₦airaland Forum

dalaman:
[s]What hypocrisy? You believe it is right for people to marry 9 year old girls but some how have the guts to talk about hypocrisy. Two adults that happen to be lovers having consensual sex in or out of marriage to me is not a bad thing. You will have to provide rational basis for showing that it wrong. You believe that it is right for a 9 year old girl to be married off because some primitive Bedouin Arab man who lived 1400 years ago in a period when men lived no differently from barbarians did so, then rationality was not the basis for morality. Morality was based on what people in power felt was good to them. That is why Islam allows you to marry 4 women for example but does not allow women to marry 4 men. Because chauvinist men sat down and made those laws using the God idea they imagined as an enforcing mechanism.[/s]

dalaman:
I have no problem with consenting adults having consensual sex between them be it in marriage or out of marriage. To me it is not wrong at all. I have problem with people exploiting kids and having sex with them whether in marriage or out of marriage.

JackBizzle:


Would you give out your 14 year old daughter for marriage?

JackBizzle:
I have seen this argument time and time again- a nairaland muslim coming to explain that puberty (after first menstruation) is when a girl is ready to be married.

The issue here is that this puberty occurs in girls from 9-15 years. So, should a 9 year old get married? How about 13? Or 14?

This issue needs to be addressed


Some comments on the issue from muslims

dalaman:
I am just tired of muslims and their obsession with sex.

JackBizzle:
This will be my last reply to you because I dont want to insult you.


I asked why there was no age of consent in islam and you replied that some woman (a non-muslim) had a child at 14.How does that make sense? Please, leave trashy answers for LAWMA.

JackBizzle:
Your answer is quite ridiculous. I asked for a new thread to answer these questions. I am not here to derail or argue on this thread.

JackBizzle:
Salaam



3) Early marriage in Islam- why is there no age of consent in Islam (14 year olds getting married)?

Dragovich:
Honestly, I never thought of my parents to be over-protective, until I spent a few days at a friend's house. It was then I realized that I've never been allowed to enjoy my teenage years and emancipate myself. I'm 20+ and in my final year in the University, but my parents (especially my dad), are extremely controlling. Apart from the constant phone calls, they still treat me like I'm a five year old. My dad hardly ever let's me drive, and even told me that he feels embarrassed if neighbors see me driving. The best I can do in this regard is to sometimes "steal" the car. Also, they are both obsessed with what other parents think about their parenting skills. Everytime we have visitors or we visit someone, he always tries to speak to me harshly as if trying to show off his strictness to other parents. I feel so disrespected and trapped. While other parents of my friends allow their kids drive, give them responsibilities, and a certain sense of freedom, I stuck with these helicopter parents that are always hovering over my life trying as much as possible to make me not to have any form of independence. I'm really beginning to hate them. Please what can I do abt this?

mubarakopeyemi:
Rilw.ayne001 how far na e don tey small o baba
how dem.mzy15, emp.iree, bela.tron, lexicon.kabir and all other bosses in the hive
hope sey una dey talk sense into this fool at forty lieman over here.
How many converts has he and that insane plappa.villa abi wetin she call herself don get into Christianity with their ironic "truth" mission?
Which kind human being go open tap inside basket dey wait make water full am

OLUJOSHINS:


bros abeg tell me the answer naa

OLUJOSHINS:
ahn ahn, what's the answer

OLUJOSHINS:
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plappville:
If I tell you will it make sense to you? Since the message is right from the bible you tagged corrupted ?

parisbookaddict:
How have u been Mr. Muslim.

Its not surprising that you ask that.
You are hoping that mohammedians and ur fellow islamists would have murdered me like they did at Charlie hebdo.

You will fail everytime. Islam is a lie and Islamic allah is a figment of as Arab pedophile's imagination.

parisbookaddict:
mohammed will be proud of such gutter language.

ZhulFiqar:
Amazing is when Sunnis are shown the truth and for whatsoever reason they cannot accept and embrace it, they become neutral robots who are "Muslims only", even though everything about their beliefs and practices is Sunni.

Dear Haneefah, while we all agree on the Holy Quran, can you tell us where you are told to follow the Sunnah? While we also agree on following the authentic Sunnah embodied in the authentic hadiths, because obedience to the Prophet (s) is obedience to Allah as per the Holy Quran, there was nothing called "sunnah"/Hadiths that was written, codified or preserved as at the time of the Prophet's passing away. Therefore from whom do you learn and take the prophetic sunnah unadulterated ?