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[quote author=oazeez1991 post=115218664]It's obvious you've made up your mind already, and no amount of words could have you change your mind unless you choose to. Moreover, you are right to feel the way you are feeling right now. In fact, you are justify to feel that way. We are all human, blood runs in our vein. What your husband did by not getting you inform from the get go is a totally wrong. He wasn't been fair with his dealing with you from start. But trust me, he did what he did i.e. hiding such sensitive matter from you cos he was afraid to lose you. He felt for the one who birth the child in question to not want to take up responsibility of raising him/her, how would someone who wasn't a part of it accept to? I understand and could resonate with his (your husband) fear, but he was being insensitive about how he deals with it. He forget that no matter how far lie goes, truth would one day caught up with it. Maybe he doesn't want to get you involve with the child all along, hence, his reason for keeping it away from you, not knowing there is no escape route to such reality.

The child in question is just the victim here. He/she didn't ask to be birth, atleast not into a family that would abandon him/her, but life do happen.

How you get to be in such marriage before finding out about such revelation is a destiny you just have to accept.

Remember she has been impregnated 5months before the marriage. I guess the reason why she didn't go into proper and deep investigations about the man.

Kylekent59:
There is nothing wrong with them celebrating.
Our mentality needs to change. The world has developed.



Read my comment carefully. Some people are just quoting me without making a meaning. The key word there is "celebrating"

You are stupid and nothing good can come out of u with this mentality

Alonzo50:
when did u notice it

After deployment

My dashboard showing no account details. watin I do now?

I am following

dollarstays:
this man get sense.... You cant reject the tool God gave adam to use and manipulate his environs....

And u no come get sense at all. what is the correlation of his talk with the topic at hand?

juininho:
How is gender based violence related to gender inequality or inclusiveness? Nigerian politicians stupid no be small

Oil dy ur head

Or u can message me on Wasap 08066676414

esmarcq:
Lol, this just cracked me up, it's not always connect bro, just read and pray, when you get to lag, just try impress the board , no kill yourself say you want come first for running. Just giving it to you like I experienced, got in for course 27 with no connect

Pls can I have ur phone number. I would like to ask u some questions

Slimchux1:
Please can you send the unfilled parent/guardian form to me as well. Email:okeke.Sunday1800@gmail.com

Thank you.

pls can u send me the form on my Wasap 08066676414. I need it badly and acknowledgement form

Pls do anyone knw about Acknowledgment form

Lhardee:
Shorlist and Date of Aptitude test is out now.

Did anyone that submitted after the deadline was extended get shortlisted?

they shortlisted today and exam is on Saturday 7/11/2020 according to what I heard

they shortlisted today and exam is on Saturday 7/11/2020

Do u experienced extension of service year? how were u able to cope without allowance.

makydebbie:
Go and learn English language, how to spell and construct good sentences before quoting me. I promise to learn sense.

kindly point out the wrongly constructed sentence let see

makydebbie:
Go and learn English language, how to spell and construct good sentences before quoting me. I promise to learn sense.

kindly point out the wrongly constructed sentence let see

makydebbie:
Oga sensible. You see I didn't quote anyone with a different view in this thread? Keep that energy and mind your business. That's why you're bald. You won't mind your business.

It is either are not taught or ur parents teach u and u refused to learn. Go get sense

Ningen:
We all have a responsibility towards building a sane society. As her employer, don't turn a blind eye to her promiscuous lifestyle. She's just 21.

As such, sacking her wouldn't solve anything.
What she badly need right now is sex education.

Your wife can take that responsibility.

It's a step forward if she learns from a woman about the dangers of promiscuity & unprotected sex. Please do that for the sake of humanity.

I wept for this generation. look at how some stupid fools are saying are saying Op should mind his business. What if the next abortion wasn't successful? God bless u for this comment. You are one in million

Bluehill1051:
Which one be top federal university again..
Ode people full everywhere I swear

For that statement alone, his dullness is more than that of his 14yrs old brother

starbuck:
My 10 year old son is a bit taller than me and we share same footwear, my daughter of 11 years shares my trousers with me



Kids of nowadays are just like agric fowls unlike us that were ọkụkọ igbo

How come ur Boy is 10 and ur girl is 11? no space at all

And some mensurating women are around them inside them pool

theTransporter:
I don't know women like u still exists, I use this thread as a point of contact to ask God for a partner like you, not the one who will be asking money for wig and fingernails (which ladies are supposed to buy themselves) without caring for financial growth of both of you. God bless you sister.

As for the guy I think you should make up with him and sit him down and really point things out for him to see, just continue to try, encourage him to read books like think and grow rich by Napoleon Hills, Laws of success , Rich dad poor dad Etc.(I just hope he is the type that likes reading, especially this one he don't want masters degree) I believe he will change. But if he isn't changing then you have no option to manage him like that or find someone in the same sync, someone in the same cosmic frequency with you so that resonance will occur.
My little contribution thoo

Best comment so far

Fabulouzjoseph:
Life itself is not fair. Suffering and pain is part of human existence.

You are in a dilema any action you take now you will still end up hurting someone.


If you report: you are going to put your co-workers and their family in trouble, they will lose their job and they will also go to jail if not for life.

If you choose not to report you will be harming the md and she might lose her business.

either ways you are going to hurt people.

And as such i will advice you to focus on yourself and mind your business.

Stupid comment

LuQuLuQu:
You said you earlier worked with an international college and they folded up? Do schools fold up?

If u went through the four walls for schools like say PRI, sec and poly then ur parent had wasted money on u

Titto93:
So it took dem 2 years to repair d bridge China could do in 2 weeks

nothing will cost u to appreciate for once

OhBiafra:
Help me ask them my brother. Senseless people pushing their senselss opinions like undsiputable facts

Must u quote everybody? why are u so jobless