₦airaland Forum

masterfactor:
Gone are the days where one entity determines the price of fuel. Deregulation of PMS is the best policy from Tinubu. Let their be competition, it good for the final consumer.

Aaronsrod:
We are not God's Chosen People.

What do we care for Nigerians?

We cannot make Heaven by blessing Nigeria. Only by blessing Israel.

All Glory, Laud and Honour to Israel forever!

OmugwoAunty:
Nairaland, please what should I do?

I gave birth 9 months ago and for some reason, my mom never expressed interest in visiting me and my child. She is a new wife now and I heard from some family members that when she wanted to come, her new husband said ‘your daughter has other people around, why are you worrying yourself’.

I did not take it personally at all. My mother has never been a dependable person. Me and my mom still talk everyday and my child is always on her status. This is her ONLY grandchild.

My mom’s elder sister’s (my aunty) youngest child is moving to my area. My aunty said that she’ll visit me during the move, and come and hold baby. She reached out to my mom and even told my mom that if they plan it, they can visit me together. My mom and my aunty are VERY close. I even consider my aunty my second mom in a way.

Suddenly, my mom starts calling me, saying she wants to plan her visit. I say okay. But with work and everything, my aunty will get here before her. She started telling me not to let my aunty into my house, saying that my aunty is a husband snatcher etc. she said my aunty will destroy my home. I tell her I don’t care about that. She started calling their mutual friends and telling them to tell me that my aunty is a husband snatcher. I did not fall for that.

Frustrated, she called my aunty and said that the truth is that my husband is uncomfortable. She said that MY husband is not from our town and that my husband’s people don’t like visitors. She said that I did not tell her about this out of respect.

My aunty called me and was apologizing, saying that she did not know. I responded and said that this is a lie. I even put my husband on the phone. Here’s my mistake - I sent her a screenshot showing my mom saying that she’s a husband snatcher and that’s why I should not let her into my home.

My aunty and I now agreed that we should let peace reign and that she won’t visit. She said she will still like to see me and we can meet somewhere. MATTER SUPPOSE TO END.

My mom decided to bring my aunty husband into this. She told my auntys husband that his wife is not respecting my husband’s wishes. My auntys husband now sent her my screenshot saying that he knows the real reason and that your child doesn’t even support you.

The screenshot has shattered my mom. She feels betrayed. My siblings who live with my mother are calling me a betrayer. I want to salvage the relationship between my siblings and I, not so much my mother. I have not spoken to any of them since the screenshot.

What do I do? How do I approach this.

DMerciful:
He is not asking for oil revenue but gencos

Parachoko:
Everything you wrote up there is just Garbage

Asiwaju is the Commander In Chief of the Armed Forces, only nuisance like you feel Nigeria is a Zoo or Banana Republic where anything goes.

The Nigerian Constitution is Supreme. General Irabor is not bigger than the Nigerian Constitution

CJStarz:
Lost my respect for Pastor Chris and Anita and stopped listening to his teachings ever since I learnt about the divorce.

akaahs:
I decided to scroll down see if someone have thesame view as me about this issue. Since then, i don't just like see/hear anything concerning him. We might be wrong though.

Parachoko:
Everything you wrote up there is just Garbage

Asiwaju is the Commander In Chief of the Armed Forces, only nuisance like you feel Nigeria is a Zoo or Banana Republic where anything goes.

The Nigerian Constitution is Supreme. General Irabor is not bigger than the Nigerian Constitution

Parachoko:
Did you even go through the article at all?

Do you still remember Asiwaju is the President Of Nigeria and The Grand Commander of the Order of the Federal Republic?

Did you know Asiwaju is the Commander In Chief Of The Armed Forces?

You be adult no mean say you get sense, there are lots of f**lish and ignorant adults like you. Person wey get sense no go argue irresponsibly like you're doing now.

Only a f**lish and Ign*rant person like you will feel the CDS can do anything against The President Of The Federal Republic Of Nigeria.

It seems most of you dull things no understand how powerful a Nigerian President is

Nigeria is not a Zoo neither is it a Banana Republic

Parachoko:
Nah General Irabor b the next DSS go pick up, look at the way the idiot abuse him office for here.

God1000:
Very ugly situation in US.

The second amendment has done more harm than good, it should be abolished.

A well organized country like US doesn't need that, they have both the federal and state police patrolling every town and community, so what's the need for individuals to bear arms

Other advanced countries like UK, Germany, France, Canada, Australia, Japan, South Korea don't have such laws and they live in peace.

Bluntemperor:
I'm just wandering!
So,these page (s) are good for Money,since it's sponsored!
Oya,Seun,na diversification be this o!
Na new level, anyway!
CNN and Arise TV crew are welcome!0

Wagwanbrethren:
#Sponsored post!

OGIBRA:
Watch as they will stil blame yoruba, sanwo olu and tinubu, for someone carelessness. But wil kip quiet about d 3 policemen killed in their region...
Anyways, tank God, no life was lost..

tonicyril:
U dey drink my water, eat my food, making wealth on my land still dey wish me bad.....lol, na u go die laslas

No animal should quote me cus I didn't mention any body name or tribe. Fulls

sammirano:
These people will always cry victim.

PARADIZEPRIEST:
What wrong with igbo man brain?.
YOU MEAN YOU IGBO TRADE UNION for alaba international CANNOT HAVE TWO STANDBY FIRE FIGHTING TRUCKS STATIONED AT YOUR MARKET IN ALABA.
SORRY O! YOUR VILLAGE PPL NO LET UNA THINK WELL FOR LAGOS NA.
GREEDY AND SELFISH PEOPLE.

IpobAntidote:
It's in their DNA to always blame their sorry miserable low life existence on others. They are incapable of taking responsibility for anything. It must be someone else's fault.

Airlord2030:
if igbos don't like it, they should relocate back to their region..

you can't be insulting your host in their lives land..

back your bags and go back to your region

qtguru:
Software dev hardest part is architecture design and algo, there has to be a design pattern that allows expansion and also doesn't break. The challenge is most of my colleagues can't assist, so it's left to me to research and figure things out.

GeneralKoko:
So far this year,I have been able to start a business.
Although it is not as Rosy as I envisioned.
There has been lots of ups and downs but I keep redesigning the vision as time goes on.
I will continue to show up.

I also have an industrial training on the way and I'm bracing myself up for all that.


How has the year been for you so far?

Elizkid:
My Fiancé called last night and said she wanted to die. She wouldn’t tell me what the problem was.


I got angry and told her to get off the phone if she couldn’t say what her problem was. She said she’s in trouble and would kill herself.

Her sister broke the news to me morning. I’m so down. I should have calmed her down. I should have been patient and listened to her.

But I was just angry because she didn’t say anything on time. My friend even spoke to her on phone and told her to tell him what the issue was and that she’s causing unrest for everyone. I feel so guilty. I’m down

You didn’t have to take your own life, babe.

I heard it has to do with an issue she has with her family. I need words to calm me down right now. I’ve not been myself.

Matrix137:
Dear Nairalanders, so I was born in Nigeria and have lived all my life in this country till this moment ( I'm 22 now). However, my aunt based in United States has offered to bring me to the country. Processing my documents already.

However I'm scared I may put me or her family in trouble when I get there cos America is a civilized country and I'm used to the crude ways and behaviors here which is already part of me and will likely replicate them in America which will surely put me in trouble with the law.

Behaviors like urination on the streets, throwing garbage on the road and many uncivilized behaviors too numerous to mention. So please how do I Behave myself over there. Thanks for reading.

StreetFight:
So you have been fuccking fat pigs, you are doing yourself. The energy you will use to fucck just one fat pig is enough to make 20 slim fine girls to orgasm multiple times.

I have over 30 years continuous fuccking experience.

IgweOfIHIALA:
I caught one Obidient/Ipob today.
He was browsing through nairaland and I called him to clean up something, He dropped his phone with the screen on and I saw his moniker.
On searching his moniker, I saw all the tribal vomits He spurs on nairaland.
Funnily enough, He is a contract cleaner in my office who is struggling to survive, Infact I'm fond of gifting him cash once in a while to enable him keep up .
I will not hold it against him anyway, let me just assume he is catching cruise

Newnas:
And so? Do you know how many Obituarists some of us feed daily?

You're the one who takes political orientation as a do-or-die.

IgweOfIHIALA:
I caught one Obidient/Ipob today.
He was browsing through nairaland and I called him to clean up something, He dropped his phone with the screen on and I saw his moniker.
On searching his moniker, I saw all the tribal vomits He spurs on nairaland.
Funnily enough, He is a contract cleaner in my office who is struggling to survive, Infact I'm fond of gifting him cash once in a while to enable him keep up .
I will not hold it against him anyway, let me just assume he is catching cruise

bigdammyj:
You think you're better than him / her?

IgweOfIHIALA:
I caught one Obidient/Ipob today.
He was browsing through nairaland and I called him to clean up something, He dropped his phone with the screen on and I saw his moniker.
On searching his moniker, I saw all the tribal vomits He spurs on nairaland.
Funnily enough, He is a contract cleaner in my office who is struggling to survive, Infact I'm fond of gifting him cash once in a while to enable him keep up .
I will not hold it against him anyway, let me just assume he is catching cruise

Peppysco:
What's the point of this epistle now?

IgweOfIHIALA:
I caught one Obidient/Ipob today.
He was browsing through nairaland and I called him to clean up something, He dropped his phone with the screen on and I saw his moniker.
On searching his moniker, I saw all the tribal vomits He spurs on nairaland.
Funnily enough, He is a contract cleaner in my office who is struggling to survive, Infact I'm fond of gifting him cash once in a while to enable him keep up .
I will not hold it against him anyway, let me just assume he is catching cruise

Felix6:
getat! There is dignity in labour, you can't be the driver and conductor same time. Every man to his duty.

IgweOfIHIALA:
I caught one Obidient/Ipob today.
He was browsing through nairaland and I called him to clean up something, He dropped his phone with the screen on and I saw his moniker.
On searching his moniker, I saw all the tribal vomits He spurs on nairaland.
Funnily enough, He is a contract cleaner in my office who is struggling to survive, Infact I'm fond of gifting him cash once in a while to enable him keep up .
I will not hold it against him anyway, let me just assume he is catching cruise

kpompey:
Many elluppe are my with me and my friends. In fact na one go barb me on monday. Your personal life should not interfere with your goodwill or professional life.You don't have to come here and brag over #500 once in a month gift.

Draslo:
Dear monitoring spirits,

I hope you will not commit suicide on May 27th. In the event that you do, please go deep into the bush.

Thank you.

mrkunlex:
Wailers no go no peace for another 8 yrs..... BAT continue to gbadun where u dey jare, we are with u 100%