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Epositive:
*speaking in tongue*

lingua,,, rikiti,., lolishikirabababaa, obrukakakaoo gbigbigbagba gbogbogbo oooo i wish them happy married life in the mighty naaaame of jesus ,,,


thank you jesus thank you father
My brother, you just made my day!
Thank you!!!
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#positivevibes

montezz:
No one knows what works and what doesn't in marriage. What actually kept mine might crush yours. It depends on mutual understanding and agreement. My mum attends RCCG, dad attends Deeper life. I don't go to Church at all. My siblings go to RCCG. They are the best couple I have ever seen. 27years and they are still together in love.
Abegi jare.

ststyreal:
Please read properly before quoting me. I said" most" not all, ok. I didn't generalise but only said most of them not all of them.

GlobalGisting:
Many firstborn Sons are grossly irresponsible and lazy. No offense to the Firstborns, but their problems starts immediately they start having that idea of "I am the firstborn" so I have lots of inheritance. they start fooling around, acting like a king. some can't even wash their own clothes, waiting on their younger ones to cater to their domestic needs like a prince. Many are just lazy and irresponsible and outright lazy so they fail to start life on time and end up trying to kill their Dad.

ststyreal:
Most first sons are so irresponsible that they leave all their responsibility to the second son who probably might be doing better than them, (talking from experience). They oftenly allow pride and ego to destroy the blessings God has bestowed on them. They love to be respected and obeyed but reluctant in carrying out their responsibility towards their younger ones. May God restore all irresponsible first sons and also pray for God to liberate them from every bondage they might have placed themselves under.

pmatchuks:
Jesus is the Borden bearer, yoke breaker, I am also the eldest guy but my case is different!!! I saw it coming so I had no choice than to run to him at a tender age and He took over the ship, steering me to victory sweetlessly!! U know darkness has no choice than to bow at the instance light appears! Am not trying to brag but under the mentorship of Bishop David Oyedepo over the years, truly our case became Different. There is a popular saying here in Port Harcourt [font=Lucida Sans Unicode]IF YOUR CHURCH CANNOT CHANGE YOU, CHANGE YOUR CHURCH! Who u follow determines what follows you! May Jesus steer you to victory bro.

Kdiva:
well we might not know which is more challenging cause we are seeing it from different perspectives.

montezz:
I dey wait

Kdiva:
it's always like that.. plus it's more challenging when you're the first child and a female.

Stephanie1235:
Well am not a firstborn tho. buh I know what it feels to because of my senior brother, you guys are trying seriously it's even in the bible set during the time of moses when they were asked to kill a lamb am put the blood on their door as a mark of touch not I guess. It was Pharaoh's son that suffered it since he was the first born. Well I thank God tho because unlike my brother I was\am very lucky. He suffered since from childbirth and his still suffering now sef. What I got with ease he suffered to get. even most churches sef this days they hold prayer for firstborns, Anointing for firstborn and stuff. God bless y'all firstborns out there you guys are the best

Talk2Bella:



try being the first and only daughter

I still de do NYSC and my uncle is already telling me I'd train some of his kids in SCH

me wey never get job SMH


honestly it's worse when you're Igbo

Anyway we are just two one boy one girl I'm d last

montezz:
If I start to talk......
Being the first child no be beans at all.
Where do I start sef?

K'Olorun tete pick call mi ni

Maychang:
I've been doing a lot of thinking lately, the challenges and how tough it has been as a first born child.

I often heard that many of us go through a lot of challenges which could be fustrating and sometimes, lead to depression.

I also know a handful of my kind who have found it hard in every area of Life- Job, Marriage... infact all areas of life.

I remember how hard it was to scale through secondary school- i remember staying at home for 2 terms for school fees. Even gaining admission to the university was very tough- it was just as though the devil was so interested in my case. After years of struggling , I finally gained admission to the university with many challenges as well.

Now, to the Glory of God Im out of school, Nysc certified, patching up with a small scale company- yet i dont feel satisfied with
what Life has offered me. I feel cheated and its annoying when you have to struggle to get jobs with youths who had graduated at age 20/21... and you are just there looking for vacancies that has no age barrier.

My pastor once said i needed to pray well because the devil targets the first born of the family. he said i had to run to God to rescue me. Well...I did pray for many years but things are worse.

I look at my younger brother sometimes and see how well things went for him; most times without stress. I look at other families as well and see how the younger ones are faring well compared to the Eldest. Its really depressing.

Why is Life not fair to us?

Bumbae1:
Not Really

AA over here my mum also AA
But blood group the rare one

bjhaid:
lol, I know better bro, I take beer occasionally.

pablo69:
visit a pharmacy,purchase viagra or cialis and swallow,get home,pull her by the hair to the room,lift her and fling her on the bed then you rip her cloths apart,cuff her to the bed with her tummy facing the bed...grab a pillow and place it under her tummy and go all rough on her from behind. Note,(you must be 70% aggressive)

iwadobo:
You ain't really living if you ain't taking weed. I am over 40 and I started smoking weed two years ago, and i can categorically tell you that since i started smoking , my life has witnessed tremendous positive transformation;healtwise and behaviorally. I am now a more loving and reasonable husband. I hardly get pissed off by wife's womanly mistakes anymore. Igbo is the best leave created by God. SK is good folks.

beardlessdude:
you're silly and wayword, very wayword. I pity the idiot that marries you.


Look at d nonsense you're shamelessly writing

bjhaid:
it doesn't concern in anyway, but I've never met someone who smokes looking healthy and happy, alcohol as little or no health implications when consumed responsibly.

Krisddon:
No wonder that overfed looking guy called Kim Jong Un threatens to nuke US each time he finishes smoking. Pls can someone tell him to reduce it? He takes it excessively.

Freethought:
Please, I don't like aguing. You can reference your gym instructor(if yu hav one) to show you the difference... I'm not a yesterday bodybuilder

jonath0012:
Guy, go get a life and stop ass licking. Ass licking will not get you that pussy, it will only make you lose your self esteem as a man. get a life and be a man

Mememan:
Where did this retârded dog come out from?
Who removed the leash from your neck
Jobless pûssy eater
Are you defending your whôre?
And so, it's uncle Femi that your faggôt father is giving rimjobs abi?
Wehdone o
Say me hi to your whôre mother too...

Mememan:
That's why you've had SOOOOOOOO MANY EXs...
May God protect your pûssy for who will own it...

hibiscus76:
oh!! whichever way then you think of me, but you shouldn't do that you know why? IDGAF reason:I would never think of you though, good/bad..

ZarZar:
Every person is their own boss. If someone chooses to live life on their terms, throwing caution to the wind, I don't see how it's any of yours or mines business. Are they blowing smoke down YOUR throat? If not, stuff it & mind your own damn business. Because nobody is bitching about the choices that you make in your life. I'm sure not everything you do is "healthy" by some standards, so where do you get off thinking you have authority or a right to talk shit about somebody else's life choices? You don't like smoking, great, just stay off you won't be missed.

9jakohai:
Open mother's mouth 5000 naira.

Hmmm.,.I wonder how much it will cost to open Granny's mouth....

2dugged:
I didn't pick any offense seeing that you already made my point for me when you said "meal times ", have a nice day

FitnessDoctor:
they are not

2dugged:
I made it clear before in my very first comment that I am not discounting the op's point, so I don't see the reason why you had to quote me,hence my comment

2dugged:
believe whatever makes you feel better

uzolexis:
She is pregnant for Christ sakes she should be big and her stomach should be big, what the f**k is the matter with you people