₦airaland Forum

chrisxxx:
You did that before the war. We paid u back during the war and we r bent on continuing that.

by the time we igbos are done with you benin wannabes,nobody will tell you guys to relocate back to your ancestral home benin.rivers belongs to us,and very soon you ikwerres shall be cut to size.

Tranquill:
Don't let Ikwerre give you heart attack o! Not sure you even know what is going on in your state but come on nairaland to showcase the imbec.ilic figments of your imagination.

Concentrate on your Biafra of five Igbo states it would help you.

so says a benin man,why dont you concentrate on your benin too and leave rivers alone for the real indigenes?.

as an igbo guy i support him or any other non ikwerre person becoming the governor,its time we igbos clip the wings of our prodigal benin wannabes called ikwerres.

TAO11:
I have taken “àgbo” to energize.
cc: emperorshaokahn

good for you.

anytime this afonja bitch tao takes agbo she(or he) usually talks nonsense,yorubas should be more concerned about the booming skull mining business in the South West instead of trying to argue with their superiors(igbos).

the kind pastor way rccg day produce ehn,from osinbanjo to this clown,i wont be surprised if hope uzodinma or even buhari becomes a pastor there.

Ayinke93:
What nonsense right? Did you purchase her? What nonsense pity? Y'all are unbelievable. Go to the village and marry a dullard you can rape. Nonsense

bitch stop making noise,no be only sue na suit,if you dont want to marry then dont,you can become a baby mama and leave marrage for serious people.

Anny505:
I been no want mention dept oo
but niggur an average male pol science student is a cultist

na your own school be dat o,for unizik pol science department cultism no dey.

ImaIma1:
Yes. You need to be married to understand a lot. Sorry, it's not like an outsider knowing what is going on in Aso rock.

People can show you what they want you to see or tell you what they want to tell you.

Have a good night.

and you too maam,its been a very nice conversation with you,although i'm still quite unconvinced about this marrage thing.

ImaIma1:
Popping out babies? She slept with herself right?
Pay bride price? Did she ask herself to marry herself?
Fake human hair? Is it an essential item for survival or he has a gun to his neck to buy it?
Hospital bills? Even my husband and I use each other's HMO.

Couples figure things out and try to make life better for the other.

Look, when the time comes for you to get married, you will understand marriage and figure it out. But if that time never comes, that means you shouldn't bother getting married.

i dont need to be married to know marrage as it is now is unfavourable and parasitic to men.just like i dont need to be in aso rock to know buhari is a monumental failure.you talk about not being forced with a gun bla bla bla,but you forget all the emotional blackmail and manipulations you women pull on men(simps though)

ImaIma1:
Is it the woman that's supposed to pay her bride price? So that you will turn around and say she was desperate.

As I said, marriage is not for everyone. It's not by force. Anyone who doesn't understand it or see the value in it should not venture into it.

she wont pay bride price,she wont contribute money for rent,she wont pay for her hospital bills(during pregnancy),heck she wont even pay for her fake human her,what then exactly is her use?popping out babies?,you see why i think marrage does not favour men.

Timbers:
Hahaha any day u hear I'm getting married just know I've either being hypnotized or it's my lookalike

Marriage doesn't favor men it's just a lifeline for old hags who spent their time banging their youth away

And why marry one vagina person when a lot of vagina people are out there

And by the way to hell Vagina people

lol,guy you day vex o,e bi like say them don do you strong thing?.na their entitlement mentality day vex me pass.

ImaIma1:
Did the op say anything about his sister not willing to contribute or not.

Have you been privy to the expenses of different marriages to know of the woman contributes or not. Even my sister would tell me sometimes that they are both contributing for rent coming up.

Forget what you read on SM, the real world is the real world. Even all these guys shouting "simp" don't deceive me. Talk is cheap.

actually the social media is the only place women pretend to be equal or want to be equal with men,if they can replecate these social media equality charade in the non virtual world(real life).then things would get better for them,btw i have not seen a nigerian women pay her bride price na only for nairaland and fb i day hear am.you as a woman is not entitled to anything extra ordinary from a man just because he claims to love you.

ImaIma1:
If you were reading to understand rather than to attack, you would have seen that the boy (we can't call him a man) doesn't want to leave his mother.

you did not answer any of my questions.

ImaIma1:
I am a realistic human being who believes in living my life with consideration for others.

good for you then.

ogbuefi677:
The OP has never mentioned the ability of the sister to contribute financially or otherwise cos most females in Nigeria consider the female gender as a disability.Cos I'm sure if the sister had a job he would've been boasting of how the sister is willing to contribute to pay house rent or outrightly wanting to pay alone.
The apparently jobless girl is already giving terms and conditions and is already sure she will quarrel with her mother in law.
Good thing most Nigerian men have woken up from female manipulations.

i'm so pleased with that(the waking up part),most of these women should be gradually phased out of their hoeing work.

ImaIma1:
If we want to really go into that. Is it the mum that paid the fees in most cases? Nope. It's the dad.

And please what wickedness and negative mindset are you referring to? Not wanting to get married and go and live with husband and mother in mother's house?

Doesn't the wife have a mother she wants to cling to that "paid her fees and trained her". Please reason this matter like a man not a boy

but wait o,what happened to girl power,what a man can do a woman can do better?,and all those other b.s you women like to tell yourselfs.cant the woman rent a house or even contribute a substantial sum for a house?,would the heaven's fall of she does that?,oh she does not have such money?but she expects her struggling husband to?.why do you women think marrage or any romantic relationship is a favour to the man?,when the reverse is actually the case,why dont you women like investing in your own marrage?.

ImaIma1:
Exactly.

But you were talking about men and how some of them believe they are God's gift to a woman.

God that created both sexes and marriage is not foolish.

It takes a mature man to get that understanding about marriage. One that doesn't, shouldn't bother getting married because that marriage will be troubled because of his myopic mindset.

you type like a very educated and smart woman,so i will just ignore(wont type) what is on my mind,btw are you a feminist?.

the fulanis we(all of the world) all know are blood thirsty nomadic jihadist maruaders,op no amount of image laundry can change this accurate narative of your terrorist tribe.

ImaIma1:
Not every man is fit to get married and it's fine. Better for a man to be single than become a nuisance to an unfortunate woman.

same thing applies to women too.

PapaNnamdi:
you IQ speaks volume

I will stop replying you now

good decision,the girl is just too dull.

ImaIma1:
Do you seriously believe that those comments are from men. Little boys that know nothing about life and marriage are speaking from their own small minded understanding. Don't take them seriously.

lol,on the contrary i'm quite pleased with those comments,it shows we still have real and strong men who knows their rights and wont trade it for any woman in the name of love or any other b.s.

k4kenny:
I honestly stunned at the kind of responses I'm seeing from the males in this forum. Do y'all honestly think you're doing women the ultimate favour by marrying her, therefore she should subject herself to all manners of discomfort? The OP's sister is right to stand her ground and call off the wedding. Marrying into the husband's family house with the MIL would breed nothing but hatred and contempt in the long run! This is not to say that she hates his family or she'll chase them away. Sometimes people should be kept at a reasonable distance for love and respect to grow.

Men get over yourselves, not all ladies are desperate to subject themselves to discomfort in the name of marriage. The ones who do lack self esteem and often end up regretting their decision.

Read the book 'The white elephant', by Aisha Adams. It talks about the mistakes she made as a young bride, on of which was agreeing to move into her husband's family house. It ended up in a bitter divorce. Some aren't divorced but are living as strangers in their in law's place. They're mostly bitter and depressed. Trust me if they had the chance to reverse their decision, they would.

but you women can park all your family members to the(his)house abi?.men are doing women a hell lot of favour by marrying them these days.and i think we(men) should start reviewing that favour.

Chii59:
Just like your expired sisters hopping from one pastor to prophet. Don't forget to remind them that there's no shiloh till 2021.

lol,i just gave you my sincere advice,someone needs to be honest with you girl,if you get to 32 without getting married your chances of marrying a rich guy reduces.

Chii59:
Just the way thunder fired and roasted your mother's pussyy.

lol,all these sluts sef,bitch i pity the unfortunate simp that would end up marrying a farm tool like you.btw can you send me your nudes?.

op stop lieing,that so called sister is you.you better weigh your options now o because when you get to the ripe old age of 31 your sexual value reduces,na your type day disturb us for prayer city and shiloh,you better marry this man now o so you dont become a washed up babymama later.my 2cents though.btw dont listen to all those online jezebels,most of them are frustrated sex starved hoes in their late 40s.

i have always said this,there is no such thing as a peacefull moslem,what we have are inactive terrorists,every so called peacefull moslom you see today has the terror sleeper gene in him/her.and the surest way to awaken that gene is to provoke their terrorist arabian founder.

Kerfuffle:
As usual, the hypocritical riffraffs will proliferate this thread and start defending crap. You want to be an atheist or a freethinker, no problem. But when you have to insult and make disparaging comments about other religion and their leaders to defend your baseless beliefs, then there is a problem, a huge one at that.

You live in a state, and you know their laws, yet you chose to act like an uncouth thug, then you bear whatever consequences that comes your way!

How many people here will tolerate an insult on their father in the guise of free speech without retaliating physically or verbally?

Or how many of you can supposedly insult their boss without almost instantly finding themselves in the labour market?

If you can't tolerate or do the above scenarios then hide your deceptive head in shame!

i dont understand o,was mohammed(may piss be upon him)not a terrorist?,come on his acts are allover the place for everyone to read,he was clearly a violent extremist.

una no day tire?.after over 2000 years baba still never show face.

Mraphel:
It's easy for Yoruba to date them cause they wanna come to d west.

I don't dislike them too....but d Igbos and Nnamdi kanu brought this to them

afonja will you keep shut?.anytime una drink dat red and green soup una go just day yarn nonsense,bloody headslammer.

the walking dead(my all time favourite) taboo. how to get away with murder. prodigal son,etc.