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Nezzjnr:
These guys aren't serious

Ole should sell these idiots

Nezzjnr:
How's work going sa

adebayo201:
This is the gospel about him. Probably because he's aging. That's why I know that Matic, McTominay and Fred will all have games for themselves. They should just put in their best whenever they are called upon.

fuwaski:
I would love to thank everyone here . I welcome every criticism as well.

I recently met a girl whom i tried having good relationship with. She seems to be nice and lovely in her conversation. Though one thing led to another that made me started talking with her on phone but we haven't seen each other. She is so keen to meet me since we began to speak only on phone. Long story short;
I noticed she doesn't call at all. All she does is to flash me. She always say that she is broke. She even recently told me that she borrowed airtime from her network provider and yet to payback.
My concern is that am not comfortable to begin dating her as a broke girl because i sense that it may turn a normal beg beg relationship if i key in to it. She turn out to always be apologetic in everything even wen I breathe.
Guys pls , do i begin funding her or do I just back off. My intention isn't to bleep her but to start something serious.
What do u say?

Nezzjnr:
Good Evening Engr

JayromWrites:
He should calm down

Nezzjnr:
They're winning Inter

iamloyalty:
Please I need help on this how many bucket of paint can be used to complete this building. 2rooms, parlor, kitchen, toilet/bathroom and small passage.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Fuckshit
APC should go fuckkk themselves
Obaseki is going to PDP and the beginning of the end of oshiomhole is imminent

The only problem now is whether PDP will accept Philip shaibu as his running mate
They better accept because that guy is politically rugged

This is not going to be an uphill task for obaseki because up till now the whole of esan land still dey loyal to PDP
And the Binis like obaseki except the few that have affiliation with APC because obaseki refused to share the money and those idiots he stepped on thier toes like kabaka and the rest
I pray make odubu nor win APC primary. Make ize iyamu win am. Odubu too get fans. And moreover he local government (Orhionmwon) too like politics and them dey important for Edo politics well well
So that it will be an easy ride for obaseki because Edo people know say ize iyamu na theif...them don confirm am say na thief

Nezzjnr:
Where's Engrelvis

handie:
Why on earth would a 'popular governor' be afraid of direct primaries? With the crisis in Edo APC, d only mode of election that can prevent a repeat of the Zamfara incident is a direct primary election. Why on earth is Obaseki afraid? He has d same access Ize-Iyamu and every other aspirant has to d party faithfuls. What is he jittery about? As an Edo man, truth be say Obaseki too Bleep up. Nobody knew him in Edo political circles prior to 2016. Oshiomole brought him in and practically ran his campaign for him. While I'm against godfatherism, there's what we call political patronage and Obaseki could have done that while still being his own man. But nah, he'd rather engage in an open fight with his predecessor and every party man. Imagine going as far as lobbying to have the NDDC appointment of the ex deputy governor revoked cause he is not from his camp. Would any of the so called progressive governors be happy if the Oshiomole treatment is meted to them by their successors who they almost singlehandedly installed? As for development, forget what u read online. I'm an Edo man and I can tell you for a fact that Obaseki hasn't done zilch apart from some civil service reforms and d repositioning of the primary and post primary education sectors. Infrastructurally, Obaseki is a non performer. How can anyone even be agitating for an indirect primary which is a cesspool of corruption as d few delegates selected can be easily influenced with state funds.

Joshmodest:
I've said this several times ....
Nigeria lacks a formal record label pattern, all we have here are sponsors scamming artists in the name of helping them. Most of these artists have unrealistic and outrageous contracts they carry about , all in the name of trying to blow , and end up being at the mercy of the sponsors e.g brymo , Runtown and kiss Daniel ..
Cynthia remains my all time fave dancehall artist in Nigeria ,her song with stonebwoy is a classic !!

ValCon888:
This is not to condone rape, but she probably kept the pregnancy because the rapist was a fine guy.

I don't think she'd have kept it if it was a guy that looked like Ned Nwoko.

WriterNig:
https://twitter.com/davido/status/1264550560486883328?s=19

https://twitter.com/davido/status/1264559469213691905?s=19[/quote]dats y dis guy will keep rising!

KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.

The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".

But that is the truth!

Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos.
Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.

So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.

When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.

So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.

I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.

But in today's world, so many things have changed.

Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.

Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.

So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".

We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.

Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.

Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.

I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.

Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!

We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.

As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.

The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.

I am tired of typing.

To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.

In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.

Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.

They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.

Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;

1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).

2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).

3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).

4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".

5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.

This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?

This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.

When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!

Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.

Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.

According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".

In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.


Cheers!

Victornezzar:
Old news

PositiveDirect:
Hi, Tuoyoojo, so you allowed these people who actually aren't/won't be happy that I would get help in a surprising way to change your mind? You allowed their ill comments to change your mind towards helping me? You were about helping me but suddenly,...

It's well if you have decided otherwise. God will still make a way at the appointed time.

I still thank you for even showing interest.

Youngsage:
He offered to send the address to you privately, but instead you want him to post it here on a public forum?
As a potential helper do you think that is the right thing to do, security wise, before you help him?

Youngsage:
He offered to send the address to you privately, but instead you want him to post it here on a public forum?
As a potential helper do you think that is the right thing to do, security wise, before you help him?

PositiveDirect:
Please reply my PM.

thymm:
Good day house, please I need estimate on cost of foundation only for a 2 bedroom flat. In my area once you buy a land you must do foundation immediately for your own good

PositiveDirect:
I mentioned earlier not to disclose the school on here but I'm ready to do so on privacy. The owner of the school and her children are members of this forum. I'm just to keep a little secret so they won't use against me.

iHart:
What is the name and location of the school?

eni4real:
Thanks!

boay:
If you want a house poorly built go for bricklayers, if you want a home, decent and well built go for professionals

NaijadrivaCars:
May God bless you more Engr Elvis. You are a builder but gave this advice.

Some are busy dropping contacts to do a self con job.

osesology:
Fellow Nairalanders, l want to first of all use this opportunity to thank God for saving my life from this dreaded virus called covid 19.

I'm from Edo state. I was one of the 20 people that were discharged on the 13th of this month.
My purpose of writing this piece is to enlighten the people, especially the unbelievers on this forum that this virus is real. It is not a propaganda. Yes, l do not argue the fact that Govt has a way of taking advantage of situations like this, but when you are knowledgable, there is an extent at which you can be fooled.

This desease does not have the power that we are attributing to it. It took me just 7 days to recover because my case was detected early. The reason why people are still dying from this virus is due to ignorance and scepticisms. And when they eventually fall sick, it becomes too late

The day l received the call that my result came back positive, the health officials told me to take my time to get ready, and, even though they had my home address, told me to let them know where it will be convenient for me to wait for them to come pick me up. I'm saying this for those who keep say how come they don't see videos of patients on t.v. This was done so people don't stigmatize people close to me. Trust me, Nigerians are very good (or should l say bad) at that. Infact, the day after l was checked in the facility, one driver that works at my office who lives on the same street with my sister, went to that street to announce to anyone who cares to listen that her brother has tested positive to corona virus. Immediately, they started to stigmatize my sister, her husband and their three children. And these are people that l have had no contact with for weeks.

So, my main reason for writing this is for people to stop being ignorant. Get tested immediately you start to feel unwell. Early detection is the key to fighting this thing. When you are been screened, answer all the questions truthfully, don't hold any information back because it is due to the information you give that determines if you are eligible for testing or not. It is better you get tested and it comes out positive and receive treatment immediately than lie about your health, go home and die in ignorance.

Covid 19 is Real! Thanks.

Squillaci:
Hallucination?

compton11:
which fear?

smaller countries are not just fighting US or Russia.