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damn!!!
i will be back with more comments

dstiva99: I am Nigerian, raised in America and My BF was raised in Naija and has been in the US for the past 6 years. We have known each other for about 2 years, been together for about a year and we were both planning to go home for xmas (his first time back since he left). We have talked about marriage already and he has told me that he wants to get married but wants me to meet his family first. I agree that is important and was looking forward to meeting them during xmas. Yesterday he tells me that his father is not interested in meeting any "omo america" because two of his cousins were married to nigerians raised in the west and the women recently divorced them and took everything. My BF claims he has explained to his father that I am not "omo america" and although I was raised in the US, I am very "nigerian", come from a good two (nigerian) parent home and come home often. He says his father will not budge and that his father said "i am done talking with you about this over the phone, when you come home we will talk". He says he has been fighting with his family for the last six months and he is tired of fighting with his family about me. He sounded like he's ready to give up on us and I feel its very unfair because his parents have never even met me. They want him to move back (which he won't do) and then if he doesn't move back, to marry from nigeria so no woman will divorce him and take everything. Yesterday was the first time I am hearing of it and I am very upset. I asked him if he wants to break up, he said no that he will still try to talk to his parents in Dec. but that he cannot marry without their consent and participation and as of now, they want no parts of it. My cousins (who grew up in naija) feel he is lying and just trying to find reason to break up with me. I am so hurt and confused, as he is 30 years old and I expect at this age he would be able to stand up to his parents and fight for me if he really loves me like he claims. He says he is tired of fighting them, that there is only so much you can do by phone and the rest of the fight is left for naija. Now I'm not even sure when I go if I will meet them based on his father's current opposition which is bad because I feel if his parents met me they would know that I am no "omo america" Is he trying to set me up for a break up? What can I do if anything?

keep on praying..God answereth all

[quote author=Soraya-Carvalho]tax, why are you yawning? lol.... Show me something big on you too [/quote]swthrt...you don't need to see it only..you need to feel it also as it enters inside your yolo hole

[quote author=Soraya-Carvalho]is that a yes?[/quote]*yawns* this is seriouz.... i like your pic...expercially the big ass

[quote author=Soraya-Carvalho]are you Mynd_ 44? Just asking.[/quote]just smh!

do you have big yansh?

untill you release my acc you ban for 30years.....screw you!!!

that bcoz they are just crazy...

If the girl is too short/fat/old/fug/poor
to attract other men , she'll be faithful.

[quote author=190-the-clown][color=RED]yes you are
you dont just walk in here and celebrate birthdays
am the boss around these parts OK!
U havent paid so i declare this thread NULL AND VOID[/color][/quote]

leave them alone..it is called romantic beating

Scun: There you have it, Sexkillz and Justwise who were claiming shareholders are ordinary forum members.

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mtcheeew

Sex is the healthiest calorie
burner around! It's also the best cardio
workout ever!

smh

mtcheew

with that kinda yansh you got...i don't think wearing trouser to church is a good ideal..

To me, counterfeit Christianity is a
greater sin...

smh

smh

Nigerian girls!!!

i like short girls...they can be easily yanshed

may his soul rest in peace..

holy moses!!!

Harbosede02: thumbs up..didn't expect dat 4rm u..*winks*

i'm just full of surprises, you know

Respect has a huge impact in everyday
life...We are taught at a young age to
respect adults, our parents, and even our
peers...To respect someone is to
acknowledge them with value,
acceptance, and courtesy, and to show
them consideration. While respect is
important in all aspects of life, it is
especially important to have a high level
of respect when involved in an intimate
relationship, as healthy relationships are
built on a foundation of respect, and will
likely fail if you and your partner don't
have respect for each other

lovely...front page plsss

chase him or another woman will.quit
being lazy and get over yourself....!

he is just following his hrt...