Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by zedman1(m): 6:27am On May 23, 2020 |
manontree: Rubbish. Marriage is this, marriage is that yet week in week out thousands are getting married. Am I missing something here? If it's that bad why are thousands or even millions getting married. Social media has swamped the institution to the extent that the few bad cases are highlighted and scorned making people think marriage is hell
It is not. Simply marry with no intention to scam your spouse. It is a continuous work in progress for both and approach it with the spirit of give and take and NOT me me me
Also make sure you do not jump into marriage with anyone that catches your fancy. Avoid using looks, wealth and dress sense as a basis which a lot of ladies live and hang by. Character trumps all these. Marry someone with good character and every other would be added onto you
Finally what you expect from your spouse, be that character first This is just sweet. This is just like me typing my heart out. I imagine how life would have been if I had married my ex slay queen. Perhaps I would have countered what you wrote here, but I chose character over looks. I got married to a girl who doesn't earn even much , yet I've been living like my earnings increased more than twice of what I used to earn when I was single. Marry a good person, that's all. 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by ACE1010: 6:28am On May 23, 2020 |
KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.
The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".
But that is the truth!
Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos. Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.
So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.
When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.
So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.
I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.
But in today's world, so many things have changed.
Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.
Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.
So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".
We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.
Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.
Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.
I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.
Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!
We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.
As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.
The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.
I am tired of typing.
To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.
In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.
Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.
They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.
Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;
1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).
2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).
3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).
4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".
5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.
This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?
This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.
When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!
Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.
Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.
According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".
In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.
Cheers! The words of our elders, they say are full of wisdom... The fear of an average Nigerian woman is the beginning of wisdom 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Remaboy(m): 6:28am On May 23, 2020 |
[s] fELiscatus: This is a joke thread but I trust nairaland men to unleash their hatred and bitterness on the thread as usual. Frustrated broke bitches, all of the men on this thread. [/s]You are either a woman or a fa.g This your pains no be here. 4 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by deenee: 6:29am On May 23, 2020 |
KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.
The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".
But that is the truth!
Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos. Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.
So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.
When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.
So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.
I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.
But in today's world, so many things have changed.
Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.
Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.
So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".
We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.
Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.
Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.
I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.
Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!
We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.
As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.
The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.
I am tired of typing.
To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.
In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.
Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.
They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.
Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;
1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).
2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).
3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).
4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".
5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.
This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?
This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.
When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!
Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.
Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.
According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".
In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.
Cheers! God bless you and your loved ones 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by ugaby: 6:30am On May 23, 2020 |
KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.
The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".
But that is the truth!
Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos. Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.
So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.
When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.
So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.
I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.
But in today's world, so many things have changed.
Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.
Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.
So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".
We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.
Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.
Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.
I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.
Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!
We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.
As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.
The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.
I am tired of typing.
To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.
In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.
Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.
They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.
Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;
1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).
2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).
3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).
4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".
5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.
This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?
This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.
When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!
Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.
Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.
According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".
In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family. So on point sir. You are indeed a man with so much experience. Just hope everyone will take time to read through.
Cheers! |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Springsdy456958(m): 6:30am On May 23, 2020 |
Dyt:
Hormones I guess
How you been pretty woman? |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by universe26(m): 6:30am On May 23, 2020 |
Oga one bottle of legend for you! |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Ekene12: 6:31am On May 23, 2020 |
No woman should be talking about Entitled Men here.....All our women have this stupid entitled personality.... Its reason I've not been able figure out who I will marry amongst the ladies I have in life. There's one I met and first thing she was sounding out was I will be ready to spend and take care of all her needs in a relationship... imagine d nonsense because sex is the only thing she can give...Sometimes I wish I can reverse my age ..Triple my hustle make so much money get out of this country far away from our African ladies and date a proper educated non feminist foreigner... But I'm trapped with Age and commitment.... God help me with them here. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Teeboy15(m): 6:31am On May 23, 2020 |
Americanboy35:
so apt sir, God bless you sir!! God never bless man finish you don dey add Satan. Guy na wa for you o... |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by engrelvis(m): 6:32am On May 23, 2020 |
KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.
The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".
But that is the truth!
Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos. Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.
So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.
When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.
So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.
I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.
But in today's world, so many things have changed.
Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.
Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.
So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".
We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.
Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.
Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.
I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.
Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!
We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.
As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.
The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.
I am tired of typing.
To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.
In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.
Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.
They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.
Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;
1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).
2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).
3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).
4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".
5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.
This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?
This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.
When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!
Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.
Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.
According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".
In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.
Cheers! u v said it all esp our women entitlement mentality overseas 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by FromZeroToHero(m): 6:34am On May 23, 2020 |
And this shit made front page. The mod that pushed it to front page is mad in complexion. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by GodPunishBiafra: 6:35am On May 23, 2020 |
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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by LINTUNE(m): 6:36am On May 23, 2020 |
igbowoman:
A man's beauty is his wallet Nma Nwoke whats a womans beauty?, her pussy?..better change ur babaric mentality..for ur children's sake..what happens when ur so called ricj hubby divorces u, u will fo back to square one as a broke wretched spinster?...being financially independent is for ur children and ur own good..the world is evolving, we are in the 21st century 11 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by cococandy(f): 6:36am On May 23, 2020 |
Men complain of broke shaming yet they are the worse culprits. Even going as far as lying about what women do for them. Yet they won’t leave single women alone. 3 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by MansoryMX(m): 6:37am On May 23, 2020 |
Dyt: Never ever I mean never settle for an entitled man
You see this type! This very type!! Na dem!!! “Entitled” because if you do. You won’t have created this thread. That’s a woman thing not that of a man. If as a woman you cannot give your husband the best treatment and upholds your marital obligations you won’t stay long in you’re marriage or when you get married. Try another talk abeg 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by cravingmind: 6:38am On May 23, 2020 |
Snaagg: Nobody's is forcing you into marriage in the first place.
Afterall it's your gender that cry yourselves to sleep every night, embarking on intense fasting and prayer for husbands + joining Facebook groups to encourage each other in your singleness/loneliness
Then you start giving boyfriends ultimatum on when they must propose to you. Hahahhaha!
Na only for Nairaland una get liver. Desperados. This one is loud 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Omonigeriarere: 6:39am On May 23, 2020 |
Arcbox: when I read your post, i see that it's nothing but a total summary of the epistles of the average AFRICAN WOMEN. I thankGod that I got married to someone who I never had much before she join me in building the empire. Just to add alittle to your post. as someone who live in diaspora, I see the greatest percentage of young African women as a shame to the continent. God help you so you will not meet the girl from a poor village or home. Right in diaspora, the African girl have that mentality of entitlement that you have to pay rent for them, give money for hair, nails etc. I have witness were ladies from other continents will want to take you out and pay your bills but African girl will not. It's very bad when you are only thinking of receiving but not giving. I will use this to appeal to African girls to work hard and be nice. No man want a pest as a woman. its natural that when good is done, good is reciprocated. African ladies please change your mentality of entitlement.
It is pathetic to learn that those advocating for feminism in diaspora still indulge in this kind of parasitic behaviour. 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by cococandy(f): 6:39am On May 23, 2020 |
Snaagg: Nobody's is forcing you into marriage in the first place.
Afterall it's your gender that cry yourselves to sleep every night, embarking on intense fasting and prayer for husbands + joining Facebook groups to encourage each other in your singleness/loneliness
Then you start giving boyfriends ultimatum on when they must propose to you. Hahahhaha!
Na only for Nairaland una get liver. Desperados. You guys try too hard. If women are the only ones who desire marriage, why not leave them alone then. Have you heard of MGTOW? 3 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by cococandy(f): 6:40am On May 23, 2020 |
pDudd:
I agree as a man. A man without money is a monkey. In your own words, it means there are many monkeys on this thread 4 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by fELiscatus: 6:41am On May 23, 2020 |
Remaboy: [s][/s]You are either a woman or a fa.g This your pains no be here. I am a woman yes. You men are frustrated, na everyday una dey cry ontop woman matter 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by MorningStar233: 6:43am On May 23, 2020 |
Coborona:
I was expecting something better than this
Entitled man?
Come on... It's the other way round
I'm not disputing that there are entitled men..
But more women act entitled
Right from dating... Most Naija ladies to be specific start asking for money to fix hair, to buy phone... Money that they can't ask their fathers They were not there when he was hustling, just toasting a Naija babe alone. She starts feeling entitled... I need money for subscription....I want to fix this.... If you shut her down... She starts giving you attitude
I laff is this is the best counter thread y'all can come up with, this thread is a failure at best, like shooting yourself in the leg or scoring an own goal
Dead on arrival
Spits*
Keep spiting.....all ladies minus me, I don't beg any guy I'm dating for money, is he bank Ordinary man fa... 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Nobody: 6:45am On May 23, 2020 |
A man that can not provide for his family is worse than an infidel. Flee!!!!
Run away from a Dusty!...
Don’t settle for a Dusty!
Life is Buisness! Stop letting your emotions take the lead.
Love na packaging, na sufferhead Dey end am!
Guard your money if you no fit guard your heart!
You’re forever the prize!
Marriage is not an achievement if you’re not securing THE BAG!
Use your headquarters!!
Ire o!
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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by MasterJayJay: 6:45am On May 23, 2020 |
I can't remember the last time I saw a post that is meaningless.
I was expecting something that made sense. But the misleading headline ended up with a post that lacks meaning.
Op, please try to consult an intelligent lady to present your opinions next time. Abi, you had your opinion in your local dialect but how to write it in English became a herculean task? 7 Likes |
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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by folake4u(f): 6:46am On May 23, 2020 |
yettymuse: Never marry a broke ass!
Run away from a Dusty!
Don’t settle for a Dusty!
Guard your money if you no fit guard your heart!
You’re forever the prize!
Loud am for the back, them nor dey hear you 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by hermesprogidy(m): 6:47am On May 23, 2020 |
Coborona:
I was expecting something better than this
Entitled man?
Come on... It's the other way round
I'm not disputing that there are entitled men..
But more women act entitled
Right from dating... Most Naija ladies to be specific start asking for money to fix hair, to buy phone... Money that they can't ask their fathers They were not there when he was hustling, just toasting a Naija babe alone. She starts feeling entitled... I need money for subscription....I want to fix this.... If you shut her down... She starts giving you attitude
I laff is this is the best counter thread y'all can come up with, this thread is a failure at best, like shooting yourself in the leg or scoring an own goal
Dead on arrival
Spits*
Nailed it. Op has hormonal imbalance. 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by ThatKING(m): 6:48am On May 23, 2020 |
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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Americanboy35: 6:48am On May 23, 2020 |
Teeboy15:
God never bless man finish you don dey add Satan.
Guy na wa for you o... Teeboy15:
God never bless man finish you don dey add Satan.
Guy na wa for you o... |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by fELiscatus: 6:48am On May 23, 2020 |
yettymuse: Never marry a broke ass!
Run away from a Dusty!
Don’t settle for a Dusty!
Guard your money if you no fit guard your heart!
You’re forever the prize!
Choi See as you wan give them heart attack You know that 99% of nairaland men are broke and dusty, this post will really give them severe pains ooo |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Nobody: 6:49am On May 23, 2020 |
cococandy: Men complain of broke shaming yet they are the worse culprits. Even going as far as lying about what women do for them. Yet they won’t leave single women alone. ....typing from experience. It is obvious that men don break your heart into pieces severely...take heart. The lord is your strength. . An average man has woken up. I like what I'm reading from the male folks... 8 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Nobody: 6:50am On May 23, 2020 |
sisisioge: Ohsey!
I would say never ever settle for an undiagnosed low esteemed unintelligent guy. It is much better to resolve low esteem issues when one is aware and willing to improve.
Also avoid narcist like a plague. These are way harder psychological issues to resolve compared to state of being broke.
Anty, are you intelligent yourself? 5 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by fELiscatus: 6:50am On May 23, 2020 |
cococandy:
In your own words, it means there are many monkeys on this thread Yes On this thread and on nairaland as well So so Monkeys everywhere |