 2013
[quote author=sweet-tease]Fixed grin are you hapy? tongue[/quote]yes. smiley
CultureRe: Ask A Somali Girl! by Emmyk(m): 7:42am On Oct 05, 2013
Ajuran: is that all you know about Somali woman? You big ape like monster.
dude, the question was not even addressed for you to answer.
You can change your NL username a million time, but that ill-mannered personality behind you will never change.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Good Communication- The Art Of Listening by Emmyk(m):
OP. You said it all. I guess your are a mass communication student.


Just to chip in few thing, you said it all tho.


If it's an inter-personal communication you are engaging in (face-to-face com.). Always try "minimal encourager".

As the name implies, you'll encourage the other person you are talking to, with non-verbal communication (nodding of head, saying Hmm nmmm, facial gestures, etc). It will kinda boost their morale sort of, and it will make them wanna talk to you more.


Dont make the minimal encourager excessive, as it irritates one!


Try and reason from your speaker's opinion

This is very essential, it happens to almost everybody if the other party you ar talking to, is not sharing same value/belief with you, we tend to block our minds! Or having a "counter conversation" in our minds wink.... This will not aid us in getting any meaningful thing that the other person has raised..

Just put yourself in the shoes of the speaker while your conver lasts.

Example of this is between a Christian and a muslim. cheesy



Let all your questions wait.

Never interrupt the person you are talking too, you wont die, waiting till he/she is through, before you say or ask your question(s).

If the lastpoint I gave is too hard, try and take down your questions in a notebook

(it could aid distraction, but try not to get too distracted)

Because, apparently, we might forget the question, when the other party is through. wink


Dont Pseudo-Listen .

This is fake listening, your mind is not even with the speaker, but elsewhere, but still you might be giving "fake gestures". cheesy
Things will go wrong when the speaker ask you a question, and you are saying something that is not even related to it. cheesycheesy .


The speaker will not trust you afterwards, to confide/chat with you again.


Be physically and psychological ly fit

And lastly, Dont Monopolize Conversations

This is like, going out of context, when been asked a question... Or tryna take over the discussion or twist it. It can really piss the other party off.



My lecturer told me, there is this Journalist on CNN years back, while doing Interview for you, or a Discussion programme, he'll monopolize the discussion (he'll ask you a question, wont give you room to answer, buh take over from you),. So, a prominent man was in the studio with his on a live programme one day.


He asked the prominent man a question, while the man was tryna talk, this journalist took over as usual cheesy, trust my man, the prominent man just took his suit on the chair, looked to the Journalist and said " since you know the answer more than I do, I shouldnt be here,". He walked out of the studio sha cheesy
Forum GamesRe: Match A Nairalander With The Username Above You by Emmyk(m): 6:51am On Oct 05, 2013
Obinocopy
Foreign AffairsRe: Over 250 Africans Dead, Most From Eritrea, Somalia And Ghana. by Emmyk(m): 6:50am On Oct 05, 2013
onila: thats what pple have been saying smiley

I am gonna apply for a job @ CNN soon
alright. Forget me not when you get there. cheesywinkcheesy
Foreign AffairsRe: Over 250 Africans Dead, Most From Eritrea, Somalia And Ghana. by Emmyk(m): 12:50am On Oct 05, 2013
You keep showing on my FOLLOWED TOPICS. Journalism fits you. undecided
FamilyRe: Why Do Married Couples Look Alike With Time. by Emmyk(m): 12:36am On Oct 05, 2013
Ti ewe ba pe lara ose, a di ose
RomanceRe: From Facebook To My Bedroom (the Sweet Coincidence) by Emmyk(m): 11:58pm On Oct 04, 2013
Hilarious cheesy
Forum GamesRe: Forum Games Chat Thread - A Thread For All Fun Lovers by Emmyk(m): 11:44pm On Oct 04, 2013
Is anyone up? Hellooo. Echo echo.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Your Style Of Hanging Bag In Your School Days by Emmyk(m): 11:41pm On Oct 04, 2013
Hahahahahaahahah.

A and B ( at times). cheesycheesy
Nairaland GeneralRe: Why Do Most Girls Don't Upload Their Pics In Their Profile by Emmyk(m): 11:38pm On Oct 04, 2013
adaobi123: Stalkers of course. So many on NL. undecided tongue
that's true.


"Team small bum bum" wink. Show me wink. I wont shout wink
Nairaland GeneralRe: Why Do Most Girls Don't Upload Their Pics In Their Profile by Emmyk(m): 11:34pm On Oct 04, 2013
Popowaa: Becos we dont want other females to masturbat!ng with our pics
shocked holy frijoles!shocked
Nairaland GeneralRe: Why Do Most Girls Don't Upload Their Pics In Their Profile by Emmyk(m): 11:32pm On Oct 04, 2013
adaobi123: Privacy issues I guess.
who's looking for them? undecided
Forum GamesRe: Meet Your Birthday Mate........... by Emmyk(m): 11:27pm On Oct 04, 2013
[quote author=sweet-tease]1993 huh Seriously huh undecided[/quote]Just temme to raise the offer for you, without showing me this face, and I will! cheesycheesy

20/10/1992. wink



So, celebrating it big?
CultureRe: Which African Countries Have You Visited? by Emmyk(m): 11:20pm On Oct 04, 2013
Nowhere. I'ud love to visit South Africa, Kenya,Ethiopia...and other meaningful historical countries...wildlifes too. I love it.
Forum GamesRe: Guess The Occupation Of The Nairalander Above You. by Emmyk(m): 10:52pm On Oct 04, 2013
Artiste
TV/MoviesRe: 2013 Hollwood Movies You Have Watched So Far. by Emmyk(op): 11:26am On Oct 04, 2013
I watched Behind the scene of
The Lone Ranger,
RIPD, last month or two ago. Watching both soon, I love what I saw. cheesy
PoliticsRe: The Picture Of Olatunji Okusanya And Junior Okusanya by Emmyk(m): 11:17am On Oct 04, 2013
Rip
Forum GamesRe: Match A Nairalander With The Username Above You by Emmyk(m): 11:04am On Oct 04, 2013
Ich liebe dich: Chocopearl [s] lovely name, lemme go and check out her pix [/s] wink
@topic: Emmyk cheesy









[s] done checking! Holy frijoles! shocked she's cute, am I really having her? [/s]
Forum GamesRe: Meet Your Birthday Mate........... by Emmyk(m): 10:59am On Oct 04, 2013
[quote author=sweet-tease]I rep october 20th cool 1993 undecided[/quote]nice. I'm 10, yo 20wink
Nairaland GeneralRe: Can You Destroy Your Academic Certificates If Offered 15 Million Naira To Do So? by Emmyk(m): 10:52am On Oct 04, 2013
uboma: I don't know the type of certificates in your possession and how you got them but mine are priceless... .
. That's easy to say. cheesycheesy
IslamRe: Mr Bean(comedian) Converts To Muslim by Emmyk(m): 10:46am On Oct 04, 2013
kasheemawo: is google your enemy?
you'll definately be agressive in real life. Just shake.





@topic, who cares really? From research, I learnt it could be just a publicity stunt...to win back his muslim fans...coz he mocked islam years back.. www.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20131002130605AAQFNoR
PoliticsRe: [pix] Your Say On Hon. Patrick Obahiagbon's Dressing {A Must See} by Emmyk(m): 10:35am On Oct 04, 2013
Vuguvugu Agrapolo

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