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It's interesting that only in recent years I started to notice "eld mawlud nabi". Growing up, we never even considered it an Eld. Or additional eld. I guess folks chose to call it that way. Oh well, i have nothing against it so long as the event in itelf is within sharia boundary. Wallahu alam |
Lukmann:The issue of Maulud will forever be debated. Truly, there isn't anything in the Quran or Suunah where the prophet (SAW) EXCLUSIVELY ordered Muslims to celebrate his birthday. Mawlud itself is NOT exclusively act of worship either. Worship or Ibaadat is bowing down. So blameworthy bida'a is innovation in worship. Example, Sharia is to: * offer 5 daily salat but to make it 6 is bida'a * each salah prescribed mandatory number of rakat (we can not make fajr 1 or 3 rakat, zuhr and Asr 3 or 5 rakat, maghrib 2 or 4 rakat or ishai 3 or 6 rakat. Doing so constitutes bida'a) * we are ordained to recited sura fathia each rakah. We can not substitute it for "solati Ibrahimiyah" or "solati fathi". This is bida'a Ramadan: We can not interpolate its period....doing so constitutes bida'a Zakat: We can not abandon it(kufr) and we can not enforce higher percentage or rate(bida'a) This method applies to other mandatory acts or beliefs. Other nafilat, supererogatory acts or mustahab are flexible and debatable. Now, i am not gonna defend mawlud as done everywhere. Obviously it is different in every region. Here is the way it was done as described by this fellow when i was growing up. And it is still like that in some places in Nigeria. But i can understand why some muslims dont want to participate in it anymore. I say, so long as it remains as described below, I have no problem with it at all because it not like drinking beer. Here is what the fellow said: In my community, we used to celebrate the birth day of Mohammed (PBUH). In the past 30 or so years a lot of people start saying this is haram. Many people stopped doing it for many reasons but mainly not because they said it is haram but because the people who prohibit it are really bothering the people who do it. Like calling us "Mushrikin" or "Bid'ah".So i wont deny some Muslims amongst them have gone too far doing silly things. But i dont use that to judge the essence. Those who go against Mawlud as well have gone so far by labeling them mushrik. One thing is clear, there isnt anything in the Quran or hadith that forbid such gathering as described above. Correct me if i am wrong?. There are ahadith that back this up. Some places in Nigeria dont even celebrate mawlud ONLY during Rabiu Awwal |
Lukmann:They have been throwing this statement around for donkey years @bolded. I only attended mawlud once in my adult life (1996). I dont know of my childhood. What I benefited then remains with me today. And that was something I could not imagine reading in Islamic literature till years later. So long as Mawlud remains so, I will never reprimand mawlud. |
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Lukmann:If indeed they did qiyas and concluded that eating mawlud food is mukhru or makes one innovator, I'm sure those involved are those who simply against it. That's not hard to figure out and in that case, is their opinion. Absolutely nothing wrong eating food prepared for the mawlud. It doesn't make anymore innovator |
Lukmann:No, you aren't forcing anything. Do they (scholars you refered to) have daleel prohibiting eating food prepared for mawlud? |
Lukmann:Qur'an specifically mentioned "people of the Book" that their food is lawful to muslims. But we should not take the verse in isolation. At the time Quran was revealed, it was possible that the christians at that time still followed the SACRED LAW. So you can't compare christians food with Ogun worshippers from that sense. Today however, Christians have divorced sacred laws from society. They worship Jesus even though they got their Jesus wrong. Plus December 25th is another birthday entirely for the devil. Therefore, today, their xmas festival is haram....eating the food is haram too bcus 99.99% chance is it's not slaughtered halal or kosher manners. There is also a rare case, possibly in Africa, where christian family with muslims, in order for them to entertain muslims amongst them , knowing that muslims would not eat their food, they ask muslims to slaughter the chicken, ram etc. See the strategy? . Would u eat that?. If you ask me, Yes I would. Not for their xmas but for me. I won't even eat it in their gatherings to show that I'm not in for their festival. That doesn't mean I hate them. |
Lukmann:walaikum Salaam I disagree with this, dear brother. They are muslims and there is nothing in the Qur'an or hadith that forbids mawlud but the it's debatable. But the food? ....common, they are muslims and the food is halal. Eating is it khayr. It does not make one innovator at all. Criteria determining halal/haram food is mentioned in Sura maida. Not the celebration itself. Remember they have "proof" for mawlud nabi as well even though you disagree. |
karim77:You are much welcome. |
karim77:Lol, run mad?. No, you wont . 4 is okay. Thats not a lot. Do little within your ability. Grow up from there. |
Hadeeth Of The Day
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Truthpallbearer: what's up with that? |
DeathStroke007:You live in a la la land |
DeathStroke007:I am not talking about Saudi. I am talking about the salawa content in this video. Is it bida'a? |
This is also salawat during 2014 Milad Nabi in Saudi Arabia. Is it bida'a? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R7HiYDvHXpc |
^ walaikum Salaam waramotullahi wabarakat. That's just it. Clear enough. |
^ And which one do you smoke, igbo?. I am not going to turn this to Dajjal's thread. You have got defective methodology when it comes to the subject of Dajjal. I am not even going there with you. Truly, you dont understand that. |
I agree with dragnet. Good to know he recognizes 'struggling' part. We need to consider the fact that we aren't in the same levels of iman. Some Muslims have the gut to dress and spice it up (Islamic appearance) and they are like that everyday and anywhere...ma sha Allah. 1st picture There are also those who dress up like that or close to that ONLY when they come to masjid. On their way to and from masjid, they hide their gown in their bag. They put it on in wudu area or masjid. On their daily errands, they either dress western style with "hijab" like op or some other loose garment. They dont mind walking around in their loose garments with some sort of fashion hijab. 2nd picture Second option are usually found in the West. Do we blame them?. Absolutely not. Considering this moment in the world where muslims, especially women are being marginalized, some of them get scared of being attacked by hood-rats, hoodlums etc. I have seen one in NYC, a white lady, after we finished Ju'mah, she was walking to trains station in front of me with full Abaya and complete hijab. She removed it while walking and put them in her hand bag. Alongside her were about 5 women in the same type of dress. They arent bothered at all. They walked with confidence. They saw her too. So yes, it comes down to niyat like that. I swear when that white girl took off her Abaya, she had mini skirt and top. Believe me, i dont blame her. In environment like US, her White counterparts would have said all sorts of stupid, silly things to her. We can only hope for the best for them. I like many Arab and traditional African women when it comes to this. They don't care. They walk around with full loose Abaya. The reason is it has become their custom. We can only give them nasiha. There is nothing to force or condemn them. That is too harsh. At least they are trying.
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Lukmann:Thank you. You explained it better. JazakaAllahu khayran. |
kennyosein:ONLY?. I don't think you know what you talking about. I'm not shia's fan but they have demonstrated outstanding Sunnah by not bowing to Dajjal. But sunni ulama have kissed Dajjal's butt many times. And Libya was good before sunni Dajjal's warriors fighting onbehalf of judeo-ChristIan terrorists destroyed the country and placed it under the control of enemies of islam. Are those mofos who got rid of Gaddafi Shiites?. In iraq back in 2006-08, wasn't the sunnis, the so called Sunni awakenings that backtracked and got kickbacks?. Betrayed their shia counterparts?. All these Dajjal armies called isi/s are Sunnis. I agree shias are seriously misguided, but not zaidi shias who are ahlesunnah, quran warned us not to seek alliance with the jews/christians(zionists), the first time the muslims did this, they destroyed the khilafa by raising arab nationalism against the turkish ottomans, do u think after stealing oil from arab countries and pricing it that they helped us? The arab oil should have benefitted the seller not those that are pricing it, yet our economies and currencies are undermined by the imf, so we will never get global prominence, use your brain, Allah even helped the saabieens to take over the unjust believers, why not shia? I know their aqeeda is messed up, but shia didnt bow to the dajjal, sunni countries have, and back when the khilafa was destroyed arabs were fools to believe britain and lawrence of arabia was helping them.That was a comment from YouTube ^. Keep beating drums of war against our shia brothers. Time will tell that you are very wrong. You can quote medieval scholars all you want. They said what they said due to conditions they faced in their time. You can not apply that at this time. It makes no sense. Shia are muslims. |
^^^^^ This is not about opposing salafiyah. Matter of fact many sufis's pants are above the ankles. You dont really seem to get my point when i cited Ali Khan. Read brother kazlaw's observation again and read my comment about Ali Khan. I am not against pant being above the ankles. And i dont really take any internet religious nut seriously either. And I repeat, it's extremism to say you not going to give your daughter in marriage to a muslim man bcus his pant is below the ankles. This is nonsense. |
Subhannallah! This is some big serious matrimonial problems She becomes detrimental to you, your job, your daughter and your future. So far, your pastor is unable to come to a reasonable term as to whether to dissolve your marriage or not. At this time, I wont say to rush to divorce (but honestly, divorce is long due). You really dont have to be in this abusive relationship. First, in my opinion, get your daughter off her. She is not supposed to be in such environment. Your wife is not fit enough to assume her custody. Therefore, your daughter's well being is paramount. You may want to place her in care of your in-laws or your parents Now, a woman who sleeps around or commits adultery is really a ground for divorce. You gonna have to review your christian faith which states, according to you that "me and my wife till death do us apart". Clearly, that theory is garbage.....sorry to speak. One option you have if you decide to help her is rehabilitation. Rehab doesnt work if she's not ready to change. I can not tolerate a woman who sleeps around. She poses deadly threats to you. She isnt cheating on you with one man but multiple men. So far, she causes you sleepless night, loss of job, becomes hazard to your daughter and your future together is at stake. Op, time to get out. DIVORCE IS AN OPTION. Go to court not pastor and file for divorce and custody of your child. And you should get restraining order as well. She's not suitable to be mother. Print out your op and give it to your Attorney. Done already with family. Stop reporting to family and make it official. All the pix and texts are evidence to halt your union. But if you continue like this I am afraid you will be dead soon. You are a man and God places power in you. You do not need your parents to decide your next move. Get over that and leave......like NOW |
malvisguy212 again? ![]() Confused Nlder ![]() |
^^ malvisguy212, if you want me to reply your post, you have to spell "(havey burden)" properly. ![]() "havey" is an expression commonly used by Filipinos of younger generation to denote of approval, passing, okay, good etc which does not fit this context |
malvisguy212:malvisguy212, you haven't embraced Islam yet?. What are you waiting for?.I thought you retreated to ponder Islam?. Well, bruh, it isn't too late. I dont have your time at this moment. But i can say this verse you quoted was properly put in context in the op. So Islam does not forbid nor ban adoption. Where in the verse you quoted it says adoption is not allowed? @ Aminat508, Jazaka Allahu khayran |
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I won't even eat it in their gatherings to show that I'm not in for their festival. That doesn't mean I hate them.