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seguno2:


Please how is 5 equal to 10

Its wrong to generalize. There are sincere women who say and mean it. Another point is most times men are blind to women that really like them and make silly excuses go after the wrong woman and start complaining and generalizing about women.

pansophist:




A man can be good to a woman like jesus, basically be everything she wants in a man. But most women will ignore him if they don't find him attractive.

I don't think women are sincere when they said they want good men.

My bad I should have added that as a number "eleven"

pansophist:
Try to be handsome sha. That's all I can say.

It will make many of the above rule not working against you, and your shortcomings can be ignored easily.

About a year ago, my best friend’s husband sent an SOS to me. It came as a shock; for starters it was the first time he was sending that type of message, secondly, I was troubled when he made me promise not to tell his wife about our little phone chat. I arrived ten minutes early to the place he had picked with a mild headache as a result of overthinking.

When he arrived, I noticed he looked drained and had bags under his eyes and seemed to have lost a few pounds from the last time we saw. He sat down heavily in a chair, “your friend is driving me nuts,” he blurted out, “she’s changed, so unreasonable and difficult to satisfy and it’s killing me.” I felt instant pity for him, this was a man in-love with his wife and ready to do anything to make her happy. I heaved a sigh of relief asked him not to worry as I educated him on Gary Chapman’s “love language” he left with a new spark in his eye and safe to say things have been going just perfect for them.

Relationship can never be perfect because people are not perfect. Every man or woman faults as well as virtues. We are sad, selfish, ungrateful or rude. We all have our definition of love, your definition of love cannot be the same as your partner’s and this is where problem comes from. Your woman is not unreasonable or detached you just haven’t discovered what her love language is yet. According to Gary Chapman, the author of “The Five Love Language” here are ten most common love languages that women respond to.

Quality Time:Being married or in a long term relationship doesn’t mean fun has to end. Plan uninterrupted time with her such as romantic dinners, trips and movie dates. Be intentional about her interests and values by doing this you make her feel cherished.

Physical Touch: Affection in form of touching is not primarily reserved for making love. This can be anything from holding hands to cuddling. Touch is powerful and speaks louder than words, especially for women who prioritize this love language.

Acts of Service: Doing something practical for her, like gisting with her while she cooks or running an errand, can make a woman feel loved and supported.

Listening: Not listening is the number one mistake most men make. Women like to talk, and value it when their partner truly listens to them and responds thoughtfully to what they’re saying.

Compliments: Every woman wants to feel special. Not just feeling sexually attractive to you, but they want to know they’re appreciated, use your words.


https://xclusivstarsng.com/10-love-languages-women-respond-to/

Namaster:


Fake pastor DOESN'T understand the religion scam very well.

The goal is to keep your LIES, FRAUDS and FAKE MIRACLES within the sheeples you've BRAINWASHED in your place of busines, aka church.

Don't try to do "miracles" outside of your comfort zone.
Don't call people out when they question your "miracles".
Most importantly, NEVER sue anyone who questions your "miracles". Just declare them "enemy of the church" and have your followers harass them.

When they invite you for crusades, only claim to do "miracles" like healing toothaches or shortsightedness that CANNOT be verified before you run away.

Guy needs tutorials from Oyakhilome.

Truth is, it's been two months and we haven't gotten over Chivido2024. The love story of Davido and Chioma is an inspiration and filled with lessons for both singles and married.

Happy endings don’t exist in movies alone but also in real life, and we witnessed that on June 25 2024 between Davido and Chioma Avril Rowland (aka “Chef Chi”). The love story between these two is one for the books and would be told for generations. They have been through scandals, loss, break-ups, make-ups and just when the naysayers thought they have heard the last of hem they found their way back to each other and sealed their love forever.

They met in 2015 while Davido was studying at Babcock University, but didn’t start dating until 2018. Davido fell head over heel in love with Chioma and began showering her with love and attention, even calling her his “assurance.” The #Assurance hashtag became a popular trend on social media in 2018.
In 2019, they welcomed their first child together; a son named Ifeanyi Adedeji Adeleke, but in 2022, their son, Ifeanyi, tragically passed away. The couples face huge grief and heartbreak. Many thought the sad death of their son would tear them apart but their love remained strong even in the face of tragedy with the help of family and friends.

Read more....https://xclusivstarsng.com/all-the-best-memories-from-chivido2024/

Going through comments and it breaks my heart cause I have a first hand experience of loss. I made a post here three years ago on ways to cope with loss

Below is the link, I hope it helps someone

https://www.nairaland.com/6588595/5-ways-cope-loss-loved

Massivedick:

Unfortunately , she can’t say a YES, because she knows what that means for us.

Of course we won't. I didn't ask you to do for her to say yes but for your own sake it's better letting it out than bottling in

Ask her it's that simple. Most times we build mountains out of mole hills by not communicating with our spouses and partners because we're too scared of the result might be.

You have no business with the boss but your girl.

This is a story about a young girl who was repeatedly raped from when she's 13 years by her step- father a revered man of God, who owns one of the biggest churches in the country and is said to hear directly from God.

This girl lived her entire life in fear because there was no one she could talk to about the abuse and torture she suffered. Her mother was too busy jetting across nations, families, friends, church members and the world at large saw her abuser the Bishop as infallible and second only to God. But after several years she's had enough and killed him with the hope that her night mare would end and that she'll get the peace she had always wanted.

But her problem began after that, as the entire country called for her head. The church cabal and its ruthless lawyer would stop at nothing to see she pays for what she did but at the same time covering the circumstances surrounding the Bishop's death and atrocities he committed.

The cabal was ready blackmailed and silenced anyone who stood in its way in getting the Bishop justice.

This is when betrayal becomes a means to an end.


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This is a story about a young girl who was repeatedly raped from when she's 13 years by her step- father a revered man of God, who owns one of the biggest churches in the country and is said to hear directly from God.

This girl lived her entire life in fear because there was no one she could talk to about the abuse and torture she suffered. Her mother was too busy jetting across nations, families, friends, church members and the world at large saw her abuser the Bishop as infallible and second only to God. But after several years she's had enough and killed him with the hope that her night mare would end and that she'll get the peace she had always wanted.

But her problem began after that, as the entire country called for her head. The church cabal and its ruthless lawyer would stop at nothing to see she pays for what she did but at the same time covering the circumstances surrounding the Bishop's death and atrocities he committed.

The cabal was ready blackmailed and silenced anyone who stood in its way in getting the Bishop justice.

This is when betrayal becomes a means to an end.

Do not hoard your relationship and career problems, it can only lead to depression talk a counselor. Chat me me on WhatsApp 07032423546

You better tell her off before she accuses you of what you had no intention of doing. Just saying

He looks the crime

Ortom left the group

There must be someone she listens to ask the person to help you talk to her

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Depends on what led to the separation. But you both need to sit and talk things out to avoid future occurrence of moving out and moving back in.


PS: It all balls down to what you want, and what you're willing to tolerate in the long run

I bet there is still another chick on the side somewhere. After the fight they'll both still maintain their positions again.

1) Drop the flirtatious behavior its a trigger
2) Your wife needs to get enrolled in some "anger management program" so she doesn't end up stabbing you in your sleep someday.
3) If you don't want your son growing up and resenting both of you or picking up what he sees his mother display its imperative you do as stated in #1 and2

You did the right thing, do not let her reaction make you feel otherwise.

MufasaLion:
Gal Gadot is still delaying me.

LMAO!!! Best of luck

LMAO! The season is upon us..

I'm surrounded by good men, and it breaks my heart when i read things like this, about a woman trying to dent a man's name and sees nothing wrong with it.

The biased law in the society contributes immensely to this, these women know the arsenal placed in their hands and most times use it to their advantage, bringing down good men.

Animegirl:
Ehya. At least Tochi learnt his lesson.

Same goes to all these married people with family issues on Nairaland.

Learnt nada he still made his private decision public

azraeljaheel:


I should be jealous but I refuse to be jealous... Instead I am inspired
https://www.nairaland.com/6796546/diary-cheap-labourer-daily-bread

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azraeljaheel:


I should be jealous but I refuse to be jealous... Instead I am inspired
https://www.nairaland.com/6796546/diary-cheap-labourer-daily-bread

indeed
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Your is wife is suffering from a mental health disorder it could stem from a wide range of condition that affects the way she is behaving now, and this could have been hidden away from you, seek help or try and avoid anything that will trigger her.





Modified: For those brothers quoting me, it's obvious even to the blind that the OP loves his wife and all he wants is a solution to make things work, and not using violence. Again its wise he seeks help for her, cause he mentioned their marriage being young by implication he is not cut out for any kind of separation or divorce yet.

He also mentioned both not being perfect this also implies he is ready to forgive all her actions if there is a change which can only come with her getting help. Mr OP your life matters, until she gets help avoid her totally.

Lastly, I do not condone violence of any kind on men, if a woman had shared this post I would have offered the same advice, since its obvious the person involved still wants to work things out.

Homeboiy:
We too Dey quick use that word LOVE
You meet person today wey you no know
The next thing is
Baby I love you all my life
Mtcheeww

LMAO! Nigerians have no regards for that word

BadEnglish:
Proverb 22:6 comes to mind,

Train up a child in the way he/she should go: and when he/she is old, he/she will not depart from it

We can't keep blaming parents anytime a child misbehaves, some these parents have really tried, but these generation have bricks in their ears

His actions has nothing to do with you size or appearances, you could be Kim K and oga will still do what he is doing. The bitter truth is your husband is addicted to prostitutes and he's been hiding under the umbrella of being a religious person.

My advice try and go check yourself in the hospital and insist on a condom, you have just one life.

Lastly, he needs to see a Counselor, cause no matter how many times he gets caught and vows not, he will still do it.

DrMrsFunmi:
nice advice. Are you the one on your dp?

Yes.