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According to statistics 1 in 3 women (35%) have experienced either physical, sexual or verbal abuse in their life time, but there is one form of abuse that is usually ignored by most of us which is ''emotional abuse'' people who go through this form of abuse are not aware of it even when it's been pointed out. The truth is a man that leave you high and dry countless times and comes back apologizing after each ordeal is as quilty as the one who hits another, therefore no matter how soft hearted you think you are i suggest it's about time you question the person's intention.

If you have to stay up all night worried if he is going to return your calls then he does not deserve you, you don't have to stay in a relationship where you do all the show off to your family, friends, colleagues and on his part no time is ever right to introduce you to the important people in his life, you don't have to stay in a relationship where he is your number one priority, but you're not considered a priority, you don't have to stay in a relationship where you're not appreciated for who you are, you don't have to stay in a relationship where the only time he notice you is when he is Hot, and after satisfying his sexual desires you become a total stranger lying next to him.

You don't have to stay in a relationship where you're been disrespected, you don't have to stay in a relationship where he compares you with other girls, you don't have to stay in a relationship where he flirts with every girl he comes across, you don't have to stay in a relationship where you can't be yourself around him, and you don't have to stay in a relationship where your interest differs. Do yourself a favour of a lifetime by leaving.

My point is most of us are so scared of being alone that we prefer to be in relationships where we are being disrespected, but the truth is it is better to be alone than with someone who does not appreciate you. You might be considering the time you spent in building the relationship, but it is better to be out of a 'ship' that is sailing nowhere.


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Memories shared together is what binds most couples, and this has contributed in creating internal desires. It doesn't matter if you're in a relationship, trying to get that special man's attention or winning your ex back after things got messy with you two. These six ways below will make him miss you like crazy.

1) Be Supportive

It's a known fact that guys are supposed to be the strength in relationship, the makers, doers and all. It's important to show him how strong you are, how good a listener you are on issues related to his life and career show him, remind him that you know he'll figure things out. Support his dreams, his hustles, and he'll miss you like crazy.

2) Be mysterious

Everyone of us enjoys a good mystery and your guy is of no difference. If your goal is to make him miss your presence, then you don't have to share your life history at once allow him to discover new things about you every day. Trust me guys unconsciously like a little mystery they don't want to know everything about you immediately, be spontaneous, unpredictable, adventurous. Men like to stray when they are bored so keep him on his toes and interested, he'll definitely miss you when you're not around.

3) Look good

We all know guys are visual creatures there's nothing that's going to make him miss you more than looking good. If you always look good he'll be up all night wondering what you'll wear on your next date, and with that you're stuck in his head. http://eneazi..com.ng/2017/11/6-ways-to-make-your-man-miss-you.html

fumiswtpusytwo:
Age,tribe and religion do matter a lot in marriage.

Most times what you've just listed becomes a non considerable factor once you meet the person you really love.There are people who have made longer list but after meeting the right person ignore all this...It's about who fills that void in you.

GreenWhiteGreen:
Okay. No one should be forced into marriage but who will marry her when she becomes too old?

is it not better to be old, and happy with the right person, than being young married to the wrong person

A friend who's been married for less than a year called me in the wee hours of the morning, and i instinctively knew something was wrong, at the sound of my voice she broke down and told me all has not been well, that she was tired of pretending and she has been leaving in regret after tying the knot with her husband, how she wished she had ignored all the pressure from her family to get married, because they felt she was getting old and her younger ones where all married at the time.

And just last week i got more than three e-mails asking if it's right to rush into marriage because of one's age. In my opinion it's not about what age it's about who you marry, its about finding the right person who's going to treat you right http://eneazi..com.ng/2017/11/age-doesnt-matter-in-marriage.html

Most times we confuse self like for self love we think being aware of how good we look, how many followers we have on our different social media handles, how often we hangout in expensive places with A list individuals is self love, but no darling that is self like.

Self love is beyond staying in a toxic relationship, it's beyond being treated as an option, it's beyond making up excuses for your partner's behavior and fabricating lies to make people think you're happy. Its about having a standard and sticking to it.

Self love is beyond looking nice in that tailored outfit, it's beyond nailing that selfie, it's beyond crying on the inside and pretending to people who would help you out, that all is well in your abusive relationship, it is beyond staying with that serial cheat you call a partner.

Self love is about treating yourself with respect, self love is about loving yourself hard, self love is knowing when to walk away from that toxic relationship, self love is about looking good for yourself and not to impress someone or crave cheap compliment from that person that has treated you wrong from the get- go.

Self love is about not giving up on yourself, it's about chasing your dreams until you achieve it, it's about self acceptance and unconditional love for yourself no matter what, it's about accepting your flaws, it's about being secured with your body size, skin colour, statue, and not trying to be like the next person.

It's about celebrating your strength, weakness, forgiving yourself for past mistakes. It's about doing things you enjoy without waiting for someone to do those things with you before you feel happy. It's about being the KING/QUEEN in your world it's about loving yourself unconditionally.

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MrBrownJay1:
the minute any woman think they should forgive any of the above NONSENSE, is the minute they should also acceptthat they have FAILED in life.

NONE is better, NONE should be accepted, NONE makes any sense.

True..but #2 is getting married to the said guy next year

IamKashyBaby:
So #1 was juz a one night stand?

That incident i wudnt mind..so i think fair enough to say, its OK..

It wasn't a night stand, she's been dating him for 2 years.

Which is worth forgiving

1) A man who proposes to another girl on your birthday, at your birthday party organized by him (after you both had a wild night together)

OR

2) A man who has a baby with another woman without telling you, and you had to find out from one of his friends.

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My loved ones and trusted acquaintances can tell that i'm one of the few persons not interested in blind dates and online dates. But i got set up with a friend of my friend who just got back to the country from Belgium. I thought she was going to talk me to death about how perfect he was for me, how smart, his love for good music, nature and literature. {did i mention she said he was well travelled?} I finally gave in because already i had no serious plan for this friend of hers, and only wanted to drown my loneliness after breaking up with my boyfriend and i was all about making new friends since we share the same circle of friends. And maybe this blind date could result into something huge her excitement showed she already thought of herself as the world's number one match maker.

As date night approached she spurred into action from shopping for the perfect dress to taking me to the saloon she was taking the entire planning to another level, and felt i was meeting with Mr president as my expectations increased.

Finally date night came,and i was anxious more out of curiosity, and didn't think anything could possibly go wrong. I took a cab to our meeting point i had picked out a Chinese restaurant at Utako {he asked my friend to tell me to pick a place} since i had been there with my colleagues a few months back and the service was excellent. On my way i got a call from my friend telling me how happy she was for me the drive took forever, and i twiddled my thumbs all through. When finally i saw the sign of the restaurant where the meeting had been arranged i saw my date waiting for me, and recognized him immediately i saw him, even though we never exchanged pictures or spoke on phone.

As i stepped out of the cab he approached me and his handsome face broke into the most beautiful smile i have ever seen, when he spoke his voice was crisp and important after the formal greetings and a minute of awkward silence that always appears between two people who don't know each other well enough he led me into the restaurant to a table that has been reserved, and pulled out a chair for me, then i felt a hand on my shoulder turning around i met a familiar face, that of my ex, behind him was my friend ''the great connector'', two of his friends i recognized and my supposed date he started pleading and apologizing telling me how empty his life had been without me with his side kicks doing same. Was i hallucinating? i remember all what he was saying and just thinking this is a dream someone will wake me up from the dream, well that never happened. All the surrounding table had seen the entire drama and were craning their neck to look at me and why 5 other people were pleading with me.

I don't know what got into head but i gave my ex a hard push, and he crashed into a nearby table as i walked out of the restaurant trying to quell the crazy beating of my heart, thinking aloud to myself at least she was right about one thing my ex had just returned from Belgium, and he was well travelled.



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My guess....this is coming from a place of deep hurt, you just have to forgive the lady that made you feel this way, because you're hurting yourself with all this. Do not use one apple to judge the whole tree. Forgive her, and move on

lalanice:
no sane person would wish to be with a lover they always have to fight with, people admire their marriage nw because they nolonger fight I guess.

I think no1 is more common

My point is every person wish to have a sweet end/marriage like that of #2

Have you been dating this man for a while now and you're itching to take it to the next level, well you know you have been ready to get married for as long as you can remember, and finally feel like you met the one person that understands you, can deal with your excesses, support you and can make all your dreams come true there's only one question is he ready? Sometimes actions speak louder than words maybe your man hasn't straighten up to asking you yet, but here are some few signs that he is thinking about it.


Proud of the woman you are

If he asks for your help, and seeks your assistance in organising things this is because he trust you, if he confides in you and ask for your advice on decision he makes it because he values your opinion and take you seriously, if he tells and shows you he is your #1 fan no matter the struggle with your career, shows you off to friends and like to talk about what you do, and your achievements to whoever cares to listen it shows he is super proud of you and wants you in his life forever.


He makes you his priority

Most times we think prioritizing someone has to do with spending more time and money on them, but it's beyond all that. If he puts your needs above every other thing, keeps note of every important dates in your life from birthdays to anniversaries, and he is all about more actions not just words trust me he is thinking of taking the relationship to a greater level.


Spends more time with you

He seeks any opportunity to be around you and will rather spend free time from work with you. Also on special holidays he would rather spend an entire day discussing, planning for the future or hanging out with you in your favourite places than being anywhere else. This is a sign that he is waiting for the right moment to make you his forever.


Introduces to every important person

Once he starts introducing you to every closest person to him its because you have become a very important part of his life, and he wants others to see the beauty and hapinness you bring to his life, besides he knows what he is getting himself into by making you tag along to every hangouts with his friends. This is a sign.


Compromises

If your man is ready to sacrifice his needs, self interest, give up an addiction, and ready to commit to you just to make you happy it means he wants something deeper with you, and he wants to see you happy, but that does not mean you manipulate him to get your way. In as much as he is ready to sacrifice his needs for your happiness it is advisable you do same.


He opens up to you

For most men emotional intimacy is one very difficult thing, so if he is spilling it all, telling you everything this is not because he likes to hear himself talk, but want to leave no stone unturned for the best of relationship, and want you to know what you're really commiting yourself to.


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iamJ:
[color=#59576F] 3 is a disney animation [/color]


#No Filter Attitude

Lol!!!

Lalas247:
Number 2 though

That’s what most guys don’t get the ones who give u the most stress and headache most times actually care, hence why after the storm the marriage or union last longer ...
That’s me all round .. fight hard love hard makes sense

Who cute couple epp
Mynd44 lalasticlala

True most men don't really get that

lalanice:
everyone wishes to fall under no3

I know a very young couple that falls under no2 they're nt married yet but expecting a child. I see their union lasting long (because of how easy they get back together no matter d fight or what they said to each other) but not without the constant fighting.

Everybody does wish to fall under 3, my friend and her husband were an example of #2 but today most people around them wish to have the kind of marriage they have not knowing what they have been through.

If you're not in a relationship or married yet at least you know someone who is, behind every marriage is a unique sweet story or a unique bitter story so i came to the realisation that there are three major types of couples..i know you're wondering what I'm talking about right now, but here it is;


1) The mismatched couple

This couple are the definition of romance, love, and make you want to question why you're with your your partner at first sight. When you're with one half all you get to hear is what the other half said, did, and even when they are just a yard away from each other their phones keep buzzing because it's like the other half can't survive without the other. When they finally take the vow before family and friends to stay glued to each other forever.. boom! 1-3 months down the path of marriage things get sour then comes the bitter discovery that they were not in any way compatible; they begin to see a thousand things wrong with each other, and why they made a wrong choice, and one of the spouse use the distance in the marriage as an excuse to cheat on the other, then the pain, betrayal and hurt turning the house to a battle field, these two live in contempt, children are born and raised in this situation not knowing what love, happiness really is.


2) The on- again off- again Couple

They are the least compatible at first sight, they fight, argue and can go for months without communicating with each other, breakup, makeup and the process repeats itself- they rarely talk about each other or seen together in public places most times what ties these two together is the desire of having someone around. People wonder what connects these two. Most times they are not always there for each other when the need arise, and when finally they feel the need to settle down.. you'll find out that after the big day they become the sweetest inseparable couple. There is peace in the relationship, they literally cannot survive without each other. What they deprived each other of during their dating days they make up in abundance and raise their children in love


3) The cute Couple

This type of couple are the true definition of love, they either fall in love from the very first time they set eyes on each other or start as friends. They make you want to leave whoever you're with (especially if your partner falls under #2 ) their cruise on the ship is the smoothest, they understand each and speak to each without even moving their lips, their silence speak louder to each other's soul even in the midst of thousands they understand each other's needs, are faithful to their vow and the strongest support systems for each other. When they finally take the vow on the big day they live happily raising children in this love, and their story inspiring a lot of people.

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Airforce1:
Accept anything but never accept poverty .

Lol!! right

One of my friends went through this particular phase in her life where she was unsecured about her butt,she felt like she had the flattest butt in the history of womanhood...If you ask me i'd say she had a perfect body, those days i prayed to God to give me her kind of killer body, and the funny thing was anytime i complimented and told her she was my model when it comes to body size she thought i was only making fun of her

She tried every possible thing in order to enhance her butt, then finally she went for some implant which right now she pretends to like, but i can see she regret this even if she wont say it out...My point here is no matter your flaws,that thing that makes you feel less beautiful i'm here to tell you that you are beautiful just the way you are.

You don't need to change a thing about yourself to look like the next person, have you thought of how special you are in that body, that thing you see as a flaw in yourself someone else wish to have it. There is nothing more attractive than a confident woman, a woman who accepts her flaws and still carries herself gracefully and delicately.

You just have have to be happy for who you are than what you're not...You might go for that butt\boobs implant, nose job, you might get a botox and even have your entire figure and face botched, but you won't still get that satisfaction you're chasing. When you begin to appreciate your flaws people of the world will do same, but when you think less of yourself trust me people will help you feel worse.

Don't wait for someone to compliment you before you feel good...compliment yourself at every given instance, be the QUEEN in your world, and not the SLAVE in it. Love yourself the way you are..the end point is stop enriching others through your insecurities.

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One of my friends went through this particular phase in her life where she was unsecured about her butt,she felt like she had the flattest butt in the history of womanhood...If you ask me i'd say she had a perfect body, those days i prayed to God to give me her kind of killer body, and the funny thing was anytime i complimented and told her she was my model when it comes to body size she thought i was only making fun of her

She tried every possible thing in order to enhance her butt, then finally she went for some implant which right now she pretends to like, but i can see she regret this even if she wont say it out...My point here is no matter your flaws,that thing that makes you feel less beautiful i'm here to tell you that you are beautiful just the way you are.

You don't need to change a thing about yourself to look like the next person, have you thought of how special you are in that body, that thing you see as a flaw in yourself someone else wish to have it. There is nothing more attractive than a confident woman, a woman who accepts her flaws and still carries herself gracefully and delicately.

You just have have to be happy for who you are than what you're not...You might go for that butt\boobs implant, nose job, you might get a botox and even have your entire figure and face botched, but you won't still get that satisfaction you're chasing. When you begin to appreciate your flaws people of the world will do same, but when you think less of yourself trust me people will help you feel worse.

Don't wait for someone to compliment you before you feel good...compliment yourself at every given instance, be the QUEEN in your world, and not the SLAVE in it. Love yourself the way you are..the end point is stop enriching others through your insecurities.

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Jkfc:
Then all the women I have known or heard of are 20th century women.
Seems all they want is someone to take care of them.
Ask The average undergraduate female where she sees herself in 5years. Without mincing words, the answer is always centers around "husband house " with children.
Don't know why that is a major achievement for them.

I'd say it probably have to do with their level of exposure and associations. Because if they are exposed enough to see that life as a female in the 21st century is bigger than just "husband, house and children" that will drive them to work hard or if they have successful, career driven people around that alone is a huge motivation to work on their set goals.

Neymar1095:
The key to a perfect relationship is Trust, understanding and lots of sex.

Before your partner can trust you, you need to be open without secrets, lies and that is honesty, before she gets to understand you, you need to drop all form of pretense, and be yourself around her, and if you really want to hit the "g spot" you have to sincerely talk about what turns her on, what position and routes actually takes you both to your desired destination. All these circles around "honesty"

Experience has taught me that honesty is the most important aspect of a relationship, there is that confidence that comes from within when you know you can trust your partner it makes you feel good about yourself and life in general. Many people feel that keeping secrets or lies from their past may spare their partners some pain, but in most cases this is wrong; no matter how terrible your past was talk to your partner about it, trying to protect them can create a bigger damage. It's surprising when asked about qualities you want in a relationship and honesty comes first when most people are not close to that with their partners.


If you intend to keep covering one secret to make things look better it could actually bring your relationship to a catastrophic end; It is better you tell your partner everything and anything than keeping it away from them. The most hurtful thing is for your partner to get to hear of your secrets and lies from someone else this has led to the death of many relationships, you feel once you let the cat out of the bag your partner will workout and leave you to fight your demons alone well, you might be in for a big surprise.


No matter how deep your secrets are, no matter how terrible a person you've been, the one that loves you will never run out on you what's the saying...aha! ''love conquers all'' be honest with your partner other people might be judgemental and nail you to the stake, but the one who truely loves you will never take your past mistakes, flaws and weaknesses into consideration.

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For decades a woman's success was defined by her marriage and ability to reproduce {especially male children} and for years this was how a woman's achievement was measured, but over the years the female mindset is changing from a simple housewife to that of a career woman. In recent times she beg to differ from the expectations and roles that have been placed on her by the society to be a good woman, tolerate her partner's excesses, to endure marriage rather than enjoy it, produce a male child, be a loyal wife to an unfaithful husband, and be modest not talk back at her husband.

The contemporary woman seeks success in every aspect of her life, and refuse to settle for less therefore works hard to redefine herself in the society. When it comes to setting of goals and it's achievement she has no boundaries, and works hard to achieve a perfect balance between family life and career because she wants access to the most priceless things of life.

She wants equality, and desires to be treated with respect as a man. She wants her opinion heard and considered not overruled, and doesn't want to be considered less capable of a task because of her gender.

The 21st century woman loves her freedom and is willing to figure out her path and prefers to complete a task on her own. She likes being independent therefore doesn't ask or wait for help she hates being a liability, and works hard to provide for herself. Crave freedom to try out new things without criticism.

The issue is the 21st century woman wants to be considered smart, and not associated with dumb actions or statement. She desires to be treated equal in the society given same right as the man, and not restricted from taking part in some task or activities because of her gender.

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Brothers only!!!..In this world we live with the whole drama around it's actually difficult in today's society to tell when a girl is into you when she actually thinks of you as just a ''friend'' or a ''cool'' guy. There have been many post from people who do not really understand the woman's mind on ''how to tell if she's really into you'' i read somewhere that it's been scientifically proven that when a guy likes a girl he'll look into her eyes, but when a girl likes a guy she'll look away i don't think this theory is totally true remember there are shy girls who find it awkward looking into people's eyes you might end up getting a wrong impression i'm just saying. So are you hoping a special girl likes you, but don't know how to tell if she's really into you? Are you looking for give away signs to tell if she thinks about you? What does it mean when she laughs at your dumb jokes..this few signs might just be the answers to your questions.


She likes spending most of her time with you, and seeks you out to talk to when the party breaks out, giggles at almost everything and nothing you say, and opens up to you about anything bothering her which you know she doesn't usually talk about. She prefers spending time talking with you, calls and chats you when she's bored or in need of someone to talk to about anything investing most of her time in you-when she could be doing other things.


Gets uncomfortable, and there's a sudden interruption to her activity as soon as she sees you, stays quiet when in a group that engage you in a conversation, while nodding and smiling at whatever you have to say even if its the most unintelligent thing, and follows you on social media, and likes your post, posting stuff and tagging you.


Accuse you of being distant this is another way of telling you she wish you communicate more, open up more about things to her, she secretly wish you were closer..remember she can't be asking that of a person she considers just a friend, she desires you were more friendlier than just friends, and begins to share your interest all of a sudden start watching your favorite TV show, sports, listen to your kind of music, and use some of your favorite lines.


If she brings up her relationship status every time you're interacting (that is if she's single) this is another way of telling she is ready to take a chance with you, but if she is in a relationship and talks about things her partner do she is not happy about or talk about their quarrels, how she's gradually falling out of love with him, and sometimes comparing your personality to the guy it shows she wants out of the relationship. If she reacts when she sees you flirting with other girls or just slip away so she doesn't have to watch this here is a sign brother.


She compliments you and at the same time pick on you politely as much as she likes you she can be your nightmare, but all that comes from a place of complete fondness for you.



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People have different definition of what should be and what shouldn't depending on their perception about relationship. When it comes to relationship I strongly believe there are lines that shouldn't be crossed. Relationship in general should be about trust, respect, and freedom to be yourself in the relationship. If you're not really sure of what counts as abuse I'd suggest you follow your guts your safety is the number one priority, but if you're still confused here are some few signs to help you.


Stalking

If your partner stalks you by texting or calling you all the time and expects instant response, and is always checking your social media handle in a way that gives you goosebumps and make you uncomfortable, and requires an explanation for everything. If he keeps track of you even when you haven't made plans to be together this here is a sign. There is a difference between an obsessed person and one who cares.

Controlling

If your partner want to know who you're with, what you're doing at a particular time. If he is over demanding and want you to look a particular way, tells you who and who not to keep on your friend list gets uncomfortable when you receive compliments from opposite sex. If you feel frightened whenever you're alone, and maybe you feel convinced that he could be dangerous to your happines because of his controlling nature this is definitely a warning sign.

Criticism

Criticism to some extent is very much welcome besides who is best to put you on the right track if you're derailing if not your partner, but if your partner does that to belittle you, make you feel ashamed of who you, and proceeds to insult you quietly and is your tormentor, if your partner makes you to lose the confidence that once fuelled you at the beginning of the relationship because of his criticism then this is a major sign.

Disrespect

If your opinion does not count in the relationship and you're denied the opportunity to speak your mind in matters and makes you feel you're duty bound to respect his needs and opinions no matter what. If he get angry unnecessarily, and raise his voice when it's uncalled for or has tried to hit you. This my friend is a sign.

Never Sorry

If your partner is someone that hardly accepts his fault, he is never wrong for anything he does and believes he is always right, and expects you to apologise even when he is wrong that is a sign.

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The holy book made us to understand that a wife is supposed to be her husband's help mate and not 100% dependant on him for everything...that is to say where he is lacking you're to fill in as a wife. Its shocking to see women of this generation totally dependant on their husband not having any means of additional income, when hubby is broke the entire family is broke which in my opinion is totally wrong.

You need to hear married women complain of not having a phone to call or having airtime to make calls and all...these are little things that you can take care of without your man's help. A super woman in my opinion has her own thing going on for her, even if the husband provides for the family she helps out by surprising the husband and children to treats once in a while, and doesn't depend on him for everything.. (down to toiletries and undis). I'm not saying it's wrong for a man to take responsibility of his home, but maybe a little help would be welcome.

Have you ever thought that maybe if you had a job, that vacation you have fantasized about for years would have been possible or that beautiful shoe, bag, and dress you saw at the mall would have been yours without saving for months from the money you are given for family upkeep? My point here is get a job, start a small business, invest in that passion of yours, learn a skill.

YES! I know there are men who are capable of providing abundantly for their families, but in this world we are living in it is better to be secured (doing your thing). Think of this you were dependant on your parents all through childhood, teen and a good part of adulthood, and now in marriage you still want to be dependant on your husband? Come on! What morals on independent and hard work will you pass to your children.

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tolanibae:
Nice post

It's better to be single than to be in a wrong relationship

If I may ask dear, what inspired this write up?

Thanks...let's just say I have seen things. I have seen people who are scared of enjoying their own company, people who just want to be connected to someone no matter how bad the person treats them. People who feel being single is a death sentence and people do not appreciate the good partners they have just because of some other persons fake relationship.

You know that feeling you get on the first few days of a too tight weave when you can't sleep peacefully, but find yourself restless with every feature on your face hurting, when you go out people compliment you on how beautiful you look, but deep down you're hurting, and find it difficult going through the process of taking it off. Well most people in relationships\marriages feel that way they are stuck but don't seem to find their way out. Unhappy behind closed doors, but in public, and on social media live the illusion of a perfect marriage and relationship while crying on the inside.

Behind the PDAs, pet names, gifts exchange is a horrible story you don't know about. And all you do is sit there trying every possible means to have what this person is portraying on social media, comparing your near perfect relationship to the next person's empty relationship, and putting a great pressure on your partner.

The funny thing is most people are so scared of being alone, and will do anything to be in a relationship, but the truth is for the fact you're alone doesn't mean you are lonely it should be a time for you to rediscover yourself, get your priorities right. What you don't know is most of these people you compare yourself or relationship to silently wish to be you, to experience the freedom of being out of the''ship''.

My point is don't be defined by your relationship status, love yourself hard, treat yourself with respect, stop undermining yourself, make a better person out of yourself, there are many possibilities for you as a single. Be a''wonder woman''give Gal Gadot a run for her money, and the right person will come around.

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You forgot to add.....Davido narrowly escaped being beaten in London club

You'll get through it, you just have to tell yourself that if he can throw away the sweet memories you both had without a second thought then you can do better. You deserve better and that is what you'll get. Stay positive

Just as we know the cloth we wear speaks a whole lot about us than we can ever imagine. Your outfit either make or break you, the fun thing about clothes if you ask me I'd say they change who you are and you can become whatever you wear, its interesting to know that fashion is not just restricted to women today, the men are also becoming fashion concious by the second. Well its another Saturday, and we all know what Saturdays are for-- Weddings!!! That is why you seriously need these hot traditional outfits to make an impression at the wedding






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